FabGuys.com forum: Meets gone wrong

By *eaponOfAssDestruction. OP Man
5 days ago

Leeds

Has anyone had a meet that went badly wrong or was terrible?

What happened?

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By *dstefiTV/TS
5 days ago

Solihull

Not from here, but I did meet a TV from another site and it was embarrassing. All going quite well till I got the dress up and knickers down for the spanking they wanted.

I'll just say things didn't smell good, and there was no coming back for my horn even after they'd had a wash. A cock like a small swelling on their balls didn't help either.

We apologised and agreed veris weren't necessary.

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By *enardeMan
5 days ago

Barnsley

Met a guy on a car meet

Out of his head on ploppers and possibly other stuff

He got aggressive and I thought it would end badly

He sucked me off, the worst bj I ever had and I then cleared off sharpish

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By *aid2TV/TS
5 days ago

Swindon

He turned up d up and aggressive and wouldn't take no for an answer. We were only meeting for oral and he kept pushing for anal. Eventually I was able to get rid of him.

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By *3243Man
5 days ago

EDINBURGH

Some time ago I arranged a meet and the guy who turned up looked nothing like his pic. I told him that and he said he got more success using someone else's pic. I told him not me you don't so you can just bugger off.

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By *enardeMan
5 days ago

Barnsley

"He turned up d up and aggressive and wouldn't take no for an answer. We were only meeting for oral and he kept pushing for anal. Eventually I was able to get rid of him. "

Well with that ass up in the air you can’t blame a guy xx

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By *enardeMan
5 days ago

Barnsley

Another I had one of the early meets

He was a good 20 years older than his pic and turned out he was bottom not top

A real let down

I learned early due to bad meets to make sure we both know what each other wants or selfish guys take the piss

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By *ulge1Man
5 days ago

Edinburgh

Had a few

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By *ustOneBearMan
5 days ago

Neath

A few years ago met a guy at his place of work. He had a bed there but it stunk as his dog was sleeping on it. He was also not as clean as I hoped. I had to call it a day. I told him it wasn’t going to work. He tried to block my exit, but I said I’d call the police in a heartbeat. He let me leave.

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By *anw33Man
5 days ago

liverpool

I've posted before about a meet I had a few years ago, all going well until I noticed he had a pet Boa Constrictor loose in the room; I'm stupidly scared of snakes;a very hasty exit

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By *3versMan
5 days ago

glasgow

Posted before - met a guy, was crouching down sucking his cock when I leaked from having douched- left a coffee stain on his carpet - made my excuses, offered to clean up and left

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By *udistsubMan
5 days ago

S of Notts

Had the ‘top’ turning out to be bottom as well ..

Was staying at hotel in Birmingham and got a guy to come over ..

He turned up pissed , went to bathroom and had a massive poo , then lay on bed with legs in air wanting fucking , having not wiped his arse particularly well .

Got rid .. an hour later he turns up again knocking on the door saying he’d left his cap …..

Funny in retrospect

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By *dstefiTV/TS
5 days ago

Solihull

"Had the ‘top’ turning out to be bottom as well ..

Was staying at hotel in Birmingham and got a guy to come over ..

He turned up pissed , went to bathroom and had a massive poo , then lay on bed with legs in air wanting fucking , having not wiped his arse particularly well .

Got rid .. an hour later he turns up again knocking on the door saying he’d left his cap …..

Funny in retrospect "

Jesus, that's some bad manners there! I can't even imagine showing up and having a dump

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By *astguy7Man
5 days ago

Ross on Wye

Great meet with a really fit guy I was very much into. After about 30.mins I started to feel very short of breath and tight in my chest and realised I was having a bad asthma attack. Turned out he had 3 dogs shut in another room downstairs and I was obviously very allergic to the hairs - some dogs do that to me, not all (I've got 2 cats and I'm fine). He was very kind and I came through it OK after using my inhaler and getting outside into fresh air. Turned out he used to be paramedic, which was lucky! I still.cringe remembering it.

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By *dambi00Man
5 days ago

Leicester

Early on in my fab days, non verified profile but pictures looked good, handsome man also.

Spent a week chatting, he kept saying he’s never had any fun with guys before and it will be his first time with me, alright, that’s cool with me. Got to his in the evening, around 20:00, and after about 5 mins of chat I could see he was very nervous and he poured himself some vodka. Not a big fan of people drinking on a meet, unless we both are.

More chat, and he asked if anyone knew I was at his, I responded no, and he said “so I could chop you up and put you in the freezer and no one would know”. That was strange, and I told him that’s a weird thing to say, and got up and left.

