FabGuys.com forum: Idiots asking to meet

By *-lucky2 OP Man
2 days ago

Benidorm SPAIN

An idiot recently messaged asked me to meet NOW! I replied "no sorry" His response was "if you don't meet fuck off" and blocked me stopping a reply.

I do have a life away from the site and like to shower before a meeting.

What's your thoughts?

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By *ianca del MonteTV/TS
2 days ago

A land of glitter and sequins

Idiots everywhere.

I had this very morning the same type of conversation as you.

I am a timewaster apparently

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By *kxdressTV/TS
2 days ago

Stafford

I normally find it goes like this,

First message, Hi how are you r u,

Second message, When can you meet.

Often from a blank profile!

FFS,

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By *-lucky2 OP Man
2 days ago

Benidorm SPAIN

"Idiots everywhere.

I had this very morning the same type of conversation as you.

I am a timewaster apparently "

They probably don't shower themselves and don't understand to meet a girl like yourself takes time to get ready.

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By *ildwestheroMan
2 days ago

Llandrindod Wells

But surely we are all washed, clean and ready, sitting in front of our computers, laptops and phones hoping to meet in the next few minutes

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By (user no longer on site)
2 days ago

I had exactly that got blocked because i had to work

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By (user no longer on site)
2 days ago

I had exactly that got blocked because i had to work

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By *punklover_69Man
2 days ago

St. John's, Worcester.

I tend to find that bluff calling is fun. The messaging becomes very vague about when you're potential dreamboat can make it.

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By *onmar01Couple (MM)
2 days ago

Bargoed

Had this a few times , quite often at stupid o'clock in the morning just as I'm heading to bed. They then question what are you doing online then? Are we not allowed to just browse...!!

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By *3versMan
2 days ago

glasgow

Imagine having the temerity to ask for a meet - this is not the place for that sort of thing - this is for moaning about Labour, Boat People and Costa Coffee Wifi

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By *annyDanielleMan
2 days ago

Street, Somerset

You know what? I've never experienced any of this. When i'm online i'm usually at work so can rarely meet then. I get the odd chancer which i don't mind at all, after all if you don't ask you don't get, but when i politely decline i most often get an 'ok maybe next time'.

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By *iliMan
2 days ago

South London

I generally will no longer reply to those types of messages

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By *ibblefishMan
2 days ago

louthish

I sit all prepared waiting to be lucky enough to be chosen with a “meet now” message

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By *nchsolentMan
2 days ago

Fareham

I can't accommodate, yet people ask for a meet and promptly ask if I can. Like most others I have to plan a time to meet I can rarely do so at the drop of a hat, not can most others.

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By *usan 749ukTV/TS
2 days ago

Bangor

"Idiots everywhere.

I had this very morning the same type of conversation as you.

I am a timewaster apparently "

They definitely don’t know how much effort we put in to look nice

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By *-lucky2 OP Man
2 days ago

Benidorm SPAIN

"I normally find it goes like this,

First message, Hi how are you r u,

Second message, When can you meet.

Often from a blank profile!

FFS, "

Yeah it's always a blank profile with no feedback or pictures. Immediately better know as a timewaster lol

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By *owzerMan
2 days ago

Chester.....

"An idiot recently messaged asked me to meet NOW! I replied "no sorry" His response was "if you don't meet fuck off" and blocked me stopping a reply.

I do have a life away from the site and like to shower before a meeting.

What's your thoughts?"

He was just stating the facts. If you don't meet there'll be no fucking. And he blocked you just to reiterate that the fuck is off. Does that make sense?

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By *os001Man
2 days ago

Oxford

"I normally find it goes like this,

First message, Hi how are you r u,

Second message, When can you meet.

Often from a blank profile!

FFS, "

Totally this! Lol

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By *ockey stickMan
2 days ago

Hounslow

It's when they don't have any photos and they want to see more of yours.

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By *hong loverTV/TS
2 days ago

Wilton near Malton

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By *hong loverTV/TS
2 days ago

Wilton near Malton

Yes we do have some idiots, but they are vastly outnumbered by the gorgeous guys and girls on this site. Xxx

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By *ottom_only_CDTV/TS
2 days ago

Lenzie

"An idiot recently messaged asked me to meet NOW! I replied "no sorry" His response was "if you don't meet fuck off" and blocked me stopping a reply.

I do have a life away from the site and like to shower before a meeting.

What's your thoughts?"

It takes all sorts of people to make the world a interesting place. Idiots, included.

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By *mma_EvansTV/TS
2 days ago

Colchester

"Imagine having the temerity to ask for a meet - this is not the place for that sort of thing - this is for moaning about Labour, Boat People and Costa Coffee Wifi"

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By *ottom_only_CDTV/TS
2 days ago

Lenzie

"Imagine having the temerity to ask for a meet - this is not the place for that sort of thing - this is for moaning about Labour, Boat People and Costa Coffee Wifi"

This site sometimes makes me feel a bit old fashioned and a bit of a dinosaur.

