FabGuys.com forum: Do you miss your ex-partner?

By (user no longer on site) OP
21 weeks ago

Watching my ex-partner's sex video-clips with his sex buddies and masturbating. So horny as fuck.

Do you miss your ex-partner after leaving him? How did you cope?

As for me I found myself meeting more guys and have more sex to relieve my lust and horny feeling.

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By *ensualblokeMan
21 weeks ago

Colchester/London

My ex and I split very ammicably, and remain friends. I miss certain instances of the sex, of course, but have moved on. Its all good.

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By *upertedMan
21 weeks ago

Nelson

My ex did a bit of a number on me. He was a passive aggressive control freak and I held my own to a degree but it was just so wearing.

I finally broke up with him after 5.5yrs.

It has taken me a good number of years since to stop thinking about him. The sex was amazing and I do miss that. I swear we did it every day in some form. I/we fulfilled many kinks and fantasies together.

I dont miss the gaslighting or to my fault always thinking things will get better.

I am so very glad that the chapter is now closed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
21 weeks ago

"My ex did a bit of a number on me. He was a passive aggressive control freak and I held my own to a degree but it was just so wearing.

I finally broke up with him after 5.5yrs.

I dont miss the gaslighting or to my fault always thinking things will get better.

I am so very glad that the chapter is now closed. "

You are lucky to get over it. I keep waking up thinking about him with his boyfriend having sex, feeling jealous and at the same time feeling horny.

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By *ucksitupMan
21 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

"My ex did a bit of a number on me. He was a passive aggressive control freak and I held my own to a degree but it was just so wearing.

I finally broke up with him after 5.5yrs.

I dont miss the gaslighting or to my fault always thinking things will get better.

I am so very glad that the chapter is now closed. "

Looks like it.

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By *damb00Man
21 weeks ago

Leicestershire

Yes, miss him everyday, he had a bad stroke and we could no longer be together

Although, we stay in contact and I visit him when he’s back in Nottingham once per month.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
21 weeks ago

"Yes, miss him everyday, he had a bad stroke and we could no longer be together

Although, we stay in contact and I visit him when he’s back in Nottingham once per month. "

Is he in a nursing home?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
21 weeks ago

"Yes, miss him everyday, he had a bad stroke and we could no longer be together

Although, we stay in contact and I visit him when he’s back in Nottingham once per month. "

Why not you live with him and look after him?

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By *aturistnudeMan
21 weeks ago

Hoylake

Yes have had too that ended one was controlling behaviour and a bit selfish in bed as he wouldn't cum inside me only wanted me to have him cum in my mouth

Second one thought i was going to bankroll him the sex was good with both but i like things more adventurous such as three sums both had gorgeous cocks though pretty big and girthy

I does take time getting over any relationship worth while taking a break from Fab and enjoy holidays and travel

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By *ildwestheroMan
21 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

It must be 25 years ago but we had enjoyed two wonderful years. Not living together or even open about our relationship as he was married albeit a sexless marriage. We spent as much time together as we could and even talked about what it would be like if we could have lived openly together. Family and work pressure split us up. I've had affairs and relationships since but never quite the same. Although we had not seen or even been in touch for years I constantly thought about him and then discovered, quite by chance, that he had died after a short illness about 18 month ago.

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By *ockysmountMan
21 weeks ago

sheerness

I miss the stud that turned me bottom role sub

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By *iono555Man
21 weeks ago

DERBY

Every day

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By *LASGOW 60s GUYMan
21 weeks ago

Glasgow

Glad to see the back of the cheating bastard

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By *acingfanMan
21 weeks ago

Huddersfield

I miss one.

But not the other.

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By *ickeMan
21 weeks ago

watford

As far x wife concerned couldn’t give a shit not seen her for 25 years .

I had a boy friend once as in relationship.

Yeah I miss him he really great guy .

I was emotionally involved with him .

