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"I used get at least 1 to 2 meets a week on this site. Now am lucky if I get 1 or 2 per month. However I get around 100 _iews per day. So is it just full of time wasters now or does nobody meet? " I think since Covid all online hookup site have got now bar standards tbh Still it’s the reasonable free site of its kind for gay sex | |||
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"I used get at least 1 to 2 meets a week on this site. Now am lucky if I get 1 or 2 per month. However I get around 100 _iews per day. So is it just full of time wasters now or does nobody meet? " Global warming. Must be. | |||
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"I used get at least 1 to 2 meets a week on this site. Now am lucky if I get 1 or 2 per month. However I get around 100 _iews per day. So is it just full of time wasters now or does nobody meet? " Think it down to how many men are soo picky now days. They want what they see in porn. | |||
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"I used get at least 1 to 2 meets a week on this site. Now am lucky if I get 1 or 2 per month. However I get around 100 _iews per day. So is it just full of time wasters now or does nobody meet? " Think it down to how many men are soo picky now days. They want what they see in porn. | |||
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"It's not the site, just the people on it" Exactly! Meets should be arranged by AI match-ups based on our profiles. | |||
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"It's not the site, just the people on it Exactly! Meets should be arranged by AI match-ups based on our profiles. " That would be fun - "here's our Cillai" | |||
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"It's not the site, just the people on it Exactly! Meets should be arranged by AI match-ups based on our profiles. That would be fun - "here's our Cillai"" Surprise. Surprise. The unexpected hits you between the legs | |||
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"Site now dominated by Trans, CDs, and 'straight' men talking about women they fancy- awful" The OP is referring to his frustration at getting meets, and not the mix of people on the site. You’re just taking the opportunity to post yet another anti trans / CD moan. In fact, if you’d looked at the OP’s profile, you’d have seen that he looks to, and has met, trans / CD’s. So it’s likely he’d welcome more trans / CD’s on the site. | |||
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"Site now dominated by Trans, CDs, and 'straight' men talking about women they fancy- awful" Tough Titty, Kitty. | |||
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" They start conversations and sound keen. Then it all just fizzles out. Either they get cold feet, find someone 'better' or have a wank and lose interest." this happens to me. I must be as boring as fuck. The chats ‘fizzle’ out. | |||
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"It's not the site, just the people on it" My point, put more succinctly 😂 | |||
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"It's not the site, just the people on it" The site includes the people in it, only one of the several major factors. | |||
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"You're lucky to get one or two a month" Gosh! You are lucky! I don't get that much cock in a decade. | |||
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"The site is fine, but more guys wasting time these days. Best summary is msg in this forum of a guy saying he could meet every day if he wanted. He's been on a year and has no verifications. That says it all." Why would anyone want to put his sexual history online for all to see? I keep mine private. | |||
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"Site now dominated by Trans, CDs, and 'straight' men talking about women they fancy- awful The OP is referring to his frustration at getting meets, and not the mix of people on the site. You’re just taking the opportunity to post yet another anti trans / CD moan. In fact, if you’d looked at the OP’s profile, you’d have seen that he looks to, and has met, trans / CD’s. So it’s likely he’d welcome more trans / CD’s on the site. " That is stalking! No wonder nobody wants to meet you. | |||
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"No one is forcing you to be on fabguys …. It’s great .,.. lush cock ,,, nice arses etc etc ….. meets are easy if you can accommodate so guys dry your eyes and enjoy fab men lol" I just adore positive people. You are so right. | |||
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"Site now dominated by Trans, CDs, and 'straight' men talking about women they fancy- awful The OP is referring to his frustration at getting meets, and not the mix of people on the site. You’re just taking the opportunity to post yet another anti trans / CD moan. In fact, if you’d looked at the OP’s profile, you’d have seen that he looks to, and has met, trans / CD’s. So it’s likely he’d welcome more trans / CD’s on the site. That is stalking! No wonder nobody wants to meet you." What on Earth are you talking about ?! | |||
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"Yeah I find a lot of guys say that have interest meeting up yet very few ever follow through with it, most annoying!" Definitely. I've been a member on and off since 2010 and when I rejoin I get men who have contacted me in the past forgetting they have done so with the usual bollocks of wanting to meet, I'm hot, sexy, gorgeous blah blah blah. However, I don't forget and when I remind them we've chatted before and nothing happened, they say, oh, I really want to meet etc then again mess about, so I block them | |||
