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By *otmyrealname1 OP   Man
over a year ago

South Yorks

When meeting and getting it on. What’s your general feeling once you’ve cum, like the moments after?

Is it a zip up and run or stay about and go again.

I tend to loose interest but don’t want to if you get me. Just wondering if others do too.

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By *upertedMan
over a year ago

Nelson,, Caerphilly

I'm the same but for maybe a different reason. I hold off as long as I can cos once I cum I usually need to close my eyes and sleep!

Lucky to have a few FWBs who love a cuddle afterwards.

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By *avewill1Man
over a year ago

melksham


"When meeting and getting it on. What’s your general feeling once you’ve cum, like the moments after?

Is it a zip up and run or stay about and go again.

I tend to loose interest but don’t want to if you get me. Just wondering if others do too. "

I'm not into guys emotionally. So once I cum. That's it. Happy have beer. No contact after. Just sex

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By *uffolkbiguy69Man
over a year ago

Newmarket

Unless you are advised otherwise if you have cum first I think it is polite to ensure the other guy cums too. And then maybe a chat, and afterwards maybe a second round if time permits?

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By *V ShazTV/TS
over a year ago

Haydock

I like to talk and cuddle

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By *otmyrealname1 OP   Man
over a year ago

South Yorks

Yeah I tend to try and make them cum first cause I know what I’m like. But then they seem to loose interest then haha. I think cause it’s pure sex for me and zero other connection it’s probably that. Who knows.

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

near Southport

It's ignorance if you don't help your partner it partners to cum too.

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

near Southport

I quite often cum and stay hard so sometimes do it all again

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By *ovetoedgeMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

Depends on the scenario, if its been a good mutually satisfying meet, then a drink and chat after is good. Sometimes zip up and go just works.

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By *oose1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

After a guy has cum it’s a feeling of satisfaction in my throat

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By *ayd100Man
over a year ago

bb7


"When meeting and getting it on. What’s your general feeling once you’ve cum, like the moments after?

Is it a zip up and run or stay about and go again.

I tend to loose interest but don’t want to if you get me. Just wondering if others do too. "

Same for me

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By *otmyrealname1 OP   Man
over a year ago

South Yorks

Wonder if it’s a guilt thing with having a partner or is it just in built in us that do it. Probably the latter.

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By *shubMan
over a year ago

manningtree

Always make sure they cum too

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By *airybearbtMan
over a year ago

Barnstaple

It depends really how the mood was

.there has been times where it was after the act bye then. Or there has been times when we have chatted and cuddle and kissed..

Just depends

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By *aid2TV/TS
over a year ago

Swindon

I have a regular who after I cum will spend maybe ten mins really gently sucking me and kissing my cock, balls and ass. He'll slowly rub my legs too, it feels amazing after cumming to have a winding down phase x

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By *rCurious75Man
over a year ago

Ashby de la Zouch

I like enjoying the moment after cumming with the guy. And good cuddle and kiss and wind down, tho last meet he he got me to cum another 2 times.

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By *otmyrealname1 OP   Man
over a year ago

South Yorks


"I like enjoying the moment after cumming with the guy. And good cuddle and kiss and wind down, tho last meet he he got me to cum another 2 times. "

Yeah I think that would be good like.

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By *otmyrealname1 OP   Man
over a year ago

South Yorks


"I have a regular who after I cum will spend maybe ten mins really gently sucking me and kissing my cock, balls and ass. He'll slowly rub my legs too, it feels amazing after cumming to have a winding down phase x "

Sound nice to be a fair

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By *bonybucksMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

I thought it was normal to lose interest but I met a guy a year ago or so who said he didn’t like men as he’s straight, but after he had cum. He still couldn’t keep his hands off my bits whilst I was driving him home.

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By *umquakeMan
over a year ago

Boston

Shake off the excess and wipe it on their curtains, pull up your drawers, slap em on the arse and fuck off.

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By *iblack99Man
over a year ago

London

I tend to wanna zip up and head off once I’ve cum and cleaned myself up.. but I always like to make my partner at the time cum first. Maybe a snog and cuddle as we lay with spunk on ourselves for a moment is pretty hot

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By *astDevonGuyMan
over a year ago

Seaton

I m always up for after , pre the next time play . But a lot of guys just wanna be off. They tend to be the ones who don’t get an invite back ….

