FabGuys.com forum: Is Fabguys mainly bottoms?

By *dn49 OP Man
1 week ago

Nr Devils Dyke

Have been on here for circa two years. My own view is that 80% of us on here are bottoms seeking Tops.

Is that correct?

Does that reflect other sites?

So question: is the universe of gay or bi-sexual men, more bottom than top?

I think so. As a passive bottom, finding a good fuck is sooooooo difficult these days. They have such a choice!!!

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By *oeJoesphMan
1 week ago

About town

It looks like its mainly bottoms, not many tops out there who wamt to fuck. I might try to top a cute smooth ass to balance the books so to say

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By *uffolkngoodMan
1 week ago

Felixstowe

Not all of us tops find it easy to get a meet. Especially those of us who cannot accommodate. Finding a bottom who can accommodate during daytime is my most difficult problem.

I understand that is due to my own constraints, but life as a top is not one long fuckfest!

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By *randygoatMan
1 week ago

Hull

"Not all of us tops find it easy to get a meet. Especially those of us who cannot accommodate. Finding a bottom who can accommodate during daytime is my most difficult problem.

I understand that is due to my own constraints, but life as a top is not one long fuckfest!"

Totally agree with you there, it isn't a 24/7 shag fest for tops

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By *dambi00Man
1 week ago

Leicester

Bottoms are the majority

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By *lasgow verse 60s guyMan
1 week ago

Glasgow

As a fully verse guy I find lots of guys who claim to be verse are really bottoms. Makes it difficult for everyone

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By *ubsuckerRMan
1 week ago

Birmingham

You are 110% correct. Even the tops are not real tops. Rarely you will see a top who is 100% top.

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By *upertedMan
1 week ago

freshwater

I have to agree. I think it's why we court straight fellas so much in the hope they're a top. I've come off a few other sites as the mosaic is 12 fellas, same old faces, and they're all bottom.

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By *uffolkngoodMan
1 week ago

Felixstowe

"You are 110% correct. Even the tops are not real tops. Rarely you will see a top who is 100% top. "

Well, I am for anal. Love to suck a hard cock too. Does that alter things?

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By *jh59Man
1 week ago

Hinckley

Tend to agree

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By *onyercockMan
1 week ago

sittingbourne

I’m 100% top

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By *ubberFunkerMan
1 week ago

London- Margate +M2 corridor

I'd say that 95% of FabGuys is now divided between:

"bottoms',

bottoms who say they're "versatile",

"bi-curious" (a.k.a not getting any at home),

confused bisexuals (a.k.a still hoping to get some at home)

& men who still enjoy wearing their ex-wife's underwear.

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By *ornyfeckerMan
1 week ago

Dundee

"I'd say that 95% of FabGuys is now divided between:

"bottoms',

bottoms who say they're "versatile",

"bi-curious" (a.k.a not getting any at home),

confused bisexuals (a.k.a still hoping to get some at home)

& men who still enjoy wearing their ex-wife's underwear.

I would agree. I am truly versatile and still get bombarded by messages from bottoms and versatiles who are actually bottoms despite my profile text. They seem to think that i can just throw a switch and become top at their beckoning. Gripe over for the night

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By *lim_sportyMan
1 week ago

stevenage

"I have to agree. I think it's why we court straight fellas so much in the hope they're a top. I've come off a few other sites as the mosaic is 12 fellas, same old faces, and they're all bottom. "

Lol. I find the bi closeted guys are the worst for you, or best for me they love cock.

Why because it's a tabboo. Simple.

Best horny fucks I find, but also they are a mind fuck. Back to the taboo thing

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By *eriMan
1 week ago

Im bottom and so proud of it. Whats the taboo thing?

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By *ookingandgenuineMan
1 week ago

Dumfries

I would be top.

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By *aniel888Man
1 week ago

walsall

The real fact is 80% here are time wasters

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By *now manMan
1 week ago

near

No its mainly time wasters

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By *airFetishMan
1 week ago

Maldon

It’s not just FG - Grindr is the same and Scruff pretty much following.

What is a mystery to me is that, by definition, pretty much every straight man is by definition a top. So how come SO MANY gay men are now bottoms? Or “versatile bottoms” who, almost without exception say when you ask, “well I’m mostly bottom actually “

On Grindr you often find profiles saying “versatile” with 4 photos of their arse and text that says “I need fucking”.

