FabGuys.com forum: Married men finding time to meet men?!

By *uietshybi OP Man
3 days ago

Bolton

Hey guys, just want to hear your experiences on how you find time to get away from family and everyday life to have fun with other men.

My life depicts almost no ‘me’ time. So find it so difficult to meet guys.

I just wish I could arrange a meet to feel free for and hour.

Would love to hear your excuses etc. x

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By *hippy507Man
3 days ago

CHELMSFORD

It’s difficult to,I use that need to look at jobs etc

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By *Fun123Man
3 days ago

Saugeen Shored

In my experience women are super tuned to our habits and routines. Anything outside those patterns create suspicion. Need to be able to make the time in our normal routine outside of home whether it’s hobby time, mate time or work time. Don’t upset the normal pattern.

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By *rystal2000TV/TS
3 days ago

Truro

It’s very difficult to meet up with someone when the wife doesn’t work to disappear all of a sudden she would get very suspicious

Sometimes go to visit a friend then on the way back meet up with someone so I can be fucked also love dressing up as a slut

So getting dressed up and meeting someone is very difficult

Would love to meet up with someone that l like they

same,sort of things as me and became friends so it could be regular as it would be a friend that I would meet, then there would be no suspicions

Would love to meet up with a lady boy oh someone that looked very sexy slim and gorgeous with a nice bigcock

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By *estbudMan
3 days ago

Birmingham

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By *ornyforcockXXXMan
3 days ago

Morecambe

Pricing up work is best for Me

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By *estbudMan
3 days ago

Birmingham

"In my experience women are super tuned to our habits and routines. Anything outside those patterns create suspicion. Need to be able to make the time in our normal routine outside of home whether it’s hobby time, mate time or work time. Don’t upset the normal pattern. "

I agree with this one do try and fit things in your normal routine or start the gym to create a realistic new routine.

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By *e456Man
3 days ago

Derby

It’s very difficult. Only time is during the day but does take a little planning x

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By *andy biMan
3 days ago

Greenford

Often use visiting clients but that is difficult nowadays as it’s not my usual routine at work

She is very suspicious about me meeting other women

My girlfriend knows I like cock so this makes it even more complicated as she is suspicious of me meeting guys and girls

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By *amsoonMan
3 days ago

stornoway

My wife stays Fridays with her lover so no problem meeting other men. She knows I enjoy sex with other men and encourages me to meet

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By *dol1Man
3 days ago

North Wexford

Can be very difficult to organise a meet without raising suspicion and this can lead to guys thinking you're a time waster. It's very frustrating

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By *ssexandyMan
3 days ago

Grays

I tend to only be able to meet daytimes when I an meant to be at work or evenings when I 'go out for a drink with the guys at work'

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By *heffbagMan
3 days ago

Rotherham

Work alone so advantageous to meet there but careful of who

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By *excessMan
3 days ago

Sleaford

I play golf so that gives me opportunity.

Recently Ive been meeting a local guy early mornings 5.30ish and that suits me.

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By *tandbymeMan
3 days ago

mitcham

Why get married to a woman if you want cock. Disgusting. Think of what you doing to the poor woman. You should be exposed to FA mail y and friends.

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By *tandbymeMan
3 days ago

mitcham

Why get married to a woman if you want cock. Disgusting. Think of what you doing to the poor woman. You should be exposed to FA mail y and friends.

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By *anDadBodMan
3 days ago

Speke

"Why get married to a woman if you want cock. Disgusting. Think of what you doing to the poor woman. You should be exposed to FA mail y and friends. "

and here speaks the voice of reason 👍🏻😃😂

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By *evanianMan
3 days ago

Tegeingl, Gogledd Cymru

"Why get married to a woman if you want cock. Disgusting. Think of what you doing to the poor woman. You should be exposed to FA mail y and friends. "

Wow man!! A massive weight of pent-up vitriolic anger is evident there, seasoned with a complete lack of understanding!