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By *eaponOfAssDestruction. OP Man
5 days ago

Leeds

Some of these memories are downright scary.

I remember being surrounded by about 10 homophobic yobs when I was at a cruising ground in London. I thought my goose was cooked but I rushed at them all, got through and legged it.

A horrific experience.

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By *ordladMan
5 days ago

Wrexham

Arranged to meet a man .waited in car park ..next thing had a text saying shit I know you very well ..then blocked me ..to this day still dont know who it was .

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By *ullmytriggerMan
5 days ago

Armagh

A few years back I have been chatting with a guy for a while and decided to meet up and he wanted to be shagged.

Got to his and the first thing was that the house stunk of ciggies and dog! We talked about things probably for about 15 mins while he had a coffee and it was nice. We talked about what we would like so he then said we should go upstairs.

Honestly his room stunk more than downstairs but thought, feck it I'm horny, so was getting naked and when I was hard and naked he then said that he wouldn't be fucked cos he had a curry the night before and isn't feeling great, even though he was talking about it downstairs like 15 mins ago? I said ok then how about sucking each other? He then said he doesn't like to be sucked or doing any sucking.

So I pretty much just had a wank in a smelly house but he did have cute dog lol x

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By *uckitboiMan
5 days ago

Chelmsford

A few years back a met a top that I had played with once before , when I got there there was two other tops . At first it was all my fantasy come true but it turns dark quick . I was scared shitless thing got rough . I managed to flee half dressed . Had to get tested and had a bit of an anxious time . Prof sometimes fantasies are not reality .

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By *eaponOfAssDestruction. OP Man
5 days ago

Leeds

I’ve had a couple of meets where guys pull out certain substances even though I’ve clearly stated I’m not into hnh. People like that are inconsiderate and completely entitled.

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By *eorge LooneyMan
5 days ago

Wokingham

"Arranged to meet a man .waited in car park ..next thing had a text saying shit I know you very well ..then blocked me ..to this day still dont know who it was ."

It was your dad, he told me

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By *weddolMan
5 days ago

Chester

Loads.

worst one had me being hidden down the side of the bed next to the wall, wondering if I could climb out of the window safely whilst another guy was trying to kick down the bedroom door of the guy I was with

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By *a123Man
5 days ago

anglesey

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By *dstefiTV/TS
5 days ago

Solihull

Brought a collar to a second meet with a woman after realising she was very sub the first one. Seemed to go alright although I wasn't really doing the Dom thing very seriously.

She blew me out after for not being a proper Master: "to a true sub, a collar's as good as a wedding ring and if you can't take it seriously we're done."

Yep, OK

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By *eorgesdadMan
5 days ago

Nottingham

Bi couple turned up for me and my boyfriend to have fun with. However they were twice as old and twice as fat as they were in their pictures he got arsy when I said we weren’t interested and stormed leaving his wife behind, she apologised as she left 🥸

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By *ary1066Man
5 days ago

Preston

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By *ulenga2Man
5 days ago

Salisbury

"Arranged to meet a man .waited in car park ..next thing had a text saying shit I know you very well ..then blocked me ..to this day still dont know who it was .

It was your dad, he told me"

😄 🤣 😂 very good!

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By *omersetsmallguyMan
5 days ago

Yeovil

Agreed a meet in a travel lodge about 10 years ago. He came into my room and stripped me off and started wanking me straight away. He then stripped and pushed me roughly on to my back on the bed held me down and started riding on top of me as if he was fucking me hard our cocks between us.With the wanking then this I got over excited,and came straight away. He said oh no, got dressed and left.I felt really embarrassed and a rare night away had been ruined. Fortunately I've managed to control myself since!

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By *lasgow verse 60s guyMan
5 days ago

Glasgow

One guy I met must have been about 20 years older than his picture! Got there at the arranged time, was greeted by this old man walking on a zimmer frame. I apologised and said I must have the wrong house but he assured me I was expected. "Need to be quick as wife on her way" says he. I made my excuses and ran. Barely got into my car in the street when a car pulled into the driveway. Lucky escape!

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By *udistsubMan
5 days ago

S of Notts

"Had the ‘top’ turning out to be bottom as well ..

Was staying at hotel in Birmingham and got a guy to come over ..

He turned up pissed , went to bathroom and had a massive poo , then lay on bed with legs in air wanting fucking , having not wiped his arse particularly well .

Got rid .. an hour later he turns up again knocking on the door saying he’d left his cap …..

