FabGuys.com forum: Confidence being knocked

By *enperry OP Man
7 days ago

Wolverhampton

Looking at a lot of the guys on here with huge penises make me look at mine and feel so inferior.

It does seem to knock my confidence when looking to arrange a meet but my subconscious kicks in and starts to wonder if they are looking at my cock pic and thinking it is too small for them to want to play.

I am not too experienced in my bi side but have had a couple of meets which seemed to go well, although I was a complete bag of nerves.

Anybody else having these feelings?

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By *hong loverTV/TS
7 days ago

Wilton near Malton

Don’t worry about it, I have a small cock but I am not worried, think about the good things about you.

I know I have a lovely pair of legs and pert bum, so if people want to judge me on my cock, fuck em!!

Ok so I am sure you gave lots to offer us in fab. Xx

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By *dambi00Man
7 days ago

Leicester

Why stress over things you can’t change?

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By *kxdressTV/TS
7 days ago

Stafford

If you really do have a small cock, don’t worry, lots of people here like the small ones as well. Luckily for me !

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By *anmannersMan
7 days ago

Yes don't worry . Cicks are long, short, thick or thin. Each to personal preference . However, do realise that guys can angle the cocks to look bigger but not always the same when you meet. I've hooked up with guys who's pics look huge but ....lol....proof in the pudding.

Don't worry about your cock, there will be plenty of admirers. I personally don't like cocks to big .

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By *aami1982Man
7 days ago

london

I believe small cocks satisfy arses more compared to big ones. Somehow alway feel hurt when being fucked by a small cock even for couple of minutes and feel so fulfilling.

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By *enperry OP Man
7 days ago

Wolverhampton

Thanks for the kind words here and all the dm's come through to me.

It is heartening to hear such nice comments and there are good people out there.

I was probably having a bit of a melt and feeling low and needed to get this off my chest.

Thank you.

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By *our-slaveMan
7 days ago

nottingham

The most important and effective sexual organ is the brain; and by a long way

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By *hisMeMan
7 days ago

Forfar, Angus

"The most important and effective sexual organ is the brain; and by a long way"

Yup, if your brain's not in gear...

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By *ewBrumBiMan
7 days ago

Birmingham B15

Coincidentally I just had someone block me because my willy is apparently too small. Feels kind of bad, but whatever.

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By *ph1956Man
7 days ago

COLCHESTER

Firstly, be aware photos can be misleading. Often camera angle and basic photo editing such as

"Cropping" can make a cock look bigger than it really is.

Secondly,The average size of a cock is 5.5" erect!

Thirdly,A lack of self confidence and first meet nerves are quite normal. And after a while these improve!

Lastly, Whatever God has blessed you with be proud of it. It will give pleasure to your partners. Rest assured of that.

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By *osytoes76Man
7 days ago

anglesey

I love small cocks long as it gets nice and stiff il play with it all day don’t worry too much about your size long as you can get it rock hard you’re on a winner

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
7 days ago

Bedford

Don't bother yourself it ain't the nail it's the hammer, no good having a race horse if you don't know how to ride xx

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By *ara JevoTV/TS
7 days ago

Bristol East

Men come in all shapes and sizes.

If you feel inadequate with one characteristic, make it up with another.

Play up your good points, play down your less good ones

Hope this helps

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By *wimmingbadgerMan
7 days ago

Leicester

a small cock feels pretty good in my ass

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By *eefandfurMan
7 days ago

Edinburgh

We all have a distorted impression of "normal" due to porn.

It's nice to be able to get the whole cock in the mouth without gagging. If you're fucking, most of the sensation is around the anus and the prostate is only 3 inched inside, so most cocks will hit the sweet spot.

I don't care about cock size, a lot of guys are the same. The quality and enjoyment of the sexual experience is all to do with the guy and nothing to do with the size of his dick.

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By *obsucker40Man
6 days ago

brewood

Nothing wrong with your cock its nice I would love to play with you x

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By *ootsloverTV/TS
6 days ago

Tetbury

Don't worry about size, mine is thin but can get long and hard when turned on. Been told its a lovely one so many times and the fellas love it in their mouth.

You might not make someone groan as you slide it in their arse but there is so much more to sex than anal.

I used to be embarrassed by the size of mine with women as well but they were always keen to take me to bed. It's not what you have, it's how you use it.