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"The site is fine, but more guys wasting time these days. Best summary is msg in this forum of a guy saying he could meet every day if he wanted. He's been on a year and has no verifications. That says it all. Why would anyone want to put his sexual history online for all to see? I keep mine private." Why would anyone want to put their small-mindedness online for all to see? I keep mine private. | |||
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"Site now dominated by Trans, CDs, and 'straight' men talking about women they fancy- awful The OP is referring to his frustration at getting meets, and not the mix of people on the site. You’re just taking the opportunity to post yet another anti trans / CD moan. In fact, if you’d looked at the OP’s profile, you’d have seen that he looks to, and has met, trans / CD’s. So it’s likely he’d welcome more trans / CD’s on the site. That is stalking! No wonder nobody wants to meet you." You sound very hard work. Reading someone’s profile is stalking..?! You’re mixing up the OP in Glasgow saying it is difficult to get meets from the site with the poster in Dublin who just wanted (yet again) to slag off there being TVs and CDs here with the TV/TS in Navan who is sensibly defending her right to be here and pointing out the false logic of the Dublin poster. The words you’ve quoted were written by 3 different posters in the thread. 🙄 | |||
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"People expectations may be higher . But think lot people got put off . By covid then monkeypox. Then chatting with guy after bit exchange this that he told me he contacted HIV but don’t worry . Well I did worry . That sure killed that meet . Then we read all these STI on rise And on here loads people disappointment as it seems . Some people have sex as it just sex . Other want more . For me getting showered , Traveling for 30 minutes to have wank in car , for 10 minutes can’t be bothered. Anyway we all different. " You sound full of the joys of Spring. Try fly-fishing instead. | |||
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"Site now dominated by Trans, CDs, and 'straight' men talking about women they fancy- awful" ![]() | |||
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"Site now dominated by Trans, CDs, and 'straight' men talking about women they fancy- awful The OP is referring to his frustration at getting meets, and not the mix of people on the site. You’re just taking the opportunity to post yet another anti trans / CD moan. In fact, if you’d looked at the OP’s profile, you’d have seen that he looks to, and has met, trans / CD’s. So it’s likely he’d welcome more trans / CD’s on the site. " But is the “perceived” deterioration due to the current mix of people on the site now? There “seems” to be a lot less Gay guys on the site now and a lot more Bi’s many of whom are either TV’s or CD’s and all the Wife/Women talk is very off putting which may well be responsible for more gay and true Bi’s disappearing (by true Bi’s I mean those who can’t have a relationship with a man rather than those looking for a quick bit of relief because they aren’t getting it from the wife which seems to cover a lot of people now on the site). | |||
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"Gets worse every day. Just liked a few pics of a guy and winked, got a message "waste of space" then "you included" Blocked - his loss" it wasn’t actually his loss though because he didn’t want to meet you. In fact, he’s saved you both time. | |||
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"Yet more ‘anti-bi’ drivel from the screaming queens, this time as a reason for the site failing them. It’s easy to blame other people or the way the site works for lack of success rather than look closer to home at profile wording, messages, photos, etc." Believe what you like but it doesn’t make it true. | |||
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"Site now dominated by Trans, CDs, and 'straight' men talking about women they fancy- awful The OP is referring to his frustration at getting meets, and not the mix of people on the site. You’re just taking the opportunity to post yet another anti trans / CD moan. In fact, if you’d looked at the OP’s profile, you’d have seen that he looks to, and has met, trans / CD’s. So it’s likely he’d welcome more trans / CD’s on the site. But is the “perceived” deterioration due to the current mix of people on the site now? There “seems” to be a lot less Gay guys on the site now and a lot more Bi’s many of whom are either TV’s or CD’s and all the Wife/Women talk is very off putting which may well be responsible for more gay and true Bi’s disappearing (by true Bi’s I mean those who can’t have a relationship with a man rather than those looking for a quick bit of relief because they aren’t getting it from the wife which seems to cover a lot of people now on the site)." You obviously haven’t read the OP’s opening post. It’s clearly a post about how difficult it is to get a meet these days. The OP has met TV’s / CD’s before so he clearly doesn’t have an issue with this site having that mix of people here. But you’re trying to twist his post so you can wedge in yet another one of your anti bi & anti TV prejudice rants. | |||
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"I used get at least 1 to 2 meets a week on this site. Now am lucky if I get 1 or 2 per month. However I get around 100 _iews per day. So is it just full of time wasters now or does nobody meet? Global warming. Must be. " Do you realise yur profile won't show... maybe you made it private and didn't realise? Or perhas I'm just blocked? lel | |||
