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"I started as straight, then bisexual and now totally gay. Born gay, die gay. "I also considered myself straight, realised I had a same sex attraction and experimented, then defined myself as bi; for the last few years almost exclusively gone with men and prefer it. | |||
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"I started as straight, then bisexual and now totally gay. Born gay, die gay. ""Started as straight...born gay". Sooo, born straight then?! No one is born gay, at all ever, ever. | |||
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"I started as straight, then bisexual and now totally gay. Born gay, die gay.
"Started as straight...born gay". Sooo, born straight then?!
No one is born gay, at all ever, ever. "In the words of Gaga "I was born this way" | |||
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"I started as straight, then bisexual and now totally gay. Born gay, die gay.
"Started as straight...born gay". Sooo, born straight then?!
No one is born gay, at all ever, ever. "So you are a top psychiatrist or whatever. We must bow to your superior knowledge | |||
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"I started as straight, then bisexual and now totally gay. Born gay, die gay.
"Started as straight...born gay". Sooo, born straight then?!
No one is born gay, at all ever, ever.
So you are a top psychiatrist or whatever. We must bow to your superior knowledge "You don't need to be sarcastic. People can be as gay as they like, but there is no way that a newborn pops out with any form of sexual orientation. Infact, if there were any argument to suggest there is a sexual orientation at birth (and if so, then why not in utero also), surely the strongest case would be for being born heterosexual. | |||
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"I started as straight, then bisexual and now totally gay. Born gay, die gay.
"Started as straight...born gay". Sooo, born straight then?!
No one is born gay, at all ever, ever.
So you are a top psychiatrist or whatever. We must bow to your superior knowledge
You don't need to be sarcastic. People can be as gay as they like, but there is no way that a newborn pops out with any form of sexual orientation. Infact, if there were any argument to suggest there is a sexual orientation at birth (and if so, then why not in utero also), surely the strongest case would be for being born heterosexual. "I'm being a bit sarcastic because you are adamant people are not born gay. There has long been an argument about nature versus nurture. Why are some people gay and others not? I know identical twin brothers. Brought up with each other, similar in so many ways as well as looks, best of friends yet one is a happily married family man whilst the other is totally gay. Definitely not a case of nurture there. Despite my disastrous attempt to 'straighten myself out' I knew I was gay in my early teens and there were signs even before. I grew up with hardly knowing what gay meant. Virtually no literature on the subject, the occasional joke on television, didn't know any gay people and it was never anything you discussed. So there must have been a 'gay streak' somewhere within me from the word go. | |||
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"I started as straight, then bisexual and now totally gay. Born gay, die gay.
"Started as straight...born gay". Sooo, born straight then?!
No one is born gay, at all ever, ever.
So you are a top psychiatrist or whatever. We must bow to your superior knowledge
You don't need to be sarcastic. People can be as gay as they like, but there is no way that a newborn pops out with any form of sexual orientation. Infact, if there were any argument to suggest there is a sexual orientation at birth (and if so, then why not in utero also), surely the strongest case would be for being born heterosexual.
I'm being a bit sarcastic because you are adamant people are not born gay. There has long been an argument about nature versus nurture. Why are some people gay and others not? I know identical twin brothers. Brought up with each other, similar in so many ways as well as looks, best of friends yet one is a happily married family man whilst the other is totally gay. Definitely not a case of nurture there.
Despite my disastrous attempt to 'straighten myself out' I knew I was gay in my early teens and there were signs even before. I grew up with hardly knowing what gay meant. Virtually no literature on the subject, the occasional joke on television, didn't know any gay people and it was never anything you discussed. So there must have been a 'gay streak' somewhere within me from the word go."I am adamant, not sure why that should prompt sarcasm. I accept that lots of men question their sexuality in their teens and that some men display (camp, feminine, gay?) behaviour pre-teens. I fully expect that we're all born with the potential to have any sexual orientation. But no one (yet) can point to a newborn and accurately determine sexuality. | |||
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"Hetro always will be, love all women..not physically or emotionally attracted to guys at all...HOWEVER ...i love having sex with fully gay guys love knowing they are getting off using a straight married guy" What you've just written reads somewhat at odds with your profile ... and the single photo. | |||
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"Platinum star gay here. Never been near a vagina in my life, even when being born 😂🤣😂🤣 I've always known that I had no interest in females" Lol this made me laugh, platinum member here too. Definitely on the very elite club! 😂 | |||
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"I'm no medic, but surely sexuality must be genetic, so in my book, we are born to be whatever we are. You don't "decide" to be gay! " There is no gay gene that has been identified, so that rules out genetics as the single factor. Obviously no one decides to be gay, but there is nothing to support that one is born gay. | |||
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"I started as straight, then bisexual and now totally gay. Born gay, die gay.
