 | Back to forum list |
| Back to The Lounge |
| Jump to newest |  |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"What will you do if your partner continues meeting and having sex fun with other guys? " I’d ask if I can come along too. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"What will you do if your partner continues meeting and having sex fun with other guys? I’d ask if I can come along too." Hahaha. But if it is someone you dont like or someone you know is very manipulative and tried to grab your partner away from you, and your naive partner keeps pleasing him? Looks like they are not meeting for sex fun only. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"What will you do if your partner continues meeting and having sex fun with other guys? I’d ask if I can come along too. Hahaha. But if it is someone you dont like or someone you know is very manipulative and tried to grab your partner away from you, and your naive partner keeps pleasing him? Looks like they are not meeting for sex fun only. " Then have a word with your partner and tell him you are not happy. If he continues to meet him then he obviously has no feelings for you, so time to consider your next step. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"What will you do if your partner continues meeting and having sex fun with other guys? I’d ask if I can come along too. Hahaha. But if it is someone you dont like or someone you know is very manipulative and tried to grab your partner away from you, and your naive partner keeps pleasing him? Looks like they are not meeting for sex fun only. Then have a word with your partner and tell him you are not happy. If he continues to meet him then he obviously has no feelings for you, so time to consider your next step." I dont mind him meeting other guys just for sex fun only but not falling in love with them. Talking to him is useless like fallen to deaf ears. I feel so disillusioned with love and to feel secure I continue meeting and having sex with other guys too. Have to accept it, that's the way it is. Perhaps he doesn't like me anymore as I get older. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I'd trust my partner. Otherwise what am I doing with them? If they turned out to be untrustworthy then I'd rather know sooner than later and whomever this "other" is has done me a favour. Might hurt for a bit, but inwards and upwards " You are a strong person but I am weak. Perhaps my partner now prefer younger men as I have grown older. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I'd trust my partner. Otherwise what am I doing with them? If they turned out to be untrustworthy then I'd rather know sooner than later and whomever this "other" is has done me a favour. Might hurt for a bit, but inwards and upwards You are a strong person but I am weak. Perhaps my partner now prefer younger men as I have grown older. " Ask your partner. Talk to them. You might ne right or you might be overthinking it. Best to talk. I think, anyway. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
 | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Ditch him he's treating you like shit.. Just my opinion mate "Thank you. That's why I am trying to make more friends, meet more guys and having more sex fun to feel the void and emptiness. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Ditch him he's treating you like shit.. Just my opinion mate
Thank you. That's why I am trying to make more friends, meet more guys and having more sex fun to feel the void and emptiness."I'm a great believer in been respectful to whoever crosses my path, respect and decency costs nothing. Selfishness Is a horrible trait in a person.. Don't let your partner make you feel this way.. You don't deserve it he sounds like a bit of a bell end if I'm honest, ground yourself and don't put up with shit | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"When I was with my ex partner we both agreed to monogamy, and I wouldn’t have wanted to share him " It is too late for monogamy now. Nobody wants an old man like me. Once one is 40 plus, it is harder because most guys prefer younger. Even if I find someone who likes older we might not be compatible. I can only continue meeting new guys, have more sex fun to feel the emptiness and see how it goes. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I'd trust my partner. Otherwise what am I doing with them? If they turned out to be untrustworthy then I'd rather know sooner than later and whomever this "other" is has done me a favour. Might hurt for a bit, but inwards and upwards You are a strong person but I am weak. Perhaps my partner now prefer younger men as I have grown older. Ask your partner. Talk to them. You might ne right or you might be overthinking it. Best to talk. I think, anyway. " Yeah this is defo the way to go! Always best to have a talk when you can. ✌🏼 | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I'd trust my partner. Otherwise what am I doing with them? If they turned out to be untrustworthy then I'd rather know sooner than later and whomever this "other" is has done me a favour. Might hurt for a bit, but inwards and upwards You are a strong person but I am weak. Perhaps my partner now prefer younger men as I have grown older. Ask your partner. Talk to them. You might ne right or you might be overthinking it. Best to talk. I think, anyway. Yeah this is defo the way to go! Always best to have a talk when you can. ✌🏼" When a partner prefers younger there is nothing much one can do. Perhaps it is time to leave. Not sure what to do | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"When a partner prefers younger there is nothing much one can do. Perhaps it is time to leave. Not sure what to do " At the end of the day only you can decide what to do - either way you are the one who has to live with your decision. As others have said try having a talk with your partner first though, it might help you to come to a decision either way. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"When a partner prefers younger there is nothing much one can do. Perhaps it is time to leave. Not sure what to do At the end of the day only you can decide what to do - either way you are the one who has to live with your decision. As others have said try having a talk with your partner first though, it might help you to come to a decision either way." Time to pack and go back to Hong Kong for good and forget all the heartaches. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"If was lucky enough to have a partner I wouldn't mind an extra now & again as long as they talked about it & didn't do it behind your back, talking is key " I don't mind he has sex fun with other guys every now and then BUT not falling in love with others. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| Post new Message to Thread |
| back to top |  |