Funny in retrospect

Jesus, that's some bad manners there! I can't even imagine showing up and having a dump

Actually you are right … wasn’t funny in retrospect either !

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By *bbillMan
5 days ago

Aberdeen

Have left a few meets one lied and had someone else picture on his profile and a couple of guys were absolutely stinking

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By *arcusUK2Man
5 days ago

Winchester

Smelly, BO-stinking guy, who was around 10 stone heavier than his photo sent to me suggested. Turned right around and walked out of his hotel room without a word.

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By *3versMan
5 days ago

glasgow

"Smelly, BO-stinking guy, who was around 10 stone heavier than his photo sent to me suggested. Turned right around and walked out of his hotel room without a word. "

Sorry

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By *dstefiTV/TS
5 days ago

Solihull

So a lot of what this is telling us is that despite all the profiles saying bodily hygiene is nice and even necessary, a lot of people simply don't give a fuck and think possessing an unexceptional cock is enough.

Kind of makes you despair a little for gaykind and even humankind.

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By *bonybucksMan
5 days ago

High Wycombe

A guy started biting me and it was so hard, I had bruises for days after. Another guy I met with, I just didn’t feel the chemistry, so had to be honest with him and excuse myself from the hotel.

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By *rgohappy69Man
5 days ago

nottingham

I've known different profiles (different peeps) who have had the same pic. Very suspicious

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By *ldmanMan
5 days ago

Rawcliffe Bridge.

Yes, from a now long gone app.

I told them, and him, I could not take him deep throat, because I have a strong gag reflex, but at the meeting, I started sucking him, and of course he got hard, and then grabbed my head and started ramming it down my throat.

This caused me to puke.

All over his cock, balls, and in his underpants and shorts.

He was absolutely furious, and started beating me very hard around my head.

I had cauliflower ears, and bruised cheeks for some days, and didn't go out, as people asked me what happened to me.

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By *ay4playMan
5 days ago

Bristol

Once met a fella and his TV girlfriend, seemed to be friendly enough. The guy was mostly wanting to watch me and her, and had a good time. Wasn’t until I was 20mins away I noticed my wallet had been emptied of cash. Cheeky bastard has gone through my pockets while I was busy. It was only £20 but felt really stupid and haven’t taken my wallet into a meet since!

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By *icole FanningTV/TS
5 days ago

Navan

Arranged to meet a guy at his place. I spent the whole morning getting ready. Drove over to him & went into his bathroom to check I looked ok. Walked into his bedroom to find he’d just wanked himself off. Then he said his daughter was on her way over & I had to go.

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By *ohnbi60Man
4 days ago

Downham Market

Exchanged a few messages very recently with a guy arranged to meet to give him a bj.

Arrived at his house he answered door in dressing gown. All seemed ok entered his house and he guided me to the bedroom and he laid on the bed naked.

I began to wank his cock , he stiffened and I leaned over to suck him. Within about a foot or so from his cock I was overcome by the rank smell of it, stale piss. I said “Have you washed it”? he replied “Yes I’ve just got out of the shower. I said “Does it go right back” , meaning his foreskin. He replied “No”

With that I got up and said “It stinks I can’t suck that”. If I had I would have gagged but not in the usual sense. I quickly headed for the door and left. He followed and apologised.

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By *ohnbi60Man
4 days ago

Downham Market

"Had the ‘top’ turning out to be bottom as well ..

Was staying at hotel in Birmingham and got a guy to come over ..

He turned up pissed , went to bathroom and had a massive poo , then lay on bed with legs in air wanting fucking , having not wiped his arse particularly well .

Got rid .. an hour later he turns up again knocking on the door saying he’d left his cap …..

Funny in retrospect

Jesus, that's some bad manners there! I can't even imagine showing up and having a dump

Was that a typo , he left his cap or did he mean crap

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By *dr8ukMan
4 days ago

Elstree

A guy pitched up at mine, clearly at least over a decade older than his profile pics, and several stone heavier. I politely said that he was clearly misleading on his profile and that I wasn’t interested in inviting him in. I’d have been more p*ssed off had I made a journey to meet at his place, and tbh, I could see from his body language that he wasn’t surprised to be turned away. Kinda sad really.

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By *ert61Man
4 days ago

Glasgow

I have read all the posts so far. I think a film could be made of the diastars.

A carry on type

Any suggestions Carry on bad fabguys

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By *racycockloverTV/TS
4 days ago

Central London

I've had guys say they are Tops but when they turn up they are bottoms.

All they have is a wasted journey.