"Started as straight...born gay". Sooo, born straight then?!
No one is born gay, at all ever, ever.
So you are a top psychiatrist or whatever. We must bow to your superior knowledge
You don't need to be sarcastic. People can be as gay as they like, but there is no way that a newborn pops out with any form of sexual orientation. Infact, if there were any argument to suggest there is a sexual orientation at birth (and if so, then why not in utero also), surely the strongest case would be for being born heterosexual.
I'm being a bit sarcastic because you are adamant people are not born gay. There has long been an argument about nature versus nurture. Why are some people gay and others not? I know identical twin brothers. Brought up with each other, similar in so many ways as well as looks, best of friends yet one is a happily married family man whilst the other is totally gay. Definitely not a case of nurture there.
Despite my disastrous attempt to 'straighten myself out' I knew I was gay in my early teens and there were signs even before. I grew up with hardly knowing what gay meant. Virtually no literature on the subject, the occasional joke on television, didn't know any gay people and it was never anything you discussed. So there must have been a 'gay streak' somewhere within me from the word go.
I am adamant, not sure why that should prompt sarcasm. I accept that lots of men question their sexuality in their teens and that some men display (camp, feminine, gay?) behaviour pre-teens. I fully expect that we're all born with the potential to have any sexual orientation. But no one (yet) can point to a newborn and accurately determine sexuality. "Okay fine. I'm a sarcastic bastard. Always have been. Wonder if I was born that way or somehow acquired it through life's diverse path. The point is no one has been able to come up with a definitive answer as to why some people, and animals for that matter, are homosexual whether full-time or occasionally [known on here as bisexual or bi-curious] If we take the view that sex was created to encourage procreation then we would all be 100% straight. As it is probably 90% are straight. There may appear to be more gay/bi people around these days but that is because it is a bit more acceptable with most people. No longer a taboo subject. Does not have the same stigma attached. I have no idea at what age anyone starts showing gay traits and preferences. Thinking back with me it was a very young age when I developed an admiration for men unaware that it was sexual. I do rather object to your stereotyping gay as being effeminate or camp. A lot of us aren't in the slightest. Also remember lads acting in a camp fashion in gay bars because it was the 'thing'. They weren't camp in real life. Also been a bit surprised that some rather camp men turn out to be totally straight. Basically we don't know the answer but that 'gay spark' is there. It is not something we choose or acquire. | |||
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"I'm no medic, but surely sexuality must be genetic, so in my book, we are born to be whatever we are. You don't "decide" to be gay! There is no gay gene that has been identified, so that rules out genetics as the single factor. Obviously no one decides to be gay, but there is nothing to support that one is born gay. " There's no stupid gene either, but some people definitely are | |||
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"I started as straight, then bisexual and now totally gay. Born gay, die gay.
"Started as straight...born gay". Sooo, born straight then?!
No one is born gay, at all ever, ever.
So you are a top psychiatrist or whatever. We must bow to your superior knowledge
You don't need to be sarcastic. People can be as gay as they like, but there is no way that a newborn pops out with any form of sexual orientation. Infact, if there were any argument to suggest there is a sexual orientation at birth (and if so, then why not in utero also), surely the strongest case would be for being born heterosexual.
I'm being a bit sarcastic because you are adamant people are not born gay. There has long been an argument about nature versus nurture. Why are some people gay and others not? I know identical twin brothers. Brought up with each other, similar in so many ways as well as looks, best of friends yet one is a happily married family man whilst the other is totally gay. Definitely not a case of nurture there.
Despite my disastrous attempt to 'straighten myself out' I knew I was gay in my early teens and there were signs even before. I grew up with hardly knowing what gay meant. Virtually no literature on the subject, the occasional joke on television, didn't know any gay people and it was never anything you discussed. So there must have been a 'gay streak' somewhere within me from the word go.