I like both inside me for different reasons and feelings

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By *hubbyman10Man
6 days ago

Bloxwich

I used to be embarrased by my cock size but realised there was nothing I could do about it so I embraced it, there are plenty of pics for a potential meet to look at and know what is between my legs.

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By *anDadBodMan
6 days ago

Speke

Don’t stress over size, there are those that seek the bigger cock but not everyone, it’s not the size it’s what ya do with it as the saying goes 😉

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By *ICOCK65Man
6 days ago

Chelmsford

We have all got what we have got can change anything so enjoy when you can

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By *lutdaddy4useMan
6 days ago

Oxon/Northants/Bucks

I'm the owner of a small dick (3.5inches) have had negative reactions to it, but also had some very positive ones too.

We can't change our cock size, embrace it and enjoy it. I'm thinking we'll hung guys must get knock backs about there dicks too

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By *yzantineMan
6 days ago

Offshore now, ignore pistcode

I had a thing about mine but decided it wasn’t important and I stopped caring what folks thought - I was out for my own selfish fun so got on with it.

Confidence is a character trait that is shaped by many things other than cock size. Because we are all on here with our one-track minds it’s easy to extrapolate this as normalised. Far from it!

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By *auraTV/TS
6 days ago

Rugby

I for one would prefer a small cock certainly until I get used to taking cock.

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By *etstalkMan
6 days ago

Liverpool

Agree with many of the comments here.

-an average cock is around the 5-5.5 inch mark

-remember an average is created by many data points so some fellas are well under that mark and some well over : it’s all normal

-a photo can be deceiving due to angles and cropping. (Example I’m only 30, but my photos make me look 40 years old! Haha JOKES)

-everyone’s taste and preference is different - so yeah some people only want a big cock, but thats the same as saying someone liking a beard or not. Be comfortable with that fact that we are not to everyone’s taste. That’s ok

-experience will give you confidence and you’ll soon realise there is no normal and everybody fits in somewhere, somehow

✌️💙

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By *arcusUK2Man
6 days ago

Winchester

"Looking at a lot of the guys on here with huge penises make me look at mine and feel so inferior.

I am not too experienced in my bi side but have had a couple of meets which seemed to go well, although I was a complete bag of nerves.

Anybody else having these feelings?

Don't worry. Lots of people,me included,love a smaller cock up their arse. Enjoy what you have!

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By *askia.TV/TS
6 days ago

Huddersfield

As many on this thread have said, nobody with a small cock should feel worried or be lacking in confidence…….many of us love being fucked by smaller cocks, makes a balls deep fuck much easier to take.

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By *aggonerMan
6 days ago

Malvern

"Why stress over things you can’t change?"

This.

I’ve got beyond worrying about how my body looks. I am what I am.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
6 days ago

Didcot

By the looks of your pics, your cock doesn't look that small, it looks a similar size to mine and I've had no complaints and get regular compliments, personally I prefer a smallish to average cock, nicer to suck and if I think it's too big it don't go near my arse.

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By *hiteroseMan
6 days ago

Neverwhere

It's not what you've got ... but what it's capable of doing.

Mine is only 5 inches, but if you want to see what it can produce then have a look at the oily video I added today.

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By *ndrewJones61Man
6 days ago

Potters Bar

"We all have a distorted impression of "normal" due to porn.

I don't care about cock size, a lot of guys are the same. The quality and enjoyment of the sexual experience is all to do with the guy and nothing to do with the size of his dick.

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By *ildwestheroMan
6 days ago

Llandrindod Wells

Cock size is a mystery. I'm seen big built muscular guys with tiny cocks and thin little guys with massive ones. I had sex with two brothers [not a the same time] who, although 2 years apart age-wise could have been mistaken as twins. One had a very impressive cock whilst the other one's was tiny. Does it matter unless you are a size queen or solely interested in the cock and not the man.

Lot to be said for small cocks. You can get it all in your mouth and they are far less painful up the bum.

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By *arrenhertsmanMan
6 days ago

Hatfield

You can only work with the tools god gave you . My 5.5 has made many women happy and I’m also here to say I’ve sucked a few cocks .. 5inchs to 9inch….. be loved each one in its own right .. when it’s been in my mouth hard I’ve enjoyed it .. size might matter somewhere but notwith me

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By *alfTankMan
6 days ago

Boston

Shut up and put it in my mouth already.