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By *0yguyMan
4 days ago

Cumberland

"A guy pitched up at mine, clearly at least over a decade older than his profile pics, and several stone heavier. I politely said that he was clearly misleading on his profile and that I wasn’t interested in inviting him in. I’d have been more p*ssed off had I made a journey to meet at his place, and tbh, I could see from his body language that he wasn’t surprised to be turned away. Kinda sad really. "

You should report him to your local trading standards department…….

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By *arried curious BiMan
4 days ago

Northamptonshire

Worst I've had was being asked to leave after being spunked over

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By *agbi54guyMan
4 days ago

Dagenham

When I first joined FGs, as soon as I put up a profile and became a member I was getting massages left right and centre. I was in my late 30s at the time and was only looking for a local guy just the get the experience.

I got chatting to a guy who live 10 minutes from me and thought got to give this ago and sounded the sort of guy I was looking for, he wrote in his profile, he was slim, 50 years old, very large cock, 6foot, athletic build, clean and presentable and could accommodate.

Now i thought this was too good to be true but I went away, I met him at the end of the road and I fought your not 6 foot as im 6ft2 OK you look alot older than 50, still shrugging it off until we arrive at his house.

His first words were; we will have an hour until his brother gets home, the house had a musky damp pissy smell to it and there was porn playing on the TV.

I got u dressed and was in my pants, then I saw him in his dirty yellow stained pants then said sorry i cant do this, and got dressed, he asked why and explained to him the reasons and how he lied on his profile, i did ask him his true age, 66 he replied and started to cry.

The next moment his brother came in saw me and started shouting and swearing at us both, told me to get out and never show my face around the area again.

Needless to say I've met a few different guys with the same area, but never saw him again not even in passing..

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By *ranform71Man
4 days ago

Hinckley

We had our fair share. They never get settled enough. I’ve shown them the door.

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By *astle9Man
4 days ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

Met a guy once and started off slowly, just got our trousers and pants round our ankles and having a fumble and a snog. Then he puts his hands around my throat and starts squeezing, only gently, but enough to make me nervous. So I pulled away and told him no. We carried on a bit and the same thing happened. Again I pulled away from him and told him no. Tried one more time, but this time he starts squeezing a lot more forcefully. I leapt back across the room away from him and started pulling up my trousers and pants and then made for the door.

He was apologising, saying "I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I thought it was what you wanted..." WTF!!!!

And he tried to stop me opening the door. Fortunately he wasn't aggressive at this point, I think he realised he'd made a mistake.

I was 18 at the time and it scared the crap out of me!

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By *adame BootsTV/TS
4 days ago

Tetbury

A couple come to mind, the packet of trex by the bed as a lube, smoked all the time I was there and I didn't hang around, had to wash my clothes twice and throw the wig out.

There is meeting smokers and meeting chain smokers with no windows open.

The other involves a smelly cock that was not going in my mouth. Left and blocked. Yuk.

So many guys just dont care what they smell like. I juat dont get it.

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By *eatherloverukMan
4 days ago

near Skegness

meets can and do go wrong, just put it down to experience and move on

I've had meetings where the person looks nothing like there photos or is much older etc, just said no thanks and left.

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By *owboy1975Man
4 days ago

Lichfield

Had one or two over the years, both men and women,

Met a girl last Wednesday, slightly larger girl then I’d go for, but looked pretty, wanted to just have a social first but she was keen to meet somewhere a bit more private, so we met on a car park, pulled up saw her through the car window looked decent, untill she got out, pretty face but looked like she’d climbed out of a skip, hair greasy as a chip pan, right scruff ! I tried to make my excuses without being horrid, anyway she sat in my motor for a while as it was busy, I said multiple times let’s leave it till another time in a quieter place, anyway she was having none of it kept saying it’s a wasted journey if we go, only way I could get away was to let her wank/suck me off, ffs I felt grim afterwards lol

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By *astguy7Man
4 days ago

Ross on Wye

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By *astguy7Man
4 days ago

Ross on Wye

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By *tokerY2OMan
4 days ago

Bournemouth

Arranged an outdoor meet with a guy id been chatting to for a while.

He was 'straight' and nervous about the cruisy hookup nature of the gay scene. In short he was married and worried about catching something.

Arrived at the designated place, douched, jocked and the guy appears, id only seen over toilet blurry cock shots and one non sexual face pix - I was delighted much hotter than expected.

We were at it almost immediately me bent over his cock buried in me, half thinking 'jeez this guy is good for being inexperienced with men'

With that I look up and stare right into the face of the guy id been chatting to for months, just entering the clearing looking aghast.

Id let the wrong guy fuck me and never heard from the original guy again.

