FabGuys.com forum: less and less tops around

By *ranford cruiser OP TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Heathrow

More bottoms why is this??

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By *aggerHammerMan
2 weeks ago

Dagenham

I'm Top

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By *efflynneMan
2 weeks ago

telford

"More bottoms why is this??"

Because once you have been fucked it is like a drug.

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By *arti G xTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Chandlers Ford

Not many tops near me

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By *q oralistMan
2 weeks ago

Torquay

Looking at many profiles on here, it seems that there are plenty of guys who are versatile, so what's the problem.

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By *rbyTV/TS
2 weeks ago

SUNDERLAND

I used to top/vers. But now my cock has stopped working I have to btm

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By *ibeariusMan
2 weeks ago

Greenock

Health reasons?

Too much watching porn?

Laziness?

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By *ammy57TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Stevenage

As a bottom only guy I find most of the versatile guys want someone who is at least versatile too.

And that's not an option for me unfortunately. I get hard but offer me a guys bum and.... Instant shrink and mood killer.

I think lots of guys as they hit 45 simply loose the ability to fuck like they used to and as I'm only really interested in guys over that age, it seems like there are very few tops left!

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By *ice Guy 46Man
2 weeks ago

leicestershire

I see many profiles where they are versatile.

I’m top and I do read the profiles.

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By *uxbritMan
2 weeks ago

hemel hempstead hertfordshire

It really is a crisis lol

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By *upertedMan
2 weeks ago

Nelson

"Looking at many profiles on here, it seems that there are plenty of guys who are versatile, so what's the problem."

Aye...but when you say you're 100% bottom, they claim to bottom on any day ending in 'day'.

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By *ers16Man
2 weeks ago

Some where close by

Once you have had a good fuck that hits the spot and you cum without even touching your own cock then you know why so many men bottom

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By *ubbdaddyMan
2 weeks ago

London

From my experience it does seem to be around 25% top, 25% bottom, 50% versatile. I don't thinks there are fewer tops, they are just in higher demand - a bottom can take 10 cocks or more in a backroom/sauna/party/etc. You won't find a top who can cum 10 times in that same timeframe. Its just supply/demand.

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By *ymphMan
2 weeks ago

Northampton

Top here but pls read the profile!

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By *erso400Man
2 weeks ago

Stockport

"Once you have had a good fuck that hits the spot and you cum without even touching your own cock then you know why so many men bottom

Oh my yes XXX

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By *ensualblokeMan
2 weeks ago

Colchester

'fewer'

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By *awihMan
2 weeks ago

Aldershot

"Looking at many profiles on here, it seems that there are plenty of guys who are versatile, so what's the problem."

Yes, there are plenty of profiles that “say” they are versatile, however there are also quite a few that go on to say “mainly prefer to bottom” - so you can’t take it at face value. This is an issue because of limited categories and search filters, which many people have been raising in the feedback forum.

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By *loverfieldMan
2 weeks ago

Dalton, Cumbria

I am top and I don't think there are enough bottoms who have time for a nice session around me.

That, or they are not what I like physically.

Then of course you have the dreamers, who claim they want a big cock, but cannot handle one.

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By *rasshopper200Man
2 weeks ago

kendal

I’m like one or two of the above cocks not working greatly so I’ve turned bottom it nice to give something back

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By *enpleasetomeetyouMan
2 weeks ago

Leeds ,kippax

Yeah there isnt a lot of tops about these days

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By *ussextgirlukTV/TS
2 weeks ago

chichester

Yep I notice this as well huge reduction in tops from 10 years ago

Maybe guys are more open with bottoming now or having less pressure on them. Let’s be honest getting fucked is way easier than being the one having to get hard and fucking

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By *owzerMan
2 weeks ago

Chester.....

All bisexuals on here should at least be versatile. Since when they fuck the ladies, they've got to be top!

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By *ucksitupMan
2 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

Should be “Fewer and Fewer Tops”

😂😂😂

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By *moothsexMan
2 weeks ago

Ryde

A lot of vers who are really bottoms and also quite a few who have issues getting hard which is fine but probably steers them in the bottom direction somewhat….

