FabGuys.com forum: Time Waster new category

By *ub4anell OP TV/TS
15 weeks ago

Waterlooville

Is it not time that the paying and non-paying members of FB, define the integrity of all fellow members of their true desire to meet or not.

The definition of members shoud range from time wasters to genuine guys and gurls who want to meet.

May I suggest a 0-100% range of Intention to meet.

A. Zero to 20% equals time waster.

B.21% to 40% equals treat with caution.

C.41% to 60% equals could go either way.

D.61% to 80% if not today will meet sometime soon

E.81% to 100% Get the bed ready.

To allocate any potential meets rate them from 1 to 10 points on each of the below sub-categories.

You will have to decide your own ratios on each sub-categories.

Time on site. Short or long time

Have they read your profile, have they read and understood your wants.

Age range, do they match your prefered age range.

Looking for, are you the type they say they are looking for on their profile.

Mariatial status, single of married, which suits you.

Gay, Bi or Strait, is their sexuality compatible with what you are looking for.

Accommodate, if they can't accommodate it is more likely a meeting will be harder to organise.

Sex position,Top, bottom, versatile or oral. This one realy annoys me, if you are top, don't then ask to be fucked!

Male or TV, if your profile says I am looking for men, don't then say can I wear panties.

I have added an extra sub category, Honesty, if you can see that they are honest, add 10 points.

A bit long, but let's see if it of interests?

Verifications.

You should get anywhere between a minimum of,

10-20 points = time waster

21-40 points = treat with caution

41-60 points = could go either way.

61-80 points = if not today then we could meet sometime soon.

81-100 get the bed ready.

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By *adBod1986Man
15 weeks ago

Cheshire

Too dodgy unfortunately, someone may think a time waster is defined as one who just chats for ages then ghosts them, where for others it's if someone doesn't show up for a real life meeting. There are too many interpretations unfortunately. I agree it'd be good to mark people even anonymously but I think any sort of system would be open to trouble.

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By *hloe696969TV/TS
15 weeks ago

A £20 deposit scheme, any no shows forefit the money...

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By *seableMan
15 weeks ago

Halesowen

Just read the verifications.

Tells you all you need to know.

If they have been on 6+ months and have non, that also tells you everything you want to know.

I tend to look at the profiles and verifications of those varying them too, make sure it all matches.

Is actually fun reading what folks get up to.

Works for me anyway.

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By *lackbootzMan
15 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

The biggest waste of time here is the OP writing out all this claptrap. I don’t need to give a mark out of ten to understand if someone is incompatible with what I’m looking for. What a load of nonsense.

Sorry.

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By *usttrymeMan
15 weeks ago

kettering

I named a few timewasters like a lot do on their profiles.. sudunley all my very good writen.. ok spelling miskates.. i strughle with that. Profile

Got deleted as a moderator decided it wasnst fair.. it had helped loads of guys out in their deceisions to meet them. And they had thsnked me after it had gone wrong for that few that tried to meet etc and it had gone wrong .. nowcant use status on profile.. you pay for a service.. you try and help others. .. punished

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By *0smannwMan
15 weeks ago

Burnley

"I named a few timewasters like a lot do on their profiles.. sudunley all my very good writen.. ok spelling miskates.. i strughle with that. Profile

Couldn’t agree more

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By *anmannersMan
15 weeks ago

Notts

Naming time wasters is not allowed but also a waste of energy.

Can work out who is a time waster more often than not. Just check out verifications

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By *usttrymeMan
15 weeks ago

kettering

Not true... check verifications.. lol that will save you driving 5 miles to a disgusting house or a door not being opened.. dream on

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By *anmannersMan
15 weeks ago

Notts

??????

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Did you know when you stop your periods it’s called menopause?

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By *anfun1090Man
15 weeks ago

Monaghan

"The biggest waste of time here is the OP writing out all this claptrap. I don’t need to give a mark out of ten to understand if someone is incompatible with what I’m looking for. What a load of nonsense.