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By *excessMan
3 days ago

Sleaford

"Why get married to a woman if you want cock. Disgusting. Think of what you doing to the poor woman. You should be exposed to FA mail y and friends.

Wow man!! A massive weight of pent-up vitriolic anger is evident there, seasoned with a complete lack of understanding!

Best policy for guys like this is to not give them a platform bud.

I read stuff on fab that I don't agree with but I'm not going to post about it.

I'm a flawed individual myself, with the self awareness to know it.

I'm not going to be a hypocrite.

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By *Aguy2022Man
3 days ago

Littlehampton

I have used everything from meeting an old friend, to playing golf, to going out with work colleagues, even someone is stranded somewhere and they have no way to get home, so they asked if I can get them. Reading them back it is amazing how I used to get away with it.

These days I am more open with her, so makes my life a lot easier.

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By *ndrew40Man
3 days ago

hartlebury

We have an open marriage and wife has two lovers so I get the time to meet guys which she loves

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By *eghardMan
3 days ago

Maidenhead

I work for myself so not a problem for very occasionally carefully selected meets.

The problem is finding someone safe with the right criteria.

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By *ardy62Man
3 days ago

Weymouth

I'm semi retired, wife still full time

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By *iDady50Man
3 days ago

Bridgwater

I told my wife a year ago after keeping it secret for 35 years, I really thought I would lose my life and family and home but I never did.

Instead she tried her best to undetstand and a year later she dealing with the lies and hurt of me not telling her and she said why did I not just tell her I like sex with guys instead of lieing. The act of what I do with another guy does not bother her at all but it's the honesty of not being told.

I now can have occasional meets and I choose when and just say to her I'm off for a few hours.

Glad I'm not lieing any more the stress what not great.

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By *arriedbiMan
3 days ago

Aldershot

I did try meet Saturdays as my pub time so she wouldn't get suspicious X now daughter comes pub now so got even harder

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By *erfieMan
3 days ago

mansfield woodhouse

I volunteer with a forces charity which entails going places on my own meetings visit etc occasionally that’s my go to excuse

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By *hs12Man
3 days ago

huntingdon nr

I've taken up birdwatching.. get me out of thr house. X

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By *hiteSportsSocksMan
3 days ago

Portmarnock/Malahide

My problem I have is the app for my car as it tracks where I am!!

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By *ockfun1970Man
3 days ago

North west

I look for fun when wife is at work.

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By *umdumpster2Man
3 days ago

Maidenhead

when I was 20 and frequented the cottages it was full of married men who needed a blowjob

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By *enardeMan
3 days ago

Barnsley

So true they notice everything!!!

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By *enardeMan
3 days ago

Barnsley

"Why get married to a woman if you want cock. Disgusting. Think of what you doing to the poor woman. You should be exposed to FA mail y and friends. "

And up pops the troll

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By *herover0512Man
3 days ago

Southampton

I have only short windows of time when im working from home to meet. Added to that i have aring doorbel which is also connected to her phone so it extra hard.

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By *errifemmeTV/TS
3 days ago

Lincoln

I visit my elderly mother roughly every 8 weeks, and I'm usually away from home for a week.

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By *otsure03Man
3 days ago

witney

This is my biggest problem finding the right time to meet

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By *bbillMan
3 days ago

Aberdeen

Usually on way home from work or if she has a night out

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By *llyxxxMan
3 days ago

york

You need a hobby golf seems like a really good excuse to meet guys

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By *o horny 400Man
3 days ago

hale

That’s the difficult bit getting out

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By *ilky1961Man
3 days ago

Alnwick

I meet a local to me bloke , I walk a lot regularly so I'm not drawing suspicion and meet at his on route lol

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By *ustOneBearMan
3 days ago

Neath

I used to meet married men while their wives went shopping. Early Saturday morning. They had time to drop round have a passionate kiss, get fucked or fuck me. Then back to pick the missus up. They would text me saying my cum felt great in their arse. Or ask how theirs felt in mine.

