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By *atureExplorer89 OP   Man
2 days ago

Bolton

Loads of sad weird lonely queens on here who just sit alone in their bedrooms abusing people and sending pathetic messages.

It's getting worse on here for it and I feel for anyone who may get similar messages and not have the self confidence or thick enough skin and let it go over their head...

I got this message before..

'You have flab under your arms & inner legs, you need to diet. your arse flab, is disgusting'

I won't put his username because admin on here seem to go after people naming abusive users rather than actually dealing with the abusive member.

Anyway, the guy who sent it is supposedly 61 years of age and hardly a looker himself, just sad really and the kind of behaviour you'd expect from the bitchy mean girls in high school

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By *os001Man
2 days ago

Oxford

Probably jealous of your lovely cock, not worth your time, block or ignore!

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By *acksometimesJacquiTV/TS
2 days ago

Tonbridge


"Probably jealous of your lovely cock, not worth your time, block or ignore!"

Agreed. I know it doesn't really help but I think you look fab.

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By *wordfight70Man
2 days ago

Baldock

Well none of those insults are remotely accurate so Id say it's probably someone you've upset before, maybe he's written to you but been ignored and it's made him angry? I gather it's very common on FS, people lash out and throw insults when they're rejected or ignored.

The sensible thing is to just block him and move on.

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By *orcester GuyMan
2 days ago

Worcestershire North

Tbh looking at your profile pictures

Think he may have sent that message to the wrong person

Or may need specs

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By *tokerY2OMan
2 days ago

Bournemouth

That's the Internet for you.

On all sites/forums/platforms feel they own their little piece in the Web and therefore have a right to criticise, rather than ignore and move on, things they don't like or disagree with.

Generally the worse abuse comes from the insecure and ignorant who don't know better.

Ignore block and move on.

A wiseman once told me that all negativity a person has towards you is driven by their jealousy.

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By *tokerY2OMan
2 days ago

Bournemouth

Oh and BTW NatureExplorer you've been on my Hotlist for ages...

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By *dffikMan
2 days ago

surrey

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By *dffikMan
2 days ago

surrey


"Tbh looking at your profile pictures

Think he may have sent that message to the wrong person

Or may need specs "

I agree

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By *ildwestheroMan
2 days ago

Llandrindod Wells

There must be some very sad and evil minded people, with too much time on their hands, if they have to insult people for no reason.

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By *arehamMan
2 days ago

_areham

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By *luggableMan
2 days ago

Wymondham

Must have meant it for someone else. Ask him if he's visited Specsavers recently?

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By *lumbs238Man
2 days ago

Swindon ish

Screw the haters you’re flipping sexy as mate x

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
2 days ago

Bedford

Par for the course unfortunately ,wish I had a pound for every nasty I'd be quite well off .But who cares sticks and stones and all that jazz xx

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By *avyashMan
2 days ago

Near Retford


"Tbh looking at your profile pictures

Think he may have sent that message to the wrong person

Or may need specs "

I'm gutted that everything those nuns warned us about at school proved correct.

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By *obbie300Man
2 days ago

BANGOR Co Down

None of us are perfect,we'll odd one lol ,but comments like those

being made is a disgrace ,if everyone blocks the person making comments like that ,then maybe he will fuck off

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By (user no longer on site)
2 days ago

These sort of people are small

minded narcistic twats who are probably alone as outcasts who do not have an ounce any gumption...same bracket as the idiot trump

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By *dambi00Man
2 days ago

Leicester

Oh tell me about it, especially after you reject them

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By *issy SiMan
2 days ago

Horsham

Just delete and move on. I regularly get abusive messages

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By *0smannwMan
2 days ago

Burnley


"Loads of sad weird lonely queens on here who just sit alone in their bedrooms abusing people and sending pathetic messages.

It's getting worse on here for it and I feel for anyone who may get similar messages and not have the self confidence or thick enough skin and let it go over their head...

I got this message before..

'You have flab under your arms & inner legs, you need to diet. your arse flab, is disgusting'

I won't put his username because admin on here seem to go after people naming abusive users rather than actually dealing with the abusive member.

Anyway, the guy who sent it is supposedly 61 years of age and hardly a looker himself, just sad really and the kind of behaviour you'd expect from the bitchy mean girls in high school "

Just ignore such messages and for what it’s worth I think you look really good.