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By *ohnBerksMan
4 days ago

Bracknell

I went to this guys house to give him a blow job, all went OK and as he shot a huge load over my face a car had pulled up on his driveway, it was his wife returning home early. He literally shoved me out the back door and told me to go. I left via the back gate through a side alley and a woman was there disposing of some rubbish. I passed right by her and we exchanged a hello...and she gave me an odd look. Got in the car looked in the mirror and could see why, cum dripping down the side of my face, a huge dollop of it in my hair and a big sticky patch on my black t shirt. I always wondered if that neighbour recounted the story to her friends...

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By *eneral distanceMan
4 days ago

infinity and beyond

Had a meet back in day

And had met before

and was looking to get fucked as I was fully bottom at time

At time I was so horny as he was really sexy but he said he liked it rough

I said ok with that as we got into it, we had some sexy fun n kissing, he pushed me down on bed, slapped my arse hard, not pain hard but not a soft sexy slap

Went with it, but he started slapping me harder so I thought, best bet was take my ass away from the target range lol, so rode him and he called me a slut, which as we was in it at time I went with

He then slapped my face and his ring burst my bottom lip

Did not realise at time it was bleeding as he started to say oh fuck I’m cumming

So concentrated on grinding him, then I tasted the blood, I put my hand up to my face and seen it, cheeky fucka carried on, and came!!!

I never that was for sure

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By *ickeMan
4 days ago

watford

My one arrange the meet he said got nice thick 7 inches he could fuck for England .

Had my shower smooth body . Then 45 minutes drive .

Got there guy open door he was 4ft 10

Bald head his picture must been 10 years old . Told me go bedroom take clothes off be in minute . I thought ok give it go, was towel laid on bed .

I stripped off he came in ,sit on towel with TShirt on and his big pants on .

I sat on towel he dropped his pants .

Well his cock semi hard was about 3 inches .

Lay down I did lift your legs I did thinking he going rim my bum . He rubbed his head cock on my hole after 30 seconds he said oh! No .

Turned round walked out room . I realised he cum . I waited 10 minutes he didn’t appear put me clothes on went into hall .

He standing there dressed says that was good we should meet again .

Walk front door open it said hot go collect me mum now . Thanks a lot I left another 40 minutes drive home get a shower .

Never again !

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By *ruckedMan
4 days ago

canterbury.

I was in a really quiet parking spot when a meet came to my lorry. I was the only one parked up and I’d never see another truck there in all the years I’d been parking there.

Things got quite exciting and somehow he ended up stood at the side window, all dressed in lingerie with me wanking him off through the open window.

Neither of us had noticed the truck that had pulled alongside. I made sure I was gone the next morning before the other trucker noticed the cum on his window….

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By *hillWithBenefitsMan
4 days ago

withywood

met one person who had a dirty **** hole, didn't have a turd or clean himself. You would expect someone to be prepared if they're going to be bottom. It's just a big no, no, when you pull out and there's a turd on the end of your knob or a smear mark over the head, gross.

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By *dstefiTV/TS
4 days ago

Solihull

I should probably mention my first encounter with someone off here (not really a meet as nothing much happened).

Driving around a very lovely part of the world, had a look on fabs to see who was nearby-ish and got chatting to this one guy. Got the address and parked. Him and his wife are sat outside chain-smoking (good start eh?) She's oriental looking and appeared to be the boss of the household, and goes to make us tea as I'm introduced as somebody who's interested in staying at their gay-friendly B&B.

He's personable enough but obviously made zero effort to be presentable, grubby t-shirt and very stained sweatpants. Quickly becomes evident his wife's not in on it at all, as he invites me to see a massive boulder he's pulled out the ground out back.

He wants to kiss but I'm not into ashtrays and say so, but I do drop my jeans and let him have a feel of my cock. Although I can tell he's probably got a very erect large one in his joggers, I decline the opportunity to inspect it, have a quick feel, then we're back round the front to finish tea with his Mrs.

Didn't bother booking the B&B despite it being in a lovely place.

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By *SBI777Man
4 days ago

Harringay

Had one guy show up, didnt really seem all that interested. We got naked and got on the bed, the second I touched his cock he came. Went to pass him tissues to clean himself off with but he grabbed my tshirt and used that like its a normal thing to do. I got pissed at him, grabbed the shirt back, told him to pick up his shit and get out. Whilst picking things up he proceeds to start a physical fight with me, by this point im standing by my door and this fight ends up spilling out into the kitchen. Lesbian couple in the next room came in and broke us up, one of them grabbed him by the throat and threw him out the house, followed by his clothes. They'd heard me getting pissed off with him but when they walked in they weren't sure if we were just having violent sex on the kitchen floor

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By *an.maleMan
4 days ago

glossop

Had an Asian guy come over. I hate throat fucking but he did it anyway and I ended up throwing up on a mad dash to the bathroom. While I had my head down the toilet he was still trying to get me to suck him off.