Sorry. "

Lol i was thinking the same thing.

Also what is to stop someone from making a false claim? Say some guys feeling are up set because you are meeting other people so crys.

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By *anmannersMan
15 weeks ago

Notts

"Naming time wasters is not allowed but also a waste of energy.

Can work out who is a time waster more often than not. Just check out verifications"

What I'm saying is to avoid time wasters, it's a good idea to check out verifications

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By *mbatmanMan
15 weeks ago

west end, southampton

Ive been called a timewaster for just looking at someones profile.

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By *lwaysTheFagMan
15 weeks ago

Tonbridge

After reading all that I feel I've had my time wasted

I am 100% "guilty" of "wasting time". I'm old fashioned. I was born not longer after homosexuality was a criminal offence in the UK. I'm forever cautious.

You young queers, poofs and fags have it easy. Mince around with your "I'm entitled" attitudes. Coming up with fucking regulations/scores on others like you are the new judges in town. Insert your penis up your own bottom.

Oh the fucking irony. After homosexuality was decriminalized there are now more judges and trials by jury than ever.

Some people come here for acceptance alone. Please make them feel welcome.

I concur that homosexuality is best when explored physically. But the mental arousal starts long before that, and for many that's the most daring they can be.

"if they can't accommodate it is more likely a meeting will be harder to organise"

Well fuck me - you shout "brave" but wont do it at home. Nil points from me.

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By *hloe696969TV/TS
15 weeks ago

"Did you know when you stop your periods it’s called menopause?"

I don't use periods,,,,,I use lots of commas,,,,,

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By *starMan
15 weeks ago

Frampton on Severn

If I'm a member, particularly a paying one, I'll use the site any way I fucking like. Don't need no self appointed stazi making rules.

As for checking verifications, I had a few, all but one have left the site, not presumably because of me. So the veris have disappeared. Does that make me less likely to meet?

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By *ranford cruiserTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Heathrow

If someone is new then give them the benefit of the doubt but if they been on over 12 months with no verifications then you just know

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Then you get the dicks who think you're a timewaster because you actually don't want to meet THEM.

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By *dffikMan
15 weeks ago

surrey

Why not make everyone pay to join, it’ll not stop time wasters but it might cut them down .

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By *loke1Man
15 weeks ago

london

"Is it not time that the paying and non-paying members of FB, define the integrity of all fellow members of their true desire to meet or not.

The definition of members shoud range from time wasters to genuine guys and gurls who want to meet.

Someone isn’t getting any 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

May I suggest a 0-100% range of Intention to meet.

A. Zero to 20% equals time waster.

B.21% to 40% equals treat with caution.

C.41% to 60% equals could go either way.

D.61% to 80% if not today will meet sometime soon

E.81% to 100% Get the bed ready.

To allocate any potential meets rate them from 1 to 10 points on each of the below sub-categories.

You will have to decide your own ratios on each sub-categories.

Time on site. Short or long time

Have they read your profile, have they read and understood your wants.

Age range, do they match your prefered age range.

Looking for, are you the type they say they are looking for on their profile.

Mariatial status, single of married, which suits you.

Gay, Bi or Strait, is their sexuality compatible with what you are looking for.

Accommodate, if they can't accommodate it is more likely a meeting will be harder to organise.

Sex position,Top, bottom, versatile or oral. This one realy annoys me, if you are top, don't then ask to be fucked!

Male or TV, if your profile says I am looking for men, don't then say can I wear panties.

I have added an extra sub category, Honesty, if you can see that they are honest, add 10 points.

A bit long, but let's see if it of interests?

Verifications.

You should get anywhere between a minimum of,

10-20 points = time waster

21-40 points = treat with caution

41-60 points = could go either way.

61-80 points = if not today then we could meet sometime soon.

81-100 get the bed ready.

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By *lena MalenaTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

OP - you seem to have a slightly different and wider definition of 'timewaster' - or maybe we all assume everyone else shares their definition!