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By *ustinaTV/TS
over a year ago

cardiff

I had over 2 hours of wonderfully sensual sex with my boyfriend yesterday. He cum first after which we spent a good half an hour entwined in each other's arms cuddling. When I finally cum we indulged in more kissing and cuddling before we finally got dressed. Probably because I have an emotional attachment to him I don't feel the need to disappear as soon as I've cum.

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By *achel63TV/TS
over a year ago

Hailsham

Its always nice to get my partner to cum first and enjoy my cum latter then just cuddle kiss and chat and pull up my knickers and make a cup of tea or coffee then hope we can relax and do it again. Did it with a lovely man in Folkstone arrived at 8am left at 4pm we both came 3 times very satisfying.

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By *otmyrealname1 OP   Man
over a year ago

South Yorks

What’s looking interesting is that the more mature, possibly in more ways than just age, seem to want more than a wham bam done and generally the opposite from the let’s just say younger. Obviously this isn’t absolute. Oh and by the way for those thinking it’s just me cumming and going without making sure the partner does to, that’s not what I meant.

I mean it’s just as soon as I’ve/we’ve cum it’s like, is there a need or want to stay around. For me not so much.

Equally I’ve noticed it in others I’ve met. When fucking them if they cum it’s like they go to a no “stop I’m done now” state.

Interesting really.

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By *asyman321Man
over a year ago

north east

Leaving immediately you’ve cum is a bit cold, I like to cuddle kiss and maybe a chat

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By *arriedbiMan
over a year ago

Aldershot

Go for cig n then see what happens or sometime I just dress X thanks compliments n leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d always make sure the other person cums too. Wouldn’t feel right not to

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By *asssgeguy100Man
over a year ago

isle of man

Depends on the guy. If I’m into him and still horny after shooting I’ll go again and again. Although I lasts make sure I make the other guy shoot before I leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s looking interesting is that the more mature, possibly in more ways than just age, seem to want more than a wham bam done and generally the opposite from the let’s just say younger. "

My toyboy must be the exception to that rule.

His ability to recharge and stay hard is out of this world.

I knew his sex drive was phenomenal, and one night I made a mental note.

7 times he came inside me before we fell asleep, and 8 times he did the same again when we woke up.

I've never known sex like it. He loves admiring his cream pies, too.

I asked him where he learned to fuck like that (he's not into a lot of foreplay, just constant fucking and cumming, which is perfect).

He told me he'd not had a lot of sex before he met me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After he fucked me and spunked up, he sucked and have me a wank. Then we kiss, cuddle and chat. Sometimes we have sex again especially if hus partner is around.

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By *umlover71Man
over a year ago

Lowestoft

When I was much younger and first on my ‘Bisexual’ journey, I used to want to get the hell out of it once I’d cum.

Looking back on it now that was incredibly selfish.

Now, providing the other guy feels the same, I like to chat, maybe have a cuppa and in some instances, round 2 has happened. 😉

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By *asturbate youMan
over a year ago

WEYBRIDGE

I lose interest afterwards, so always prefer to make the guy cum first and don't mind if I don't, I'll wank when I get home thinking about his cock

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By *otmyrealname1 OP   Man
over a year ago

South Yorks


"What’s looking interesting is that the more mature, possibly in more ways than just age, seem to want more than a wham bam done and generally the opposite from the let’s just say younger.

My toyboy must be the exception to that rule.

His ability to recharge and stay hard is out of this world.

I knew his sex drive was phenomenal, and one night I made a mental note.

7 times he came inside me before we fell asleep, and 8 times he did the same again when we woke up.

I've never known sex like it. He loves admiring his cream pies, too.

I asked him where he learned to fuck like that (he's not into a lot of foreplay, just constant fucking and cumming, which is perfect).

He told me he'd not had a lot of sex before he met me.

"

Sounds mint

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By *lan4ffuunnMan
over a year ago

Genoa Italy and Liverpool

I love to chill naked x

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By *ldderMan
over a year ago

Oxford and Sevenoaks. Lymington spar

After his cum I do my damdest to get him hard again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s looking interesting is that the more mature, possibly in more ways than just age, seem to want more than a wham bam done and generally the opposite from the let’s just say younger.

My toyboy must be the exception to that rule.

His ability to recharge and stay hard is out of this world.

I knew his sex drive was phenomenal, and one night I made a mental note.

7 times he came inside me before we fell asleep, and 8 times he did the same again when we woke up.

I've never known sex like it. He loves admiring his cream pies, too.

