This post is aimed primarily at those guys who like to be handled roughly during sex, particularly those with lots of experience.
For those of us who get off on the excitement of rough sex, we all have different levels and points at which we find ourselves in that 'Yessss!!' moment.
As I've got older, and as my boundaries have become more expansive, I've found it increasingly difficult to find playmates who will engage in rough play at the level that gets me to that 'hyper excited' state.
I'd be interested from hearing not only about your experiences of finding suitable partners, but also whether you Dom's have struggled to find subs who will engage in the level of play that gets you off.