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By *rient_top OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Huntingdon

Since a large percentage of you (and it’s a generalisation I know) are either married or have a female partner, what is it that draws you to men?

Is it the ease with which you can find someone to get you off? Or is it deeper than that?

Do you just see a cock, balls and mouth, or do you get attracted to the person as a whole?

No judgement here- I’m just curious.

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By *unguy2429Man
2 weeks ago

worthing

Well tbh when I first tried cock was just to try.

Now I love it.

So basically had bad divorce. And woman just generally do my head in now. There headache.

And sex with woman can be very wet messy.

With a guy being a bottom here I love anal and live a tasty cock when feels me with cum.

And if u just wanna cum easy for a quick wank with each other

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By *adwolf75Man
2 weeks ago

Grantham

I like cock simple as

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By *illingVicMan
2 weeks ago

Sevenoaks

Ever seen pulp fiction? Jules asks to taste the big kahuna burger… “my girlfriend’s a vegetarian which pretty much makes me a vegetarian too, but I do like a tasty burger.”

Well, my wife is straight, which pretty much makes me straight too, but I do love getting throatfucked by aggressive older men!

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By *amieforfun1973TV/TS
2 weeks ago

bognor regis

Ease and the sexiness of submitting to a man is so different to being with a women. Also my wife wouldn’t enjoy me dressing up!

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By *omoredenialMan
2 weeks ago

Swaffham

For me the attraction is cocks.

I have a lot of sex with women and love it.

Sometimes I just want to feel a cock in my hand, mouth or me!

It’s a different sensation. I’m not attracted to the guy as a whole.

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By *assionate BIMan
2 weeks ago

Exmouth

It’s the ease , we all want sex and with a guy you dont have to date them and buy flowers just to get into their pants

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By *elshymaleMan
2 weeks ago

thanet

It's just the thought of cock and sucking one or 2

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By *awsMan
2 weeks ago

north hants

For me it's purely the ease of a quick release when the mood takes me. I can and have walked away from the scene for a number of years.

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By *ad Bod ManMan
2 weeks ago

Gloucester

When I’m out and about I don’t overly feel attracted to men

But log onto here and instantly I’m horny for a guy to kiss me to get naked with and intimate

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By *ookingaroundMan
2 weeks ago

Bristol


"Since a large percentage of you (and it’s a generalisation I know) are either married or have a female partner, what is it that draws you to men?

Is it the ease with which you can find someone to get you off? Or is it deeper than that?

Do you just see a cock, balls and mouth, or do you get attracted to the person as a whole?

No judgement here- I’m just curious.

"

Because I have chosen a female spouse doesn’t lessen my attraction towards men. It has no impact at all.

Also I enjoy making people cum.

Simple as that.

I do wonder how a thread asking gay guys why they are gay would go?

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By *has2Man
2 weeks ago

Chaddesden, Derby

It's an interesting question. Growing up in the 50s & 60s I only ever say pictures of semi naked or naked women, and never thought about sex with men. Later, naked men aroused me as well -well, it was all still sex - and I uploaded some pics of myself to a website. That kind of started me off, and then one day I went into a gay sauna and that was it. Sex with guys was different but was fun, and also more predictable and open. So it was really a gradual process.

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By *ad4older321Man
2 weeks ago

Ards

Men are much more naughty so indulge and push for more in the bedroom. That’s hot for me. They are also much better at being selfish and taking what they want

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By *ICOCK65Man
2 weeks ago

Chelmsford

Been bisexual for over 42 years like pussy as well as cock

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By *atchmo_Jizz!Man
2 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Part of it is, as others have said, the ease of it all. It’s easier to find an available guy for sex than it is to find a woman who is horny and willing.

I adore women and their bodies but I like cock too. I could never see myself becoming emotionally attached to a man but then again I’m a cold hearted selfish bastard lol!

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By *aggerHammerMan
2 weeks ago

Dagenham


"It’s the ease , we all want sex and with a guy you dont have to date them and buy flowers just to get into their pants "

Exactly that

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By *netimeonly69Man
2 weeks ago

Wrexham

Can't find guys attractive in the street or bars etc but absolutely love a nice cock to suck!

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By *hs12Man
2 weeks ago

huntingdon nr

It's not just cock... ilike to kiss so.like someone who.isnice and maybe we cpuld7 see each other again

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By *optobottomrctMan
2 weeks ago

Penygraig


"Well tbh when I first tried cock was just to try.

Now I love it.

So basically had bad divorce. And woman just generally do my head in now. There headache.

And sex with woman can be very wet messy.

With a guy being a bottom here I love anal and live a tasty cock when feels me with cum.