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By *ranford cruiserTV/TS
21 weeks ago

Heathrow

No can't stand the bitch

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By *enardeMan
21 weeks ago

Barnsley

I divorced after 26 years

It was not amicable

After about a year I did sometimes feel as though something was missing, sort out out of sorts

I realised it was the fact that she was not in my life …which wasn’t a problem as I left her

It didn’t last

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By *arridMan
21 weeks ago

Brighton

I’ve only ever had girlfriends. The one I dumped before I met my wife - omg I was so pleased. Psycho-Girlfriend. I even moved from a rented property to another to get away. She was a miserable fuck.

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By *bear67Man
21 weeks ago

Aldershot

Desperately. He passed away in March. We were together for nearly 33 years.

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By *aturefunswTV/TS
21 weeks ago

saltford

Like Germany misses Nazism !

Seriously I miss some play mates wished we had met more often .

Miss the boxer dog I had 1000 x more

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By *ustOneBearMan
21 weeks ago

Neath

I miss my husband.

But the three boyfriends I had before

No. They are ex for a reason. Sex was great with all of them. But it’s not everything

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By *oannacd70TV/TS
21 weeks ago

worcester

No as she was abusive and fckn ginger

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By *awihMan
21 weeks ago

Aldershot

"Desperately. He passed away in March. We were together for nearly 33 years."

Sorry to hear that, how are you coping? Lost mum in 2010 and dad last year. They were married for 52 years and I know he missed her every day. While he never stopped missing her, over Tim it didn’t hurt so much. Having people around that support you and you can talk to can help a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

My ex mistresss yes.

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By *o48Man
21 weeks ago

Gateshead

Not so much miss her but miss the things we did in bed on the sofa kitchen floor garden stairs you get the drift

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By *ssex33Man
21 weeks ago

thurrock Tilbury essex

I understand where you are coming from I lost my partner who was 35yrs and last Halloween he dead right front of me..it was the most horrific thing I’ve ever seen..Im going through counselling because it caused PTSD..Im getting there one baby step at a time Im lucky Ive got my parents and friends to got me threw that horrible day..I say to myself..I WILL GET THERE..

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

Every single day. Taken far too early.

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By *ndy61hMan
21 weeks ago

Plymouth

No, I just wish he'd move out of my house.

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By *ountrygentsCouple (MM)
21 weeks ago

Llandudno

"I understand where you are coming from I lost my partner who was 35yrs and last Halloween he dead right front of me..it was the most horrific thing I’ve ever seen..Im going through counselling because it caused PTSD..Im getting there one baby step at a time Im lucky Ive got my parents and friends to got me threw that horrible day..I say to myself..I WILL GET THERE.."

My sympathies are with you. I lost my most loving husband suddenly only 16 weeks ago last Thursday.

I was in work when I got the call to say he had had a heart attack whilst driving the car.

Like you I’m getting counselling, helps to a certain degree.

I miss him so much.

To all of you out there in a relationship, make the most of it every minute of the day together, you just don’t know what’s around the corner.

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By *bonybucksMan
21 weeks ago

High Wycombe

No I don’t miss any of them. Ex is an ex for a reason. Better people ahead who may even be better in bed than the ex.

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By *ip71Man
21 weeks ago

Darlington

I miss them like a 7.62mm in the napper

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By *edsguy71Man
21 weeks ago

Bedford

"No as she was abusive and fckn ginger "

Same here, mine was ginger as well, she's a nutcase as well.

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By *bear67Man
21 weeks ago

Aldershot

"Desperately. He passed away in March. We were together for nearly 33 years.

Thanks. I'm ok, all things considered. Doing my best and learning how to live differently.

Sorry to hear about your parents.

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By *bear67Man
21 weeks ago

Aldershot

Well done for being so strong and I'm sorry to hear about everything you've been through. Finding ways to cope can be difficult but it sounds like you are making progress. All the best

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By *976BeardedManMan
21 weeks ago

Essex / London

Yeah I really do

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By *bear67Man
21 weeks ago

Aldershot

"I lost my most loving husband suddenly only 16 weeks ago last Thursday.

I was in work when I got the call to say he had had a heart attack whilst driving the car.

Like you I’m getting counselling, helps to a certain degree.

I miss him so much.

To all of you out there in a relationship, make the most of it every minute of the day together, you just don’t know what’s around the corner.