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By *ordladMan
2 weeks ago

Wrexham

My cock doesn't hardly work

So being a btm and pleasing men is my only option ,just so happens that's what I love lol

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By *eneral distanceMan
2 weeks ago

infinity and beyond

I loved being a bottom and being fucked was a total turn on for me

The feeling when his cock slips inside you and feel all full was a total turn on, then the feeling as he slides in and out omg loved it

But due to developing a type of haemorrhoids, I cannot take a cock anymore so turned into a top

Which I must say I like a lot, some sexy ass guys out there with hot asses and lots of choice

Would still love to bottom but can’t so top is my way forward

Can say however I get far more offers as a top vers than a. Bottom vers lol

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By *eonnieMan
2 weeks ago

ireland

Hi all I'm _eonnie real name Noel, as a real bisexual who happens to love company of tvs bi's, straight, gay, a cock is a cock regardless who it's hanging of, so if someone thinks if their one of affore mentioned I think they should b able to see if they feel same, a lot of men were messed up and even though I new without making excuses covid really endorsed the fact that I'm bisexual

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By *os001Man
2 weeks ago

Oxford

There are definitely more vers guys out there and I get guys who say they are vers tops, more top but when they start saying what they want, they are definitely vers to bottom.

As a bottom only guy, that just doesn't work for me. Really not interested in being sucked and will never be into fucking, unless it's me getting his cock.

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By *W9DaddyMan
2 weeks ago

Richmond

I regularly get messages saying 'shame you are a bottom'.

Really pisses me off

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By *amieforfun1973TV/TS
2 weeks ago

bognor regis

Agree it’s a shame there aren’t more top Daddy types, I love dressing for them

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By *eady4u2Man
2 weeks ago

Letchworth

When this site gets down to the final 4 Tops "Reach Out I'll Be There"

Ps it seemed funny to me when I said it out loud!!

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By *uckmeslow555Man
2 weeks ago

oakham

I’m top

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By *enjamin2018Man
2 weeks ago

Gloucester

I'm a total top, I tried taking but I didn't get on with it .

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By *airFetishMan
2 weeks ago

Maldon

"More bottoms why is this??"

I wish I knew, it’s depressing.

I’ve been versatile ever since I knew I was gay (back in the 70s) and when I met other men I’d often find they would fuck me or I’d fuck them or both. It wasn’t something I ever thought about really. Now, almost everyone is a bottom, total bottom, sub bottom or a versatile bottom (which invariably means they are a bottom). It’s rubbish. It feels to me like an “I want to be pleasured and I expect you to do it for me” kind of attitude. A bit like the tedious “Tell me what you want to do to me” stuff, but during sex itself rather than in a text message. It’s a bit like the sudden proliferation of these “chastity cages” which used to be a way for a husband to prevent a wife having sex while he was away slaughtering infidels. Now men are willingly locking up their cocks which means they can’t do anything with it which I suppose means (if they keep it on) that they would have to be a bottom - well, what a surprise!

Someone on this thread said the reason for the number of bottoms was something like “when you get fucked it’s like a drug” or similar. That is ridiculous. Getting fucked is no more enjoyable and like a drug in 2025 than it was in 1980, but men didn’t all become bottoms after getting fucked in 1980 because it was so wonderful.

There is definitely something else going on but I don’t know what it is. I wish it would end.

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By *airFetishMan
2 weeks ago

Maldon

"Looking at many profiles on here, it seems that there are plenty of guys who are versatile, so what's the problem.

It’s quite common on Grindr or similar to have someone with a “versatile” profile who promptly sends you 3 pics of their arse and says “I want you to fuck me daddy”.

I mean …

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By *airFetishMan
2 weeks ago

Maldon

"All bisexuals on here should at least be versatile. Since when they fuck the ladies, they've got to be top!"

I’ve always found this weird. All straight men are tops. Yet most gay men seem to be bottoms. How does that work?

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Very true. Bottom like me loves being stretched and pumped. Nice sensation.

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