And if u just wanna cum easy for a quick wank with each other "

Very similar to me . Cock and guys arseholes carry less baggage than tit's snd pussy.....although I must say I have had the pleasure of introducing some older ladies to anal and maybe because of the initial painful penetration they really enjoyed it and asked for it more than cunt sex..which I must admit pleased me. I came to the conclusion that they felt their tight arseholes meant they physically felt the physical penetration more than in their well used slack cunts. Also although I didn't ask them I wondered if it felt anything like loosing their cunt virginity. Obviously I dont know but expect getting the hymen broken is not pain free so perhaps getting arse fucked gives them that virin feeling once again

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By *ickthrobbingMan
2 weeks ago

Taplow


"Since a large percentage of you (and it’s a generalisation I know) are either married or have a female partner, what is it that draws you to men?

Is it the ease with which you can find someone to get you off? Or is it deeper than that?

Do you just see a cock, balls and mouth, or do you get attracted to the person as a whole?

No judgement here- I’m just curious.

"

I love sex with women and really enjoy sex with them and spending time in their company, I only have relationships with women

Butt with men its about the fun of the sex, I like cock fucking me and fucking a guy.

To me there is something very carnal and raw about sex with a guy

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By *optobottomrctMan
2 weeks ago

Penygraig


"It’s the ease , we all want sex and with a guy you dont have to date them and buy flowers just to get into their pants "

Spot on.

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By *rient_top OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Huntingdon


"Since a large percentage of you (and it’s a generalisation I know) are either married or have a female partner, what is it that draws you to men?

Is it the ease with which you can find someone to get you off? Or is it deeper than that?

Do you just see a cock, balls and mouth, or do you get attracted to the person as a whole?

No judgement here- I’m just curious.

Because I have chosen a female spouse doesn’t lessen my attraction towards men. It has no impact at all.

Also I enjoy making people cum.

Simple as that.

I do wonder how a thread asking gay guys why they are gay would go?

"

It would be fine. Speaking for myself, I see men as a whole. Obviously on here it’s looks first as you’ve only got a pic to go on, but after that it’s their behaviour and personality. I asked the question because it seems like some guys just think of guys as a means to an end

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By *udgepackMan
2 weeks ago

Cardiff bay

I clicked on this as I thought it was about Bi guys (as per the title) but as it's about attached/married Bi guys...

I have nothing to add.

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By *3243Man
2 weeks ago

EDINBURGH

Away from the bedroom too many women seem to have an agenda to follow. How well off am I, Do I keep good health. Do I own my house. In other words they're looking for marriage, me to die and them to inherit the lot. Guys do seem to have any particular agenda.

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By *ickthrobbingMan
2 weeks ago

Taplow


"I clicked on this as I thought it was about Bi guys (as per the title) but as it's about attached/married Bi guys...

I have nothing to add. "

I don't think the question is specially for married / attached guys

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By *teelballsMan
2 weeks ago

central london

Personally i meet men because they are up for doing the things that women, can’t do, won’t do, or are no good at.

Meeting men, whether to go down the pub, to football, the gym, or kinky sex is something i look forward to, but when it’s done we walk away without a backward glance.

There is no longing to stay together, kiss, hold hands or whatever.

We meet, play, goodbye.

No, i’m not in denial, i don’t spend any time in turmoil over my sexual identity, and when i see a guy on here describe himself as “straight”, i know exactly what he means.

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By *unguy2429Man
2 weeks ago

worthing


"Personally i meet men because they are up for doing the things that women, can’t do, won’t do, or are no good at.

Meeting men, whether to go down the pub, to football, the gym, or kinky sex is something i look forward to, but when it’s done we walk away without a backward glance.

There is no longing to stay together, kiss, hold hands or whatever.

We meet, play, goodbye.

No, i’m not in denial, i don’t spend any time in turmoil over my sexual identity, and when i see a guy on here describe himself as “straight”, i know exactly what he means.

"

Perfect

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By *has2Man
2 weeks ago

Chaddesden, Derby

I never answered the question earlier... No, I don't find men attractive - well, some maybe - but I do like sex with men!

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By *lastactionheroMan
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

It seems to be very hard to meet women on these sort of sites. But very easy to meet other guys. I've been on the sister site for years and have never been able to meet a woman for NSA sex.

It's a good job that sex with other guys is amazing.

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By *rookeTVTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Linwood

Its very hard to find a woman that will peg me and a hard cock is just as good and much easier to meet x

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By *yespy57Man
2 weeks ago

Hull

No emotions involved, I just like cock. I also love it that guys are so much dirtier than most women, and will pander to some of my 'stranger' requests.