I asked him where he learned to fuck like that (he's not into a lot of foreplay, just constant fucking and cumming, which is perfect).

He told me he'd not had a lot of sex before he met me.

Sounds mint "

Oh, he's a dream!

Very occasionally, he might show a little interest in my own genitalia, almost as if he wants to dip his toes in the water, so to speak.

It doesn't put me up nor down, if you'll pardon the pun, cos I'm dripping with pre-cum every time he is fucking me.

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By *afekMan
over a year ago

Bo’ness

It depends who I’m with. It’s a real test of how much I like them. This week I was definitely still interested and spent a lovely time afterwards still being very turned on

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By *owboy1975Man
over a year ago

here

The meets I’ve had, we just pass pleasantries, but I’d like to find someone to have a proper long session with, cum multiple times chat coffee etc

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By *adame BootsTV/TS
over a year ago

Tetbury

Its not over for me when I cum, I may loose interest is some things but if the other person has not cum I will make sure they do.

Happy to be fucked after and can cum again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was quite selfish or more realistically, unaware, when I first started having sex esp with girls. I'd fuck away, she'd make noises, id cum, roll off and fall asleep,I thought that girls get pleasure from sex alone without needing to orgasm but it's so much better if they do. I read a book that said gentlemen ensure their partners cum first. So I put that into practice and it was much appreciated. Plus I got longer to lick, finger and fuck before cumming.

As soon as I cum I lose all interest, even feel a bit depressed and if it's a guy I've just been with I have felt a slight feeling of disgust or guilt. Needless to say this feeling tends to go after a few hours!

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By *ixer62Man
over a year ago

Aycliffe

Depending on the guy I'm with I can usually get hard fairly quickly to go again. Comes in handy in layby's when you fancy a longer visit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem i get i suck a guy off once he's shoot his load he isn't interested in me anymore he usually can't wait to get away from me.

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By *ssexbttm31Man
over a year ago

romford

As a good bottom I will carry on for as long as the top needs, even after cumming myself. I love cumming multiple times

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By *ip71Man
over a year ago

Darlington

Can go like a train, cum & do it all again

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By *ighlands fellaMan
over a year ago

thurso

I lose interest but after a few mins want to go again

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By *itbenMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

If possible I like to cover a few aspects before meeting so a few interests or no no’s have been covered.

I guess this could include, does the other lose interest if cums first which often leaves the other dissatisfied

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By *KBottom25Man
over a year ago

London

What happened to sloppy seconds?

Love a second cum load xx

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By *aking it gayMan
over a year ago

Kirkcaldy

If he’s hit and both had a good time then coffee a chat n start again lol x

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By *aking it gayMan
over a year ago

Kirkcaldy

If he’s hot and both had a good time then coffee a chat n start again lol x

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By *iExCuckMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

I'm not romantically interested in men at all, just the hardcore sex of being bent over and fucked.

I've always had a very small cock and embarrassingly, never had much control over when I get a hardon, so communal showers were an obvious problem for me.

After someone has sucked me off, I do go soft for a short while but soon get fully hard again if there are others wanting more. Not sure why but after cumming I don't loose interest. Many times, I've been sucked off and then bent over for the guy to finish in me.

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By *ildwestheroMan
over a year ago

Llandrindod Wells

Love to carry on kissing, cuddling and making small talk in that rosy afterglow of sex. Hate it when a guy can't wait to get dressed and get out of the door with a shy 'thanks' or 'goodbye'.

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By *ICOCK65Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"Love to carry on kissing, cuddling and making small talk in that rosy afterglow of sex. Hate it when a guy can't wait to get dressed and get out of the door with a shy 'thanks' or 'goodbye'."

This like to take my time

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By *i-n-u-l-guyMan
over a year ago

Newcastle under lyme

Once we have both cum im done, time to leave

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By *orkchopperMan
over a year ago

horsham

I'm a bottom and can cum while getting fucked sometimes, but my butt ring is so sensitive it feels soo good that a don't lose any interest at all. Infact, sometimes im feral after i've cum hands free because I know I can cum again and want it. I've even cum from a good rimming after a fuck and still not lost interest.

However, after being manually wanked, or having a vibrater on my cock to cum, then i can lose interest, which is strange to me.

