FabGuys.com forum: No-shows and other excuses

By *manda Seedee OP TV/TS
40 weeks ago

Bent Cock Gents

My personal "record" is fourteen in a four-hour period just a few months ago.

What's yours...?

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By *wordfight70Man
40 weeks ago

Baldock

Whoa, that's a huge number!

I've not had a no-show in many years, I became careful in choosing who I'd meet. Stopped engaging with unverified profiles, people who'd been here for over a year with no feedback, blank profiles, new profiles...

That pretty much put an end to the time wasting and trollery.

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By *hy-GuyMan
40 weeks ago

Glossop

I've never had a no show. Had men lose interest when trying to arrange a meet, but so far, once we agree to meet then no problem

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By *manda Seedee OP TV/TS
40 weeks ago

Bent Cock Gents

I perhaps should have added that all these had contacted me in the past and asked to be hotlisted for when I was free. They'd obviously lost interest in the interim, despite being online and supposedly looking. Oh for the uncomplicated days of cottaging....

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"Whoa, that's a huge number!

That pretty much put an end to the time wasting and trollery. "

Had a verified member messaging me to meet, I'm not local to him, but I'm close when at work in my hgv, so 1st he's to d*unk to drive at 10.30am, then he's got no tax or MOT Wen attempting to meet a week later, this is mid month so I know tax runs out at end of month ... So being verified proves nothing!!!

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By *ountyGuy18Man
40 weeks ago

Leicester Groby Road

I've never had a no show.

Had a lad supposedly fall asleep after showering when when trying to arrange a meet.

Otherwise once we agree to meet then no problem

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By *rmchairtravellerMan
40 weeks ago

near Framlingham, Suffolk

Ha I have had more than my fair share-they talk the talk but don't walk the walk. I had four in a row-one even blocked me!!!

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By *ordonkyMan
40 weeks ago

Blackrock READ PROFILE

Could be something to do with you

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By *wordfight70Man
40 weeks ago

Baldock

"Had a verified member messaging me to meet, I'm not local to him, but I'm close when at work in my hgv, so 1st he's to d*unk to drive at 10.30am, then he's got no tax or MOT Wen attempting to meet a week later, this is mid month so I know tax runs out at end of month ... So being verified proves nothing!!!"

No, and granted, being verified doesn't prove anything 100% necessarily, there will be exceptions. I was merely saying that by being careful (including ruling out most unverified profiles) does get rid of a lot of the sketchy types. You do get a feel for it, and my main point is that if something feels "off" your intuition is often bang on.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"I perhaps should have added that all these had contacted me in the past and asked to be hotlisted for when I was free. They'd obviously lost interest in the interim, despite being online and supposedly looking. Oh for the uncomplicated days of cottaging.... "

Unfair to describe them as "no-shows|", then

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By *en scoucer ladMan
40 weeks ago

liverpool

I believe its luck of the draw.

If your actually ready to meet at the "right now" stage and they are.

Also i know vertifications dont mean nothing much but least they have met and their legit meets from actual guys.

I find those not trustworthy of meets are those

No verts

No pics

Newly joined

Least it sifts out some of them. But again theres never a guarantee as until you met a guy they are complete strangers dont know their characteristics or anything about them much...only that their online they messaged you or visa versa or they have nice pics.

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By *LASGOW 60s GUYMan
40 weeks ago

Glasgow

Haven't had any "no shows" but I don't accom. Worst I had was drove to the agreed place, parked and started walking in direction of housing as instructed. Got a message "If thats you in the blue tshirt don't bother". It was and I didn't. His loss

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By *heffS6TV/TS
5 weeks ago

sheffield

I had home meet 7 showed up 7 no shows ranging from 3 hospital emergencies 2 that said they had days off but suddenly had to work, 2 not heard from xx if you're hosting for group fun think of a number and treble it xx

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By *arridMan
5 weeks ago

Brighton

A couple of pre meet cancellations including a recent dodgy one which I cancelled.

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By *reedyformatureMan
5 weeks ago

Dudley

One of the reasons I stopped hosting, now when I arrange a meet at the sauna and they bottle it there is usually someone to have fun with

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By *estlondonguyMan
5 weeks ago

Hammersmith

I’ve had a couple of guys who’ve said they’re coming round and haven’t shown up recently - fairly annoying.

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By *ythenMan
5 weeks ago

North Co. Dublin

"One of the reasons I stopped hosting, now when I arrange a meet at the sauna and they bottle it there is usually someone to have fun with

Always important to have a plan B

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By *owzerMan
5 weeks ago

Chester.....

So unconfirmed meets then!

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