FabGuys.com forum: The deafening silence

By *rucked OP Man
2 weeks ago

Daventry

Arranging a meet, get to the road. ‘Can I have the house number?’

Silence.

I’ll give them another couple of minutes!

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By *annyDanielleMan
2 weeks ago

Street, Somerset

"Arranging a meet, get to the road. ‘Can I have the house number?’

Silence.

I’ll give them another couple of minutes!"

Is it a long road?

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By *ampshire biMan
2 weeks ago

Alton

Slightly different, but I had a guy give me the road name and then the wrong house number. What an embarrassing situation when an elderly lady opened the door. What a f*****g c**t

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By *ustOneBearMan
2 weeks ago

Neath

I hope you’ve found the right house.

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By *airyScot40Man
2 weeks ago

East Kilbride

I recently sat outside waiting for someone to let me in for a pre-arranged meeting. I sat for 30 minutes - and they remained offline for 4 days.

The worst of the worst.

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By *ichardHeadMan
2 weeks ago

Higham

I won't travel now if no house number etc

Number of times I have heard I'll give to you when you get here in recent times

No won't happen

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By *ampshire biMan
2 weeks ago

Alton

"I hope you’ve found the right house. "
No he was obviously a twat, deleted his profile

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By *rucked OP Man
2 weeks ago

Daventry

"I won't travel now if no house number etc

Number of times I have heard I'll give to you when you get here in recent times

No won't happen

That’s a difficult one for me, as I won’t give out the final details if meeting in my truck until I know they are near.

When visiting I always send a picture of the road with the final number request.

At least it was only a 20 min drive. Oh well. A wank it is tonight!

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By *aduros 2023Man
2 weeks ago

Chelmsford

This is such a frustrating experience. Had this myself a few weeks ago when working out of town. He gave the postcode but no house number, then I couldn’t get hold of him until later that evening when I was back at home. Idiot.

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By *ubberFunkerMan
2 weeks ago

Thanet & London

" When visiting I always send a picture of the road with the final number request.

At least it was only a 20 min drive. Oh well. A wank it is tonight!

It's Kent init!! So many unreliable curious & bi men hiding from their wives & ex's, whilst fantasising about cock.

Not for me: any ambiguity in their profiles, pics, interests, messages, address or phone number and it's blocking time.

I won't host anyone for sex meets, who's lying about anything.

Stay safe.

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By *andyrodMan
2 weeks ago

St Margaret's at Cliffe

No door number is the hallmark of the time waster

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By *ubberFunkerMan
2 weeks ago

Thanet & London

"No door number is the hallmark of the time waster"

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By *it old manMan
2 weeks ago

Havant

Irs rare for me to visit now, and then u need to have met the guy before. I only meet away from my reg7lar spots if there is the chance of multiple meets

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By *hris4tvMan
2 weeks ago

liverpool

Happened to me twice now.

So as a result I am jaded towards meets.

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By *ave 6565Man
2 weeks ago

Bradford

It’s happened to me , won't set off now without full address, so frustrating, minutes away from having a cock In your mouth , and they have wanked off and ghosted you , they literally are wankers xxx

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By *astguy7Man
2 weeks ago

Ross on Wye

It isn't the disappointment, its the hope that's the killer.

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By *askia.TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Huddersfield

I've come to the conclusion, rightly or wrongly, that there is more chance of encountering timewasters when I reach out to guys on here ie. make the first move, and also come across guys who can't even be bothered to respond to messages even after reading them, so I'm no longer going to bother. I've been in this position a few times before but found myself drifting back...not this time. I have been doing my best to talk the site up on other threads about timewasters but after today I've run out of steam. I will post when I plan meetings and answer people's questions on threads about Empire Cinema but that is it.

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By *ubberFunkerMan
2 weeks ago

Thanet & London

Just be safe guys.

"Fab" guys pics, read their profiles/interests/veris, send a wink or message.

If they reply & are up for it, set a definite time & accurate place, with a contact number.

If there's anything ambiguous about their profile, interests, verifcations, messages, contact number or where they want to meet - JUST SAY "NO THANKS".

Gay men have had to be careful about sex meets throughout history. It's no different today.

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By *yzantineMan
2 weeks ago

Offshore now, ignore pistcode

"I've come to the conclusion, rightly or wrongly, that there is more chance of encountering timewasters when I reach out to guys on here ie. make the first move, and also come across guys who can't even be bothered to respond to messages even after reading them, so I'm no longer going to bother. I've been in this position a few times before but found myself drifting back...not this time. I have been doing my best to talk the site up on other threads about timewasters but after today I've run out of steam. I will post when I plan meetings and answer people's questions on threads about Empire Cinema but that is it."

At least in the Empire there’s an active and willing audience.

I also only entertain when I’m in a hotel. Up to them if they turn up but at least I enjoy a drink in the bar as I wait

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By *luerooMan
2 weeks ago

bridgwater

went out to a woodland meet 20 minute drive away, no car parked up then receive a message that he had gotten scared off by a tramp in the woods

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By *ust TedMan
2 weeks ago

Exeter

Had that yesterday postcode but no house number .why

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By *otjellMan
2 weeks ago

BASINGSTOKE

First meet for me with a new contact is always at mine, if they don't show up i don't waste any more time on them.

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By *anmannersMan
2 weeks ago

Notts

"No door number is the hallmark of the time waster"

It is not in my case.

I give adjoining post codes and send a map with a blue dot on to say I'll meet there. I will not put my house number on the internet on sex sites.

Communication is imperative all the way. Happy to give a spare WhatsApp number

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By *addy7x6Man
1 week ago

High Wycombe

Arrived at a street in Slough a coupla years back. Rang the bell at no. 17 - Alec didn't live there. I got back on my phone to send a sharp message to my intended meet, and heard a muffled "pssst!" from across the street. Guy waving to me from an upstairs window at no. 16.

He closed the window and texted me

- "I'm at no. 17".

I texted back "Fuck off! You're an idiot!" and left.

Sitting in my car round the corner fuming, I popped up Grindr, and got a message within seconds.

A genuine tranny had seen me return to my car, and recognised me from my Grindr profile pic.

A wonderful friendship began that day.

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By *leepflowerMan
1 week ago

Leek

"Arranging a meet, get to the road. ‘Can I have the house number?’

Silence.

I’ll give them another couple of minutes!

Is it a long road?

Getting from there to here...

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By *ardforall56Man
1 week ago

belfast

Golden rule they have to come to the door and open it.You should never ring bell or knock a door.The cxxt was messing you about

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By *alfTankMan
1 week ago

Boston

Ghosts in the machine!

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By *im le2Man
1 week ago

aylestone leic

It's the same when ppl text me there phone number asking to chat.

I will never text first. Because of sent pics to a totally different person.

I don't drive so ppl normally come to me.

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By *im le2Man
1 week ago

aylestone leic

Had someone wanting to meet in a pub. He was a no-show but I group of lads seemed to be enjoying themselves. Don't know if they were laughing at me but I didn't bother Evan looking at them.

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By *ondomhunterMan
1 week ago

hastings

I won't leave my house until I have full address and have checked out house and parking on Google msps

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