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"I think a lot of gay men put bi on status" True, just updated mine | |||
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"Does it really matter, as long as we have some fun and enjoy ourselves. " Spot on fella. | |||
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"So many "bisexuals" on here, it must warrant statistical investigation " Send for Sydney University! | |||
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"I guess i started out bi,but id say im more gay now as i like taking full role of a woman" I doubt you do that  | |||
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"So many "bisexuals" on here, it must warrant statistical investigation " Well, all the gay guys that have fucked me or let me fuck them dont seem to mind that I have a wife. | |||
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"Why does it need investigating?? I will be shocked if there were female on the site. this site is here for guys who like sex with guys gay or BI. or closet guys. " There are some females who are attracted to CD/TV, and others who like to watch guys having sex with each other. I wouldn't be surprised if there are some on site hiding behind pseudonyms. | |||
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"I'm very bi but tending to be more gay now" 😋😋😋 | |||
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 ), but it's just so easy and immediate to turn a man on. My last meet lasted half an hour, had his cock rock hard in seconds and ejaculating all over me within minutes | |||
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"When we seek to define we seek to divide and highlight differences. We are all different. " Exactly, we are who we are, enjoy. | |||
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"I think a lot of gay men put bi on status" Why would they do that? I’m gay, I have no sexual interest in women, so why would I say that I’m bi? Bit like a couple of profiles I have seen here where their profile says they are bi - when they then write that they only fuck other men’s wives/gf with no contact with the man. What are they even doing here in the first place when surely they would be better off on the swingers site - horses for courses. | |||
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"I think a lot of gay men put bi on status" I think they do that to try and make themselves sound more 'manly'. Even in 2025 there is still a bit of a stigma about being gay. Thankfully not as bad as it was 20 years ago. The ones that amuse me are those claiming to be bi-curious despite having been on here for years and having 20 verifications of their fucking, sucking, rimming etc sessions with other guys. Still hardly need investigating. | |||
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"I think a lot of gay men put bi on status Why would they do that? I’m gay, I have no sexual interest in women, so why would I say that I’m bi? Bit like a couple of profiles I have seen here where their profile says they are bi - when they then write that they only fuck other men’s wives/gf with no contact with the man. What are they even doing here in the first place when surely they would be better off on the swingers site - horses for courses." Why would they do that? Because they're not you. Everyone is different. | |||
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"I think a lot of gay men put bi on status I think they do that to try and make themselves sound more 'manly'. Even in 2025 there is still a bit of a stigma about being gay. Thankfully not as bad as it was 20 years ago. The ones that amuse me are those claiming to be bi-curious despite having been on here for years and having 20 verifications of their fucking, sucking, rimming etc sessions with other guys. Still hardly need investigating." I think that people change over time, but don't update their profiles. Due to my activity having been sporadic over the last five years I'm guilty of this. I need to rewrite my profile and post newer pictures. | |||
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"I think a lot of gay men put bi on status" I would agree on that tbh based on how few bi men are actually "out" but that's just a personal observation and opinion. It used to annoy me how many men/women use bi as a stepping stone to coming out at gay because I felt like it weakened the credibility of my own sexual identity. But at the end of the day, we shouldn't give a fuck about other people's opinions anyway. All that matters is how you feel about yourself. | |||
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" Why would they do that? Because they're not you. Everyone is different. " To put it bluntly- we come here to meet other men (some just for sex, some looking for more). A lot of people complain about time wasters and fantasists, but if you can’t be honest about what you are and what you are looking for is it any wonder that there is a lack trust? | |||
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"I think a lot of gay men put bi on status I think they do that to try and make themselves sound more 'manly'. Even in 2025 there is still a bit of a stigma about being gay. Thankfully not as bad as it was 20 years ago. The ones that amuse me are those claiming to be bi-curious despite having been on here for years and having 20 verifications of their fucking, sucking, rimming etc sessions with other guys. Still hardly need investigating. I think that people change over time, but don't update their profiles. Due to my activity having been sporadic over the last five years I'm guilty of this. I need to rewrite my profile and post newer pictures." Nope, you're born with your sexuality, there's no changing it, doesn't matter what you put on your profile. | |||
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"There's lots of both gay and bisexaul On here. " Actually what I’ve noticed is that there seems to be more and more Bi’s (half of which seem to be wearing their wife’s undies which makes them CD’s) and TV’s. Seem to be getting less gay men now - just a thought but are gay guys getting put off by this and the bi guys constantly talking about their wives and women’s bits? | |||