My condolences. It was 18 weeks ago for me. We can only hope that the pain gets less with time. Everything has changed and it's a case of finding different ways to get through daily life. Hope the counselling is going well. Good luck

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By *awihMan
21 weeks ago

Aldershot

"Desperately. He passed away in March. We were together for nearly 33 years.

Thanks. I'm ok, all things considered. Doing my best and learning how to live differently.

Sorry to hear about your parents."

Thanks, it wasn’t the happiest day of my life finding him dead, but he was in his 90’s and had a good life, and death is just a natural part of life and something none of us can avoid at some point.

Just wanted to say don’t be afraid to still talk to your late partner. It may sound strange but from others I know who have suffered a loss it is quite common, and if it helps you to cope then just do it.

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By *ountrygentsCouple (MM)
21 weeks ago

Llandudno

"I lost my most loving husband suddenly only 16 weeks ago last Thursday.

I was in work when I got the call to say he had had a heart attack whilst driving the car.

Like you I’m getting counselling, helps to a certain degree.

I miss him so much.

To all of you out there in a relationship, make the most of it every minute of the day together, you just don’t know what’s around the corner.

Thank you for your kind words. You’ll know yourself how difficult it is.

Sometimes go to bed at night hoping not to wake up in the morning.

But then when you do, you’re glad you did.

If you ever need a chat, give us a nudge xx

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By *bear67Man
21 weeks ago

Aldershot

"Just wanted to say don’t be afraid to still talk to your late partner. It may sound strange but from others I know who have suffered a loss it is quite common, and if it helps you to cope then just do it."

I talk to him constantly and it does help. He'll be sick of me by now!

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By *b20Man
21 weeks ago

Glasgow

For once a decent post

Well done posters and thank you all for an interesting read

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By *damb00Man
21 weeks ago

Leicestershire

"Yes, miss him everyday, he had a bad stroke and we could no longer be together

Although, we stay in contact and I visit him when he’s back in Nottingham once per month.

Why not you live with him and look after him?"

Many reasons, he moved to Jersey to be closer to family where they could look after him, it also happened when I was 23 and just started my career, I would have had to move away to Jersey also.

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

Since being married I have had two long term relationships with men. The last started when I was 48 with a wonderful gay man 12 years my Senior. It was difficult keeping our relationship secret and frustrating for him being openly gay in his community but having to be secret about his relationship with me. We took advantage of my wife working away and were generally able to meet quite frequently. We even managed a few nights away together as a couple. We loved each other dearly and he asked me more than once to leave her and move in with him. I came so close but lacked the courage to go through with it. Some years later I realise I made the wrong decision and I still think about him every day.

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By *hubsloverMan
21 weeks ago

East/west sussex

After experiencing a few long-term and some short-term relationships, my partner and I realized that we truly require our own space. At one point, physical intimacy became less significant, but the friendship was something I was unwilling to lose. If your partner does not allow you to have your own space, it can be quite challenging. If you are also considering being intimate with others, it is advisable to have an open discussion with your partner; otherwise, you may end up feeling guilty, which can be quite painful. I currently have a friend who was once my sexual partner, but now we are just friends and engage in various activities together, such as going on holidays or being intimate with other people. This arrangement has developed into a pleasant relationship where we both maintain our own spaces. I make an effort not to become too deeply involved in relationships, as I understand it can be very difficult to extricate oneself from them. Consider trying it my way

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By *aturistnudeMan
6 weeks ago

Hoylake

I miss my ex it got complicated in the end my first FB was i thought a bit controlling and i started to get sexually frustrated with him too

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By *aturistnudeMan
6 weeks ago

Hoylake

I miss my ex it got complicated in the end my first FB was i thought a bit controlling and i started to get sexually frustrated with him too

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By *dstefiMan
6 weeks ago

Solihull

Nah. Exes are exes not because of sexual incompatibility but for other real life reasons. Those block out any sexy feelings for me. When it's over it's over.

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By *im le2Man
6 weeks ago

aylestone leic

He wasn't a partner just a str8 mate that wanted sex a couple of times a month. I'd known him for 20+ years and then he moved abroud for work. Yeah I still miss him. Unfortunately he would never let me take naked photos or vids. He did take one shot of his cock inside me and sent it two weeks after he left. Unfortunately I lost it.