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By *h60Man
3 days ago

Thurso

"Why get married to a woman if you want cock. Disgusting. Think of what you doing to the poor woman. You should be exposed to FA mail y and friends.

Wow man!! A massive weight of pent-up vitriolic anger is evident there, seasoned with a complete lack of understanding!

Best policy for guys like this is to not give them a platform bud.

I read stuff on fab that I don't agree with but I'm not going to post about it.

I'm a flawed individual myself, with the self awareness to know it.

I'm not going to be a hypocrite."
well said

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By *ustOneBearMan
3 days ago

Neath

"I told my wife a year ago after keeping it secret for 35 years, I really thought I would lose my life and family and home but I never did.

I now can have occasional meets and I choose when and just say to her I'm off for a few hours.

Glad I'm not lieing any more the stress what not great. "

That was very brave. It’s a lot to lose but I hope your relationship is stronger for it.

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By *oannacd70TV/TS
3 days ago

worcester

Just say in night out with work colleagues

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By *iguy73Man
3 days ago

Oldham

"Can be very difficult to organise a meet without raising suspicion and this can lead to guys thinking you're a time waster. It's very frustrating "
I agree, I can only meet Saturday day time when most guys that's there time they spend with thier family

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By *oose1Man
3 days ago

doncaster

I’m semi retired and do landscape gardening so can say I’m working or probing jobs up

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By *antasistMan
3 days ago

Nowhere

I have a semi regular guy who tells her he’s working overtime. Apparently she doesn’t bat an eyelid

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By *IPMANMan
3 days ago

LONDON

Ever considered divorce ?

Problem solved.

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By *onamebiguy99Man
3 days ago

Buxton

Pretty much the very same here, the odd time i am free i struggle to find somone else who is also free, have bern chatting for somone for a long while though in same situation and really hoping our time line clicks together at some point!

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By *ake 99Man
3 days ago

Corby

I’m a self employed painter decorater so fit my meets around my work usually after work

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By *annyT1966Man
3 days ago

Durham

I meet on my way hone from work. I tell Mrs that I'm working late, meeting etc.

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By *ichey6Man
3 days ago

aberdeen

Deception for the sake of orgasms: it's a facet of married life that clearly exists yet an individual marriage has it's own nuances.

Those of us who are single should approach judgement with caution as every single one of is indeed flawed.

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By *errifemmeTV/TS
3 days ago

Lincoln

Further to my earlier post, an invitation to help with his model railway is another good excuse.

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By *b72Man
3 days ago

Moray

I only tend to meet when the wife is away for the night or on holiday so unfortunately meets are very few. I just have to make the most of it when I get the opportunity

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By *amie1402Man
3 days ago

Merseyside

TAKE UP GOLF !!

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By *IPMANMan
3 days ago

LONDON

I can only assume that a lot of women decide "what's good for the goose is good for the gander" or vice versa

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By *aturebarneyMan
3 days ago

Sale

I can meet when wife is out.

Usually weekday mornings.

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By *ro4hoesMan
3 days ago

Newport

I stay in a lot of hotels for work, I get to keep things totally discreet that way.

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By *ankatallcostsMan
3 days ago

Solihull

Before my wife retired, it was easy because I used to have lots of spare days between my shifts. However, now she's retired (and I have too) it's more and more difficult to arrange anything.

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By *jh59Man
3 days ago

Hinckley

Quite easy as only work three days a week

She works five days

Plenty time for meets

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By *ichtea284Man
3 days ago

Beccles

"Before my wife retired, it was easy because I used to have lots of spare days between my shifts. However, now she's retired (and I have too) it's more and more difficult to arrange anything. "

I'm in the same situation now she has retired

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By *lumb30Man
3 days ago

Warrington

My only chance currently would be sneaking off during a night out. Any other time would create too much suspicion.

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By *raham999Man
3 days ago

OX11

Meets have to planned, I'm just understanding that I cannot always be available.

