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"Me, hate my body." Try to be kinder to yourself .... In a world where there's enough negativity that might come our way from others, at least be on your own side. Accentuate the positive, as the old song goes | |||
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"How many other guys on here have concerns that certain conditions that effect our body, mainly pertaining to its appearance, deters from arranging meets, or feels that this will detract from guys want to meet? " Well no matter that you can be erudite quoting sociological terms, but the simple fact is that people have always, and will always, have preferences and make judgments about how others look. Can't be helped it's human nature. | |||
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"I’m too hairy. I’m too old. I’m too fat. I’m not good looking. I sweat too much. I’m awkward. Any one or any combination of the above and many more besides. " I adore non conventionally good looking, hairy, old, fat men who sweat too much. You literally sound like my ideal meet. And I speak from experience when I tell you I’m not the only one who feels this way. I hope you find men who will make you feel as sexy as you sound. Happy hunting fella. | |||
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"There's no such thing as body dysmorphia, it's just in your head, no one suffers from it outside of themselves. " That’s literally what it is, a mental health condition where you spend a lot of time worrying about your appearance | |||
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"There's no such thing as body dysmorphia, it's just in your head, no one suffers from it outside of themselves. That’s literally what it is, a mental health condition where you spend a lot of time worrying about your appearance " Yep, and it becomes something that is happening/has happened to you, making it not your fault and releasing you of responsibility for it. We all worry, and that's all it is, you don't get a blue badge for worrying. | |||
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"There's no such thing as body dysmorphia, it's just in your head, no one suffers from it outside of themselves. That’s literally what it is, a mental health condition where you spend a lot of time worrying about your appearance Yep, and it becomes something that is happening/has happened to you, making it not your fault and releasing you of responsibility for it. We all worry, and that's all it is, you don't get a blue badge for worrying. " Incorrect, people can become extremely obsessive with it. Happens a lot to bodybuilders, who worry about the smallest things on their body, such as they have 9% body fat rather than 8%. The obsession and distress it causes can lead to other things, such as starving yourself, looking for surgery to ‘fix’ things you’re worried about, etc. However, I guess with mindfulness, everything can be fixed, magic bullet and all that. | |||
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"There's no such thing as body dysmorphia, it's just in your head, no one suffers from it outside of themselves. " It's a completely ill educated claim that "there's no such thing as body dysmorphia!". Body dysmorphic disorder is a recognised mental health condition that can cause significant distress and impact daily life of the victim and also those who are in a close relationships with them. While it's true that the experience of body dysmorphia is internal, the emotional pain and suffering are very real for those who experience it. It's not something that someone can simply 'snap out of' or control through willpower. Compassion, understanding, and professional support can make a big difference in helping individuals manage their symptoms and improve their well-being. | |||
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"Me, hate my body." Please don’t hate your body. You have a stunningly beautiful cock and I’m sure your body is equally gorgeous xxx | |||
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"… I get some abuse when I post a pic but I pity those people… " Who on earth sends you abuse..? Saying what?! LET ME AT THEM! | |||
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"There's no such thing as body dysmorphia, it's just in your head, no one suffers from it outside of themselves. " My fellow Forum users… Please don’t rise to this obvious bait. This is the gentleman who spent the mental health thread deriding anyone who didn’t use mindful meditation to rid themselves of any issues. Clearly any user who posts about worry xxxx is going to be told there is no such thing as worry xxxx and it’s all in their head (and mindful meditation will be the magic bullet to take it all away…) Pure wind-up merchant. | |||
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"There's no such thing as body dysmorphia, it's just in your head, no one suffers from it outside of themselves. My fellow Forum users… Please don’t rise to this obvious bait. This is the gentleman who spent the mental health thread deriding anyone who didn’t use mindful meditation to rid themselves of any issues. Clearly any user who posts about worry xxxx is going to be told there is no such thing as worry xxxx and it’s all in their head (and mindful meditation will be the magic bullet to take it all away…) Pure wind-up merchant. " Ah yes, the gatekeeper of Fab, no one can post if he doesn't like what they say. Show me where body dysmorphia is located in a person? | |||