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By *enfleetEssexMan
over a year ago

Benfleet

For me i'm a cum and go guy, but I make that clear or ask for that before meeting. It'sjust how I am, but the more experience I get the more I am willing to stay and chat lol

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By *veregebottomEdinMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Depends on the meet. Had a couple of meets where as soon as one or both of us have cum its get ready and leave. Others ive quite enjoyed laying cuddled in bed for a chat and ekded up having a 2nd round. Think its more been time dependant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zip up and go.

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By *rontmanMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Been a mix for me, but I can repeat cum so given the right person then the chance to continue with the fun can get very naughty

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By *ros62Man
over a year ago

North west

Kiss, cuddle ,then go again.

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By *hagmenowplsMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I don't mind, especially if there is another guy coming to breed me after or more than one!!!

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By *iggreenockMan
over a year ago

Greenock

Perfectly happy with guys who just want a blow and go. I'm on here to get cock not a relationship. Although I don't mind if I happen to have time and he wants a chat afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Came but stayed after for a coffee and a chat.. which has lead to round two.. esp if both have time.

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By *avewill1Man
over a year ago

melksham


"When meeting and getting it on. What’s your general feeling once you’ve cum, like the moments after?

Is it a zip up and run or stay about and go again.

I tend to loose interest but don’t want to if you get me. Just wondering if others do too. I'm not into guys emotionally. So once I cum. That's it. Happy have beer. No contact after. Just sex"

. As a bottom of course my partners unloaded

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By *uvcok400Man
over a year ago

Caerphilly county

Like bottom to shoot afrer me and rub both cocks together covered in each others seed

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By *orthfieldsnickMan
over a year ago

West London

I quite like it when I’ve cum and he hasn’t, and I need to force myself to carry on after I’ve lost my initial horniness and I have to suck in post nut clarity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a submissive bottom I suck my master until he cums in my mouth and I swallow dutifully. I then keep sucking until he either tells me to stop or simply gets up and walks off, leaving me on my knees awaiting instruction. Once he's done with me, I am dismissed and leave with my balls still full and no relief until I get home and am able to take care of myself. I wouldn't have it any other way as my purpose is to pleasure him.

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By *ickthrobbingMan
over a year ago

Maidenhead


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I tend to loose interest but don’t want to if you get me. "

I am the same, once I've cum my interest wains, it is something I am conscious of and will let guys know before we start.

I am working on it and with the right guys I am comfortable now to carry on butt it is tough to get over the "loss of interest"

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By *irtytrukkaTV/TS
over a year ago

barton

I prefer a man who kisses and cuddles after he's cum and does pull out straight away

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By *r DimpsMan
over a year ago

hull

Oh just keep sucking

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By *orcsmatMan
over a year ago

Kidderminster

If it's from a wank, I consume it.

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By *oel2020Man
over a year ago

brough

Relax cuddle in spunk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite enjoy lying naked afterwards cuddling kissing

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By *eg4youMan
over a year ago

brstol

[Removed by poster at 21/06/25 14:49:09]

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By *eg4youMan
over a year ago

brstol

Depends on who I'm with and or horny I feel, if I was top or bottom. If I'm top and feeling horny I can't be a repeater. Just need 5 minutes, depending on who I'm with.

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By *ard8onMan
over a year ago

Darwen

In the past I would lose interest and leave or ask the guy to leave but more recently I'm ignoring that urge and continuing on. At a recent meet I actually came twice. I'm enjoying my meets much more

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By *oxleyMan
over a year ago

Wetherby

Depends on who came, where and how, but generally a cool down snuggle and cuddle, talk shiiite for 5 mins then shower or freshen, kiss and part company.

Or better still - go for lunch 😎

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By *ausagesMan
over a year ago

carlisle

All for one and one for all - bad manners to shoot spunk first and then bugger off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I’m getting fucked and I cum first I’m more than happy for him to keep going until he cums. If he cums first and doesn’t make me cum I really don’t care. If he’s cum and wants to leaves that’s fine with me. I’m not too interested in cumming to be honest I just like being fucked until cums.

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By *otmyrealname1 OP   Man
over a year ago

South Yorks


"If I’m getting fucked and I cum first I’m more than happy for him to keep going until he cums. If he cums first and doesn’t make me cum I really don’t care. If he’s cum and wants to leaves that’s fine with me. I’m not too interested in cumming to be honest I just like being fucked until cums. "

I’m not gonna lie! That sounds like a perfect meet for me. I do like to hear other peoples views though. You cum then keep doing what’s needed to help me cum. It’s the release for me I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only time I don't think about porn or sex is straight after I've masturbated or had sex

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By *it old manMan
over a year ago

Havant

I like to suck a guy after he has fucked me. Especially if I get him hard again, and he fucks me a second time with his cum still inside me.