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By *yrshirefunMan
2 days ago

Kilmarnock

Block, ignore, move on

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By *idge555Man
2 days ago

Cheshire


"Loads of sad weird lonely queens on here who just sit alone in their bedrooms abusing people and sending pathetic messages.

It's getting worse on here for it and I feel for anyone who may get similar messages and not have the self confidence or thick enough skin and let it go over their head...

I got this message before..

'You have flab under your arms & inner legs, you need to diet. your arse flab, is disgusting'

I won't put his username because admin on here seem to go after people naming abusive users rather than actually dealing with the abusive member.

Anyway, the guy who sent it is supposedly 61 years of age and hardly a looker himself, just sad really and the kind of behaviour you'd expect from the bitchy mean girls in high school "

Not all like that mate,

I think you're hot, 🥵

Sounds like a wanka!

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
2 days ago

Motherwell


"Block, ignore, move on"

Mx

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By *mokybearMan
2 days ago

North East

Sounds like a melt

I like the ones who message wanting to meet, and when I politely turn them down (and I am always polite, mind) I get a torrent of abuse telling me I’m ugly or fat and no cunt would want to meet me.

It’s like, you messaged me first dude, calm yourself down before you end up face-down on your crumb-covered keyboard

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By *ubBikerBtmMan
2 days ago

Swansea Valley

Had a couple of messages like this before, and usually blocked before I can reply.

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By *an467Man
2 days ago

Glasgow

I am an older guy. I would never send an abusive message to anyone. More likely to ignore or block.

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By *ph1956Man
2 days ago

COLCHESTER

I too would never send an abusive message!

I've only ever received one, and that was a few days ago.

Came close to blocking him, but didn't!

I felt sorry for him, he lets his dick rule his head.

No class or manners!

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By *othingBetweenUsMan
2 days ago

Ask

I experienced them when I was younger. I just ignored them. I still get the occasional one now.

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By *ade crossTV/TS
2 days ago

chiselhurst

Unfortunately there are some sad keyboard warriors on here. So brave behind there keyboards think they can abuse others.

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By *V ShazTV/TS
2 days ago

Haydock

Asked a guy if he was confident to show a face picture.. He told me not to flatter myself and blocked me... So sad

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By *othingBetweenUsMan
2 days ago

Ask


"Asked a guy if he was confident to show a face picture.. He told me not to flatter myself and blocked me... So sad"
I've experienced that

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By *uxbritMan
2 days ago

hemel hempstead hertfordshire

Probably jealous you’re getting sex and he isn’t

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By *acingfanMan
2 days ago

Huddersfield

Nobody should be abusive to others on here.

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By *eefandfurMan
2 days ago

Edinburgh

You've, ever so slightly, undermined your high moral position by leading with "Loads of sad weird lonely queens"

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By *hubsloverMan
2 days ago

East/west sussex

Such occurrences are not limited to older individuals; to my knowledge, reporting the private message will lead to their blocking. I trust you are feeling improved after receiving the numerous excellent suggestions mentioned above.

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By *ph1956Man
2 days ago

COLCHESTER


"Unfortunately there are some sad keyboard warriors on here. So brave behind there keyboards think they can abuse others. "

Don't you mean "keyboard wankers"

On a serious note though,

Insulting and attacking people anonymously via the web in general is a sad symptom of modern society😢

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By *SAOFMan
2 days ago

That there London, mostly; currently In Co Roscommon though!

Unfortunately weird messages are not specific to an age or a role or a tribe. We have all received them and if we are honest they come from all quarters. If we are more likely to converse with daddies it will appear as if more weird comments come from older guys. If we are into twinks, it will seem as if a lot of the youth of today are mismannered.

If someone writes a message that offends you block them. There are plenty of fish/cocks in the sea/on the site.

Just remember, there is someone out there for each of us who thinks we have sent him a weird message and he has probably blocked us. So don’t think too much about it; block or be blocked and move on.

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By *anDadBodMan
2 days ago

Speke

is this a look at me thread?

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By *horts66Man
2 days ago

cambridge

You are too gorgeous to worry about people like that

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By *ucker.27Man
2 days ago

Swansea West

Block and move on

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By *luggableMan
2 days ago

Wymondham


"is this a look at me thread?"

Show me a thread that isn't. Seriously. Nust try one,,,"Please ignore this thread because I don't want anyone to look at it."

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By *3versMan
2 days ago

glasgow


"is this a look at me thread?"

