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By (user no longer on site) OP   
12 weeks ago

So who else is married but wife not interested any more.its what awoken my bi side again was chatting to another married guy when I was walking the dog one thing led to another and we sucked each other off

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By *eorgesdadMan
12 weeks ago

Nottingham

Most of the men I have sex with are married 🤪 They are discreet, sti free and just looking for sexual relief without any strings attached. Happy days 🤪

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By *shleigh1964TV/TS
12 weeks ago

penzance

Menopause...its the irony of the sexes...guys get hornier as they age, women go the other way..its the way of it.

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By *nmykneesagainMan
12 weeks ago

salford

Not had sex with my wife for 2 year, she's fucked other men thou

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By *hy guy 111Man
12 weeks ago

Doncaster

Not had sex with the wife for years I have never satisfied her

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By *urious44walesMan
12 weeks ago

South Wales

Wife of sex is how i ended up looking in here!

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By *ig3Man
12 weeks ago

Maldon

Exactly the same as above

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By *ubicattorney2Man
12 weeks ago

looking for fun

Limited now with sex with Mrs .. hence why here

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Not had sex with mine for approximately 4 years now .. she isn’t interested and I gave up trying to initiate

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By *ideruler58Man
12 weeks ago

Southampton


"Exactly the same as above "

And me also

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By *erasusMan
12 weeks ago

Glasgow


"Wife of sex is how i ended up looking in here!"

Very similar here

Mrs doesn’t open her legs anywhere enough. Unless we’re on holiday/away from home or she’s had a few G&Ts. Even then it’s very limited.

Bonus is I discovered cock!

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By *ron PandaMan
12 weeks ago

Eridge

I love my wife with all my heart, but it’s been five years and I have needs.

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By *lmparkgreenMan
12 weeks ago

Hornchurch

I've been in a sexless marriage for years, that's why I decided to explore my bi side. Every cloud......

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By *wbtmMan
12 weeks ago

Sherborne


"Not had sex with mine for approximately 4 years now .. she isn’t interested and I gave up trying to initiate "

Absolutely 100% same for me

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By *amsoonMan
12 weeks ago

stornoway

My wife at 79 still enjoys sex just not with me which gives me space to meet other men

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By *al430Man
12 weeks ago

Nearby

Happily married but love exploring my sexuality with like minded guys these days

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By *endy CMan
12 weeks ago

Huntingdon


"So who else is married but wife not interested any more.its what awoken my bi side again was chatting to another married guy when I was walking the dog one thing led to another and we sucked each other off "

So very true, so many guys in the same boat. I dress up in undies and heels and they love to use my hole xxx....Toni

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By *ideruler58Man
12 weeks ago

Southampton


"Not had sex with mine for approximately 4 years now .. she isn’t interested and I gave up trying to initiate

Absolutely 100% same for me "

Same here

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By *irralGuy20Man
12 weeks ago

Wirral

Its actually ME who turned off our sexual tap as i just lost interest in having sex with her - i'm more interested in being fucked by men now

My wife has 2 FWB'S that she sees (separately) when she has needs in that particular area. I've met both fellas who are absolutely decent blokes who I get on with.

Bedroom aside our marriage is perfect, we've simply become platonic over time.

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By *sfguyMan
12 weeks ago

stockton

I know that feeling. Think its what leads us to our bi side.

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By *ideruler58Man
12 weeks ago

Southampton


"I know that feeling. Think its what leads us to our bi side."

It sure is

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By *IPMANMan
12 weeks ago

FULHAM

It works the same for gay men too. My male partner and I haven't had sex for at least 25 years, so I look elsewhere.

Or perhaps we are all really sluts at heart ( be it male or female, gay or straight) and will go sniffing it out when the fancy takes us and bisexuality is a myth

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By *irralGuy20Man
12 weeks ago

Wirral

Its no coincidence that a lot of men don't start to explore their bi curiosity until after a ling period with another partner

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By *ldderMan
12 weeks ago

Oxford and Sevenoaks

My wife went off sex years ago but I feel am always happy to let married men who no longer have sex at home I'm very happy to let them empty their balls anywhere they want always needing cock and cum

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By *oger_07Man
12 weeks ago

Huddersfield

I have sex with my wife but I like to suck dick. I love to be in my knees and suck dick and worship dick.

