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By *othingBetweenUs OP Man
1 week ago

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How many messages do you get in a day?

And how many do you manage to reply to?…

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By *im le2Man
1 week ago

aylestone leic

It depends.

On a normal day I get probably 15 ppl look at my profile. From them probably 3 will message several times because I always reply .

If I update my status and add a new photo. I can get 200 ppl look at my profile and get about 20 first messages. Again I will reply to all except the one word text. From that first 20 text I could get another 60 messages I've chatted to one guy for three hours because we couldn't sleep. We both knew we would never meet but it helped pass the time.

Some ppl are just lonely so replying to a text could make there day just like saying good morning to strangers on the street.

Evan a not interested text is better than being ignored.

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By *it old manMan
1 week ago

Waterlooville

I can get up to 200 profile views when I am active here. So far today I've only got one, as I haven't been active for a few days. I get a lot of messages and winks, and for some reason, most of them come from bottoms, or members living over 100 miles from me. If those messages just say "Hi" or "how r u", then I just delete them. Messagers that run me on get deleted as well. This is the only way that I can manage my post, especially when I am on the 'phone, and not on the computer. I'm on the computer at the moment, so it is easier to chat and sort out my messages,

I'm on here to meet men for sex, and I'm not really interested in building deep friendships or finding a partner. Of course a regular selfish top would be a real find, and could help me to avoid excessive messaging.

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By *anmannersMan
1 week ago

I get around ten initial messages, but if there's an interest , quite a few from same person.

However, if I update status or add a new picture then it can get to 100 or so. I always reply if if it's a thank you only

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By *ustOneBearMan
1 week ago

Neath

I get anything from none to 20 messages

Putting a new pic always gets loads of views. And more messages.

If they are a compliment, even if we are not compatible, I’ll reply.

If they haven’t read my profile, i send a polite no thank you. The non profile readers will usually respond with abuse about my appearance.

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By *arrenhertsmanMan
1 week ago

potters bar

4-8 and yes all replied to ..

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By *ensualblokeMan
1 week ago

Colchester /London

It varies- and it's generally prompted by the forum I think, and my answers on here that often generate the responses. I answer all of them if they are not 'HowsU' type nonsense.

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By *fourjMan
1 week ago

Here, there or somewhere nearish March

Some days I get a few. Others may be busier. If someone sends me a message I always try to reply. If someone fabs a picture or even simply winks I try to acknowledge them with a message. I get several profile views most days, but most of those seem to be from gorgeous looking men in Ireland or Scotland!!

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By *emotecontrolMan
1 week ago

gwent.

I get messages from other guys/ cds/ tvs anywhere from zero to 12 times a day. I try to respond to each and every message even if it is just a polite thanks but no thanks. Unfortunately some people dont take rejection well.

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By *ickeMan
1 week ago

watford

One a week maybe !

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By *ilke500Man
1 week ago

edinburgh

Number of messages varies dependant on how active I’ve been on the site.

I would always try and reply to people who have asked a question or feel I am compatible with but I very rarely reply to people who have clearly not read my profile or just send a one or two word txt.

I don’t mind chatting to guys even the ones miles away as I’ve come across some really nice fellas over the years and some have become friends.

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By *iExCuckMan
1 week ago

Lowestoft

Sometimes 1 or 3 and many reply messages back and forth. Most are due to Forum posts etc. which I will normally answer but will only answer the simple short hi or how r u messages with the same hi lol or simply ignore. If I get messages without the Reply to Forum headers from profiles without pictures etc. I tend to just delete.

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By *hilxxMan
1 week ago

lincoln

One a week ,but then I'm old. I always reply

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By *b72Man
1 week ago

Moray

Hardly any. Depends on what the message says weather I reply or not. If there’s not much effort put into it then it’s ignored

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By *0yguyMan
1 week ago

Cumberland

One message, three views. That’s OK for me.

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By *ogwhammerMan
1 week ago

Rainham KENT

Average of about 5

I always answer

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By *ovedUpLadMan
1 week ago

Edinburgh

Maybe 60 views but only a couple of people message and always reply even if it’s just to say thanks but no thanks. However it’s rare for me not to find something interesting about people messaging me. I enjoy a bit of chat sometimes too.

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By *ickSeekerMan
1 week ago

Canterbury

What is 'messages'? 🤔

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By *ohnnyangerMan
1 week ago

Dorking

Like maybe one a week tops.

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

I get too many messages from

'fab fantasists!'

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By *owboy1975Man
1 week ago

here

I’ll get between 0-10 on average, I’ll reply to the ones that seem normal,

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By *iki CDTV/TS
1 week ago

North Tynside

The number shoots up if I post a picture But I do respond to all of them even if its its just a Hi

I respond in kind to those and let the game of chess commence lol

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By *ichard 30Man
1 week ago

Sheffield

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By *ichard 30Man
1 week ago

Sheffield

I get about around 300 people look at my profile a day. But get around 20 messages. I ignore and delete most as I hate pointless messages. Picture less profiles and people who haven’t read my profile.

I don’t know why I get loads of messages and views as I’m just an average hairy guy. X

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By *dambi00Man
1 week ago

Leicester

4-10 on average

Some days are weird where I get over 15

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By *obbertMan
1 week ago

In a world of my own

Totally variable, always reply.

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By *anefyreTV/TS
1 week ago

Taunton

I haven't been here long enough to get a handle on a typical view/message count. I always answer a message, I'd feel impolite if I didn't

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By *arriedguy49scotMan
1 week ago

Annan

Probably 3 a day, always reply, I am a polite fucker that way

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