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By *bbillMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Cuddle up and deep snogging for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally the sex ends when my top is done, which is usually before me. If it’s my regular guys, I don’t mind a bit smooch and they’ll get me off. But if it’s someone I don’t know so well, I’m more than happy to make like a tree as soon as he’s done

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By *rivate fuck buddyMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

I like to just cuddle and bask in the feeling for a few minutes, usually then i want to go again, i swear i could suck cock all day

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By *im le2Man
over a year ago

aylestone leic

I don't mind a quickie if I know that's what it's going to be . The pub toilets are fine for that.

But if I'm spending over an hour getting ready and you pull out and go don't expect a rematch. What's wrong with showering together then just chatting while cooling down.

What about cuddling or Evan helping me cum.

Tops only think of themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to kiss after or cuddle.. don't just walk away... or go down on them...in vers so like a bit of 2 way fun.

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By *wansmickMan
over a year ago

Belfast

If I'm sucking I love a guy that can cumm a few times at least . I love to just gently keep his cock hard so he can go again.

Some kissing and finger play keeps it hard.

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By *oodtimebiboyMan
over a year ago

Bristol

It depends on who I’m with

I tend to have regular guts I meet. One of them I stay longer, we chat, another I feel asleep until his partner got home and then round 2 or 3 began.

Some are a cum and go, sometimes I don’t cum and after they had release I’ll head off as they go quiet and I understand.

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By *0sKidMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I love a good kissing session afterwards and spooning too

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By *rivate fuck buddyMan
13 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

I try not to cum at meets because I lose interest after, I just want the guys load in my mouth or in the condom so I can swallow it

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By *luteus maxMan
13 weeks ago

North of Havant

It doesn't happen very often but I love it when a guy sucks me and makes me cum, and then he turns me round and starts fucking me. I had a TV do this to me once, and it was fantastic. I loved the kissing afterwards as well.

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By *oe the redMan
13 weeks ago

Clee

I like to cum first then , give the guy a BJ or my ass

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By *eicester-lukeMan
13 weeks ago

leicester

I loose interest after i cum but i dont want to is there any way to get round it

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By *att1210Man
13 weeks ago

blackrock

Im the same super horny and into it when we start. But after blowing happy to go

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By *dstefiMan
13 weeks ago

Solihull


"I loose interest after i cum but i dont want to is there any way to get round it"

Like the guy you're with. Have a cuppa and chat even if you're not necessarily ready to go for another fuck. Does it always have to be just sex and nothing else?

My best meets have have always had this element, after the sex some friendly chat and post-orgasmic wind-down.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Most men who use me normally just get dressed then leave

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By *ubsMan
13 weeks ago

chesterfield

Depends on the person im meeting and if ive got a limited time to meet x

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By *orny Derbyshire guyMan
12 weeks ago

derby

I love to carry on sucking when I have come. I enjoy getting hard again and love it when I can repeat. Depends on who I’m playing with. I always make a guy cum after I have. It’s amazing to get that sexy load!!!

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By *ivahungMan
12 weeks ago

formby

If I cum first I'll be hoping to get hard again or at least get covered in cum

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By *ustOneBearMan
12 weeks ago

Neath

If it’s been agreed it’s a quickie them fine if they cum and go. Sometimes I don’t even get hard I’m just sucking them off.

If we’ve been rolling around the bed sucking and fucking I’ll usually cum first if they’re a flight risk. I like getting fucked after I’ve cum.

I miss a cuddle afterwards though. To find a man who likes that on here is rare.

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By *erscumdumpMan
12 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

If its a quickie its a case of tidy up, get dressed and go. Sometimes fucking like animals is what its about. If its a longer session, stay in until soft, some kissing, bit of a chat, cuppa, maybe some toast...do it again....

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By *am3032TV/TS
12 weeks ago

Sutton in Ashfield

I love a cuddle after X

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By *andwich200Man
12 weeks ago

sandwich

Nice to hug and talk

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By *eneral distanceMan
12 weeks ago

burtonwood

When I was young I just wanted to leave, partly I think when I look back through embarrassment but not now happy to chat n spoon but as I can’t accom a lot of my fun is outside so tends to be zip n go,

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Some will stay behind for a drink and talk to me while some fucked me and go.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Love a chat after the sex is done.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Last meeting.

