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"Not something I've done, but I'm intrigued to know what those who do do it get from it. What's the attraction?" For me, it's submission. You can have repeated sex and get ever-so-close to an orgasm but never quite get there. It's an intense feeling. I'm in permanent chastity as my partner likes it. | |||
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"Not something I've done, but I'm intrigued to know what those who do do it get from it. What's the attraction?" It’s just a completely different life for me, and mentally a far richer one, than the one i had when i was having regular orgasms. i used to have extreme mood swings, and while the highs were great they were also very brief, and then i’d come crashing down. It felt like being on an emotional roller coaster. When i was with someone i never felt i was giving them my best, as i always felt distracted from focusing on their needs. Chastity keeps me in a far more stable emotional state. My imagination is always working, creating fantasies prompted by my everyday experiences. But they are well controlled, and they stay inside my head. When i am with someone i am aware that there will be no relief for me, so i am not distracted, and i can be entirely focused on serving to satisfy their needs to the exclusion of everything else. Giving pleasure by using my skills and performing at my best brings its own feeling of contentment. When i have achieved that i can go away happy, knowing i have served my purpose. It's something that many simply don't understand, but that's fine. i don't really need them to. It's enough for me and the person i serve, and that's all that matters. | |||
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" Is it the done thing for a guy to wear a cage and a collar for example or would I be shunned?" i have done both, and without any issues. Nobody who goes into a sauna has any right to shame anyone else on the basis of their preferences, provided they do no harm. Perhaps "shunning" is putting it too strongly: people do have their preferences, and some just aren't happy with an encounter where someone does not want to have his cock played with. Wearing a cage and collar is a very clear statement of your preferences, and such people will simply move on. On the other hand, others welcome an opportunity to be served without feeling they have any responsibility to reciprocate. They just want a willing cocksucker to serve their needs, and that is exactly what i offer. | |||
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"Both of the above posters state it much better than I did. Essentially it's a mental space where we feel most fulfilled. I am thinking of visiting my local sauna when it reopens, but I've no idea of the etiquette. Is it the done thing for a guy to wear a cage and a collar for example or would I be shunned?" I’ve worn mine a few times at Luton Greenhouse, albeit on the ‘Twisted’ day where anything goes. As everything some will be ok, some live it, some not be interested Go with what makes you happy | |||
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"I've been in chastity for over 10 years and the cages have gotten smaller over that time. It builds up the feeling of excitement and enjoyment of providing the pleasure whilst being denied at the same time " I will certainly be trying a smaller cage sometime. My current one is quite comfortable and snug (unless I am a naughty girl and get excited). Maybe aim for one of those totally flat ones but I don't think it would be for long term wear. | |||
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"I've been in chastity for over 10 years and the cages have gotten smaller over that time. It builds up the feeling of excitement and enjoyment of providing the pleasure whilst being denied at the same time I will certainly be trying a smaller cage sometime. My current one is quite comfortable and snug (unless I am a naughty girl and get excited). Maybe aim for one of those totally flat ones but I don't think it would be for long term wear." I have a flat one to try on sometime | |||
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"I've been in chastity for over 10 years and the cages have gotten smaller over that time. It builds up the feeling of excitement and enjoyment of providing the pleasure whilst being denied at the same time I will certainly be trying a smaller cage sometime. My current one is quite comfortable and snug (unless I am a naughty girl and get excited). Maybe aim for one of those totally flat ones but I don't think it would be for long term wear. I have a flat one to try on sometime" I bet it gives you a nice flat panty line. | |||
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"I've been in chastity for over 10 years and the cages have gotten smaller over that time. It builds up the feeling of excitement and enjoyment of providing the pleasure whilst being denied at the same time I will certainly be trying a smaller cage sometime. My current one is quite comfortable and snug (unless I am a naughty girl and get excited). Maybe aim for one of those totally flat ones but I don't think it would be for long term wear. I have a flat one to try on sometime I bet it gives you a nice flat panty line. " It definitely will do | |||
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