To me a timewaster is someone who chats but has no intention of meeting or later ghosts you/is a no show. But a lot of what you are describing is just idiots who don't bother reading Profiles! On here, as in the rest of life unfortunately, you can't legislate for idiocy...

...But if,for example, bottoms contact you when you're also a bottom, you can just ignore them?...

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By *mbatmanMan
15 weeks ago

west end, southampton

"Why not make everyone pay to join, it’ll not stop time wasters but it might cut them down ."

It would also more than half the number of profiles on the site. Sites like this need as many profiles and new members as possible to survive

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Is there a category for wasting my time filling something so ridiculous out if you can’t the measure of a conversation a few messages in

Give it up

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

"Why not make everyone pay to join, it’ll not stop time wasters but it might cut them down .

It would also more than half the number of profiles on the site. Sites like this need as many profiles and new members as possible to survive "

I don’t think that would be so. I have heard many times that there are other free sites equally as good, but no one has ever named one.

Site supporter starts at around 10 pence a day. I would give a couple of weeks free then delete anyone who chooses not to pay.

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By *ornbi321Man
15 weeks ago

Birmingham

"Then you get the dicks who think you're a timewaster because you actually don't want to meet THEM. "

This is very true, lots on here think that it’s there right to just say let’s meet now and it should happen especially the young upstarts

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By *urrey_hjTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Kingston Upon Thames

"Just read the verifications.

Tells you all you need to know.

If they have been on 6+ months and have non, that also tells you everything you want to know.

I tend to look at the profiles and verifications of those varying them too, make sure it all matches.

Is actually fun reading what folks get up to.

Works for me anyway.

I agree. Verifications seem to be the only way to validate people who are serious about meeting.

I don’t think that verification by webcam should be a thing though.

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By *ustOneBearMan
15 weeks ago

Neath

You can’t guarantee anything.

Even after a few messages you still get those who say they’re “on their way” only to never appear. A lot of them have verifications.

Also there are people who think because they want to meet you, but you don’t want to meet them, you’re wasting their time.

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By *now manMan
15 weeks ago

near

This won’t take long to fill

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By *ane FellatesTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Loughborough

Reading verifications, and the profile of the verifier, combined with whether the messages make me feel we are compatible.

Also remembering we all have our own reasons for being on the site and have real lives to live along side Fab. So easy to be called a timewaster when someone has ignored your profile and moans because you can't meet them instantly.

They are not worth meeting if they do not pass my 'feels right' standard.

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By *yzantineMan
15 weeks ago

Offshore now, ignore pistcode

None of us own the website. Some feel they do and have a right to steer the website in this or that direction. We are all guests, or paying customers of the owner’s site. It’s entirely up to them however entitled or aggrieved we may feel.

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By *ildwestheroMan
15 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

Sorry. "

Don't be sorry. You are 100% correct

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By *umlover71Man
15 weeks ago

Lowestoft

Fuck me! In the time it took to get through that load of guff my cars tax and MOT have expired, the ‘best before’ dates on everything in my fridge has expired and I’ve grown a full beard!!

Instead of proposing third Reich rules, just get over it. You’re on a sex hook up site, what are you expecting? Romance? Flowers? Chocolate? Cilla Black?

It is what it is unfortunately.

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By *0yguyMan
15 weeks ago

Cumberland

"Fuck me! In the time it took to get through that load of guff my cars tax and MOT have expired, the ‘best before’ dates on everything in my fridge has expired and I’ve grown a full beard!!

Instead of proposing third Reich rules, just get over it. You’re on a sex hook up site, what are you expecting? Romance? Flowers? Chocolate? Cilla Black?

It is what it is unfortunately.

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By *lackbootzMan
15 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"Fuck me! In the time it took to get through that load of guff my cars tax and MOT have expired, the ‘best before’ dates on everything in my fridge has expired and I’ve grown a full beard!!

Instead of proposing third Reich rules, just get over it. You’re on a sex hook up site, what are you expecting? Romance? Flowers? Chocolate? Cilla Black?

It is what it is unfortunately.

