FabGuys.com forum: Partners becoming like brothers.

By *atangbesar OP Couple (MM)
16 hours ago

London

After some years together, I feel that my partner and I are becoming like brothers. We are having less sex together.

But he is having lots of sex with other guys. I don't mind. I like him to enjoy sex with other guys too because it is good and healthy for him.

The question I like to ask is do you all guys with partners feel like brothers after living together for some years and have less sex together. Is this a normal process?

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By *ara JevoTV/TS
16 hours ago

Bristol East

I was with a fella for about 9 years. The sex wore off after a year but we stayed together because we were like best friends. Brothers is a good description too.

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By *espectdueMan
16 hours ago

Stratford-Upon-Avon

Yes its quite normal I think.

My partner likes fit younger guys, which i once was but am no more.

But we still love eachother deeply even if we don't have sex.

I think its rather wonderful to be able to still have love and freedom.

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By *atangbesar OP Couple (MM)
16 hours ago

London

"I was with a fella for about 9 years. The sex wore off after a year but we stayed together because we were like best friends. Brothers is a good description too."

Same here.

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By *atangbesar OP Couple (MM)
15 hours ago

London

"Yes its quite normal I think.

My partner likes fit younger guys, which i once was but am no more.

But we still love eachother deeply even if we don't have sex.

I think its rather wonderful to be able to still have love and freedom. "

My partner still loves me very much so he said even though we are having occasional sex fun with other guys.

But I notice he is more and more actively engaging in sex with other guys. Maybe too horny, lust or middle age crisis?

I don't mind. Love him to enjoy sex with other guys too.

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By *ookingFor...Man
14 hours ago

West Sussex

I've met one half of a few gay couples...seems fairly normal.

They don't unfortunately seem to discuss what they ultimately want with each other and just drift along enjoying the company.

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By *atangbesar OP Couple (MM)
14 hours ago

London

"I've met one half of a few gay couples...seems fairly normal.

They don't unfortunately seem to discuss what they ultimately want with each other and just drift along enjoying the company.

Thank you for replying.

Yes we are living together like brothers now.

But both of us are having sex with other guys separately.

But what I notice is he is becoming very lustful, bought some sex gears and activelly having sex with different guys every week. I think must be middle age crisis. Do you think do?

He said he wants to continue having sex with other guys amd encourage me to do the same

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By *excessMan
11 hours ago

Sleaford

I remember the documentary about the guys who ran CS2 sauna on Notts.

They were getting married I think but one of the guys said they don't have sex as his partner prefers younger guys.

I thought that was quite sad!

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By *ookingFor...Man
11 hours ago

West Sussex

"I've met one half of a few gay couples...seems fairly normal.

They don't unfortunately seem to discuss what they ultimately want with each other and just drift along enjoying the company.

Thank you for replying.

Yes we are living together like brothers now.

But both of us are having sex with other guys separately.

But what I notice is he is becoming very lustful, bought some sex gears and activelly having sex with different guys every week. I think must be middle age crisis. Do you think do?

He said he wants to continue having sex with other guys amd encourage me to do the same"

Do you discuss/have you discussed your sexual likes and dislikes?

Are there things he likes you want no part of?

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