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By *excessMan
2 weeks ago

Sleaford

I've known I was bi since being a teenager but my sexual experiences with guys were confined to cottages for many years.

The internet and sites like cottaging squirt and fabguys really expanded my horizons.

And yes I absolutely fancy guys, I actually avoid the 'love cock don't fancy guys" types.

I've got more respect for myself than to go with a guy who just sees me as a cock with legs, so I generally prefer gay guys to bi.

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By *ndyBristolMan
2 weeks ago

Keynsham

I find women attractive, their face, eyes, lips, breasts and a nice small bum.

With men I want their cock and cum, to suck and for him to fuck me.

I don't want a man for a reltionship but could be interested in a regular for sex.

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By *punk1975Man
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

I love sex, the dirtier the better and women unless you pay them just don't do it. I can have red hot sex, fulfill any fantasy's and I can walk away. It's that simple for me.

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By *3243Man
2 weeks ago

EDINBURGH


"Away from the bedroom too many women seem to have an agenda to follow. How well off am I, Do I keep good health. Do I own my house. In other words they're looking for marriage, me to die and them to inherit the lot. Guys do seem to have any particular agenda. "

Meant to say - guys don't seem etc

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By *mmacardingTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Sheffield

I enjoy making people cum; my wife has zero interest in sex so I have to focus my energy elsewhere.

I'd happily meet women, but it's literally quicker and easier to dress and meet a guy than to find a woman to be intimate with in drab.

Plus there is zero chance I will get a guy pregnant 😄

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By *ockey stickMan
2 weeks ago

Hounslow

I don't fancy men, I just like sucking on a nice cock.

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By *onstant.Man
2 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

I loved putting things up my bum in my early teens would have loved to have been fucked then. I got married. She's not interested in sex anymore. So i started looking for cock. Can't get enough now.

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By *og606Man
2 weeks ago

spalding

Im one of those. Have a female partner but non sexual now. Had an experience with a guy when younger and thought why not try again. Discovered I love to suck cock. Wanting more....

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By *ensualblokeMan
2 weeks ago

Colchester

It's becasue I like the aesthetic and dynamic of both: they are very different, and I feel a variety of things across both of the sexes.I love what women 'do' but it's so different with guys.

I'll take either to be honest x

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By *ature nudistMan
2 weeks ago

south

I love anal, cum fist and a guy can give me that. My first ever sex was gay,

I do love my wife alot but sex became tedious and boring. She got fed up of being filled but I've always been fucked

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By *aturebarneyMan
2 weeks ago

Sale

I love to please guys.

Wife gave up on sex years ago

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By *ristolbi_bs5Man
2 weeks ago

Weston-Super-Mare

Second marriage, love pussy. In an ideal fantasy world it would be wet twenty year old pussy and ass. Have many male friends, some gay, but I've never found men attractive. However I love cocks and balls. None of it makes sense really. Love sucking cock and occasionally getting fucked. Tried mmf, ffm, mfmf, group stuff. Only ever loved women. I also get off on the seedy side of anon sex, and that could be either male or female, but 99% of the time it's male.

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By *enpleasetomeetyouMan
2 weeks ago

Leeds ,kippax

I get attracted to guys aswell, but for the most part i like being a bottom , and love being fucked by a guy

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By *q oralistMan
2 weeks ago

Torquay

I think that as they get older many men still want regular sex but women tend to loose sex drive so the men's mind starts to wonder, they wank themselves and its a small step to play with another guys cock and get some pleasure from being sucked by another guy (often women wont do that) and a small step to sucking off another guy which ends up being addictive. Quite different form someone who is born gay. I was in my early sixties before my hands and mouth were pleasuring cock

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By *q oralistMan
2 weeks ago

Torquay


"I don't fancy men, I just like sucking on a nice cock. "

That applies to very many people on here, including me!

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By *uvfeetluvcock2Man
2 weeks ago

Sunningdale

I like a nice cock and arse and the intimacy of kissing a guy…there is no fuss when meeting a guy

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By *ral4uMan
2 weeks ago

Thetford

I love to have a cock in side of me

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By *mizhereMan
2 weeks ago

durham botel 23rd

I've always been sexually attracted to both males and females so for me it's the whole experience

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By *yker76Man
2 weeks ago

staffs

Simple for me, always have been attracted to both sexes, I don’t just see a cock so unlike many I want to be attracted to the person as well to play not just a penis on any body like many.

Just happened to meet and settle down with a female as a long term partner, doesn’t mean I’m hiding my sexuality or the relationship is any less real.

She’s bi too so have an open relationship as far as same sex play goes, we have a great sexlife, go to gay village and bi club nights, so works for both of us.