Guy cums down my throat as I lie on my back.

Calls me lots of sexy names.

Clearly having a good time.

All hot and heavy.

Cums like he's exploding for the first time.

2 seconds later, looks me dead in my eyes as I still lying there,

"well this was a mistake"

Dresses while making small talk and leaves.

Not even the slightest hint of humanity.

Puts me off meeting anyone now.

But after I cum I'd like to cuddle and chat and you know, be a fucking hunan with feelings.

Still has not happened yet.

Probably met around 20 times.

Have been looked after maybe 3 times.

And never after a guy cums.

Meh, it is what it is.

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By *utton wankerMan
12 weeks ago

Huthwaite


"Unless you are advised otherwise if you have cum first I think it is polite to ensure the other guy cums too. And then maybe a chat, and afterwards maybe a second round if time permits?"

Definitely this make sure they cum too always

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By *ull bi for funMan
12 weeks ago

hull

Normally get dressed, idle chit chat, usually about the state of affairs with fab guys or what my/their plans are for the rest of the day. All done within about 5 minutes.

If I have accommodated, I have a look out for any passers by ensuring the coast is clear and see them on their way..... in most cases never to be seen again.

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By *ndy61hMan
12 weeks ago

Plymouth

I'm happy to partake in some kissing and cuddling, have even dropped off to sleep with a person before. It often depends on the other person. I've been in situations when it's been a wham bam thank you man, and off they go. I might be disappointed, but we all have our own ways.

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By *SuckRMan
12 weeks ago

London

Depends on the guy and mood..

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By *ristol_Speedo_guyMan
12 weeks ago

Bristol

I get massive Post Nut Clarity. Loose all interest in guys, remain polite but hope they'll put their pants on and just quietly leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

as long as im caged im fine x

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By *asturbate youMan
12 weeks ago

WEYBRIDGE

I don't mind if I don't cum, so always like to make the guy cum first and if he loses interest afterwards no problem.

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By *tmguylookingMan
12 weeks ago

Chesterfield

Once I've cum, the thing I want most is to be bent over and fucked deep.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Na I just cum and go

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By *dstefiMan
12 weeks ago

Solihull


"But after I cum I'd like to cuddle and chat and you know, be a fucking human with feelings.

Still has not happened yet.

"

I've not had as many meets as you but I'd say about half of them have had nice post-ejaculatory wind-downs when time allows. One I particularly liked, we'd cum all over each other and had time for a cuppa and chat, still in our lingerie, still with each other's semen slowly drying on it, and it was the nicest feeling: that there was no need to rush off or get post-nut regrets. Just acknowledge that we'd had a really nice sexy time and two very hard orgasms.

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By *riefsMan
12 weeks ago

gorey

That would depend on who you were with wouldn't it

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By *ersbttm2025Man
12 weeks ago

london/kent

Lose complete interest, put my clothes on and leave

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By *arry40Man
12 weeks ago

Travelling again

When a guys cums i like him to lie on top of me so i can clench my cheeks and make him hard so he can fuck me again

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By *ohncukMan
12 weeks ago

dartford

lol I normally cum way before most tops finished, but stay till I think they done with me

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By *estOxonBottomMan
12 weeks ago

Carterton

I don't lose interest once I've ejaculated but have met men who are off the bed and getting dressed whilst I'm covered in his semen. The first few times did surprise me how much they weren't wanting to help me cum too but afterwards I understood that not all men want to carry on. Some do though...

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By *arlperksMan
12 weeks ago

nottingham

After I come in a mouth I like them to keep sucking until I can't take anymore

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By *reenbinMan
12 weeks ago

Portishead

Depends on the guy or situation, I have one reg who likes a deep kiss afterwards which generally ends up with round 2.

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By *wadbisexualMan
12 weeks ago

Castle Gresley

Once I've cum i lose all interest, however I rarely cum during a guy on guy / guys meet, in fact I recall it happening only once, I meet guys so I can make them cum, not so I cum.

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By *eversayNever200Man
12 weeks ago

Kendal

I don’t kiss but I’m up for a cuddle afterwards, especially if I’ve been spanking and fucking with a cute sub. Aftercare is just as important for me as for them so hugs are essential.

If I’m bottom and he cums & goes in ok with it. If he sticks around & gets hard again even better.