Just have a select few who are also married.

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By *ickwayverMan
3 days ago

Sheen Putney

I'm retired and the wife works as a carer. I can meet weekday afternoons but can't accommodate. Wife will pop home unexpectedly between clients.

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By *ovetoedgeMan
3 days ago

Dunstable

I'm lucky really, always been self employed so able to meet for couple of hours most days. Also take the opportunity to visit saunas etc when I'm out and about.

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By *awihMan
3 days ago

Aldershot

"Hey guys, just want to hear your experiences on how you find time to get away from family and everyday life to have fun with other men.

My life depicts almost no ‘me’ time. So find it so difficult to meet guys.

I just wish I could arrange a meet to feel free for and hour.

Would love to hear your excuses etc. x"

While I am gay, back in the days when I was a lot younger, many of the men you met cottaging were bi - it was quite simple for them to “just nip in”. Not so sure about now as most have been closed 🤨

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By *shubMan
3 days ago

manningtree

It's always difficult to get away so have to relish the moments when I can. Normally motorbike ride related !

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By *aduros 2023Man
3 days ago

Chelmsford

Try to plan it when she’s out anyway. Failing that, never really take the risk for a bit of cock. I have booked random days off in the past and met with men. Can’t do that too often though.

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By *erasusMan
3 days ago

Glasgow

"Before my wife retired, it was easy because I used to have lots of spare days between my shifts. However, now she's retired (and I have too) it's more and more difficult to arrange anything.

I'm in the same situation now she has retired"

Agree 100% with this ☝🏻

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By *aul1956Man
3 days ago

bristol

I have actually managed to arrange a visit to Togg this Friday having attempted in numerous occasions only to have something spoil my plans, however this time I have most eventuality’s covered, I hope !! Looking forward to driving there dressed as a slut and even more getting introduced to regulars, hopefully, I have a window from 4 - 7 so surly I should get some lol !!

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By *uccaneer01Man
3 days ago

Elgin

Since my wife retired ot has become very difficult for me to meet. The majority of my meets now are in the local woods when I'm taking my dog fo a walk. Thank goodness he can't talk!!

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By *exborough Bi-GuyMan
3 days ago

Mexborough

"Hey guys, just want to hear your experiences on how you find time to get away from family and everyday life to have fun with other men.

My life depicts almost no ‘me’ time. So find it so difficult to meet guys.

I just wish I could arrange a meet to feel free for and hour.

Would love to hear your excuses etc. x"

At those times when I'm not working during the week, some guys visit me for a quickie on their way to work or on their way home.

Other guys visit me during the daytime when their partner is at work or as they're passing through Mexborough.

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By *has2Man
3 days ago

Chaddesden, Derby

It's pretty difficult, to say the least. My wife has now given up her voluntary job so at home. Make it v difficult!

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By *at1_4uMan
3 days ago

Bristol

I used to have Friday to myself but daughter finished college for summer so no freedom.

If I did have time it would a short notice meet.

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By *westMan
3 days ago

Hull

I work from but I still don't have a huge amount of time to meet.

If she left me I'd have more cock.

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By *shubMan
3 days ago

manningtree

Maybe it's just as well I don't have much opportunity to meet, I'd be such a whore for older man cock otherwise !

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By *rLipMan
3 days ago

Wrexham

As a single gay guy who had a job, his own place and can travel, I find it amusing how married men expect you to change your routine for them. I have has guys ask me not to go to work, leave the party early and forget family event just to satisfy their need.

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By *shubMan
3 days ago

manningtree

"As a single gay guy who had a job, his own place and can travel, I find it amusing how married men expect you to change your routine for them. I have has guys ask me not to go to work, leave the party early and forget family event just to satisfy their need. "
Thats just selfish men, not all of them are married. Always has to work for both !

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By *ckermanMan
3 days ago

newport

These days its really difficult its true. A few years ago things were a bit different, i once went and met a friend from 'camera club' for a weekend meet, had to stop off after and take some pictures to have something on the camera. I took a spare memory card for the photos of me!