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"I used get at least 1 to 2 meets a week on this site. Now am lucky if I get 1 or 2 per month. However I get around 100 _iews per day. So is it just full of time wasters now or does nobody meet? Global warming. Must be. Do you realise yur profile won't show... maybe you made it private and didn't realise? Or perhas I'm just blocked? lel" Shows up for me! | |||
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"Site now dominated by Trans, CDs, and 'straight' men talking about women they fancy- awful The OP is referring to his frustration at getting meets, and not the mix of people on the site. You’re just taking the opportunity to post yet another anti trans / CD moan. In fact, if you’d looked at the OP’s profile, you’d have seen that he looks to, and has met, trans / CD’s. So it’s likely he’d welcome more trans / CD’s on the site. But is the “perceived” deterioration due to the current mix of people on the site now? There “seems” to be a lot less Gay guys on the site now and a lot more Bi’s many of whom are either TV’s or CD’s and all the Wife/Women talk is very off putting which may well be responsible for more gay and true Bi’s disappearing (by true Bi’s I mean those who can’t have a relationship with a man rather than those looking for a quick bit of relief because they aren’t getting it from the wife which seems to cover a lot of people now on the site). You obviously haven’t read the OP’s opening post. It’s clearly a post about how difficult it is to get a meet these days. The OP has met TV’s / CD’s before so he clearly doesn’t have an issue with this site having that mix of people here. But you’re trying to twist his post so you can wedge in yet another one of your anti bi & anti TV prejudice rants. " And if you obviously haven’t read and understood my post, I am looking at POSSIBLE causes for the “perceived” deterioration. For example from the gaydar threads, the site went down hill after a more “global” redesign and you could no longer check by town. That site is now full of scammers with fake profiles so is now worthless using. That is causes and effect. You may not agree with my observations- fair enough, BUT you fail to advance any alternative explanation for the “perceived” deterioration of the site. Whether or not an “individual” is interested in a particular type or not has no bearing on the effect that the current mix has on other members remaining on the site, and if the effect is that more people leave because of it then the site is going to go the way of gaydar if they are not careful. | |||
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"I used get at least 1 to 2 meets a week on this site. Now am lucky if I get 1 or 2 per month. However I get around 100 _iews per day. So is it just full of time wasters now or does nobody meet? Global warming. Must be. Do you realise yur profile won't show... maybe you made it private and didn't realise? Or perhas I'm just blocked? lel Shows up for me!" Oh right... good to know, thanks! I must be on his naughty step for some reason? I won't lose any sleep... ![]() | |||
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"Site now dominated by Trans, CDs, and 'straight' men talking about women they fancy- awful" Yep. This is the main issue in my opinion. In addition to that, I don't know the statistics but there also seems to be less gay men. Gay men on fabguys are more likely to accommodate and less likely to waste your time from my experience. If my hunch is right, this gay website is less appealing to men that can atleast admit they're here to meet men. They've gone elsewhere. The user base has changed. I probably won't be buying another membership. I can talk about and sift though comments about knickers and women's talk on other websites. Let the fantasists and pic collectors have the website since the admins/owners have no interest in basic quality of life changes like more forum categories for CDs/wife chat. | |||
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"People just aren’t meeting my personal preferences lately. " Same here, maybe over the years I've been on here I've got more fussy. | |||
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"Site now dominated by Trans, CDs, and 'straight' men talking about women they fancy- awful Yep. This is the main issue in my opinion. In addition to that, I don't know the statistics but there also seems to be less gay men. Gay men on fabguys are more likely to accommodate and less likely to waste your time from my experience. If my hunch is right, this gay website is less appealing to men that can atleast admit they're here to meet men. They've gone elsewhere. The user base has changed. I probably won't be buying another membership. I can talk about and sift though comments about knickers and women's talk on other websites. Let the fantasists and pic collectors have the website since the admins/owners have no interest in basic quality of life changes like more forum categories for CDs/wife chat. " I agree with you, purely from observation the user base does seem to have changed and the site doesn’t seem to be what it once was. Would be interesting to know where they are going now, although not something to be talked about here as it is against the rules, and you would probably have those that are slowly killing this site go there as well. I also doubt that I will buy another subscription when this one runs out, as it just doesn’t seem worth it now. It was a bit like in the hay day with gay pubs - when the dykes moved in they took over and the gays got pushed out - they just killed it. | |||
