FabGuys.com forum: Where do older men go?

By *arkk888 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Washington

Where do older men go as their sexual urges diminish? As a ex straight man I gradually found myself fancying men for company and oral /wanking fun. As my erection became less hard I've become a giver of sex with my hands and mouth without receiving any release. I suppose that the next stage in my life will be as a bottom, can anyone out there advise me?

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By *aggerHammerMan
2 weeks ago

Dagenham

In my experience the older guys use saunas for sex much more than the younger guys

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By *arkk888 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Washington

I've never been to a sauna, too shy, too old and not enough experience.

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By *avenMan
2 weeks ago

Stoford

My friend (75) gives sexual massage,and oral,and likes to receive oral.We don't play.A guy I meet (83), likes to be sucked (soft),and be rimmed and fucked.

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By *uck me in KentMan
2 weeks ago

Medway

"I've never been to a sauna, too shy, too old and not enough experience. "

Same, I've never been to one, they don't interest me. Plus I'm always worried someone I know would see me going in or coming out

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By *lag_BagMan
2 weeks ago

Derby

They can all come to me x

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

They usually go to community centres, pubs, luncheon clubs, working as volunteers in charitable shops like Oxfam, North London Hospice, taking up Tai Chi lessons, dancing, tertiary studies etc.

I notice they started to go to Church more often.

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By *fourjMan
2 weeks ago

Here, there or somewhere nearish March

"They usually go to community centres, pubs, luncheon clubs, working as volunteers in charitable shops like Oxfam, North London Hospice, taking up Tai Chi lessons, dancing, tertiary studies etc.

I notice they started to go to Church more often."

Haha, that’s funny 🤣

I go to festivals and over this weekend met a man through here and we made each other nicely happy. He came back for more yesterday before we left the site. That’s the first time I’ve actually seen someone from here at a festival though.

I’m only 70 and definitely not old enough for community centres. I have no interest in churches either apart from art, music, history and architecture …

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By *enry77Man
2 weeks ago

ayrshire

I go cruising. Quite a few older men go to the woods especially during the day

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

"They usually go to community centres, pubs, luncheon clubs, working as volunteers in charitable shops like Oxfam, North London Hospice, taking up Tai Chi lessons, dancing, tertiary studies etc.

I notice they started to go to Church more often.

Haha, that’s funny 🤣

I’m only 70 and definitely not old enough for community centres. I have no interest in churches either apart from art, music, history and architecture …"

I attend Church every Sunday and most of the attendees are mostly older people.

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By *ickthrobbingMan
2 weeks ago

Taplow

"Where do older men go as their sexual urges diminish? As a ex straight man I gradually found myself fancying men for company and oral /wanking fun. As my erection became less hard I've become a giver of sex with my hands and mouth without receiving any release. I suppose that the next stage in my life will be as a bottom, can anyone out there advise me? "

The biggest sex organ in our body is our brain; while you have the desire and need for sex you will find a way to satisfy it.

This may be you become a cock sucker, wear that badge with pride its a skill

you may become a bottom again there is nothing wrong in that either if it satisfies the sex desire.

Just enjoy sex it what ever form it takes with who ever that is man, woman, top, bottom

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By *3243Man
2 weeks ago

EDINBURGH

I'm 82 and my sexual drive hasn't diminished although physically things aren't what they were. It's made me more of a giver than a receiver. Plenty of guys seem happy with that because they get what they want without having to think about giving something in return. I get a lot of enjoyment seeing their enjoyment. It's all a case of adapting to changes.

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By *astguy7Man
2 weeks ago

Ross on Wye

Wetherspoons at 8.30 in the morning seems to have quite a selection of older men on their own sitting drinking Staropramen for breakfast.

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By *ernne67Man
2 weeks ago

Shoeburyness

I'm near 68 and still like getting naked or undies with someone and letting them fuck me that way I no i have made someone happy and had fun myself

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By *3versMan
2 weeks ago

glasgow

Graveyards

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

I see them in saunas too.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Many fly 13 hours all the way to Thailand for ladyboys, massage parlours, go-go-boys, sex clubs etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

"Many fly 13 hours all the way to Thailand for ladyboys, massage parlours, go-go-boys, sex clubs etc."

Then some of them regret afterwards if cheated with honey traps etc. They certainly need safeguarding.

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By *tar33Man
2 weeks ago

North London (outer)

I'm 67 with plenty of sexual desire, and still get very hard although sometimes take tadalafil to keep it that way. To be honest I don't really enjoy spending time with guys who can't get it up.

I visit the Locker Room sauna from time to time, have the occasional meet from Fabguys and also enjoy cruising in the North London area.

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By *dambi00Man
2 weeks ago

Leicestershire

"Many fly 13 hours all the way to Thailand for ladyboys, massage parlours, go-go-boys, sex clubs etc."

Sex tourism

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By *alpalMan
2 weeks ago

Scartho, Grimsby

Am 68 and get horny but my bits down below not working like they used to. Love to watch these days and give a helping hand or mouth when I can. Pity a lot of guys want more these days and not just a wank

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By *uck me in KentMan
2 weeks ago

Medway

I'm 70 and go cruising. Or wherever I go I always check out local loos

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By *untzMan
2 weeks ago

Nantwich Cheshire

As an older retired guy it's a bit of a challenge to go anywhere as she is also retired. So I applied some lateral thinking and invited guys here when she's asleep. My sex drive hasn't lessened much over the years, I can still get hard but not quite as hard as I used to. These days I preferred to meet mature guys as they tend to be more reliable, rather than younger guys who are just after a quick fix!