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By *ussextgirlukTV/TS
2 weeks ago

chichester


"Since a large percentage of you (and it’s a generalisation I know) are either married or have a female partner, what is it that draws you to men?

Is it the ease with which you can find someone to get you off? Or is it deeper than that?

Do you just see a cock, balls and mouth, or do you get attracted to the person as a whole?

No judgement here- I’m just curious.

"

In my years meeting 100s of bi guys all of them have always expressed it’s just about cock and ass fucking and much easier than with women

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By *arridMan
2 weeks ago

bRiGhToN

I was always straight. Gf and wife right up to about 4 years ago when I was having sex with a woman and her hubby, without permission or asking me, sucked my cock. I let it all happen and then tried sex with a man again and liked it. Now I’m here for sex (and chat) with men. I’m of the opinion sexuality is a spectrum and i’m trundling along in the middle.

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By *Fun123Man
2 weeks ago

Grays

Always been sexually attracted to both male and female. Enjoy sex with either, neither necessarily better than the other. Its how I feel and how they are as people that makes the connection. Definitely had more male than female partners over the years but really happy with my bi sexuality.

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By *amie1402Man
2 weeks ago

Merseyside

Somebody once said -

“Any hole is a goal”

Can’t remember who . . .

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By *iggreenockMan
2 weeks ago

Greenock

I just enjoy sex with men, particularly blowing men. I always have. I tried in the past to be solely hetro but was always drawn back to blowing men. I don't get attracted to the men but I've been very attracted to quite a few cocks I have had the pleasure of sucking.

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By *inkyasfkMan
2 weeks ago

SOUTHPORT

I have 0 physical and emotional attraction to men its just purely sex, taboo sex for me, i love women physically , face , tits, pussy , ass, and their personality but i crave gay sex , simple

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By *ub bottom 56Man
2 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

Just love a nice cock and how the guy uses it x

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By *orestguywantsbjMan
2 weeks ago

Ross on Wye

Just like the fact that most guys suck my cock better than women do.

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By *owlaisMan
2 weeks ago

merthyr

I was tapped up years ago by a gay guy, who started to stroke my cock when I seen him, I froze one day and he sucked my cock,

Since then I have enjoyed it, and I totally love sucking cock

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By *odge66Man
2 weeks ago

rotherham

I've always loved men's physiques from a young age, I didn't realise until I older that I enjoyed sucking cock too

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By *adforyoumanMan
2 weeks ago

Russell sq. central London

Attraction does play a part of it. Ever since I can remember, I've looked at men and wondered.

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By *ckSuccer4YouMan
2 weeks ago

cumbernauld


"Since a large percentage of you (and it’s a generalisation I know) are either married or have a female partner, what is it that draws you to men?

Is it the ease with which you can find someone to get you off? Or is it deeper than

Do you just see a cock, balls and mouth, or do you get attracted to the person as a whole?

No judgement here- I’m just curious.

"

Married here and if honest it's just sex. I love having sex with both genders but i am more attracted to women in looks and smell

Cant beat a nice big cock in my mouth at times though

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By *tripMan
2 weeks ago

dudley Dy1,

For me I have always been attracted to men rather than women. I believed I was gay since my teens until I met my wife. Then clarified myself as bisexual but I have never been attracted to another women.

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By *arridMan
2 weeks ago

bRiGhToN

Quite a few straight guys become bisexual and not a few bisexual guys say they are now gay but it’s not often a gay guy goes to be bisexual and then straight. Seems like the spectrum journey is one way.

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By *eefandfurMan
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh


"Quite a few straight guys become bisexual and not a few bisexual guys say they are now gay but it’s not often a gay guy goes to be bisexual and then straight. Seems like the spectrum journey is one way. "

Or the journey out of the closet.

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By *ayne DesireTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Gloucester


"Since a large percentage of you (and it’s a generalisation I know) are either married or have a female partner, what is it that draws you to men?

Is it the ease with which you can find someone to get you off? Or is it deeper than that?

Do you just see a cock, balls and mouth, or do you get attracted to the person as a whole?

No judgement here- I’m just curious.

"

It is a fetish.

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By *azadarMan
2 weeks ago

North Birmingham


"It is a fetish. "

However, as per Cambridge dictionary, a fetish is:

"a sexual interest in an object or a part of the body other than the sexual organs."

The dick is a sexual organ, no?

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By *uckington BearMan
2 weeks ago

Didcot

If you asked me to draw an attractive body shape then it'd be a woman. But I still think more about fucking men in a variety of deviant ways than I think about fucking women other than my wife.

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By *uminsideme .Man
2 weeks ago

weston s mare

I just love cock and cum but have been attracted to guys in the past, plus my mrs wouldn't fist me lol and I want that xx

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