FabGuys.com forum: What does a short meet mean to you?

By *ayHaych OP Man
2 weeks ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

Kind of curious, kind of venting.

I used to think I preferred short meets, but to me a short meet is 30-45 minutes. Now I’m wondering if most people see that as a long meet or a short meet?

Recently when chatting to guys on here they want a short meet of 10 minutes. One person didn’t really say what their expectations were but then wanted me to cum in literally 1-2 minutes of arriving.

Do people really manage to meet and cum in 10 minutes?

I’d rather have a wank than go through the effort of messaging, showering, travelling to the meet, then only playing for 10 minutes.

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By *aohiaochiaokengMan
2 weeks ago

London

Met a guy 2 weeks ago. He was working so we only have a short meet. Just wanked together in his private office toilet.

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By *adbod13Man
2 weeks ago

swansea

To me a short meeting isn’t about the time per se, but time spent talking or not.

If it’s a blow and go or a turn up, fuck and fuck off it’s a short meeting.

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By *ayHaych OP Man
2 weeks ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

"To me a short meeting isn’t about the time per se, but time spent talking or not.

If it’s a blow and go or a turn up, fuck and fuck off it’s a short meeting. "

Yeah I’d agree with this.

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By *upertedMan
2 weeks ago

Nelson

I'm easy either way. I rarely go out to meet, preferring to invite visitors to mine. I'm bottom so all the clean up then isn't too much of a chore.

I also like cruising meets at a local beauty spot. By nature (quite literally

) They're often very quick due to excitement, more married men in a rush, drop in aspect of a blowie on the way home too.

Love longer meets tho as well.

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By *evanianMan
2 weeks ago

Tegeingl, Gogledd Cymru

Wham Bam Thank You Sam!!😆

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By *ildwestheroMan
2 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

One of the shortest meets I ever had was with a guy who had told his wife he was going to Tesco to browse some of their gardening stuff. He apologetically explained this so we quickly got undressed, had a brief kiss and cuddle, I sucked him off then he got dressed, shook hands and was gone.

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By *ometimesAnnaTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Worcester

A short meet for me is one that lasts longer than the time it takes to get ready.

I like 3-4 hours minimum, yes I can think of enough different things to do. I've had many 12 hour plus meets.

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By *hristine_JTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Anglesey

"A short meet for me is one that lasts longer than the time it takes to get ready.

I like 3-4 hours minimum, yes I can think of enough different things to do. I've had many 12 hour plus meets. "

Exactly, nothing worse than spending hours getting ready for the whole meet to be over and him gone within 10 minutes

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By *noncumdumpMan
2 weeks ago

Watford

Go with the flow and get mutual fulfilment. If it's one minute or 3 hours, job done if you're both finished.

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By *ountainMan
2 weeks ago

ipswich

15 mins.

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By *fourjMan
2 weeks ago

Here, there or somewhere nearish March

The shortest meets I’ve had (apart from a cruising encounter) is probably about ten minutes. Those guys tend to cum and go while leaving me high and dry. The nine-hour one was much more to my liking.

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By *ice WankerMan
2 weeks ago

Lancs

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By *ice WankerMan
2 weeks ago

Lancs

10 mins

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By *uy near ArundelMan
2 weeks ago

Nr Arundel

Recently mine has been all weekend

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By *eedsbearmanMan
2 weeks ago

Leeds

Under 5 ft 6

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By *ice WankerMan
2 weeks ago

Lancs

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By *ice WankerMan
2 weeks ago

Lancs

"Under 5 ft 6"

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By *ichey6Man
2 weeks ago

aberdeen

More time to eat crisps

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By *4BearsMan
2 weeks ago

East Manchester

I'd say anything up to 15 minutes

That's not to say anything over 15 is long, mind

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By *ammi TrashTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Totton/Southampton

Frustrating is what it means to me...

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By *laze69Man
2 weeks ago

Coventry

For me a short meet is when you just meet up, clothes off and get straight down to business.