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By *traight curious 40Man
12 weeks ago

Hartlepool

Most of the time I meet guys is to get them to cum. I don't find men attractive. I just love to give pleasure and I'm a bit of a slut when it comes to sucking cock. So once he cums I leave and say thank you on my way out as not only have I satisfied him but also he's satisfied my needs too

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By *uvfeetluvcock2Man
12 weeks ago

Sunningdale

I like to cuddle, kiss and chat while we rub our bodies together with the sticky substance and then get in the shower after, dry off, coffee, chat, conversation, kiss and goodbye (until next meet)

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By *llyxxxMan
12 weeks ago

york


"When meeting and getting it on. What’s your general feeling once you’ve cum, like the moments after?

Is it a zip up and run or stay about and go again.

I tend to loose interest but don’t want to if you get me. Just wondering if others do too. "

love a guy making me cum first then I suck his cock and he fucks me that post cum feeling makes me feel even more submissive

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By *eman_DemonMan
12 weeks ago

east londin

My biggest turn on is a guy cumming in me then zipping up and leaving, we both get what we want.

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By *i_guy_WBayMan
12 weeks ago

Whitley Bay

As a sub bottom I focus on my top cumming, I am not interested in cumming myself while at a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago


"As a sub bottom I focus on my top cumming, I am not interested in cumming myself while at a meet. "

I’m exactly the same mindset sub bttm it’s all about the top I’m not important. I do find I can loose interest when I cum another reason not to.

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By *eorgesdadMan
12 weeks ago

Nottingham

After becoming an eager bottom I love to cuddle and kiss after cumming. Must be my feminine side coming out xx

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
12 weeks ago

Didcot

My preference is to cuddle, kiss and chat, maybe a drink, but also conscious of not overstaying my welcome or if I'm hosting, not making the other guy feel compelled to stay.

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By *hisMeMan
12 weeks ago

the woods, maybe naked, Forfar


"My preference is to cuddle, kiss and chat, maybe a drink, but also conscious of not overstaying my welcome or if I'm hosting, not making the other guy feel compelled to stay. "

Or compelled to leave immediately...

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By *ewdlustMan
12 weeks ago

SE Cornwall

It is a primal innate response.

To increase the odds of procreation.

Lose interest as soon as the deed is done.

Leave her alone.

Your continuing will not do anything to aid the sperm finding the egg.

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By *ersbttm2025Man
1 week ago

london/kent

Nut and leave

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By *eman_DemonMan
1 week ago

east londin

I want a guy to cum in me then go

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By *aughtyantoniaTV/TS
1 week ago

Guildford

I never cum when I’m out

Wait until I get home

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By *irginBoy32Man
1 week ago

Catford

My horn switches off the second I cum. Its very rare I can swallow after I've cummed

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By *amesbigr93Man
1 week ago

Glasgow

I need some nakedness to get me horny and hard again

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By *eversayNever200Man
1 week ago

Kendal

I’m easy. If the guy wants to go straight away after he’s cum that’s fine by me. Sometimes I just need a fuck too.

If we have had a good connection & he thinks he may be able to repeat soon I’m not going to go anywhere until I have had that load as well.

Spanking sessions are a bit different. I’m always up for some stroking and cuddles after a strict otk spanking.

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By *im le2Man
1 week ago

aylestone leic


"Shake off the excess and wipe it on their curtains, pull up your drawers, slap em on the arse and fuck off. "

I know this guy and his mates.

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By *ubmanpaulMan
1 week ago

near ripon

After they have cum try and get him hard again lol

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By *ubtitsMan
1 week ago

hyde

I prefer not to cum when meeting a guy i love it when he cums i prefer selfish kinky Dom guys.

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By *enidorm welshpMan
1 week ago

alfas

Feel guilty but 10 minutes later horny again

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By *ad Bod ManMan
1 week ago

Gloucester


"Feel guilty but 10 minutes later horny again "

What do you feel guilty about

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By *hehandyman66Man
1 week ago

Plymouth

As a bottom I like the guy to stay in me after until soft . Then clean him up and hopefully they stay for a little body to body contact . Im not a fan of fuck and go myself . Unfortunately most tops just do that x

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By *ockFunUpmMan
1 week ago

Upminster

Really depends on what we're doing, but normally if I've been topping and I've cum I'm out of there fairly soon after, not interested in aftercare, but if they want to cum I make sure they do.

Equally if I'm bottoming and I cum during sex I can continue till they have cum too, but them I'm out of there.

It's only with fwb I hang around, or go multiple times.