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By *astDevonGuyMan
6 weeks ago

East Devon

Did once , but with a bit of practice , right on target 🎯

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By *ohnnyangerMan
6 weeks ago

It's been almost 3 months since mine passed away. It feels like nothing and a lifetime.

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By *erscumdumpMan
6 weeks ago

Watford

"It's been almost 3 months since mine passed away. It feels like nothing and a lifetime."

Sorry for your loss

Mine. Put it this way, if I was driving down the road and he was walking on the pavement, there would be serious risk of me mounting the pavement to run the psycho over. On the plus side, since we split his life turned to shit and mine turned to gold

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By *rCurious75Man
6 weeks ago

Ashby de la Zouch

"My ex did a bit of a number on me. He was a passive aggressive control freak and I held my own to a degree but it was just so wearing.

I finally broke up with him after 5.5yrs.

I dont miss the gaslighting or to my fault always thinking things will get better.

I am so very glad that the chapter is now closed. "

Kind of the same with my ex GF

Stunning sex, she could suck for a gold medal and take anal and I was cuck for a bit. Oh god the moves she did and where we did them.

But holy shit she was a controlling jealous psycho and barely saw my family (who hated her)

A proper thinking with my dick relationship.

Miss the sex, sure as hell don’t miss everything else.

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By *op KatMan
6 weeks ago

Lochmaben

I miss my ex wife my wife now is not a patch on her I let my ex wife have boyfriends and a lover she would go and stay for a week or so and she went on holiday to the USA for a month with lover boy they even got engaged to one another but I want her back xxx

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By *ontylad87Man
6 weeks ago

pontefract

Yes; my ex gf got me into dick! Started dominating me, was very kinky

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By *issy abdl CarlyTV/TS
6 weeks ago

buckshaw

Not in the slightest, she was a psychotic bunny boiler.

Lucky escape

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By *elective_SuckerMan
6 weeks ago

Peterborough

Still love to look at my ex’s pics and stroke.

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By *cottishstevexMan
6 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Fond memories

Of ex GFs

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By *aturistnudeMan
6 weeks ago

Hoylake

Also my First ever Boyfriend .

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By *ontylad87Man
6 weeks ago

pontefract

My ex gf dominated me

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By *ubmybelly20Man
5 weeks ago

Peterborough

I miss what we had.... real love, respect and togetherness. A thoroughly good guy but it just wasn't meant to be. I miss the feelings he gave me... separated many years now and not had anything close since.

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By *i_guy_WBayMan
5 weeks ago

Whitley Bay

There is one fuckbuddy that I used to see and she was amazing, we did not end on good terms sadly, we both hurt each other and moving apart was probably for the best but I still really miss her. There are videos of her online and I have my own collection of pics and videos of her. I often wonder how it would be if we were still fucking.

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By *ldmanMan
5 weeks ago

Rawcliffe Bridge.

Yes, I do, every single day!

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By *uscleLoverMan
5 weeks ago

Weymouth

Today is my ex boyfriends birthday. Haven't spoken to him in 13 years. I miss him but have moved on.

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By *cunnySucker69Man
5 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

No, we still talk occasionally as my second son lives with her and her partner

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By *ingslynnMan
5 weeks ago

Grantham

Sometimes. She had lovely tits, bounced really nicely

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By *mizhereMan
5 weeks ago

Thame and Surrounds

Ex fuck buddies not wife lol

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By *iFunSeekerIOWMan
5 weeks ago

Newport

Yes I do very adventurous

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By *cottishstevexMan
5 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Miss her skills with sucking

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By *ichtea284Man
5 weeks ago

Beccles

"Still love to look at my ex’s pics and stroke. "

I do the same. Happy memories

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By *licequeenbear891Man
5 weeks ago

Teddington

To be honest, I would be lying if I said no. So yes, I do miss him sometimes. The sex was nice and he was a nice guy for 98.7 % of the relationship but he was an asshole in the last month of the relationship

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