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By *enperry OP Man
6 days ago

Wolverhampton

Once again, thank you for all the kind messages you have left on here and also all the pm's that have been sent. There are some truly wonderful people on here... Far weighing over the idiots on here.

I know I cannot change what I have but I truly do feel more relaxed over this now from the messages abd comments.

Thank you once again.

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By *ph1956Man
6 days ago

COLCHESTER

"Once again, thank you for all the kind messages you have left on here and also all the pm's that have been sent. There are some truly wonderful people on here... Far weighing over the idiots on here.

I know I cannot change what I have but I truly do feel more relaxed over this now from the messages abd comments.

Thank you once again. "

See?

Most guys on here are decent human beings.

And the general consensus of opinions are size is not necessarily as important as you may think.

Now go out there and enjoy yourself😉

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By *aami1982Man
2 days ago

london

I know I cannot change what I have but I truly do feel more relaxed over this now from the messages abd comments.

Thank you once again. "

Great! Now let us know when we can get our turn to come and suck that beautiful meat?

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
2 days ago

Didcot

"We all have a distorted impression of "normal" due to porn.

I don't care about cock size, a lot of guys are the same. The quality and enjoyment of the sexual experience is all to do with the guy and nothing to do with the size of his dick.

Absolutely agree, with porn and especially gay porn everyone is hung like a donkey, this isn't a reflective of real life, I've seen enough dick in 63 years to confirm that, as for gagging, I don't like it although I am a fool to myself as I always feel the need to get the whole thing in knowing full well I'm going to gag.

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By * string guyTV/TS
2 days ago

southampton

I have a fairly small cock and have always felt more insecure with women seeing it than guys.

Although I have been told by both men and women that sex is good I feel that I will be judged more harshly by women.

Whether it’s right or not I don’t know, but that’s how I feel.

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By *errifemmeTV/TS
2 days ago

Lincoln

I have a small cock, and being quite gurly I appreciate men that have a proper cock of 6 inches or more.

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By *ersguy0404Man
2 days ago

newport

I get paranoid about being so hairy and being unable to shave smooth anywhere due to a medical condition. Especially when so many people want shaved, then you have so many profiles asking for big cocks mine not. But at the end of the day I can’t do anything about it.

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By *u2usemeMan
2 days ago

hyde

Being a btm sub I wish my cock was smaller and i love it when guys laugh and say its pathetic turns me on

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By *arcusUK2Man
1 day ago

Winchester

"It's not what you've got ... but what it's capable of doing.

Mine is only 5 inches, but if you want to see what it can produce then have a look at the oily video I added today."

Wow, it looks bigger. And very nice!

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By *LE69Man
1 day ago

Slough

I feel like that too.

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By *issy SiMan
1 day ago

Horsham

My cock is very small and doesn't get hard. It doesn't worry me at all..some of my gentlemen enjoy comparing their thick meaty cocks to my shrivelled up specimen which just makes them even hornier.

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By *ollyMan
1 day ago

Downham market

I haven't got a big cock, just a neat sized one and I prefer meeting men with small cocks, so much easier to receive anal from. Cock size isn't important to me, I like a nice bum and a sweet nature, in fact a nice man saying nice things to me is a massive turn x

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By *iExCuckMan
1 day ago

Lowestoft

Cock size has been a subject since the beginning of time lol. He with the biggest gets to set the rules lol.

Mine, on the cock scale, is considered a micro penis being less than 3" fully hard. Growing up I was always teased about it while in communal showers after swimming. That I could handle but my major problem was when anyone looked at it, I immediately got a hardon and could not prevent it happening. Always got plenty of silly comments and laughs.

When I first started with man on man sex and continuing to now, it was immediately assumed I was a full on Bottom. I suppose some of us are simply built for taking and useless for giving.

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By *ldderMan
1 day ago

Oxford and Sevenoaks

Nothing wrong with him

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By *orkshireBarebackMan
1 day ago

Bradford

I had a lovely big thick cock, but unfortunately, it “was a grower not a shower”.

Now, because of my weight, I suffer from ED.

So now I’ve a fat bloke with a small cock. I’ve only recently posted pictures of me naked on here

Recently started buying toys to make my own fun and planning on picking up a fuck machine.

Life’s what you make it and fuck what other people think….

(PS, I’m also ginger )

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