So many subs, “total bottoms”, men with cocks in cages, men who “want to be used”… trying to to find a man who wants to participate equally in a reciprocal sensual/sexual exchange and is ideally versatile, feels like trying to find a unicorn.

It wasn’t always like this. What happened?

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By *ogwhammerMan
1 week ago

Rainham KENT

Yes but I think that reflects the ratio of bottoms to tops in the population

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By *mizhereMan
1 week ago

Carnarthen Area Tuesday 29th

Well I'm top so that helps the ratio

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By *airFetishMan
1 week ago

Maldon

I’m sure it does. I came out in ‘77 and was up for as much sex as I could get and later when I moved to Brighton. I was versatile from the start and I would meet a fair spread of top, bottoms and versatile men through ads, Gaydar, club meets and the like. Same when cruising in Brighton- sometimes I’d get fucked, sometimes they got it from me. I never thought much about it.

In the last 10 years or so I assume that any gay man I meet is a bottom until (hopefully) proved otherwise and I’m rarely surprised.

I love to fuck but, as a versatile man … every time?

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By *ibeariusMan
1 week ago

Greenock

Yes

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By *rMagicFingersMan
1 week ago

Bournemouth

"In the last 10 years or so I assume that any gay man I meet is a bottom until (hopefully) proved otherwise and I’m rarely surprised."

I must be quite the unicorn, then. Gay and a total top. Nothing goes near my hole. Not even a tongue.

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By *ickenG47Man
1 week ago

Gloucester

Total Top and Gay here, much older admittedly and yes, I do have a particular type of guy I want to meet, think it comes with ageing, quality not quantity. Yes the number of BTMs has definitely increased over the last couple of years but where are the Btm guys looking for NSA sex, not a quick anon cum and go meet. Are we going back to the Notches on the bedpost era of years ago?

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By *excessMan
1 week ago

Sleaford

"Have been on here for circa two years. My own view is that 80% of us on here are bottoms seeking Tops.

Is that correct?

Does that reflect other sites?

So question: is the universe of gay or bi-sexual men, more bottom than top?

I think so. As a passive bottom, finding a good fuck is sooooooo difficult these days. They have such a choice!!!

Xx"

I did a basic survey on fab members a while ago and bottoms outnumbered tops/verse by around 3 to 1 so 80% is a little high but not far off.

If your bottom and can't accommodate either that's going to severely restrict your options.

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By *icedub1Man
1 week ago

D11

I'm top, in that I don't like anything near my arse at all but I do enjoy sucking

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By *avewill1Man
1 week ago

wilts

Many ought to realise that the forum is not a fair reflection of this site. Many guys quite understandably never use the chat forums on here. I've never met anyone who uses the forum and never intend to. I have had no problem meeting tops of versi on here.

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By *arsitMan
1 week ago

Dublin/Lucan

The age group on here i.e. over 55's with all their problems with ED makes it a bottom majority

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By *avewill1Man
1 week ago

wilts

"The age group on here i.e. over 55's with all their problems with ED makes it a bottom majority "
speak for yourself 🤣🤣

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By *hedebaucheeMan
1 week ago

Carlisle

It certainly seems that way!

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By *urious0997TV/TS
1 week ago

Tidworth

When I first turned on who’s near and had a browse I was spoiled for choice as almost everyone in my area were strictly tops, but I have seen a lot more bottoms recently

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By *DC2000Man
1 week ago

Coningsby

I prefer to top and find the majority on here are bottom which obviously suits me very well. On the rare occasions I bottom it's with a guy who is vers bottom so the general rule applies. I would never meet a total top without explaining my preference: the chances are I won't be bottoming if the mood isn't right. I find the majority of married men are bottoms or at least vers. In answer to the original post, it would appear the majority of men on here are bottoms, yes.

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By *airFetishMan
1 week ago

Maldon

"Many ought to realise that the forum is not a fair reflection of this site. Many guys quite understandably never use the chat forums on here. I've never met anyone who uses the forum and never intend to. I have had no problem meeting tops of versi on here."

I don’t have the time to look at what position forum posters adopt but my experience of browsing profile in my area beyond certainly supports the majority of men here (and elsewhere) being bottoms.

Of course there are tops on here and elsewhere but the OP is trying to determine how the majority are and bottom it clearly is.

It’s also more bottom tilted than looking at profiles might suggest as seeing somebody as versatile may not be true because when you speak to them they say “oh well I’m really a bottom”. I’ve had this happen several times. However, I’ve never contacted a versatile man who has then said “Actually I’m a top.”

