FabGuys.com forum: No meets after a year

By *uzy swallow OP TV/TS
7 weeks ago

warminster

There’s so many people on here that have been on for over a year with no meets or verifications When I first came on here there was very few like that, in fact if you didn’t have verification no one would message you.

How this site has changed for the worse. Xx

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By *ichey6Man
7 weeks ago

aberdeen

Doesn't mean to say they haven't been at it like the proverbial rabbit.

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By *eedsbearmanMan
7 weeks ago

Leeds

Not all of us wish to publicly declare who we've been meeting.

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By *b20Man
7 weeks ago

Glasgow

I never do verifications

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By *andinmypantsMan
7 weeks ago

North East

"There’s so many people on here that have been on for over a year with no meets or verifications

Are you good at athletics?

I just wondered if you were as good at jumping height or distance as well as you are at jumping to conclusions?

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

I have met a couple of guys. But neither left verifs. But i wont chase them. They took what they wanted. And im in no position to ask for more.

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By *starMan
7 weeks ago

Frampton on Severn

I've been fucked by at least a dozen different men so far this year, although you wouldn't know it from my profile. I've had six meetings arranged through fabguys, again not all reflected in the profile.

You can try to guess about someone from the evidence on here, but it's an imperfect tool at best.

I'm more impressed by the effort someone has put into their profile and pics, and also the absence of cut and paste irrelevant legal nonsense.

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By *ranford cruiserTV/TS
7 weeks ago

Heathrow

"Not all of us wish to publicly declare who we've been meeting."
you don't have to publish your verifications guy's just want to know the guy's not a messer if someone messaging me without any verification ant they been on the site over 12 months iam more likely to ignore them

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By *ildwestheroMan
7 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

Not everyone leaves verifications. Also if the guy who leaves them goes UNLOS they disappear with him. Plus being on this site does not guarantee a meet. You may live in a 'gay desert' [like I seem to do] . You may not get any suitable offers. You may not be able to meet for various reasons like work, suitable time, health reasons etc. Don't judge everyone.

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By *eedsbearmanMan
7 weeks ago

Leeds

"Not all of us wish to publicly declare who we've been meeting. you don't have to publish your verifications guy's just want to know the guy's not a messer if someone messaging me without any verification ant they been on the site over 12 months iam more likely to ignore them "

And that's completely your choice.

Same as the choice those of us make who dont wish to participate in it.

Neither is wrong.

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By *ottom_only_CDTV/TS
7 weeks ago

Near Glasgow

I have more meets than my profile would indicate. Some silly don't give or accept veri's.

I found sometimes the one with no verifications have been more reliable and the ones with verifications have let me down.

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By *ocalMan
7 weeks ago

North West

I never ask for veris or give them unless asked to, I can understand someone with a new profile asking, as an example on the sister site this week a mate asked me to leave him a verification on his new profile and he returned the favour, the last verification I had (that was active as in they hadn't left the site) was from 2015, I have meet a fair few since then but no veris left, if someone sees that and judges me to be a messer than so be it.

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By *aggerHammerMan
7 weeks ago

Dagenham

You can receive a veri, if you don't click the display on profile, it won't show on your profile. Just say you have had 20 veris sent to you. You decide to display 1. Your profile will read verified 20 times by men (may say 5 webcam say), and 1 displayed

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By *annyDanielleMan
7 weeks ago

Street, Somerset

I know verifications aren't the be all and end all. I know that some don't leave them and others don't show them. However, the presence of verifications still means that i'm more likely to meet.

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By *hisMeMan
7 weeks ago

Forfar, Angus

"You can receive a veri, if you don't click the display on profile, it won't show on your profile. Just say you have had 20 veris sent to you. You decide to display 1. Your profile will read verified 20 times by men (may say 5 webcam say), and 1 displayed"

Only if you have the summary on display tho.

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By *eefandfurMan
7 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Probably the wives of bi-curious guys checking up on their husbands.

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By *tmguylookingMan
7 weeks ago

chezzie

And what's to say the guys who aren't verified haven't been meeting loads of other non-verified guys.

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By *askia.TV/TS
7 weeks ago

Huddersfield

Most of the guys who I have sex with are not even on this site - use verifications as a guide not a guarantee, I’ve been messed around by guys on this site who have a string of verifications…..and recently had a great meet with a newbie on here with no verifications, I gave him his first.

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By *ldderMan
7 weeks ago

Oxford and Sevenoaks

I've got feedback but I chose to keep them private

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By *uffolk_guy_1973Man
7 weeks ago

East Anglia

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By *uffolk_guy_1973Man
7 weeks ago

East Anglia

Verified guys mess U about as much if not more than unverified

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By *aggonerMan
7 weeks ago

Malvern

I haven’t got verifications for all of my meets. It doesn’t stop people wanting to meet.

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By *ersguy0404Man
7 weeks ago

newport

Being verified use to be a good indicator that someone is genuine, but lately I’ve been let down by verified people. So now I go by my instincts and experience. You can normally tell with in the first few messages if someone is genuine or not.

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By *im le2Man
6 weeks ago

aylestone leic

I had about a dozen meets before I got my first verification. Not everyone wants to verify. I always tell ppl to ask me if they want me to verify them.

I have monthly group meets always 10+ men at every group over ten years that's 1200 men. But 2/3 of them are regulars. Plus it doesn't Meen I have full sex with them all. I will have some sexual contact with 3 or 4 of them but I definitely don't want verification every time we meet. First time is fine.

Oh yeah I'm a sl*t and proud of it.

Verification shows your genuine and not a time waster. Show them with pride.

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By *arridMan
6 weeks ago

bRiGhToN

You only need one verification from a meet yo show your profile is real. The site has the facility to hide them, so that must be an acceptable thing to do. If you feel strongly about it, turn a negative into a positive and use it as part of your selection process.

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By *alker2468Man
6 weeks ago

Folkestone

I've had quite a few meet wants ones where afterwards we've agreed that we're not bothered about a verification. I don't mind doing them if the other person wants one but I know I've had a good time

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By *ockysmountMan
6 weeks ago

sheerness

Very judgemental outlook.

You may like the advert but some do not like the product

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By *ere2pleaseuMan
6 weeks ago

Tamworth

I’ve never done a verification, and I’m not bothered if anyone wants to do me one.

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By *autiously_curiousMan
6 weeks ago

Craigavon

Verifications are funny things. You can assume a profile isn't active because they've nit verified innover a year and then lo and behold the meet happens and they ask for no verification.

But I am always skeptical of accounts that are unverified. I think in all my time on here (about 18 months in all) only 2 unverified accounts were genuine to meet. Both of which I verified

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By *aohiaochiaokengMan
6 weeks ago

England

I don't like to give or receive verifications because it is like reporting to the whole world the naughty sex things I did with the particular individuals who can be easily identified.

Some guys want to verify me to tell the world the naughty sex I have with them I always say no. To me, the sex I have with the particular individuals should remain private and confidential. I am here to enjoy friendship and sex fun and not a test of sexual performance.

It doesn't bother me whether guys message me or not if I don't show any verifications. As long as Fabguys verified me as genuine, I am happy.

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