This made me hoot with mirth. Thank you.

FabGuys Flowers and Chocolates delivered straight to your door by someone chosen randomly from the Forum… This could be a thing.

And I bet Sara Jevo has a great Cilla costume.

Now people would pay for all this.

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By *azadarMan
15 weeks ago

North Birmingham

"Then you get the dicks who think you're a timewaster because you actually don't want to meet THEM. "

Precisely.

And even after some proudly state that they haven't read your profile to see whether there is common ground in the first place.

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By *ranford cruiserTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Heathrow

You can tell when they haven't read your profile you have a quick look that there's

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By *iley666Man
15 weeks ago

Kirkcaldy

Biggest red flag for me?

‘What are you going to do to me?’

When I get that message I know it’s time to stop talking as it is never going to happen!

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By *ranford cruiserTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Heathrow

For example you could call a random guy a time waister but they just pop up with a new profile

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By *airFetishMan
15 weeks ago

Maldon

Biggest red flag for me?

‘What are you going to do to me?’

When I get that message I know it’s time to stop talking as it is never going to happen!"

Ha! Exactly.

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By *ustOneBearMan
15 weeks ago

Neath

Biggest red flag for me?

‘What are you going to do to me?’

When I get that message I know it’s time to stop talking as it is never going to happen!

Ha! Exactly. "

That’s the “I’m wanking”. Message.

I stop responding as soon as I get that.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

"None of us own the website. Some feel they do and have a right to steer the website in this or that direction. We are all guests, or paying customers of the owner’s site. It’s entirely up to them however entitled or aggrieved we may feel. "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Biggest red flag for me is a few messages in I ask so where and when we meeting

9 outta 10 cease communication

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By *mbatmanMan
15 weeks ago

west end, southampton

"Why not make everyone pay to join, it’ll not stop time wasters but it might cut them down .

It would also more than half the number of profiles on the site. Sites like this need as many profiles and new members as possible to survive

I don’t think that would be so. I have heard many times that there are other free sites equally as good, but no one has ever named one.

Site supporter starts at around 10 pence a day. I would give a couple of weeks free then delete anyone who chooses not to pay. "

I disagree it would drop significantly, there will be thousands that just wouldn’t pay and thousands that can’t pay, there would also be thousands that just leave because of lack of profiles.

The biggest draw for any hookup/dating site is to have as many profiles as they can.

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By *ordonkyMan
15 weeks ago

Blackrock

Why are you worried about timewasters when clearly you have way too much time on your hands (and knees?)!

"Is it not time that the paying and non-paying members of FB, define the integrity of all fellow members of their true desire to meet or not.

The definition of members shoud range from time wasters to genuine guys and gurls who want to meet.

May I suggest a 0-100% range of Intention to meet.

A. Zero to 20% equals time waster.

B.21% to 40% equals treat with caution.

C.41% to 60% equals could go either way.

D.61% to 80% if not today will meet sometime soon

E.81% to 100% Get the bed ready.

To allocate any potential meets rate them from 1 to 10 points on each of the below sub-categories.

You will have to decide your own ratios on each sub-categories.

Time on site. Short or long time

Have they read your profile, have they read and understood your wants.

Age range, do they match your prefered age range.

Looking for, are you the type they say they are looking for on their profile.

Mariatial status, single of married, which suits you.

Gay, Bi or Strait, is their sexuality compatible with what you are looking for.

Accommodate, if they can't accommodate it is more likely a meeting will be harder to organise.

Sex position,Top, bottom, versatile or oral. This one realy annoys me, if you are top, don't then ask to be fucked!

Male or TV, if your profile says I am looking for men, don't then say can I wear panties.

I have added an extra sub category, Honesty, if you can see that they are honest, add 10 points.

A bit long, but let's see if it of interests?

Verifications.

You should get anywhere between a minimum of,

10-20 points = time waster

21-40 points = treat with caution

41-60 points = could go either way.

61-80 points = if not today then we could meet sometime soon.

81-100 get the bed ready.

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