FabGuys.com forum: A lot of sensitive souls on here

By *iscreetblk123 OP Man
38 weeks ago

cdf

Why do so many struggle with soft rejection ie “not right now” or a few mins delay in replying. So called big men have the most fragile egos sometimes. It’s just a flesh market here but some take it a “no” or rejection as a slight on their character.

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By *eneral distanceMan
38 weeks ago

st helens

That’s why my profile has all the info on

So I can just reference that to them

Mostly took positive

However

Not sure if they are overly sensitive or just needy and lack self respect so need that

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By *arcosa66Man
38 weeks ago

London

I couldn't give a monkey's generally.

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By *amie2018cMan
38 weeks ago

Fens, W Norf

"I couldn't give a monkey's generally."

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By *ugged NorthernerMan
38 weeks ago

North East

It’s all about it letting them get to you and move on mate. There’s some snowflakes on here who will throw their dummy out the pram over the slightest thing. I had one the other day report me because we had a disagreement on a topic in the forum it’s pathetic.

We are all after one thing so why everyone can’t just get on is beyond me.

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By *rivate fuck buddyMan
38 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

I dont care at all

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By *LASGOW 60s GUYMan
38 weeks ago

Glasgow

I always ignore the one word/line messages and the number of follow-up messages is rediculous. READ THE PROFILE ends up being the answer. Usually shuts them up

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By *os001Man
38 weeks ago

Oxford

A no thanks is perfectly fine, happy to move on here.

What pisses me off, are the non responders or ghosting. Have some balls and respond either way.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

"A no thanks is perfectly fine, happy to move on here.

What pisses me off, are the non responders or ghosting. Have some balls and respond either way."

👻 😂

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By *ron PandaMan
38 weeks ago

Eridge

Block button and move on. Life’s too short to waste time on incompatible people.

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By *damb00Man
38 weeks ago

Leicestershire

"A no thanks is perfectly fine, happy to move on here.

What pisses me off, are the non responders or ghosting. Have some balls and respond either way."

No one owes you a response, and being ignored is the clearest response of them all, means they’re not interested.

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By *endleGuy_01Man
38 weeks ago

Nelson

The ones I tend to ignore are the ones who clearly haven't bothered to read my profile. So if they can't be bothered to read it then I'll not be bothered to reply.

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By *rivate fuck buddyMan
2 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

I tend to message and forget, either they reply or they don't. Mostly they do until I share a face pic,but I am an ugly sod

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By *luteus maxMan
2 weeks ago

Waterlooville at night

I don't mind not right now, I'm pleased they have replied, and I always send a response that says thanks for letting me know, and msg me when you are available.

I've had some take me up on the offer.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
2 weeks ago

Didcot

"Why do so many struggle with soft rejection ie “not right now” or a few mins delay in replying. So called big men have the most fragile egos sometimes. It’s just a flesh market here but some take it a “no” or rejection as a slight on their character.

This site may be a "flesh market" but that doesn't mean we don't have the right to say no if a person doesn't fit with our preferences, is too pushy for our liking, something doesn't feel right or if we are just not in the mood at the time.

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By *ridayguyMan
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

hello to all the sensitive souls out there X

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By *ridayguyMan
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

I'm a sensitive soul too X

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