FabGuys.com forum: Men who aren't on here

By *weddol OP Man
9 hours ago

Chester

Sometimes I can get tunnel vision on here, thinking that this website represents all the other men who have sex with me.

I have to remind myself that it just represents some of them. Not every guy would be here.

So - do you know guys who aren't on here?

How do you know them sexually or socially?

How did you get to know them?

Is there life outside of the Internet?

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By *askia.TV/TS
8 hours ago

Huddersfield

Absolutely….I only meet guys at cinemas, and occasionally clubs, so perhaps not the most representative of people on this site but I definitely have sex with more guys that I meet ad hoc at these venues than with guys who are on here…..,I usually ask as we clean up afterwards if they are on here so I can offer verify them.

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By *havetoraveTV/TS
7 hours ago

Huntingdon

I know lots that aren’t on here, mainly meet new people at cruising areas, it’s generally easier to get sex when out and about than it is trying to arrange a meet on here

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By *itherneitherTV/TS
7 hours ago

Burnham on sea

Surely you remember the days before smart phones when you randomly met guys in the shops, cafes pubs and parks when a comment or pass was made.

Far less time wasters then !

I'm not talking overt cruising spots, bars toilets etc.

Just going to the shops etc, it was far more exciting, but admittedly contact was less common.

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By *weddol OP Man
6 hours ago

Chester

Yes I do remember those days!

I remember sex being more available then. But that could be rose tinted glasses, or because I was younger.

I was pondering to myself how our habits have changed, and do we use the Internet as an addition to the physical world or if we have relocated our looking to be mainly online

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By *weddol OP Man
6 hours ago

Chester

Thanks too to the guys who have responded to me privately

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By *ara JevoTV/TS
6 hours ago

Bristol East

I know guys from the pub and I know guys from other same-sex platforms.

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By *teelballsMan
4 hours ago

central london

"Sometimes I can get tunnel vision on here, thinking that this website represents all the other men who have sex with me.

I have to remind myself that it just represents some of them. Not every guy would be here.

So - do you know guys who aren't on here?

How do you know them sexually or socially?

How did you get to know them?

Is there life outside of the Internet? "

Guys who actually go to clubs, saunas etc , and there are many of them, are the people who genuinely want to meet.

Sending silly messages to people who live hundreds of miles away or sit toss ing themselves off on cam is what you get here. Two different worlds.

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By *untimesfuckingMan
3 hours ago

Newport

"Sometimes I can get tunnel vision on here, thinking that this website represents all the other men who have sex with me.

I have to remind myself that it just represents some of them. Not every guy would be here.

So - do you know guys who aren't on here?

How do you know them sexually or socially?

How did you get to know them?

Is there life outside of the Internet? "

Of all the people I have met, partake in activities with I would say 90% are off this site, socially met people. Both sexually and socially.

We all rely on the supposed ease of the internet in every walk of life, not just meeting people, yet it's considerably more inconvenient.

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By *DC2000Man
3 hours ago

Coningsby

I know quite a few who are not on this site. I suppose of them were on here originally but we now text or WhatsApp. For various reasons (probably mainly discretion and a concern of being discovered) they've deleted the profiles. Trust and discretion are everything.

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By *iExCuckMan
3 hours ago

Lowestoft

Cant answer that, never met a single person off this site so far. Only ever met guys off the other sites. Admittedly some have come on this site as well but they seem to come on for a chat not for hooking up.

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By *avewill1Man
3 hours ago

wilts

99 percent of active guys are either not on this site or certainly not in chat rooms. Sauna s clubs and pubs , cinema s, beauty spots and other Gay sites. thats What makes a mockery of the verification.

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By *avewill1Man
3 hours ago

wilts

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