I've also gone to work when i've taken a days leave but these days my leave is all family allocated on a spreadsheet so that ones out...

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By *im le2Man
1 day ago

aylestone leic

Saturday and Sundays watching the football on tv at mates three hours

Finish work early on a Friday two hours.

Going gym you can miss one session plus if you go home all sweaty she will think you had a good workout

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By *im le2Man
1 day ago

aylestone leic

You should know your wives plans.

How long is she at the hairdressers.

Shopping for a new dress.

Get your wife to go hairdressers with your mates wife. They will both be out the house for at least two hours. And your not doing anything out of the ordinary.

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By *eejames99Man
1 day ago

eastleigh

Very difficult a lot of single guys don't understand

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By *uffolkman22Man
1 day ago

lavenham

Get a time consuming hobby ,fishing ,cards ,darts etc I did 👍

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By *lastactionheroMan
1 day ago

Liverpool

I works shifts so can some times meet early before my shift starts

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By *ovefemMan
1 day ago

Alfreton

Allotment with a nice cosy shed is ideal.

Therapeutic and exciting

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By *ennybabyMan
1 day ago

bishop’s Stortford

It’s hard to meet, but it’s possible with notice x

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By *entoverMan
1 day ago

Bounds Green

Luckily I can host daytime when wife goes into office. For evening meets usual excuse is attending a gig but don't do that often. Weekends usually a no no.

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By *ike1921Man
1 day ago

Epsom

Very difficult to meet other guys and I really love playing with horny men

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By *om Tom ABC99Man
1 day ago

Currently in Murcia area, Spain.

Not always easy but sometimes an opportunity arises.

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By *ammy57Man
1 day ago

Stevenage

I clean and doo odd jobs, but that's rare. I'd loof some photo pals or golf buddies.

A shared interest is essential if meeting isn't going to cause difficulties.

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By *punklover_69Man
1 day ago

St. John's, Worcester.

I am retired and everyone else in the house works. Any man can pop in any time and fucky mouth. Married guys are especially welcome.

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By *punklover_69Man
1 day ago

St. John's, Worcester.

I am retired and everyone else in the house works. Any man can pop in any time and fuck my mouth. Married guys are especially welcome.

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By *oxvMan
1 day ago

Basingstoke

It's really difficult. Those who travel for work have more opportunity to squeeze a little time to play. For others, I think the answer might be to establish a routine that allows you to pop out: gym, golf, etc. Then you can be 3 times there for every once at play.

As others have said, it's hard and makes planning and arranging difficult.

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By *annyDanielleMan
1 day ago

Street, Somerset

"It's really difficult. Those who travel for work have more opportunity to squeeze a little time to play. For others, I think the answer might be to establish a routine that allows you to pop out: gym, golf, etc. Then you can be 3 times there for every once at play.

As others have said, it's hard and makes planning and arranging difficult.

Absolutely. Try taking up a hobby,join a club or sports. Cycling and fishing are ideal, anything that gives you an excuse to be away from the house on your own.

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By *ranford cruiserTV/TS
1 day ago

Heathrow

Take up running she wouldn't have a clue what you're doing

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
1 day ago

Motherwell

Nearly all of the married guys I see, have outside hobbies or are working away from home etc .. Of the total messages I get per week I would say 80% will never happen,but they try to make it happen and they just don't accommodate or cannot get away from their usual life, so it will never be possible.Mx

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By *ranford cruiserTV/TS
1 day ago

Heathrow

With running not really any cost involved like with fishing you got get the bait hooks weight rod's and a fishing licence that can work out expensive

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By *usicmanxxxMan
1 day ago

skem

I try not to make arrangements in advance

As women have a 6th sense and put a spanner in the works

So it’s hard for me to meet

When I can I meet

That’s a fate in its self

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By *IPMANMan
20 hours ago

LONDON

So it's reasonably safe to say that bisexual, happily married, bicurious men will lie through their teeth to anyone to get sex ?