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By *ft pensionerMan
1 week ago

Handy hint no.1.

Turn your phone upside down..all the bottoms become tops..

Handy hint no 2.

Move to Australia..all the bottoms become tops due to gravity..

G'day sport..

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By *ubberFunkerMan
1 week ago

London- Margate +M2 corridor

"I’m sure it does. I came out in ‘77 and was up for as much sex as I could get and later when I moved to Brighton. I was versatile from the start and I would meet a fair spread of top, bottoms and versatile men through ads, Gaydar, club meets and the like. Same when cruising in Brighton- sometimes I’d get fucked, sometimes they got it from me. I never thought much about it.

In the last 10 years or so I assume that any gay man I meet is a bottom until (hopefully) proved otherwise and I’m rarely surprised. "

Totally agree. I think most gay men used to be versatile.

Now there's a lot of gender-queer, bi & curious people looking for daddy's because they've never knew their fathers.

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By *earguy64 888Man
1 week ago

Penrith

I agree and sometimes my preferences are fluid but accomodating is the biggest problem along with time

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
1 week ago

Bristol

I'm predominantly top

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By *evinmanMan
1 week ago

Dublin

I am a rare vers...

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By *ottom4justtopsMan
1 week ago

West Yorks

Yes it is and that is fine except when people blatanly lie (not including anyone who is undecided and experimenting). So many have top in role but are so obviously not and I find that more sad than anything else to be honest.

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By *iExCuckMan
1 week ago

Lowestoft

Not sure of the statistics lol but it would seem there are a greater number of bottoms out there in general. As for this site being all Bottoms lol, I couldn't answer that as I've not met a single guy on here. Chatting with many on here it does become apparent the site is mostly wanabes. Personally I find other sites to be more for one off fucks etc.

I've been a full bottom since I first started in a public toilet, not by choice but very quickly found size of cock was the main reasons. In those days, I only met one other bottom guy, called a queen in those days, and all the other old men were more than keen to bend us over and fuck us. These days, I don't get out as much so not taking cock up me as much, but still get many Tops wanting to fuck me.

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By *amie1402Man
1 week ago

Merseyside

I think bottoms looking for tops might do better on fabswingers.

There are plenty of so-called straight guys on there who would be happy to fuck a TV or a bottom guy as long as it’s ultra-discreet.

But therein lies the problem - they can seldom accommodate because they are married or attached.

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By *hedebaucheeMan
1 week ago

Carlisle

"I think bottoms looking for tops might do better on fabswingers.

There are plenty of so-called straight guys on there who would be happy to fuck a TV or a bottom guy as long as it’s ultra-discreet.

But therein lies the problem - they can seldom accommodate because they are married or attached.

Yep, it’s pretty safe to say there are no straight single males on fabswingers, whatever their profile says.

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By *ngelic69Man
1 week ago

Hastings

I'm 50/50. If I see an arse that I fancy I will top. Depends on age and the interaction.

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By *teve21777Man
1 week ago

Warrington

Definitely we need more tops

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By *ndrea_45TV/TS
1 week ago

minehead

No theres everyone on here top guys and bottom guys

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By *eardedbiblokeMan
1 week ago

scunthorpe

Yep it's a world wide problem in my experience

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By *ust.frankMan
1 week ago

Blackpool

I'm 100 percent top no interest whatsoever in my arse being touched let alone having anything shoved up it.

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By *mithy dingMan
7 days ago

Leeds

Im a top. Like being rimmed and maybe a finger but that’s it. Have been fucked and did not like it.

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By *aft Duck FrancisMan
7 days ago

Spalding

100% Top here.

Looking for bottoms who accommodate during the day.

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By *iExCuckMan
7 days ago

Lowestoft

I've tried Topping but having a 3" cock rock hard, I can't get it in hole. Just seem to probe the hole and no further, also tend to come very quickly. As soon as any see how small my hardon is, the immediately assume I'm a full on Bottom. Suits me.

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By *caniaman113Man
7 days ago

Carlisle

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By *caniaman113Man
7 days ago

Carlisle

"The real fact is 80% here are time wasters "

Just 80%......

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By *reshmeatXXXMan
7 days ago

Huddersfield

"You are 110% correct. Even the tops are not real tops. Rarely you will see a top who is 100% top. "

I'm full 100% top who likes fucking and being sucked

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By *ompeytopMan
7 days ago

Chichester

I think it's roughly the same ratio as left-wing vs right-ring on here!😂

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