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By *efflynneMan
2 weeks ago

telford

As an older guy. I got looking for it in other men's beds or outdoor if necessary. Just learning to bottom, and I like it.

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By *tephen_b50Man
2 weeks ago

Bristol

The biggest sex organ in our body is our brain; while you have the desire and need for sex you will find a way to satisfy it.

This may be you become a cock sucker, wear that badge with pride its a skill

you may become a bottom again there is nothing wrong in that either if it satisfies the sex desire.

Just enjoy sex it what ever form it takes with who ever that is man, woman, top, bottom "

i am a very proud and happy cocksucker.

Using my skill to give pleasure to others is a privilege.

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By *aulie666Man
2 weeks ago

Bristol

And meds don't help!

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By *arried but hornyMan
2 weeks ago

Billingshurst area

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By *arried but hornyMan
2 weeks ago

Billingshurst area

Luckily, and unlike Fabswingers, this site still treats older guys as relevant. I've met more guys over 65 than I have under 40. Long may that continue. I'm nearly 60 myself now, but I still feel lusted after by guys on here, and my sex drive remains unchanged.

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By *DFmateMan
2 weeks ago

Cardiff Bay

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By *DFmateMan
2 weeks ago

Cardiff Bay

"Graveyards "

Ha ha, for sex or burial?

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By *oger1234Man
2 weeks ago

Salisbury

Not all of us do don’t write off the older guys that keep fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Heaven

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By *3versMan
2 weeks ago

glasgow

"Graveyards

Ha ha, for sex or burial?"

Depends on the extent of being stiff

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By *arrots77Man
2 weeks ago

Here, Perth

Quite fancy the idea of a sauna but I don't have the balls to go. So here it is.

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By *enjamin2018Man
2 weeks ago

Gloucester

To Lidl . Thats where I go .

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By *tar33Man
2 weeks ago

North London (outer)

"Quite fancy the idea of a sauna but I don't have the balls to go. So here it is. "

What on earth are you worried about? Just walk straight in, head held high, and own it.

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By *lderbiguy2000Man
2 weeks ago

tuebrook

"Quite fancy the idea of a sauna but I don't have the balls to go. So here it is.

What on earth are you worried about? Just walk straight in, head held high, and own it. "

Agree, just pay the money and try the sauna out

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By *irthybearrMan
2 weeks ago

Cheadle

Interested in meeting hairy mature men

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By *jh59Man
2 weeks ago

Hinckley

66 male ,no erection,am bottom,I go to saunas and go on sites like this

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By *our-slaveMan
2 weeks ago

nottingham

I’m nearly 71 and my sexual urges haven’t diminished. I keep my cardio vascular health in good shape and maintain a healthy weight. I take lots of exercise and I eat healthily. I have no problem getting and maintaining an erection. I have one now!

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By *ulldozer47Man
2 weeks ago

London

Im 64 and can say my sexual urges have not diminished, still love a good hot session. On occasion may take a viagra just to keep me hard longer.

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By *avid62Man
2 weeks ago

Skelmersdale

I wish they would come to me x I absolutely love older men x

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

"I've never been to a sauna, too shy, too old and not enough experience.

Same, I've never been to one, they don't interest me. Plus I'm always worried someone I know would see me going in or coming out"

I do agree that you may find someone you know, say family, friend or someone from work, but think about it, they are probably thinking the same thing, and are at the sauna for the same thing your there 🤔

Have been once a few weeks ago in Stratford, met a guy but didn't do it for me as he wanted the same thing. But need to go weekends.

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By *eefandfurMan
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"To Lidl . Thats where I go ."

Lidl is dangerous.

I know a few folk that had to clear out their father's house. Yes, the mig welder is a bargain, but did he really need two.

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Bedford

Really depends on how you gauge your age if you take notice of your actual age or if you ignore it and refuse to grow old I'll be 18 until I die in my head of course. think young stay young think old be old xx

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
2 weeks ago

Didcot

"In my experience the older guys use saunas for sex much more than the younger guys"

I'm not sure that's completely true, sure a lot of older guys (define older) like me go to saunas on a regular basis but in my experience they don't make up the bulk of the clientele, I'd say most seem to be in the 30-50 age group and I usually see a fair few that I'd say were under 30. It may be that us oldies have more time on our hands so we stay longer where as the younger guys are grabbing some quick nookie on their lunch break etc.

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By *ammy57TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Stevenage

Chess club anyone? Book club? Walkers group? Mens mental health support group?

Hobbies?

From there things can develop?

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By *lackbootzMan
2 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"Graveyards "

I was going to write that.

Obituary pages.

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By *otyungnowMan
2 weeks ago

Poole

"I'm 82 and my sexual drive hasn't diminished although physically things aren't what they were. It's made me more of a giver than a receiver. Plenty of guys seem happy with that because they get what they want without having to think about giving something in return. I get a lot of enjoyment seeing their enjoyment. It's all a case of adapting to changes. "

Same for me

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By *astersteve906Man
2 weeks ago

Near Lutterworth

64 still have a high sex drive, not getting anything though so my only pleasure is the pub

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By *uffolkmale54TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Lowestoft

"64 still have a high sex drive, not getting anything though so my only pleasure is the pub"

that's a shame Sir

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