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"You and he must agree a safe sign, signal and word. Any play involving restricted breathing always has associated risks. Take care." He has suggested that but also said once the safe word is used we stop and I leave | |||
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"Nothing risky there it’s if he grips your throat you need to be careful " Especially being pinned down on the floor | |||
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"Talking to a very dom guy and rather than just phone fun now wants to meet. He has a very particular thing he wants to do. Go to bathroom and change into heels, stockings, suspenders, thong and corset. I am then to lie face down in the hallway so he can straddle me and securely tighten the corset as tight as he can get it. He wants to restrict my breathing and pull my waist in as small as possible. Got a feeling he will be naked when he straddles me! Should I just do it or do you think it’s to risky? " I’d say if it is someone you have don’t know and have never met in person before it is very risky. If it was someone you had known for years and trusted then maybe - although there are still risks because of restricted breathing. | |||
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"You and he must agree a safe sign, signal and word. Any play involving restricted breathing always has associated risks. Take care. He has suggested that but also said once the safe word is used we stop and I leave" Trust me darling. If you get to safeword territory in that scenario, you will want to leave! | |||
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"You and he must agree a safe sign, signal and word. Any play involving restricted breathing always has associated risks. Take care. He has suggested that but also said once the safe word is used we stop and I leave Absolutely right Bianca! I'd also suggest that he and you use the traffic light system. He should occasionally ask you fora cold Ur. If you say green, all is good. If you say amber, that tells him you're getting close to your limit. If you say red, he has to stop. Don't wait for him to ask for a colour if you're on amber or red though. Make sure he knows which colour you're on. Stay safe. Trust me darling. If you get to safeword territory in that scenario, you will want to leave!" | |||
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"I think the big problem is trust. You can agree a “safe word” BUT if you don’t know the person can you TRUST them to stop?" I agree. Fine if it's someone you've met in person before and have some level of in-person rapport and trust. But, personally, I would never take this level of risk on a first meet. If you do decide to go ahead, them make sure someone knows the address you're at and when to expect to hear from you and who you're meeting (screenshot their face pic and send to your friend). | |||
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"You and he must agree a safe sign, signal and word. Any play involving restricted breathing always has associated risks. Take care. He has suggested that but also said once the safe word is used we stop and I leave Trust me darling. If you get to safeword territory in that scenario, you will want to leave!" Thank you for your advice xxx | |||
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