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Be local.
Read my profile. I'll read yours and discount a no effort attempt.
Fab a few pics.
Make your first message sensible and with at least a bit of thought applied.
If I respond I'm interested (if I don't it's just a sorry, not for me) but you'll need a few more messages to arrange anything like a meet. Be realistic that other people have lives they need to fit their sexy fun around.
Be serious about meeting, not vague. Address and phone number essential. | |||
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"Clue, it doesn't start with "hru wana fuc"
Be local.
Read my profile. I'll read yours and discount a no effort attempt.
Fab a few pics.
Make your first message sensible and with at least a bit of thought applied.
If I respond I'm interested (if I don't it's just a sorry, not for me) but you'll need a few more messages to arrange anything like a meet. Be realistic that other people have lives they need to fit their sexy fun around.
Be serious about meeting, not vague. Address and phone number essential."If you're not interested why not respond with something like thanks but no thanks. It puts an end to wondering and hoping. | |||
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"Clue, it doesn't start with "hru wana fuc"
Be local.
Read my profile. I'll read yours and discount a no effort attempt.
Fab a few pics.
Make your first message sensible and with at least a bit of thought applied.
If I respond I'm interested (if I don't it's just a sorry, not for me) but you'll need a few more messages to arrange anything like a meet. Be realistic that other people have lives they need to fit their sexy fun around.
Be serious about meeting, not vague. Address and phone number essential."Yet another "Hey, Look At Me!!!" post. Why put stuff that should be on your profile in a forum post? | |||
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"I reckon that in general that this is good advice in how to get into any CDs' knickers. I get the impression that a lot of guys think that we are all dressed 24/7 just awaiting their well thought out 'wanna fuk' message. An intelligent and complimentary first message grabs my attention and a guy fabbing some pics is another good starting point. Being local and able to accom are also important to me. However, I would always send a 'no thanks' message though to end communication where necessary. " Couldn’t agree more ❤️ | |||
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"I reckon that in general that this is good advice in how to get into any CDs' knickers. I get the impression that a lot of guys think that we are all dressed 24/7 just awaiting their well thought out 'wanna fuk' message. An intelligent and complimentary first message grabs my attention and a guy fabbing some pics is another good starting point. Being local and able to accom are also important to me. However, I would always send a 'no thanks' message though to end communication where necessary. " I think it applies generally, not just to CD/TV/TS, even though I'm bald and fat and don't wear ladies clothes, I get the can I fuck you, I want to fuck you type messages all the time, I've even had to block guys that won't take a polite 'no thank you' for an answer, too many guys on here think they are gods gift and that they are the exception to the rule. | |||
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"I reckon that in general that this is good advice in how to get into any CDs' knickers. I get the impression that a lot of guys think that we are all dressed 24/7 just awaiting their well thought out 'wanna fuk' message. An intelligent and complimentary first message grabs my attention and a guy fabbing some pics is another good starting point. Being local and able to accom are also important to me. However, I would always send a 'no thanks' message though to end communication where necessary. " This!! Well said. I mean yes we are on a shagging site , but read the profile guys!! | |||
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"What I'd like to know is how to get you out of them?" If you're at the point of getting into them already, that naturally follows | |||
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"I reckon that in general that this is good advice in how to get into any CDs' knickers. I get the impression that a lot of guys think that we are all dressed 24/7 just awaiting their well thought out 'wanna fuk' message. An intelligent and complimentary first message grabs my attention and a guy fabbing some pics is another good starting point. Being local and able to accom are also important to me. However, I would always send a 'no thanks' message though to end communication where necessary. " Ur dead right hunni I get that a lot doesn’t matter way time of day it is ,u dressed and can u meet now Doh ffs so that’s exactly wat they think,us sitting at home waiting on them 2 msg lol | |||
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"Clue, it doesn't start with "hru wana fuc"
Be local.
Read my profile. I'll read yours and discount a no effort attempt.
Fab a few pics.
Make your first message sensible and with at least a bit of thought applied.
If I respond I'm interested (if I don't it's just a sorry, not for me) but you'll need a few more messages to arrange anything like a meet. Be realistic that other people have lives they need to fit their sexy fun around.
Be serious about meeting, not vague. Address and phone number essential.
If you're not interested why not respond with something like thanks but no thanks. It puts an end to wondering and hoping. "I totally agree. The OP wants a thorough message (which is absolutely fine and I belief should be the approach too) but then will not offer a courteous reply. If someone makes an effort to read a profile and send a message of effort and response to your profile, at least have some decency to return that effort with gratitude and kindness. | |||
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"If someone makes an effort to read a profile and send a message of effort and response to your profile, at least have some decency to return that effort with gratitude and kindness. " Probably didn't make myself clear there. If somebody has made an effort with a message and clearly has read my profile, of course I'll give a reply even if it is no thanks. It's zero-effort messages I just bin, ignore and block if they repeat. | |||
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"If someone makes an effort to read a profile and send a message of effort and response to your profile, at least have some decency to return that effort with gratitude and kindness. Probably didn't make myself clear there. If somebody has made an effort with a message and clearly has read my profile, of course I'll give a reply even if it is no thanks. It's zero-effort messages I just bin, ignore and block if they repeat." ❤️ | |||
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