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By *TopAsian OP   Man
6 weeks ago

St Annes on the Sea

Copied from someone's profile, not on fab.

I am retired, a naturist and would love to find someone who is a naturist tooo .

I love intimacy and everything that it includes , kissing, sensual touching, showering and of course sex .. I am versatile ...I would like to make love with partner. I have very sensitive nipples and love nipple play ..

I am not looking for one off meetings. 1am looking for Love and to be Loved. In short I am looking for a relationship. .

I am very tactile and would love the same. hygine is essential and having a bath or shower together is so romantic, sensual and erotic as well as fun. You would love it ..

I have a lifetime membership with the National Trust and just love visiting historical properties, especially the gardens. I love architecture.

I love gardening even more now that 1 am retired and especially in the nude.1 just love being naked, whenever I can.

It was covid that made me realise that I wanted and needed to change my life and find happiness.

I have always been gay but peer pressure back: the 1970's forced me to get married. Now is the time for change. ...

It is important to mention that I am married to a woman, it is totally sexless an no intimacy, whatsoever and has been for years.

My situation is also made more dificult because she is extremely homophobic, as is her family.

I have every intention to leave my life an start afresh. Thank you for reading.

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By *hatguy1Man
6 weeks ago

enfield

Well, the fact he is married and looking for love is quite the issue I guess. It does not read like he will have consent to live a double life and therefore being in love with someone you cannot have wholly, will inevitably lead to disaster and heartache.

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By *dambi00Man
6 weeks ago

Leicester

I’ve noticed so many older guys can be so delusional, they’re married but they also want to find love.

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By *itchianMan
6 weeks ago

Liverpool

Possibly the wrong site to look for love

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By *udgepackMan
6 weeks ago

Cardiff bay

Sounds like he's waiting to meet someone else before getting a divorce. It may be easier in the long run to leave his wife first if he wants to start afresh.

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By *ildwestheroMan
6 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

Sounds like a genuinely nice guy and a victim of circumstance. Many of us went down the marriage route through peer pressure back in the day. Some of us managed to escape such marriages relatively 'unharmed'. I wish him well.

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By *astguy7Man
6 weeks ago

Ross on Wye

There will be many guys in similar situation and looking, but it'll be the problem of neither being able to accommodate.

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By *TopAsian OP   Man
6 weeks ago

St Annes on the Sea

I am curious - how to work out a 'secure' relationship before leaving the wife. It feels like job switching safe play - only leave your current job when a new one is confirmed.

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By *ildwestheroMan
6 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells


"I am curious - how to work out a 'secure' relationship before leaving the wife. It feels like job switching safe play - only leave your current job when a new one is confirmed. "

Could it be that he is sensibly proceeding with caution. What to meet up with a potential future partner and make sure they are right for each other before making the life changing step of leaving his wife. By the sound of it he has been married for around 50 years so this is a drastic step.

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By *lipeminMan
6 weeks ago

luton

No

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By *ickeMan
6 weeks ago

watford

I love that , but he not burning his bridges before taking plunge .

He has companion at home .

But wants more feels unloved obviously bisexual feels that sex with man be more beneficial.

Many men on here in sexless relationship. Love mens company but can’t make move . But want the connection feel wanted loved .

As don’t get it at home .

Just 2 people living same dwelling.

Sad really !

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By *ondenMan
6 weeks ago

Harborough

But he’s got an NT card, what’s his username?

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By *ondon RimmerMan
6 weeks ago

Islington

An unusually honest profile. Wish him luck.

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By *TopAsian OP   Man
6 weeks ago

St Annes on the Sea

He says "It was covid that made me realise that I wanted and needed to change my life and find happiness".

But Covid ended like 3-4 years ago, why is he still stagnated at the interviewing relationships stage, the text does sound like he desperately wants to break free ...

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By *hatguy1Man
6 weeks ago

enfield


"I am curious - how to work out a 'secure' relationship before leaving the wife. It feels like job switching safe play - only leave your current job when a new one is confirmed.

Could it be that he is sensibly proceeding with caution. What to meet up with a potential future partner and make sure they are right for each other before making the life changing step of leaving his wife. By the sound of it he has been married for around 50 years so this is a drastic step."

In fairness though can you really know what a relationship will be like without committing and at the very least living together even only on weekends to begin with? If the guy truly believes he is gay and wants to be in a same sex LTR, being in a marriage to a woman is pointless.

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By *owzerMan
6 weeks ago

Chester.....


"I am curious - how to work out a 'secure' relationship before leaving the wife. It feels like job switching safe play - only leave your current job when a new one is confirmed.

Could it be that he is sensibly proceeding with caution. What to meet up with a potential future partner and make sure they are right for each other before making the life changing step of leaving his wife. By the sound of it he has been married for around 50 years so this is a drastic step.

In fairness though can you really know what a relationship will be like without committing and at the very least living together even only on weekends to begin with? If the guy truly believes he is gay and wants to be in a same sex LTR, being in a marriage to a woman is pointless. "

He's got social status. A live in companion, cook, cleaner, someone to do his laundry and ironing. These are hard things for an old man to give up

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By *TopAsian OP   Man
6 weeks ago

St Annes on the Sea

The 'poor' wife, doing all the domestic chores, yet being conveniently branded as a homophobic behind her back!

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By *hatguy1Man
6 weeks ago

enfield


"I am curious - how to work out a 'secure' relationship before leaving the wife. It feels like job switching safe play - only leave your current job when a new one is confirmed.

Could it be that he is sensibly proceeding with caution. What to meet up with a potential future partner and make sure they are right for each other before making the life changing step of leaving his wife. By the sound of it he has been married for around 50 years so this is a drastic step.

In fairness though can you really know what a relationship will be like without committing and at the very least living together even only on weekends to begin with? If the guy truly believes he is gay and wants to be in a same sex LTR, being in a marriage to a woman is pointless.

He's got social status. A live in companion, cook, cleaner, someone to do his laundry and ironing. These are hard things for an old man to give up"

Fair point, cake and eat it come to mind!

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By *ibeariusMan
6 weeks ago

Greenock

The amount of times you read “ married but no sex” zzzz

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By *ammy57Man
6 weeks ago

Stevenage


"Copied from someone's profile, not on fab.

I am retired, a naturist and would love to find someone who is a naturist tooo .

I love intimacy and everything that it includes , kissing, sensual touching, showering and of course sex .. I am versatile ...I would like to make love with partner. I have very sensitive nipples and love nipple play ..

I am not looking for one off meetings. 1am looking for Love and to be Loved. In short I am looking for a relationship. .

I am very tactile and would love the same. hygine is essential and having a bath or shower together is so romantic, sensual and erotic as well as fun. You would love it ..

I have a lifetime membership with the National Trust and just love visiting historical properties, especially the gardens. I love architecture.

I love gardening even more now that 1 am retired and especially in the nude.1 just love being naked, whenever I can.

It was covid that made me realise that I wanted and needed to change my life and find happiness.

I have always been gay but peer pressure back: the 1970's forced me to get married. Now is the time for change. ...

It is important to mention that I am married to a woman, it is totally sexless an no intimacy, whatsoever and has been for years.

My situation is also made more dificult because she is extremely homophobic, as is her family.

I have every intention to leave my life an start afresh. Thank you for reading."

I could fall for him. Sadly though I'm not working for divorce so not suited to him. He sounds like he's in a difficult place and if he wants out of marriage he should do that first?

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