They have there place but do enjoy a longer meet and get to know someone a bit

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By *veregebottomEdinMan
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

A short meet for me is turn up straight to business blow your load and go. Usually prefer to take my time and enjoy a meet but sometimes a horny blow and and go is needed

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By *annyDanielleMan
2 weeks ago

Street, Somerset

"One of the shortest meets I ever had was with a guy who had told his wife he was going to Tesco to browse some of their gardening stuff. He apologetically explained this so we quickly got undressed, had a brief kiss and cuddle, I sucked him off then he got dressed, shook hands and was gone."

Did you swipe his Club Card?

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By *amanthaCDTV/TS
2 weeks ago

France and

To me a short meet would generally be about 30 minutes. On a few occasions it has been 5 to 10 minutes but thankfully those are very rare. My preference is for meets that last several hours.

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By *enardeMan
2 weeks ago

Barnsley

Under 5’8”

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By *SAOFMan
2 weeks ago

Work/Play in London, live in Kent

"I used to think I preferred short meets, but to me a short meet is 30-45 minutes. Now I’m wondering if most people see that as a long meet or a short meet? "

I would suggest 45 minutes is a long meet.

A cum-and-go is probably up to 15 minutes. Most meets are more 30-45 minutes though up to an hour is not unheard of. Any expectation of more than an hour is more a date and more than 90 minutes to be is a boyfriend-experience.

Each has their place and there is neither right nor wrong.

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By *LOVESUCKINGMan
2 weeks ago

colchester

My shortest meet ever had to be about 3 minutes, had been chatting with this guy all day and had agreed to a car meet in my village, we confirmed the spot and I walked 15 minutes to meet him, I jumped in his car and could already see from his bulge that his cock was rock hard and big! He got it out and I put my mouth straight on it! Literally 1 minute passed and he was telling me he was close! So I slowed down, but after 2 mins and 30 seconds we were at a point where I could barely touch him. Sure enough he pulled away, opened the car door and sprayed his load all over the bushes! I was absolutely gutted as his cock was so fucking nice! X

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By *um lover 222Man
2 weeks ago

London

For me it’s a cum n go, I love doing these kind of meets at my place, I just suck to completion then the guy leaves, I don’t expect anything in return. I used to meet a bus driver at mine, he would pop around on his break, he was in and out in five minutes or less.

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By *enardeMan
2 weeks ago

Barnsley

"My shortest meet ever had to be about 3 minutes, had been chatting with this guy all day and had agreed to a car meet in my village, we confirmed the spot and I walked 15 minutes to meet him, I jumped in his car and could already see from his bulge that his cock was rock hard and big! He got it out and I put my mouth straight on it! Literally 1 minute passed and he was telling me he was close! So I slowed down, but after 2 mins and 30 seconds we were at a point where I could barely touch him. Sure enough he pulled away, opened the car door and sprayed his load all over the bushes! I was absolutely gutted as his cock was so fucking nice! X"

Why didn’t you swallow

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By *hagmenowplsMan
2 weeks ago

Hereford

A short....single malt whisky

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By *dstefiTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Solihull

I take a long time to cum so I much prefer longer meets, couple of hours at least. Anything less feels a bit rushed.

Even though apparently have skills. My last couple of meets the guys came unexpectedly quickly. Am I complaining?

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By *exualCumeleonMan
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

To me a short meet means in do what you have cum to do and go asap, As a top this is all for the bottom hosts pleasure I haven't done this type of meet for a long time.

My average meet is normally 30ish minutes when we can take as much time as is needed then go our separate ways.

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By *ornyguy911Man
2 weeks ago

harrogate

Had guy ask for a short meet he just wanted a suck and go

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By *lackbootzMan
2 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

" … I would suggest 45 minutes is a long meet.

Each has their place and there is neither right nor wrong… "

These may be your opinions or experiences but that’s all they are. They are somewhat off-beam to those of many others, that I can tell you.

“though up to an hour is not unheard of” ..?!

“more than an hour is more a date” ..?!

Utterly bizarre.

If I’m playing with someone in a club or sauna or cruising ground, 5 or 10 minutes might be a quickie taster before moving on to someone else, 20 or 30 minutes will allow something a bit more intimate or memorable.

If I’ve gone to the bother of arranging to meet someone/several, and parties have traveled to mine or theirs or a host or a hotel, time and effort has been invested… the idea that someone could be out the door in under an hour would make me unlikely to bother going.

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