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"There's lots of both gay and bisexaul On here. Actually what I’ve noticed is that there seems to be more and more Bi’s (half of which seem to be wearing their wife’s undies which makes them CD’s) and TV’s. Seem to be getting less gay men now - just a thought but are gay guys getting put off by this and the bi guys constantly talking about their wives and women’s bits?" They probably are turned off as it's often off topic in threads. Sometimes I look at a profile for a cock pick and give up after the first page of women's underwear. So I can see why it MAY be a reason that there's less gay guys. Cd and underwear are kinks anyway (which is fine of course) but have nothing to do with sexuality. Women wear mens clothes all the time and it's not even considered a kink. It's just more socially accepted. But then again, the women probably are not wearing the clothes for sexual gratification. Someone else mentioned adopting/embracing the female role in sex. But, to me personally and I would imagine to most bi and certainly gay men , sex with a man isn't feminine whatsoever and there's no female role. It's man on man - masculinity incarnate. It is...by definition gay sex, regardless of your sexuality. But, 10 different people can get 10 different experiences from the same sexual act. There's no "wrong" way I suppose. | |||
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"There is a saying “ Gay when away straight when back” " A very monosexual outlook lol | |||
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"There was a young queer from Dunoon Took a lesbian up to his room They argued all night About who had the right To do what, and with what, and to whom" * There was a young fellow from Kent Whose cock was exceedingly bent. To save himself trouble He put it in double And instead of cumming he went * A young violinist from Rio Was seducing a lady called Cleo As she took down her panties She cried "No andantes, I want it Allegro con brio" * Any more limericks ? | |||
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"Yes it,s all about having fun rather than being in a particular box. I'm bi these days but was totally hetero for years.I'll make my mind up one day lol" . Absolutely agree. As far as I'm concerned I'm neither gay, bisexual or hetro. Lot more to life than sex and that's all it is.use to be a song years ago. 'littlebboxes on the hillside' Rubbish song but it highlighted little houses,all the same full of little people with labels. No thankyou. Not for us | |||
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" I get it. I understand why some gay guys have issues with bi guys, but I am what I am and I can't deny it. " I don't understand why some gay guys have issues with bi guys, but I am what I am and I can't deny it. | |||
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"Lots of married men are bisexual by necessity cos they rarely get sex at home so they allow their lust to lead them to sex with men 🤪👍" I just don't buy that theory that lots of men will turn to other men because they are not getting sex at home. A few will but in reality most heterosexual men are repulsed by the idea of having sex with another man. Even in all male situations like the armed forces and prison, it is no where near as widespread as the fantasists think. | |||
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"Lots of married men are bisexual by necessity cos they rarely get sex at home so they allow their lust to lead them to sex with men 🤪👍 I just don't buy that theory that lots of men will turn to other men because they are not getting sex at home. A few will but in reality most heterosexual men are repulsed by the idea of having sex with another man. Even in all male situations like the armed forces and prison, it is no where near as widespread as the fantasists think." I agree 100% | |||
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"Lots of married men are bisexual by necessity cos they rarely get sex at home so they allow their lust to lead them to sex with men 🤪👍 I just don't buy that theory that lots of men will turn to other men because they are not getting sex at home. A few will but in reality most heterosexual men are repulsed by the idea of having sex with another man. Even in all male situations like the armed forces and prison, it is no where near as widespread as the fantasists think. I agree 100%" Indeed. Although I agree that the labels don't matter that much, I think it's sad to be in denial to that degree, particularly on here where it's a safe space. You must enjoy some part of sex with men or you wouldn't do it. .
With regards to prison - some of that is down to dominance and power - particularly instances of "forced intimacy". It's not a good comparison imo. | |||
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" I don't understand why some gay guys have issues with bi guys, but I am what I am and I can't deny it." First I know and have known some bi guys and have had fun with some of them. But as a gay man who would like to find a partner then a bi guy (especially a married one) wouldn’t be the best place to start. Also married/attached bi guys would be more difficult to arrange meets with because not only do you have your availability and their availability to take into account, but even if they weren’t doing anything they may not be able to getaway from the wife. Also not in to TV’s or CD’s and as a lot of the Bi’s on here seem to be into wearing their wife’s undies I wouldn’t want to meet them anyway. If you want a quick bit of fun and a bi guy is there then maybe if you fancy them - but longer term no, it is just a quick bit of sex. These are just some of the issues for me - can’t speak for others. | |||
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