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ending a long term relationship

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By *sxSucker OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Southend

Any advice!?

Tried talking and saying how I feel but just falls on deaf ears and I’m reaching the point where I’ve had enough

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By *tokerY2OMan
3 weeks ago

Bournemouth

Elaborate..

Male or female partner

Married or just living together

Details please

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By *sxSucker OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Southend

Female and married but become more like we are just two people that live in same house bringing up two kids

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By *tokerY2OMan
3 weeks ago

Bournemouth

A) Speak to her like 2 adults and have a serious discussion

Or

B) Leave your phone unlocked and leave it on the table and leave the room for 5/10 minutes.

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By *3versMan
3 weeks ago

glasgow

Cum fart?

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By *tokerY2OMan
3 weeks ago

Bournemouth


"Cum fart?"

Ignore my answers THIS is the way to go

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By *oosterladMan
3 weeks ago

ipswich

Dont be rash. You could end up in an hmo if any places are left with no access to your kids.

Maybe get some counselling sessions alone to work through your options?

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By *eekingcumsMan
3 weeks ago

Stoke/Stafford

Too complex and personal an issue to ask, random strangers looking for sex to advise on.

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By *3versMan
3 weeks ago

glasgow


"Dont be rash. You could end up in an hmo if any places are left with no access to your kids.

Maybe get some counselling sessions alone to work through your options?

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Or you could end up in a homo

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By *dstefiMan
3 weeks ago

Solihull


"Female and married but become more like we are just two people that live in same house bringing up two kids"

This'll be hard to hear but depending on your kids' ages, suck it up and stick it out till they're ready for their parents to split up, if the relationship isn't already totally toxic. If it's gone that far already, then try to find a decent exit strategy where you can at least co-parent effectively.

Been there, done it and I'm kind of glad I did. Few things are sadder than a divorced dad, and few things more important than bringing up kids.

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By *lim_sportyMan
3 weeks ago

stevenage


"Too complex and personal an issue to ask, random strangers looking for sex to advise on."

Good advice

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By *ewguy paulMan
3 weeks ago

herts

Just give time and date I can meet her. I'll be giving her one as you walk in

Job solved

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

If ONLY you like, try an open relationship instead of a polyamory relationship. It works for us and it may not work for others.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago


"If ONLY you like, try an open relationship instead of a polyamory relationship. It works for us and it may not work for others.

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Nice to have more boyfriends for friendship and fun. If you lose one, you have the others to love you and keep you company and you will have no time to be fed up. We have our own boyfriends but don't go for polyamory relationship because it can cause jealousy and a break-up in the relationship.

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By *ammy57TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Stevenage


"Female and married but become more like we are just two people that live in same house bringing up two kids

This'll be hard to hear but depending on your kids' ages, suck it up and stick it out till they're ready for their parents to split up, if the relationship isn't already totally toxic. If it's gone that far already, then try to find a decent exit strategy where you can at least co-parent effectively.

Been there, done it and I'm kind of glad I did. Few things are sadder than a divorced dad, and few things more important than bringing up kids. "

Sadly I have to agree. Not happy in relationship is your problem. You can may be sort it out with wife in private.

Do not involve kids in taking sides and complaining about other parent.

If - and it's a big if - you can stick to that last point regardless of what partner is doing, then by having them, the deal is you have to raise them.

Your in that relationship for next ten to twenty years until the kids are emotionally secure or as emotionally secure as they can be.

Unless your toxic as a couple, and can't overcome that, or your mentally ill, you need to stay and raise those kids.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

But remember only you can solve the problem.

Only you know fully the whole situation you are in and we don't.

The best question is what do you like to do yourself.

Or talk to a qualified Family Therapist, Counsellor, Social Worker and Lawyer in the first instance.

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