And they call me queer !

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By *ig3Man
20 hours ago

Maldon

Stuck in traffic

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By *exborough Bi-GuyMan
20 hours ago

Mexborough

I'd estimate that 80% of my guests are married guys. I'm in a position where I can accommodate, so at those times when I'm not working and am not busy, they can pop in for a quickie on their way to or from work.

Of the three that visited yesterday two were regulars and one was a guy I hadn't played with before.

The first guy popped in on his way to do food shopping, she second guy popped in after dropping his daughter off at a friend's house and the third guy came round on the pretence of watching the England v West Indies cricket with a mate.

The beauty of that was that I WAS watching the cricket. So had his missus called him it was on in the background.

I often have guys over when there's a football match on too as that's a ready excuse as well.

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By *iguyexeMan
20 hours ago

pinhoe

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By *iguyexeMan
20 hours ago

pinhoe

"I'd estimate that 80% of my guests are married guys. I'm in a position where I can accommodate, so at those times when I'm not working and am not busy, they can pop in for a quickie on their way to or from work.

Of the three that visited yesterday two were regulars and one was a guy I hadn't played with before.

The beauty of that was that I WAS watching the cricket. So had his missus called him it was on in the background.

I often have guys over when there's a football match on too as that's a ready excuse as well.

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wow three in a day

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By *exborough Bi-GuyMan
20 hours ago

Mexborough

wow three in a day"

Yes, but you've got to bare in mind that the majority of my guests are regulars. They know what to expect and they trust my discretion.

Basically what happens is they WhattsApp me with a message like, "Are you busy now?" or "this evening" etc. Or maybe, "How are things set for 07:30AM?"

Depending on the guy, I'll have an idea of what they're asking so if I can't play I'll reply, "Really pushed at the minute" or "Backed up to the eyeballs mate".

If I can play however I'll answer with something like "All good here" or "07:30 is all clear".

That lets them know that I'll leave the side door open and they can just come straight in.

And of course, the beauty with having regulars is that not only do I know what I'm getting, they also very rarely let me down

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By *tripmepleaseMan
19 hours ago

out and about

I am a handyman withspare time

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By *ickseyMan
17 hours ago

march

The find my phone feature pretty much makes it impossible for me.

It’s a real pisser as I’ve never met a guy and looks highly unlikely I will ever get opportunity.

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By *azaMan
17 hours ago

Walsall

I managed to get away for an hour when I go off shopping so straight to the local hot spots for a quick blow job I am going to take up fishing again

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By *exy PoofMan
17 hours ago

Langland Road, Mumbles, Swansea. SA3 4ND

"Hey guys, just want to hear your experiences on how you find time to get away from family and everyday life to have fun with other men.

My life depicts almost no ‘me’ time. So find it so difficult to meet guys.

I just wish I could arrange a meet to feel free for and hour.

Would love to hear your excuses etc. x"

Easy solution. Leave your wife and stop betraying her

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By *amie1402Man
8 hours ago

Merseyside

Just had a guy wanting to meet at 5.00am when he comes off his night shift !!

Told him to get real.

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By *amie1402Man
8 hours ago

Merseyside

"Hey guys, just want to hear your experiences on how you find time to get away from family and everyday life to have fun with other men.

My life depicts almost no ‘me’ time. So find it so difficult to meet guys.

I just wish I could arrange a meet to feel free for and hour.

Would love to hear your excuses etc. x

Easy solution. Leave your wife and stop betraying her"

How censorious and moralistic.

The religious police have arrived.

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By *treyu500Man
7 hours ago

Australia

"Why get married to a woman if you want cock. Disgusting. Think of what you doing to the poor woman. You should be exposed to FA mail y and friends. "

Don't be a prick and mind your own business and perhaps pay attention to your own "perfect" relationships.