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"There's no such thing as body dysmorphia, it's just in your head, no one suffers from it outside of themselves. My fellow Forum users… Please don’t rise to this obvious bait. This is the gentleman who spent the mental health thread deriding anyone who didn’t use mindful meditation to rid themselves of any issues. Clearly any user who posts about worry xxxx is going to be told there is no such thing as worry xxxx and it’s all in their head (and mindful meditation will be the magic bullet to take it all away…) Pure wind-up merchant. Ah yes, the gatekeeper of Fab, no one can post if he doesn't like what they say. Show me where body dysmorphia is located in a person? " It’s a mental health condition, thought that had already been mentioned further up the thread 🤷♂️ | |||
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"I know I have the body of an athletes "A failed n broken sumo wrestler in my case! | |||
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"There is that line from the lovely Moira of Schitt's Creek: "You may currently think, 'Oh, I'm too spooky.' Or, 'Nobody wants to see these tiny boobies.' But, believe me, one day you will look at those photos with much kinder eyes and say, 'Dear God, I was a beautiful thing!'" 💕 " So true I look back at pics from 20 years ago where I was called fat and think “ I wish I was just that fat now” | |||
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"I think I used to , to a degree. Now it's a case of it's who I am and it's what I've got . You can make small changes , but just be happy and accept it's who you are " Nope, no no. Blackbootz will not like this, best remove this comment. | |||
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"I think I used to , to a degree. Now it's a case of it's who I am and it's what I've got . You can make small changes , but just be happy and accept it's who you are " Exactly that. As I got older I just decided to say fuck it, I’ll have fun with people who are attracted to me and not waste time worrying about those who aren’t. | |||
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"There's no such thing as body dysmorphia, it's just in your head, no one suffers from it outside of themselves. That’s literally what it is, a mental health condition where you spend a lot of time worrying about your appearance Yep, and it becomes something that is happening/has happened to you, making it not your fault and releasing you of responsibility for it. We all worry, and that's all it is, you don't get a blue badge for worrying. Incorrect, people can become extremely obsessive with it. Happens a lot to bodybuilders, who worry about the smallest things on their body, such as they have 9% body fat rather than 8%. The obsession and distress it causes can lead to other things, such as starving yourself, looking for surgery to ‘fix’ things you’re worried about, etc. However, I guess with mindfulness, everything can be fixed, magic bullet and all that." Exactly this. When you are looking for perfection as bodybuilders and models are it will never be achieved The best thing to do is stop comparing yourself to others. To change anything takes determination and dedication. When your appearance becomes an obsession , I'm too fat, I'm too thin, my cocks too small, I'm unattractive and you think that is all others see then you're wasting your life. A majority of people dont give a flying fuck what you look like . | |||
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"I’m too hairy. I’m too old. I’m too fat. I’m not good looking. I sweat too much. I’m awkward. Any one or any combination of the above and many more besides. " Different strokes; personally hairy, older sweaty men that are chubby (especially with a beer belly) are quite possibly the sexiest type of guys imaginable to me. Genuinely have I no attraction to ripped muscular or young guys. I appreciate them aesthetically and as friends but not sexually. | |||
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"I read recently that someone said, every time they have a negative thought about themselves, they are going to imagine it’s Trump saying it to them. So they can easily dismiss it. I’m going to try it. ( other politicians are available) I’ve always found the men that don’t fit the conventional ideals of beauty attractive. I’ve often said to friends, well we’ll never fall out over a man. I’m not happy with my body but I’m working on it. I get some abuse when I post a pic but I pity those people. " I like that analogy about Trump saying it, you'd just dismiss it wouldn't you, coming from that narcissist? I'll try it next when I look in the mirror!  | |||
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"There's no such thing as body dysmorphia, it's just in your head, no one suffers from it outside of themselves. That’s literally what it is, a mental health condition where you spend a lot of time worrying about your appearance Yep, and it becomes something that is happening/has happened to you, making it not your fault and releasing you of responsibility for it. We all worry, and that's all it is, you don't get a blue badge for worrying. Incorrect, people can become extremely obsessive with it. Happens a lot to bodybuilders, who worry about the smallest things on their body, such as they have 9% body fat rather than 8%. The obsession and distress it causes can lead to other things, such as starving yourself, looking for surgery to ‘fix’ things you’re worried about, etc. However, I guess with mindfulness, everything can be fixed, magic bullet and all that. Exactly this. When you are looking for perfection as bodybuilders and models are it will never be achieved The best thing to do is stop comparing yourself to others. To change anything takes determination and dedication. When your appearance becomes an obsession , I'm too fat, I'm too thin, my cocks too small, I'm unattractive and you think that is all others see then you're wasting your life. A majority of people dont give a flying fuck what you look like . " I've seen guys on here so dysmorphic that they use other people's pics and believe it's their huge cock in the pics  | |||