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By *IPMANMan
12 weeks ago

FULHAM

So it just boils down to. .. "any port in a storm" sexually

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By *jh59Man
12 weeks ago

Hinckley

Sex stopped in this marriage early last summer when she said to me one morning that she no longer wanted sex with me due to the menopause, only to find out a few months later reason was that she was getting fucked by another guy

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By *rselicker69Man
12 weeks ago

Birmingham

Going from anything goes sex including swinging to zero.that was about 10 years ago.been a wanker ever since

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By *omethingExciting41Man
12 weeks ago

Somewhere

Just starting down this road only had sex about 5 times in 2 years, at first I thought it was me but it seems to be her sadly. Only just turned 40 as well and doesn't seem to care what it does to me

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By *afekMan
12 weeks ago

Bo’ness

Most of the guys I see are married. Some aren’t getting sex and some are. I know a few guys in a same sex relationship that aren’t getting it with their partner too. That includes me. He just isn’t interested in it with anyone. I was shocked to find out how common this is when one is still in need and the other isn’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Wife hates sex. I prefer cock. I’m happy

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By *aldie guyMan
12 weeks ago

Sydenham

Haven't had sex with the wife in years hence like cock

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By *ucker4you80Man
12 weeks ago

Calne

You're born gay or bi, you shouldn't have got married in the first place, you can't then justify the playing away by blaming it on the Mrs.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Same here less sex now with my partner after over 15 years together. We live together like brothers now.

He has sex fun with other guys instead. He has several regular Thai, Filipino and Malaysian gay sex partners/buddies. Sometimes I joined in if it's a Caucasian man.

And I have sex fun with other guys too. So much sexual exploration with other guys has transformed me into a slut with no point of return. Sex with men is so exciting, enjoyable and pleasurable and I crave for it very often like food when I am hungry.

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By *oseph_xxxMan
12 weeks ago

London

Yeah same here, no sex for over to years, compensating with

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

No sex for years

Menopause has ruined our sex life

Depression hit and low moods

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Im a married guy, who's wife is unwell. A lower spinal problem, exacerbated by arthritis in her hips means sex for her is very painful. As a result we haven't had a sexual element to our marriage for above 10 years. Wanking only helps for so long. So here I am

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By *luecatMan
12 weeks ago

near Gt Yarmouth


"So who else is married but wife not interested any more.its what awoken my bi side again was chatting to another married guy when I was walking the dog one thing led to another and we sucked each other off "

I was in the same situation and now prefer guys anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

That's what brought me here. Im enjoying it more than I thought i would

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By *lawioMan
12 weeks ago

Caernarfon

I'm exactly the same no sex no last few years ,hence why I'm on here although do get the occasional hand job 😂😂

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By *avewill1Man
12 weeks ago

melksham

Thankfully the wife and I still enjoy an active sex. Probably fair to say it's not as frequent as it use to be

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Love my wife but totally seamless marriage. We both to blame but heightened my bi side

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By *dstefiMan
12 weeks ago

Solihull

To.me they're different things. Men and cock are not a substitute for sex with a woman. I mean sure it may serve as substitute sex for a lot of frustrated married guys but qualitatively it's different for me at least.

Women are never going to have a cock. Clits and female orgasms are a load of fun for sure, but a magnificent erect penis is something else altogether. Maybe because we all have one of our own, we understand and appreciate it better, and know intuitively from a lifetime of experience the rising force and unstoppable pressure of the male orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I have no sex with my wife. She even hates holding hands. But I prefer to dress and meet men or other ladies. Sucking cock

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By *dstefiMan
12 weeks ago

Solihull


"You're born gay or bi, you shouldn't have got married in the first place, you can't then justify the playing away by blaming it on the Mrs. "

I don't buy that. I was happily straight for my first five decades. Four kids and two marriages to women (still very happy with the second) and a few affairs as well.

I'm a latecomer to gay sexuality but loving it when I get the opportunity. I love to suck a cock and ride one. But I wasn't born that way, it's a side of me I've come to appreciate.

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By *ucker4you80Man
12 weeks ago

Calne


"You're born gay or bi, you shouldn't have got married in the first place, you can't then justify the playing away by blaming it on the Mrs.