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"listen we should be grateful a site like this actually exists so please take the win lol " That is a bit like being on the Titanic as it is sinking and saying well this deck is still above the waterline -take the win. | |||
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" … Don't raise your expectations. Keep it realistic..." Have you been in the Forum before, dear?! 😉 | |||
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" That is a bit like being on the Titanic as it is sinking and saying well this deck is still above the waterline -take the win." But it is lovely and peaceful now the women and children have left. | |||
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" That is a bit like being on the Titanic as it is sinking and saying well this deck is still above the waterline -take the win. But it is lovely and peaceful now the women and children have left." And "Nearer, My God, to Thee" is a fine hymnal tune on strings. | |||
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" … Just have to sift out the dross a bit more carefully … " Exactly. Dross sifting and chaff winnowing require more time and energy than they used to. That’s the change. It’s universal - it’s not specific to this site. The moaning always seems to come from those who are unprepared or ill-equipped to do that bit. And as has been said in a myriad threads on this same theme - including guidance from moderators who have posted in person - if you are unwilling or too lazy or stupid to use the many tools the site gives us… Verifications; were they in person or by camera; what do they say; are they displayed; are they prepared to display if asked… You can use settings to search by age, whether people can accommodate, filter out certain sexuality types, block non verified or new users…. Insist on speaking to someone on phone before driving 100 miles to a non-existent address… Constant whinging. | |||
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" … Don't raise your expectations. Keep it realistic... Have you been in the Forum before, dear?! 😉 " God, you'd think people were FORCED to be on here or something......🙄😁 | |||
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"Worse in some areas and good in many areas but it depends on the people. " Thank you for this searingly incisive comment. | |||
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"And yes I agree there seems to be loads of comments regarding women, sex with women which I find a bit odd" For me, that's the worst part - the site was created for gay guys after all. There are numerous things the site owners could do to improve the experience too, but I've given up on suggestions and giving feedback as they don't seem to care much. | |||
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"And yes I agree there seems to be loads of comments regarding women, sex with women which I find a bit odd For me, that's the worst part - the site was created for gay guys after all. There are numerous things the site owners could do to improve the experience too, but I've given up on suggestions and giving feedback as they don't seem to care much." This angle comes up time and again. It does seem very hard for some guys on here to accept that the site is fully open for bi sexual men who, be definition also have an interest in women. Quite easy to pass them by if you are only interested in men that are fully gay. | |||
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"I think it’s very much a numbers game. Being in a large city helps, particularly in London where lots of people are staying over in hotels so that there is a constant turnover of new profiles. In a less populated area everyone around will have seen your profile and possibilities become more limited. " Totally agree | |||
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" … Just have to sift out the dross a bit more carefully … Exactly. Dross sifting and chaff winnowing require more time and energy than they used to. That’s the change. It’s universal - it’s not specific to this site. The moaning always seems to come from those who are unprepared or ill-equipped to do that bit. And as has been said in a myriad threads on this same theme - including guidance from moderators who have posted in person - if you are unwilling or too lazy or stupid to use the many tools the site gives us… Verifications; were they in person or by camera; what do they say; are they displayed; are they prepared to display if asked… You can use settings to search by age, whether people can accommodate, filter out certain sexuality types, block non verified or new users…. Insist on speaking to someone on phone before driving 100 miles to a non-existent address… Constant whinging. " Indeed It’s not rocket science, as they say. We all get caught out now and then but common sense will out most of the idiots. | |||
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"I get the impression that TVs/TSs and anyone under 30 does quite well. The rest of us are fucked (or not as the case might be)." Fuck me anytime you like ![]() | |||
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"Your profile is confusing, says you’re TV/TS how do you explain that one to potential hook ups ? " Whose profile ? | |||
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"Your profile is confusing, says you’re TV/TS how do you explain that one to potential hook ups ? Whose profile ?" The profile 4 or 5 up from my comment | |||
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