You don’t say

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By *issalignedTV/TS
2 days ago

London

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By *evanianMan
2 days ago

Tegeingl, Gogledd Cymru

Never raise to the bait of saddo keyboard warriors with a chip on their shoulders, just don't respond, ignore with due contempt, move on, life really is far too short.

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By *atureExplorer89 OP   Man
13 hours ago

Bolton


"Sounds like a melt

I like the ones who message wanting to meet, and when I politely turn them down (and I am always polite, mind) I get a torrent of abuse telling me I’m ugly or fat and no cunt would want to meet me.

It’s like, you messaged me first dude, calm yourself down before you end up face-down on your crumb-covered keyboard"

I usually get that from cross dressers and trans, even though it says on my profile I'm not into that. They really can't take rejection well it seems

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By *atureExplorer89 OP   Man
13 hours ago

Bolton


"Oh and BTW NatureExplorer you've been on my Hotlist for ages... "

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!

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By *atureExplorer89 OP   Man
13 hours ago

Bolton


"There must be some very sad and evil minded people, with too much time on their hands, if they have to insult people for no reason."
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Exactly!

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By *atureExplorer89 OP   Man
13 hours ago

Bolton


"You've, ever so slightly, undermined your high moral position by leading with "Loads of sad weird lonely queens" "

Well that's the sort I get these kinds of messages from, it's the truth!

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By *atureExplorer89 OP   Man
13 hours ago

Bolton


"is this a look at me thread?"

Not at all, just can't understand people who send messages like that

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By *hubsloverMan
13 hours ago

East/west sussex


"is this a look at me thread?

Not at all, just can't understand people who send messages like that "

What leads you to believe that only older gentlemen engage in such behavior? And what is the significance of the so-called 'bitchy high school girl'? Do you consider yourself amusing?

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By *atureExplorer89 OP   Man
13 hours ago

Bolton


"is this a look at me thread?

What leads you to believe that only older gentlemen engage in such behavior? And what is the significance of the so-called 'bitchy high school girl'? Do you consider yourself amusing?"

I don't believe that, don't jump to conclusions! I have only experienced these kinds of messages from guys older than myself and the guy who sent that particular message was 61, hence the reason I made the comments, think I explained it pretty cleary mate!

The significance of the 'bitchy high school' comment is pretty simple, he was acting like one, not trying to be funny at all

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By *hubsloverMan
13 hours ago

East/west sussex

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By *hubsloverMan
13 hours ago

East/west sussex


"is this a look at me thread?

What leads you to believe that only older gentlemen engage in such behavior? And what is the significance of the so-called 'bitchy high school girl'? Do you consider yourself amusing?

I don't believe that, don't jump to conclusions! I have only experienced these kinds of messages from guys older than myself and the guy who sent that particular message was 61, hence the reason I made the comments, think I explained it pretty cleary mate!

The significance of the 'bitchy high school' comment is pretty simple, he was acting like one, not trying to be funny at all "

Consider the title of your discussion; perhaps approach it with a different perspective next time. Just because I have a disruptive neighbour does not imply that every place I go will be equally troublesome. It is unkind to belittle a high school girl.

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By *en1920Man
12 hours ago

christchurch Dorset

I find a simple Fuck Off helps and nips it in the bud

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By *atureExplorer89 OP   Man
12 hours ago

Bolton


"

Consider the title of your discussion; perhaps approach it with a different perspective next time. Just because I have a disruptive neighbour does not imply that every place I go will be equally troublesome. It is unkind to belittle a high school girl. "

It's not really that deep mate, I never said 'ALL older men are like this', you are reading into it far too much and jumping to conclusions.

If you are offended by what I said then that's a problem of your own mate!

Taking issue with me over what I put, instead of the guy who sent the abusive message is just strange fella.

Anyway have a good one yeah

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By *hubsloverMan
11 hours ago

East/west sussex


"

Consider the title of your discussion; perhaps approach it with a different perspective next time. Just because I have a disruptive neighbour does not imply that every place I go will be equally troublesome. It is unkind to belittle a high school girl.

It's not really that deep mate, I never said 'ALL older men are like this', you are reading into it far too much and jumping to conclusions.

If you are offended by what I said then that's a problem of your own mate!

Taking issue with me over what I put, instead of the guy who sent the abusive message is just strange fella.

Anyway have a good one yeah "

Please revisit the title of the thread; I am curious about its significance to you. Kindly provide a translation, as I assure you that your statement's quality cannot possibly offend me; I am merely offering a correction. Have a lovely day .

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