I don't buy that. I was happily straight for my first five decades. Four kids and two marriages to women (still very happy with the second) and a few affairs as well.

I'm a latecomer to gay sexuality but loving it when I get the opportunity. I love to suck a cock and ride one. But I wasn't born that way, it's a side of me I've come to appreciate. "

Sorry, but that's just not true, it's in your genes, born gay.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Yea mrs no intrest last 7 yrs at first played with women only but then discover cock!!!! Mmmmmmmmmm lucky me.

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By *azaMan
12 weeks ago

Walsall

It's been about ten years for me that's why I love cock more and more now

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By *racknell DeepthroaterMan
12 weeks ago

Bracknell

A lot of the guys I meet with are in sexless marriages. They enjoy spending time with me and I enjoy letting them have the enjoyment and doing things their wives do not like such as sucking and anal too.

They go away content and Happy knowing they can return to me as their guilty pleasure....

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Sex in a partnership is great, but things change. In my first mariage which lasted 22 years she when off sex after about year 15, that started me back on my love of Bi sex. When she died of cancer, I found my second wife who like me was Bi. We enjoyed each other and had group meetings which often included her fucking with me and other men and other women. I also fucked men and women in that forum. We always however returned to the marital bed and regularly fucked. Now I'm alone again and miss a regular sex life. The ups and downs of a sex life in two wives and some extra cock and cunt.

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By *onkfish10Man
12 weeks ago

Shropshire

Yep I'm in this club been 6 years now and yes I miss pussy

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By *eeman70Man
12 weeks ago

Kilbirnie

Yeah in the same situation here.

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By *ondomhunterMan
3 weeks ago

hastings

Have not had sex for over 7 years. It just stopped. Discussed it a few times over thise year. Sometimes she claimed up and said nothing other times we argued.

I have started fantasising about her fucking other guys and yesterday spoke at length with a guy on hear about him fucking her. I was so turned on when I went to bed.

I asked her will we ever have sex again.

Conversation went really well. Not only did she say yes we will but even said she misses it too.

We cuddled and I rested my hand on her tits.

I am now on a promise!

Massive step forward!

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By *ustOneBearMan
3 weeks ago

Neath

Wonder if any gay men on here decided to try Fanny when their husband or boyfriend went off sex?

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By *arridMan
3 weeks ago

Brighton


"Have not had sex for over 7 years. It just stopped. Discussed it a few times over thise year. Sometimes she claimed up and said nothing other times we argued.

I have started fantasising about her fucking other guys and yesterday spoke at length with a guy on hear about him fucking her. I was so turned on when I went to bed.

I asked her will we ever have sex again.

Conversation went really well. Not only did she say yes we will but even said she misses it too.

We cuddled and I rested my hand on her tits.

I am now on a promise!

Massive step forward!"

Give her a quick fuck and ask her if she wants an mmf and you know a guy in Brighton

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By *ickSeekerMan
3 weeks ago

Canterbury

Gay partnership of 26 years here, sexless for the last eight (partner's med reasons). My FwB of four years been hetero married for 30 yrs, the last 10 of which apparently sexless - sounds like a turbulent, acrimonious marriage - so, well, here we all are

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By *ugged NorthernerMan
3 weeks ago

North East

Not married but can’t remember the last time me and wor lass had sex and for someone like myself who had a huge sex drive it’s a bloody nightmare

It’s no wonder I’m so uptight and frustrated all the time 🤦🏻

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By *ig3Man
3 weeks ago

Maldon

Not had sex with Mrs for 4 years just stopped

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By *ais1Man
3 weeks ago

Renfrewshire


"Wonder if any gay men on here decided to try Fanny when their husband or boyfriend went off sex? "

Doubt it somehow lol

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

I cant begin to wonder what instigated this chat with another guy while out walking the dog, that instantly led to sucking each others cocks.

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By *orwdMan
3 weeks ago

Sheffield

Once it stops with wife very difficult to get it going again.

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By *k74Man
3 weeks ago

Leicester

Join the club

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By *urious44walesMan
3 weeks ago

South Wales

Same here, wife's not really interested anymore, so im Exploring a bi side thats always been lurking

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By *ockfun1970Man
3 weeks ago

North west

Same here, no sex with the wife, but do enjoy playing with guys.