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"I know I have the body of an athletes "which athlete ?? lol | |||
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"There's no such thing as body dysmorphia, it's just in your head, no one suffers from it outside of themselves. My fellow Forum users… Please don’t rise to this obvious bait. This is the gentleman who spent the mental health thread deriding anyone who didn’t use mindful meditation to rid themselves of any issues. Clearly any user who posts about worry xxxx is going to be told there is no such thing as worry xxxx and it’s all in their head (and mindful meditation will be the magic bullet to take it all away…) Pure wind-up merchant. " Thanks for the heads-up Blackbootz, much appreciated. 🙂👍 | |||
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"I know I have the body of an athletes
which athlete ?? lol"Is Darts a sport? | |||
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"There's no such thing as body dysmorphia, it's just in your head, no one suffers from it outside of themselves. My fellow Forum users… Please don’t rise to this obvious bait. This is the gentleman who spent the mental health thread deriding anyone who didn’t use mindful meditation to rid themselves of any issues. Clearly any user who posts about worry xxxx is going to be told there is no such thing as worry xxxx and it’s all in their head (and mindful meditation will be the magic bullet to take it all away…) Pure wind-up merchant. Thanks for the heads-up Blackbootz, much appreciated. 🙂👍 " I'm not sure Bootz is going to be any kinder to you, what with your religion, try not to mention it in his forum. | |||
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"I’m too hairy. I’m too old. I’m too fat. I’m not good looking. I sweat too much. I’m awkward. Any one or any combination of the above and many more besides. I adore non conventionally good looking, hairy, old, fat men who sweat too much. You literally sound like my ideal meet. And I speak from experience when I tell you I’m not the only one who feels this way. I hope you find men who will make you feel as sexy as you sound. Happy hunting fella. " I'll second that! My thoughts entirely. | |||
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"There's no such thing as body dysmorphia, it's just in your head, no one suffers from it outside of themselves. That’s literally what it is, a mental health condition where you spend a lot of time worrying about your appearance Yep, and it becomes something that is happening/has happened to you, making it not your fault and releasing you of responsibility for it. We all worry, and that's all it is, you don't get a blue badge for worrying. Incorrect, people can become extremely obsessive with it. Happens a lot to bodybuilders, who worry about the smallest things on their body, such as they have 9% body fat rather than 8%. The obsession and distress it causes can lead to other things, such as starving yourself, looking for surgery to ‘fix’ things you’re worried about, etc. However, I guess with mindfulness, everything can be fixed, magic bullet and all that. Exactly this. When you are looking for perfection as bodybuilders and models are it will never be achieved The best thing to do is stop comparing yourself to others. To change anything takes determination and dedication. When your appearance becomes an obsession , I'm too fat, I'm too thin, my cocks too small, I'm unattractive and you think that is all others see then you're wasting your life. A majority of people dont give a flying fuck what you look like . I've seen guys on here so dysmorphic that they use other people's pics and believe it's their huge cock in the pics "Beter than that Guys that go to a group meet and wonder why guys avoid them, due to horrendous personal hygiene. Bad breadth and terrible BO | |||
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"It's the reason why I've put not meeting at the moment, here for chats I don't like my body shape or the size of my cock/arse "I'm sorry you feel that way. Just know that other people don't see you the same way that you see yourself. I think you're hot. X | |||
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"How many other guys on here have concerns that certain conditions that effect our body, mainly pertaining to its appearance, deters from arranging meets, or feels that this will detract from guys want to meet? " I guess that's what burkhas are for? | |||
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" I'm also a naturist, a member of a club and I attend several naturist events. At these you see ALL shapes and sizes, possibly with the exception of any "perfect body". That's a good way to gain body confidence." Totally agree! Since childhood, I've been dreadfully aware of my small cock and small tight balls, and never had any body confidence. About 20 years ago I booked a holiday in a real naturist resort - nude 24/7. The first day was hell for me, but nobody laughed at me, nobody pointed, it seemed that nobody cared. I had a fantastic time, totally naked all holiday with lots of other totally naked people. And, believe it or not, some guys even had smaller cocks than mine! Since then, I've visited loads of gay saunas and always get admiring attention. If you want more body confidence, show it off! | |||
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