Mate, there’s puke all across the landing and you did what I wasn’t up for doing and you’re STILL trying it on? He ended up wanking into the toilet when my head was out of the way and then leaving

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By *eana91Man
3 days ago

chelmsford

I met a man who was very rude and quite forceful, luckily he didnt last too long

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By *lackbootzMan
3 days ago

Hayes, Middx

"Arranged an outdoor meet with a guy id been chatting to for a while.

He was 'straight' and nervous about the cruisy hookup nature of the gay scene. In short he was married and worried about catching something.

Arrived at the designated place, douched, jocked and the guy appears, id only seen over toilet blurry cock shots and one non sexual face pix - I was delighted much hotter than expected.

We were at it almost immediately me bent over his cock buried in me, half thinking 'jeez this guy is good for being inexperienced with men'

With that I look up and stare right into the face of the guy id been chatting to for months, just entering the clearing looking aghast.

Id let the wrong guy fuck me and never heard from the original guy again. "

So… you got well fucked by a much hotter and much more experienced guy than you had anticipated but this is somehow a “meet gone wrong”…?! 😏

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By *kentguyMan
3 days ago

TN9

Was travelling for work a few years back and met a guy for random fun. Got to the house and the general run down appearance (in contrast to the neighbours) should have alerted me. Decided it would probably be fine and welcomed in by a really friendly, if a little shy, guy.

But the house was filthy, and the guy was a bit unkempt. He led me straight upstairs and said he wanted me to suck him. He lay on the bed and I got alongside him and started to undo his trousers and get to his cock.

He pulled it out. I saw it. Perfectly decent size…with a ring of pus-filled sores around the helmet.

I jumped off the bed, relieved I hadn’t touched it, said ‘you need to go to the clinic’ and headed downstairs. He shouted ‘don’t go, it’ll be fine’. I let myself out.

I’ve now know why you should never ignore your gut feelings! I’d have never gone in, let alone upstairs, with so many red flags. Never ignored them since.

I really hope he went to the clinic! Last time I looked he was still on here.

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By *arrots77Man
3 days ago

Here, Perth

Not a huge calamity but a guy came to my hotel last week, in Berlin. I was in position, I heard him grabbing something and squirting it on my hole, then he tried to get in. It didn't feel right so I looked around, he'd grabbed my factor 50 spray (redhead here) and not the lube. It doesn't make good lubricant but at least my arse never got sunburnt.

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By *ayne DesireTV/TS
3 days ago

Gloucester

"Has anyone had a meet that went badly wrong or was terrible?

What happened?"

Yes! This happened to me a few times.

In my youth, i was a kaytoey high class working-girl for about a year.

I had a few not very nice clients and one bad meet on here several years back.

Most people are great. Weirdos are ok. The really dark ones you cannot tell. They totally seduce us.

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By *uckington BearMan
3 days ago

Didcot

Turned up at a threesome off of grindr and as I walked towards the front door I saw another normal looking man walking very quickly the other way. I didn't see where he came from but something in his eyes told me he was one part of the threesome. Sure enough a minute later the other guy, whose pictures I still hadn't seen, said 'omg he just left'. I decided there must have been a good reason and never went in the house. Ended up jerking off when I got home instead.

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By *ittlelad69Man
3 days ago

Chesterfield

This thread is making me more nervous about meeting. There’s some strange folk on here

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By *uckington BearMan
3 days ago

Didcot

I haven't had a bad meet since focusing mainly on here - verifications for the win!

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By *edrawMan
3 days ago

Lurgan

Had a tvts come round the house for an evenings fun. They went upstairs got themselves ready and came down got on there knees and started to spoil my very hard cock. Went upstairs they again went down and I removed there butt plug and released a massive puddle of shit onto my bedroom floor as they got up mortified and ran to the loo they got shit all over the wall and landing. It was stinking so I had to clean it all up and when they emerged from the loo they got the hump when I called it a night and said no more.

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By *kentguyMan
3 days ago

TN9

"I haven't had a bad meet since focusing mainly on here - verifications for the win! "

Verifications aren’t always perfect, but they make a huge difference. Even if you can’t see them, knowing they’ve been left is often just as good.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 days ago

The person I met looked 80% different from the photo he sent me.