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By *ammy57TV/TS
1 week ago

Stevenage and Telford

Definitely like a hug and reassurance after. Quickies are fun if there is a longer term thing where you know the guy and there is plenty of chat and flirting otherwise. But generally the anonymous fuck and go isn't my favourite

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By *omethingExciting41Man
1 week ago

Somewhere

Definitely would want the after care of a hug and a kiss at least

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By *uvfeetluvcock2Man
1 week ago

Sunningdale

It’s nice to talk, cuddle and kiss x

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

Most of the meets I’ve had the other guy usually cums before me as I take a while

I either get asked to stop or asked to wank myself off

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By *lover1980Man
1 week ago

stoke

Relax in the moment, then round two

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By *ibeariusMan
1 week ago

Greenock

It’s natural to want to leave immediately, it’s a deep rooted embarrassment vulnerability.

There’s more chance of more meets if they can stay, cuddle, kiss or even nap

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By *anofpassionMan
1 week ago

Coseley

The few and far-between meets I have tend to involve a fairly swift exit, which is a shame

A few years ago I saw a guy quite a few times, he was a young anaesthetist with beautiful smooth brown skin. After sex we would like together for half an hour spooning. He said it was his favourite part and I had to agree. He moved out of the area and that was that...

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By *qounkMan
1 week ago

nr holsworthy

Lose any interest whatsoever. I have more interest in shelving than sex.

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By *ave2.0Man
1 week ago

Fannit

I really need the other guy/guys to cum first. Once my balls are empty I go into It’s Home Time mode, and despite how much I love a good cock going balls deep in me, it’s noticeably much more uncomfortable/painful after I’ve cum

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By *wadbisexualMan
1 week ago

Castle Gresley

Once I've shot i lose interest, this explains why i very rarely cum during a meet, i think it's only ever happened once & that was a group meet & i wasn't given a choice in the matter

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By *ard8onMan
5 days ago

Darwen

I was the same until recently when I'd cum and he hadn't "head down by and finish me off" he said. Bit hesitant but I did as I told and found my cock hardening again. He shot down my throat and we carried on. Now I'm getting used to continuing for more fun

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By *ravelguyMan
5 days ago

Ipswich

Prefer to stay and have some post cum snogging and contact,if I've got time it sometimes leads to more

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By *owerplay823Man
5 days ago

Lewes

Depends who I’m with, but often like my own space

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By *ncutNovaMan
5 days ago

Telford

I used to have a fuck buddy who I used to see on a weekly basis, use to jerk off, shag suck etc and then used to have coffee, chat and go again then leave after that. Was amazing. Can't seem to find him now. Signs I need to do some digging and see if he's up for it again!

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By *annyDanielleMan
5 days ago

Street, Somerset

Once i've cum that's it, i just want to leave, which is why i like to make sure i cum last. It's not great and i am working on it, maybe by staying for a naked coffee and a chat afterwards.

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By *rum39Man
5 days ago

Birmingham

I like to have a kiss and cuddle but most times as soon as some people cum that’s it all over

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By *azadarMan
5 days ago

North Birmingham

Kiss, cuddle, talk and encore.

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By *addy7x6Man
5 days ago

High Wycombe


"Kiss, cuddle, talk and encore."

Ditto, but usually with tea or coffee or beer.

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By *udiboy1Man
5 days ago

glasgow

As long as they get wat they want have a chat then they normally go

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By *uffolkbiguy69Man
5 days ago

Newmarket

‘They think it’s all over. Well it is now!’

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By *orkchopperMan
5 days ago

horsham

Once I've cum i'm pretty much done. I'm only in it for the sex, but as a hole for use, I dont cum very often, so i can be insatiable for days and then once I've shot my bolt, sometimes I won't be interested for days again.

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By *hesaurusMan
5 days ago

newcastle under lyme

depends on any prearrangements i guess

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By *estlondonguyMan
5 days ago

Hammersmith

Love to wait for the next round

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By *aughty Sub BottomMan
5 days ago

Scunthorpe

I'd love to be able to get the guy interested again and have him get hard again

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By *ockanonamasMan
5 days ago

Manchester

I cum multiple times so prefer a long session!😈

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By *ove2come2Man
5 days ago

Leo/Borders


"I lose interest afterwards, so always prefer to make the guy cum first and don't mind if I don't, I'll wank when I get home thinking about his cock "

I'm very much like this I don't need to come straight away I'll save it for later. Especially if I have a used condom full of spunk to take home.

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