I am adamant, not sure why that should prompt sarcasm. I accept that lots of men question their sexuality in their teens and that some men display (camp, feminine, gay?) behaviour pre-teens. I fully expect that we're all born with the potential to have any sexual orientation. But no one (yet) can point to a newborn and accurately determine sexuality.
Okay fine. I'm a sarcastic bastard. Always have been. Wonder if I was born that way or somehow acquired it through life's diverse path.
The point is no one has been able to come up with a definitive answer as to why some people, and animals for that matter, are homosexual whether full-time or occasionally [known on here as bisexual or bi-curious] If we take the view that sex was created to encourage procreation then we would all be 100% straight. As it is probably 90% are straight. There may appear to be more gay/bi people around these days but that is because it is a bit more acceptable with most people. No longer a taboo subject. Does not have the same stigma attached.
I have no idea at what age anyone starts showing gay traits and preferences. Thinking back with me it was a very young age when I developed an admiration for men unaware that it was sexual. I do rather object to your stereotyping gay as being effeminate or camp. A lot of us aren't in the slightest. Also remember lads acting in a camp fashion in gay bars because it was the 'thing'. They weren't camp in real life. Also been a bit surprised that some rather camp men turn out to be totally straight.
Basically we don't know the answer but that 'gay spark' is there. It is not something we choose or acquire."I get your objection to the language, I was trying to think how to describe some people who display, quite naturally, certain characteristics; as you put it "signs even before [teens]". | |||
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"I'm no medic, but surely sexuality must be genetic, so in my book, we are born to be whatever we are. You don't "decide" to be gay! There is no gay gene that has been identified, so that rules out genetics as the single factor. Obviously no one decides to be gay, but there is nothing to support that one is born gay. There's no stupid gene either, but some people definitely are" If you're trying to be subtly rude, or even obviously rude, there's no reason to be. Let's keep it civil. | |||
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"I'm no medic, but surely sexuality must be genetic, so in my book, we are born to be whatever we are. You don't "decide" to be gay! There is no gay gene that has been identified, so that rules out genetics as the single factor. Obviously no one decides to be gay, but there is nothing to support that one is born gay. There's no stupid gene either, but some people definitely are If you're trying to be subtly rude, or even obviously rude, there's no reason to be. Let's keep it civil. " Not at all - just stating the obvious | |||
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Now in my autumn years I'm 99% homo, but if a kinky girl wants to play, especially in a 3some, I'm always game | |||
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"I've always seen women as much more beautiful than men and a beautiful woman passing me will catch my eye where a man won't. BUT I really now find the idea of sex with a woman quite icky. Even the thought of kissing them seems awful to me whereas thinking of kissing a man gets me hard right away. " I hear what you are saying. I can acknowledge a beautiful woman but rather in the same way that I see a landscape, or building, or a painting etc etc as being beautiful. Just no desire to have sex with them and certainly prefer to see them clothed than look at their naked body parts. The men I am attracted to and would like to have sex with are often not the so-called heart-throbs, the ones with film-star looks. Tend to be attracted to the more rugged types. Always have been. Effeminate and camp does nothing for me. | |||
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"Having ‘straight’ sex has never interested me, and all my experiences have been man on man, how many other guys on here, such as myself, have never had sex, either penetrative or oral with a woman?" I knew from the first time I felt a mates cock I was gay. And the first time I let him fuck me I knew I'd be a bottom for life. Yeah I'm ashamed to admit that a few years later I had to take a girl out she didn't know I was gay and expected sex after . I did the dead just once and didn't enjoy it so never tried again. | |||
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"Born gay, live gay and die gay. I have 2 girlfriends in my early twenties but when I discovered I am gay, I only have relationship and sex with men ever since. Love men always, love and die for men always. Have sex with them, enjoy it, so much fun." So, for a period in your early 20's you were not gay. Let's rephrase your opening line as "born, live, straight, gay, die". Sorted. | |||
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"Born gay, live gay and die gay. I have 2 girlfriends in my early twenties but when I discovered I am gay, I only have relationship and sex with men ever since. Love men always, love and die for men always. Have sex with them, enjoy it, so much fun. So, for a period in your early 20's you were not gay. Let's rephrase your opening line as "born, live, straight, gay, die". Sorted. " Just normal casual friends no romance and no sex involved with the 2 women, only men. So the phrase should be born gay, live gay, love men, have sex with men and die gay - all sorted. | |||
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