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By *lubchucker OP   Man
6 days ago

South Oxfordshire

What is it with people on here ?

Why do they think it's ok to hurl abuse and then block you without giving you a chance to defend yourself. Because you won't meet at the drop of a hat or give them what they want your branded as being 'a time waster' then get a load of abuse and blocked once they've had their say.

Does it make them feel big ?

Does it give them a stiffy ?

We all have a day to day life away from here and that takes preference over their wants and demands and petty tantrums.

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By *mma_EvansTV/TS
6 days ago

Colchester

Use the report function from the abusive message to report to admin xx

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By *lubchucker OP   Man
6 days ago

South Oxfordshire

I have done but i doubt anything will get done

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By *dambi00Man
6 days ago

Leicestershire

It’s because they’re behind a screen and won’t face any consequences, ignore it.

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By *ornybisubslutMan
6 days ago

Coventry

The anonymity of the internet gives people the courage to abuse others and they think there are few consequences. Sadly.

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By *arbus61Man
6 days ago

Leeds

Ignore it , there will always be knobheads on sites like this that have no intention of meeting it’s their problem not yours 👍

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By *treyu500Man
6 days ago

Australia

People project their insecurities onto you. It's took me a while to get used to it.

Eg 1)- I've missed messages on other apps and received abusive messages accusing me of thinking I'm too good for them.

2) I asked for a face pic on a different website where it's a common request and I got abuse about being too demanding etc. He said " I'm a high profile person, I can't send face pics "......... Like I said, they project their own insecurities - it's not my fault he can't show his face lol. Don't let it bother you.

3) I told a guy on fab I wasn't interested as we were into different things based on his profile and verifications. A perfectly respectful and reasonable response I thought. He also gave me a string of abuse.

Just block them and move on. They're not worth wasting your energy on.

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By *annyDanielleMan
6 days ago

Street, Somerset

Apart from the odd DM in response to something i've posted on the Lounge i don't remember ever getting any abuse. I've always found guys on here to be respectful and understanding.

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By *lubchucker OP   Man
6 days ago

South Oxfordshire

I find it's the minority not the majority but still annoying.

No need for it

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By *aid2TV/TS
6 days ago

Swindon

I get a lot of messages from empty profiles, no description, no pics, you know the type. Even though my profile says I'm not interested in those profiles they message me anyway. I used to politely tell them I don't meet blank profiles but half the time I would be sent abuse back. Usually something along the lines of 'oh well I wasn't interested in playing with a fat guy in a dress anyway'. The last year I have been blocking these profiles rather than explaining anything to them and as a result I'm getting far fewer shitty messages.

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By *im le2Man
6 days ago

aylestone leic

I once got a message from someone I'd not Evan spoke to. He called me names because of my weight and size . I looked at his profile and he didn't have any photos. A pint I pointed out to him . At least I'm proud to show my body. Plus I've got verification he didn't. So it was just jealousy. Yes I did report him and his profile disappeared but he was soon back with a new profile so I just blocked him. It's not worth bothering about ppl are just a waste of space. They want you to bite back ignore them and eventually they will leave you alone.

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By *arridMan
6 days ago

bRiGhToN

I’ve been blocked for not wanting to meet immediately. It was, in fact, for me to drive 10 miles to watch him in a lay-by to see if he could get a random driver guy on the off-chance to suck him so I could watch.

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By *eneral distanceMan
6 days ago

infinity and beyond


"I’ve been blocked for not wanting to meet immediately. It was, in fact, for me to drive 10 miles to watch him in a lay-by to see if he could get a random driver guy on the off-chance to suck him so I could watch. "

Same

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By *eteNFKMan
6 days ago

East Anglia

I am blocked by a few guys on here. I know that for some of them my profile is not what they are looking for.

The others, I don’t know why.

Not offended, just curious.

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