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Doms, Masters and S&M

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
42 weeks ago

I don't know if other subs have the same experience as me. I find that when guys describe themselves as Masters or Doms, and have S&M in their list of interests, they are often not really all that interested in S&M as such.

They tend to be more interested in sexual dominance and true S&M is very much a secondary consideration. At least, that's how it tends to come across in chats.

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By *atasscdTV/TS
42 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

yes it is something i have found too

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By *eefandfurMan
42 weeks ago

Edinburgh

It's quite difficult to find many people genuinely interested or skilled in any aspects of BDSM. I think maybe they concentrate their efforts on other sites that are specifically targeted/dedicated to kink.

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By *umiliation pigMan
42 weeks ago

Kirkcaldy

As someone who’s always looking for bdsm meets it’s been a struggle on here at times but there are some great people here so don’t give up

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By *ubslut42Man
42 weeks ago

Maidstone

I tend to approach the subject to see if they are more on the sadistic side very early in messages as I'm more of a masochist. Bondage is good but I'm more into pain,humiliation and degrading with S&m

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By *obert112Man
42 weeks ago

Greenford

interested in S&M slut position, a little bit of fist, deep throat

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

In my experience very few on this site have any serious interest in the subject.

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By *ayhartMan
42 weeks ago

chesterfield

As a Dom, my interest lies in control of a submissive, not in doing him injury. There are sites devoted to BDSM, this definitely not one. This is a sexual contact site, so most subs and Doms are here for sex.

I have no wish to control someone’s day to day life, just their sexual one. I don’t bully, subs do what I ask because they have too. It’s hard wired in their psyche

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By *mptyspace80Man
42 weeks ago

Cambridge

I have to admit, nowadays if someone calls themselves a "Total Top" or a "Hardcore Dom" in a profile, particularly if it's a very sparsely populated profile, then it's a red flag for me. What they mean is they want to mistreat a partner but have an excuse.

Sadly Tops and Doms, especially *Good* Tops and Doms, are very much in the minority and are difficult to find or are oversubscribed.

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By *eltonsubMan
42 weeks ago

Melton

100% agree on here it's about sexual domination not total domination

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By *ammysmesMan
42 weeks ago

Sheffield


"As a Dom, my interest lies in control of a submissive, not in doing him injury. There are sites devoted to BDSM, this definitely not one. This is a sexual contact site, so most subs and Doms are here for sex.

I have no wish to control someone’s day to day life, just their sexual one. I don’t bully, subs do what I ask because they have too. It’s hard wired in their psyche "

Which sites for example please?

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By *atasscdTV/TS
42 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

its a fetish site

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By *ammysmesMan
42 weeks ago

Sheffield


"its a fetish site "

Tell me please

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By *inkycokMan
42 weeks ago

Walkden


"I don't know if other subs have the same experience as me. I find that when guys describe themselves as Masters or Doms, and have S&M in their list of interests, they are often not really all that interested in S&M as such.

They tend to be more interested in sexual dominance and true S&M is very much a secondary consideration. At least, that's how it tends to come across in chats. "

Most with the label of Dom are masters think telling you to suck cock is all there is to it.... Most don't even have any decent fetishwear let alone restraints or even a paddle

I don't think I have cum across a true master on here

But saying that fet***e isn't much better

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By *onnyd26Man
42 weeks ago

Mitcham


"I don't know if other subs have the same experience as me. I find that when guys describe themselves as Masters or Doms, and have S&M in their list of interests, they are often not really all that interested in S&M as such.

They tend to be more interested in sexual dominance and true S&M is very much a secondary consideration. At least, that's how it tends to come across in chats. "

Yeah that's always a let down when that happens but try to make the most of the meet and ensure he enjoys himself too.

I've been known to make a few blunders on what I thought i was letting my self infor and what was actually expected

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By *isabled4useMan
6 weeks ago

Coventry

I'm a wheelchair user I'm looking for people who are turned on by disability I'm very natural sub tho inexperienced I'm very genuine love dom people into disability kink

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