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By *eanneTV/TS
2 days ago

Sedgley

Long time ago met a guy from here who fucked me safe but the last minute I realised he’d took off the condom and came inside me I went crazy and kicked him out few days later he’s sending me messages saying he’s caught a STD from me and started to say he was gonna come back and beat me up I was terrified I’d caught something from him but once I had the all clear he’s told me he was just deliberately trying to scare me . Put me off meeting anyone for a long time.

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By *astguy7Man
2 days ago

Ross on Wye

"The person I met looked 80% different from the photo he sent me."

Which was the 20% bit?

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By *kentguyMan
2 days ago

TN9

"Long time ago met a guy from here who fucked me safe but the last minute I realised he’d took off the condom and came inside me I went crazy and kicked him out few days later he’s sending me messages saying he’s caught a STD from me and started to say he was gonna come back and beat me up I was terrified I’d caught something from him but once I had the all clear he’s told me he was just deliberately trying to scare me . Put me off meeting anyone for a long time. "

That’s awful! Hope you’re OK meeting guys again now, and they’re treating you decently.

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By *ickthrobbingMan
2 days ago

Taplow

"Has anyone had a meet that went badly wrong or was terrible?

What happened?"

Not often. Butt on one occasion I entered the guys room it was a shit tip and I stank ........ I made my excuses and left

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By *alafar60Man
2 days ago

Arclid

Went to guys house though to meet him turned out 2 of them other joined in when in a dark room very rough no respect... Put me off for over 2 years amdntook a

Long time to gain back confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
2 days ago

"The person I met looked 80% different from the photo he sent me.

Which was the 20% bit?"

Only the penis looks the same like the photo.

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By *iki CDTV/TS
2 days ago

North Tynside

Turned up at a guys house only to be told he could not wait and he had wanked over my gallery and therefore i was not needed anymore !!

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By *emotecontrolMan
2 days ago

gwent.

Arranged a meet on here we discussed what we were looking for and everything sounded good. We were meeting at his, both wearing lingerie, cd porn on his tv as background noise, visual stimuli.

Showered, dressed in stockings, suspenders and sheer black knickers under normal clothes and made my way to his place.

He opened the door invited me and said make yourself comfortable I will be right back, sat in his lounge big screen showing soccer so asked if he had the porn we discussed he said no couldn't have porn as his grandkids lived with him. I expected him to return in his lingerie but he came back wearing t shirt jeans swigging a can of stella and said he didn't have any lingerie but it would be ok without. I was obviously not happy told him he had mislead me and that I was leaving .... he got very shirty and tried to stop me but I am a big guy and he wasn't so just pushed my way out.

He keeps messaging me to meet him and denies any knowledge of the previous meet I have obviously blocked him.

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By *amie1402Man
2 days ago

Merseyside

Hardly ever get bad meets

Because I don’t meet unverified people, I don’t meet without some conversation, and I insist on a phone number from anybody I do meet

Those three things usually put off the idiots

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By *estcum2020Man
2 days ago

Workington

"Loads.

So what happened next? How did you get out of it?

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By *weddolMan
1 day ago

Chester

So what happened next? How did you get out of it?"

I was stuffed douwn the side of the bed, with my clothes, the guy I was with checked through the keyhole of the door and eventually opened it and went into the shared room outside, there was some altercation, I couldn't make out what it was about. My guy making out he hadn't opened the door because he was asleep.

Whatever it was, was resolved and he cane back and told me to put my clothes on and when the coast was clear I left via the fire escape!

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By *aulamaturexdTV/TS
1 day ago

Saltford

I had a nightmare with the g-site x

Local to me

I dressed and he was watching porn he asked me to strip so I did , then 2 yappy dogs burst in jumping up etc .

Asked him. To shut them out he said they would settle, so I said shall we go upstairs, can't as mother is up there , so I need to get out of there so I suggest another time at mine he said no he loves me X I grab my hoodie and joggers and pick up my phone and go . Suddenly ringing in my pocket and it my ringtone. He had exactly same as mine. I walk back he meets me and opens phone and says at least you didn't nick my cards ! And that was last time on the G site !!!

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By *lverston GuyMan
1 day ago

Bristol

Had a meet in Gloucester and few years ago. Bloke was nothing like his photo. - fat and vile! Dried paint thrown all over the front door of ground floor flat (that was a sign I should have realised in its self). Chatted and made my excuse to go to the loo (filthy bathroom) and meanwhile (it wasn’t until later), he had been through my pockets and stole £25 out of my wallet. I suspect he had done it to other guys hence the paint all over the front door. I have never since taken my wallet in my pocket if meeting.

