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Sissy girl trying to decide what sexuality I am.

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By *ayleababe OP   TV/TS
3 days ago

Tividale

Hi all, I’ve been dressing feminine since I was a teenager, I just can’t stop myself. I absolutely love dressing feminine…. on my own, I’ve never gone out side dressed but indoors when my girlfriend is away I’m full on it. I meet guys on occasion and that just gives me the ultimate thrill.

Thing is outside of my cross dressing habit I’m totally a guy who loves his girlfriend.

I cannot decide if I’m gay, straight or bi. It’s like I have this secret life one side and a normal life the other side.

A while ago my girlfriend found lots of my outfits in a suitcase and obviously questioned me on it….. I just said that on occasion I like to dress female and that was the end of it, she hasn’t mentioned it since.

I’m not in any predicament but trying to figure out myself and who I am, does anyone have similar thoughts like me or am I just weird?

Thanks all for taking the time to read this.

X

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By *ara JevoTV/TS
3 days ago

Bristol East

If you are a male, regularly engaging in sex with another male, one thing you are not is straight.

If you are male, and engaging in sex with both males and females, I'd suggest that is bisexual.

Neutering your masculinity with feminine fripperies doesn't change the underlying truth of biology and sexuality.

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By *ew trixTV/TS
3 days ago

doncaster

You should dress and go out , you’ll find it so horny

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By *heffstarMan
3 days ago

Sheffield

I have no interest in the A typical man but admire t girls etc and would say I am bi..I have to be in my opinion...if you enjoy your time dressed then just enjoy it don't worry on a label

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By *eo PublicMan
3 days ago

Lincoln


"I have no interest in the A typical man but admire t girls etc and would say I am bi..I have to be in my opinion...if you enjoy your time dressed then just enjoy it don't worry on a label"

I'm pretty much the same, I think the fact that I have sex with men, even though they are very feminine men, as well as women makes me bi, certainly to an outside view. It's just a label though, and so I'd say be who you are, and do what you want to do with other consenting adults and don't worry about hanging a label on it.

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By *heffstarMan
3 days ago

Sheffield

Exactly..do find it annoying when admirers like us that aren't yet comfortable with what they like and act/be disrespectful caveman from the start.imagine these lovely tv/ts/cd get so many idiots that start think all same.least compliment politely to find out if they want see or hear how you find them In more detail...I my opinion lol

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By *heffstarMan
3 days ago

Sheffield

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By *ara JevoTV/TS
3 days ago

Bristol East

When I was in my early 30s, I was asking myself the same question as the OP.

(Fab did not exist then, so I couldn't ask you lot )

Was I the guy who wanted to sleep with girls, or was I the "girl" who wanted to sleep with guys?

What did that make me?

I was trying to rationalise something that didn't appear to have any sort of rational pigeon-hole.

I eventually gave up, and decided on a different tack. I resolved to live my life by 3 principles:

- if you are over 18

- if it feels natural

- if it harms no-one else

Just crack on and enjoy it. Life's too short to be questioning things you find pleasurable.

I'd say I am a much happier person because of it.

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By *amme!Man
3 days ago

on my travels!


"When I was in my early 30s, I was asking myself the same question as the OP.

(Fab did not exist then, so I couldn't ask you lot )

Was I the guy who wanted to sleep with girls, or was I the "girl" who wanted to sleep with guys?

What did that make me?

I was trying to rationalise something that didn't appear to have any sort of rational pigeon-hole.

I eventually gave up, and decided on a different tack. I resolved to live my life by 3 principles:

- if you are over 18

- if it feels natural

- if it harms no-one else

Just crack on and enjoy it. Life's too short to be questioning things you find pleasurable.

I'd say I am a much happier person because of it.

"

Sounds good to me! Makes a lot if sense 😊

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By *avey57Man
3 days ago

waltham cross

I would say that if you are happy meeting men for sex, whilst still enjoying sex with your girlfriend then you are bisexual. Not that we have to have labels. I’m in a committed relationship with a woman but like having sex with men. I treat both sexes with the same passion and lust. I told my partner from the very start. She sees it as kinda hot!! I wouldn’t be interested in having sex with another woman but would a man. With men generally I prefer to be bottom as it’s a totally different experience than you get from straight sex

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By *ayleababe OP   TV/TS
3 days ago

Tividale


"When I was in my early 30s, I was asking myself the same question as the OP.

(Fab did not exist then, so I couldn't ask you lot )

Was I the guy who wanted to sleep with girls, or was I the "girl" who wanted to sleep with guys?

What did that make me?

I was trying to rationalise something that didn't appear to have any sort of rational pigeon-hole.

I eventually gave up, and decided on a different tack. I resolved to live my life by 3 principles:

- if you are over 18

- if it feels natural

- if it harms no-one else

Just crack on and enjoy it. Life's too short to be questioning things you find pleasurable.

I'd say I am a much happier person because of it.

"

Thank you for your advice, how you explained it is exactly how I feel. Xxxx

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By *jsucksTV/TS
2 days ago

Chesham


"When I was in my early 30s, I was asking myself the same question as the OP.

(Fab did not exist then, so I couldn't ask you lot )

Was I the guy who wanted to sleep with girls, or was I the "girl" who wanted to sleep with guys?

What did that make me?

I was trying to rationalise something that didn't appear to have any sort of rational pigeon-hole.

I eventually gave up, and decided on a different tack. I resolved to live my life by 3 principles:

- if you are over 18

- if it feels natural

- if it harms no-one else

Just crack on and enjoy it. Life's too short to be questioning things you find pleasurable.

I'd say I am a much happier person because of it.

"
could agree more with this reply enjoy and don't label ask the same thing when I was younger so settled on bi but as I have got older women tend to be my friends rather than sexual partners I enjoy dressing for my own pleasure and feeling comfortable and love having sex with men no labels

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By *shleigh1964TV/TS
2 days ago

penzance

Why box yourself, just be you. There's enough "boxing" going on these days, like everything has to have a set place, . I m happy as just me, but then I m way outside the box that enclosed the sub boxes that enclosed the rest of the sub boxes. I m just me, you be just you gorgeous

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By *punklover_69Man
2 days ago

St. John's, Worcester.

You are bi. Embrace and be damned.

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By *ookingFor...Man
2 days ago

West Sussex

Crossdressing bisexual?

You need to speak to your gf.

Something like this, now discovered, is too big to ignore.

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By *ara JevoTV/TS
2 days ago

Bristol East

Oh, and just to conclude . . .

Since I resolved this particular conundrum (or maybe put it in the "too difficult" tray) I've only slept with men.

I've completely lost interest in women sexually. I think the last time I stept with a woman was 2001. It's waaaaaaay more fun being topped by a hunky man!

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