For not wanting to meet after a first message, and want to jump into bed with someone I don't even know what he looks like.

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By *-lucky2 OP Man
2 days ago

Benidorm SPAIN

https://m.fabguys.com/profile/johnathan69

This guy has just sent me a message asking for a wank then another asking for my address and phone number.

He had a blank profile didn't say anything else and was blocked

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By *ara JevoTV/TS
2 days ago

Bristol East

"An idiot recently messaged asked me to meet NOW! I replied "no sorry" His response was "if you don't meet fuck off" and blocked me stopping a reply.

I do have a life away from the site and like to shower before a meeting.

What's your thoughts?"

I prefer a bath

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By *eepeter4Man
2 days ago

Bournemouth

"An idiot recently messaged asked me to meet NOW! I replied "no sorry" His response was "if you don't meet fuck off" and blocked me stopping a reply.

I do have a life away from the site and like to shower before a meeting.

What's your thoughts?

I prefer a bath "
I prefer a bed bath by matron

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
2 days ago

Bedford

Do they still have baths in bath? X

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By *ph1956Man
2 days ago

COLCHESTER

"Imagine having the temerity to ask for a meet - this is not the place for that sort of thing - this is for moaning about Labour, Boat People and Costa Coffee Wifi

xx"

Luv it!

Hehehe....

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By *hubsloverMan
2 days ago

East/west sussex

When someone indicates on their profile that they want to meet, what does that imply?

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By *lueoscarMan
2 days ago

alfreton/chesterfield

It's very annoying and pisses me off but after a while I just think I've probably had a lucky escape from pushy scumbags

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By *avenwrexham75TV/TS
2 days ago

Wrexham

Got used to the idiots now...I can usually tell by the way conversations and questions go...

Inevitably about five questions in, they will ask for a friend invite.

I say no, and then I'm blocked.

Saves me doing it I suppose...

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By *V ShazTV/TS
2 days ago

Haydock

Just had 3.

When I see that big yellow message appear without a picture,I know instantly they lack genuineness.

It's an instant delete from her

And an instant delete from me

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By *itchianMan
2 days ago

Liverpool

I get this now and then and had one quite recently. Not the type of behaviour that encourages you to meet them

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By *ay couple me and himCouple (MM)
2 days ago

Kilwinning

The clues are there . No pics, only been on a date, few days, name is usually 123abc or like it.

Pic hunters or pic wank fodder.

Ask for facepic first.

They reply with a headshot from clearly a download

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By *uriouslyColMan
2 days ago

colchester

Reading everyone’s messages, I’m pleased to know I’m not alone!

It’s the low effort messages of “hi” or “wanna meet” that I get a lot. Although I had someone few days back who said if I pay his FG subscription that he send me pictures, I couldn’t block quick enough!

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By *inaCD66TV/TS
2 days ago

Wimbledon

"I normally find it goes like this,

First message, Hi how are you r u,

Second message, When can you meet.

Often from a blank profile!

FFS, "

Yep lol i just block straight away..loads.

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By *ph1956Man
2 days ago

COLCHESTER

"An idiot recently messaged asked me to meet NOW! I replied "no sorry" His response was "if you don't meet fuck off" and blocked me stopping a reply.

I do have a life away from the site and like to shower before a meeting.

What's your thoughts?"

I had a similar incidence last week, A guy demanded a sex act off me there and then. I politely said I don't do quick meets as my profile clearly states.

He replied by calling me a "stuck up myself poof"

Made me laugh! I'm openly Bi.

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By *kxdressTV/TS
2 days ago

Stafford

"Yes we do have some idiots, but they are vastly outnumbered by the gorgeous guys and girls on this site. Xxx"

An excellent point.

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By *speedoMan
2 days ago

eastbourne

A few times I’ve been asked if I’m available now and a couple of times I’ve been ready and willing, likewise, I’ve been asked, said not available, just here checking messages… no problems so far

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By *azadarMan
2 days ago

North Birmingham

"This site sometimes makes me feel a bit old fashioned and a bit of a dinosaur.

For not wanting to meet after a first message, and want to jump into bed with someone I don't even know what he looks like."

You aren't alone in feeling like this....

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By *ohnbi1965Man
2 days ago

Aberfeldy

Yes some are so rude & impatient & dont read profile which tells them all they need to know .

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By *owzerMan
2 days ago

Chester.....

"An idiot recently messaged asked me to meet NOW! I replied "no sorry" His response was "if you don't meet fuck off" and blocked me stopping a reply.

I do have a life away from the site and like to shower before a meeting.

What's your thoughts?

I had a similar incidence last week, A guy demanded a sex act off me there and then. I politely said I don't do quick meets as my profile clearly states.

He replied by calling me a "stuck up myself poof"

Made me laugh! I'm openly Bi.

Not open enough apparently because they can't hear you in the cheap seats 📣

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