It's not our place to judge and speaking from experience, it's the threats and judgemental bs like you said above that prevent people from "coming out" or speaking to their partner about sexuality, open relationships etc (if that's actually what they want).

The only disgusting thing here is your lack of understanding. It's men's mental month and then pricks like you go out of your way to make others feel bad. Crawl back under the rock please

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By *orobi7Man
7 hours ago

loughborough

You need a hobby away from the house. Some group activity like cycling...

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By *asssgeguy100Man
7 hours ago

Blackpool

It’s usually hotel meets for me when I’m away with work or the rare occasion when I’m away on my own

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By *1983Man
7 hours ago

Kidderminster

As someone who is in a long term relationship it is very difficult to arrange anything. I am usually reliant on days where gf is at work and I am on a day off. Even then it is difficult. We don't really go out and are quite introverted. I have started going to the gym again to help me get out of the house a bit more.

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By *ressmesissyTV/TS
7 hours ago

Basingstoke

Just remember they can play the game too, thats why they like to know your every move

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By *inkyasfkMan
7 hours ago

SOUTHPORT

I meet when shes at work, she has a strict work pattern so im good to go, also meet before or after i work , unfortunately these times for me are not good for others so i get very little action on here, but you do what you have to do

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By *ammy57Man
7 hours ago

Stevenage

In fairness a hobby or two probably reduces the need for a lover by itself as well as providing a chance to meet one.

Other than the gym and passive watching sports, it's amazing how many guys over forty just don't have any other interests that take them out of the house or have a social element.

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By *imon_hydeMan
6 hours ago

Stockport

It's difficult, finding time and someone who can accommodate. But generally worth it ')

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By *eterfunMan
5 hours ago

Axminster

Time for me is very limited the only time I get is in my campervan on my work lunch breaks would love more fun time

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By *ubguyinbriefsMan
5 hours ago

Dublin

After work best for me, handy if they are on my route home

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By *arriedbi99Man
5 hours ago

near you

Yes find it very difficult to get away. My wife works at home mostly as well

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By *reambunMan
5 hours ago

Bristol/Bath

I have a 1960s British classic that needs a bit of work to get it back on the road, it's not a rust bucket. I am just not focused to start and finish the work would love to find someone in the Bristol Bath area who can help keep me keep focused or encourage Mr. Happy to discuss any suggestions possible arrangements please private message me.

This is a serious offer

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By *iggreenockMan
5 hours ago

Greenock

I have the same problem. So difficult to get time for meets. Excuses are often the way guys I've known have gotten caught. I mostly have to just meet when she's away somewhere (that's not often) but have used time owed in lieu to leave work early and meet.

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By *atinJorgyMan
2 hours ago

hereford

This is a serious offer

Shame you’re not closer!

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By *en22Man
2 hours ago

renfrew

"I work from but I still don't have a huge amount of time to meet.

If she left me I'd have more cock."

You could leave her?

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By *owzerMan
2 hours ago

Chester.....

If fabguys were to close, would you miss it?

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By *ndyfy7Man
2 hours ago

Fleetwood

I’ve always gone out, to see friends, play squash and just say I’m going out for a few hours and I’m a masseur for men so have a few men meet me, who are in a relationship or married and are grateful that I can accommodate

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By *os001Man
2 hours ago

Oxford

On the flip side, it can be tricky when married men want to meet daytime but we are working and can't often just bend over for cock.

I've got a guy wanting to meet at the moment but just because I'm at home, doesn't mean I can be available ASAP, not really into putting on cam shows for colleagues when on a teams meeting!

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By *evonbear89Man
44 minutes ago

exeter

Ive had fun when at work mmmmmmm

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By *exborough Bi-GuyMan
32 minutes ago

Mexborough

"Just had a guy wanting to meet at 5.00am when he comes off his night shift !!

Told him to get real. "

Yes,I get that all the time, even when I've told them no earlier than 7AM!

When that happens I suggest that they visit me after work instead. It's funny how few of them take up the offer, which strikes me as being a bit picky to be frank.

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