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By *enardeMan
1 day ago

Barnsley

"Had a meet in Gloucester and few years ago. Bloke was nothing like his photo. - fat and vile! Dried paint thrown all over the front door of ground floor flat (that was a sign I should have realised in its self). Chatted and made my excuse to go to the loo (filthy bathroom) and meanwhile (it wasn’t until later), he had been through my pockets and stole £25 out of my wallet. I suspect he had done it to other guys hence the paint all over the front door. I have never since taken my wallet in my pocket if meeting. "

I’ve left cheap specs but I don’t take valuables or wallet and I keep a close eye on them

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By *ardiffchatMan
1 day ago

Cardiff

Went to a guys house and noticed he had a DVD box set of Mrs Browns Boys… I made my excuses and left rather sharpish.

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By *lackbootzMan
1 day ago

Hayes, Middx

"Went to a guys house and noticed he had a DVD box set of Mrs Browns Boys… I made my excuses and left rather sharpish. "

Superb answer! Am in full agreement.

Or a full display case of collectible beany babies.

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By *lackbootzMan
1 day ago

Hayes, Middx

Some prima donna went apeshit once because I got spunk all over his antique antimacassar. Then don’t have sex on your fucking period sofa, then…🙄

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By *uyverseMan
1 day ago

York

"Arranged to meet a man .waited in car park ..next thing had a text saying shit I know you very well ..then blocked me ..to this day still dont know who it was ."

For me that would be a great bonus.

I'd love to meet someone I knew really well on here.

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By *ananabrumMan
1 day ago

castle bromwich

I had been chatting to a guy fir days and finally arranged to meet we swapped face pics bith liked what we saw and planned to meet the folliwing day. We messeaged a few time throughut the day befkre setting off to meet up. I travelled 30 mins to the meeting point

. I got got in his car and he says sorry you look like my brother in law do you mind if we give it a miss. He then offered to drop me home which i declined and left. A year later he messages me to hook up and i say we tried before and you said i looked like your brother in law and he responded "i don't have a brother in law" needles to say i didnt go ahead

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By *astguy7Man
1 day ago

Ross on Wye

"Some prima donna went apeshit once because I got spunk all over his antique antimacassar. Then don’t have sex on your fucking period sofa, then…🙄

Semen is such a persistent stain.

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By *lackbootzMan
1 day ago

Hayes, Middx

"Some prima donna went apeshit once because I got spunk all over his antique antimacassar. Then don’t have sex on your fucking period sofa, then…🙄

Semen is such a persistent stain."

Just needed a little squirt of Febreze. Lot of stuff and nonsense.

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By *kvanmanMan
1 day ago

andover

I could write a book lol

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By *ibeariusMan
1 day ago

Greenock

Had a non smoker and sober ( on his profile) man show up d*unk and stinking of cigarettes trying to kiss and put his hands on my cock.

My first sex with a man , said he was top, single. Had a wedding ring on, said top meant he rides on top and gave me crabs. So horrible

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By *lackbootzMan
1 day ago

Hayes, Middx

"Had a non smoker and sober ( on his profile) man show up d*unk and stinking of cigarettes trying to kiss and put his hands on my cock.

My first sex with a man , said he was top, single. Had a wedding ring on, said top meant he rides on top and gave me crabs. So horrible "

I’d stay away from men: they sound dreadful. And you sound scarred.

If he turned up d*unk, why didn’t you close the door in his face? If you don’t meet smokers and he stank of cigarettes, why didn’t you show him the door and explain why? If he tried to kiss you and touch you in ways you didn’t want, why did you continue? If you noticed the wedding ring and that was an issue, why did you continue? If he said he was a top and that was what you were looking for, why did you go so far as to allow him to ride you? All very bizarre.

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By *astle9Man
2 hours ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

I remember playing with this guy - we'd got naked, kissing, having a good old play with each other and then he sat back on the sofa and I knelt down between his legs.

I got his cock in my hand and was about to go down on him when I noticed a dark speck in his pubes. So I held back and kept slowly wanking him instead, all the while closely looking at his public area. Spotted one, then another, then another. Fucking crabs.

I said "sorry mate but you've got visitors, I'm not carrying on"

Even though I spotted them before properly getting down to anything, I still went over myself as soon as he'd left and found 2 of the fuckers on me! Straight to the chemist.

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By *hrisWellsMan
2 hours ago

Shepton Mallet

Yes he was grubby and not my type

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