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By *orkie64Man
3 weeks ago

pontypridd


"Wonder if any gay men on here decided to try Fanny when their husband or boyfriend went off sex? "

God, no thanks, i'd rather be celibate.

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By *ayWarwichshireMan
3 weeks ago

Warwickshire

Menopause is causing my issue, so here i am lol

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By *urious44walesMan
3 weeks ago

South Wales

Looks like loads of us guys in the same boat!

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By *ova69Man
3 weeks ago

Belper

Main reason I’m on here ,but find I enjoy fucking guys more than women now

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By *erasusMan
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

Guys to play with are more plentiful than other ladies to play with

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By *arridMan
3 weeks ago

Brighton


"Menopause is causing my issue, so here i am lol"
Should be called Menostop.

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By *amanthaCDTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Pembrokeshire


"Wonder if any gay men on here decided to try Fanny when their husband or boyfriend went off sex? "

Very unlikely when there are so many other men ready to have sex because the women are not.

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By *amelaXTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Swindon

I'll be your wife for the day

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By *shleigh1964TV/TS
3 weeks ago

penzance

Holy crap, so many in this situation, but then nature was having a giggle when we came along. Guys wake horny, rarely is a woman early soon as they open their eyes from sleep and guys get ultra horny in later life and the ladies go off it lol

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By *ugh40Man
3 weeks ago

Wetherby

If you approach marriage with an open mind, you realise that she will go off the boil but a marriage is about companionship !

Around this time, the internal gay alarm clock goes off and you suddenly realise that there is loads of sexual fun out there.

Problem now is that the guys you meet have to understand that it is fun, sex, not forever.

That is the difficult bit 😇

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By *traight.lad45Man
3 weeks ago

Ebbw Vale

We've all been there

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By *onmar01Couple (MM)
3 weeks ago

Blackpool

Doesn't just happen in straight relationships.

Sex with my husband these days is very rare, can't even remember the last time we had sex.

Good thing though is that he gets off just watching me with another guy.

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By *eekingcumsMan
3 weeks ago

Stoke/Stafford


"If you approach marriage with an open mind, you realise that she will go off the boil but a marriage is about companionship !

Around this time, the internal gay alarm clock goes off and you suddenly realise that there is loads of sexual fun out there.

Problem now is that the guys you meet have to understand that it is fun, sex, not forever.

That is the difficult bit 😇

"

Entirely agree, right where I am at present.

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By *airythighs61Man
3 weeks ago

North Norfolk

35 years later and no sex !!!

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By *echman.1Man
3 weeks ago

Liverpool

Seems like we're all in the same boat

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By *hrisWellsMan
3 weeks ago

Shepton Mallet

Menopause, but for me im more attracted to cock these days

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By *ndyfy7Man
3 weeks ago

Fleetwood

I’m a professional masseur for men - I see a lot of men - all of them have partners that aren’t interested in sex now- due to various reasons. I provide a needed service

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By *ayhubbyMan
3 weeks ago

liverpool

No sex for years but I prefer cock now

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By *obbie300Man
3 weeks ago

BANGOR Co Down

Yea lot of guys in same boat and rather than get involved with all the issues in finding another woman thetvyr6 guys and find they luv cock fun,and no strings attached

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By *obbie300Man
3 weeks ago

BANGOR Co Down


"Yea lot of guys in same boat and rather than get involved with all the issues in finding another woman thetvyr6 guys and find they luv cock fun,and no strings attached"
sorry they turn to guys

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By *ankatallcostsMan
2 weeks ago

Solihull


"My wife at 79 still enjoys sex just not with me which gives me space to meet other men"

Wow the thought of your "mature" wife enjoying sex with others is a massive turn on!

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By *im le2Man
2 weeks ago

aylestone leic

Why is it the wife going off sex turns men gay.

If you can't attract another woman that's probably why your wife has gone off sex.

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By *airythighs61Man
2 weeks ago

North Norfolk

Can be the same in a gay marriage or civil partnership.....

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By *crsubguyMan
2 weeks ago

Manchester

Submissive unshockable sissy girl for phone message for number

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By *urieMan
2 weeks ago

Ashford

Love to look after a local older frustrated guy or guy's who's wives no longer get naughty

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