FabGuys.com forum: Query!!!

By *hristy89 OP Man
5 weeks ago

city

So I have this picture in my head that is probably so wrong but throwing it out there to see.

If you are an openly gay man, do you get spontaneous fun with straight acting older married men (over 50) when out and about.

I'm thinking there's plenty of older married men out there and they are nervous to act or won't make first move, but I'm guessing it's easy for openly gay men to be flirty and open with such gentlemen which may allow them to relax and be open back.

Like would you get propositioned or flirted with in public by older married straight acting men.

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5 weeks ago

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5 weeks ago

Just be careful. Most straight men would not like being flirted with. Do you remember when straight guys used to get angry at seeing a dick pic..? The world has changed some since then but straight men have their boundaries.

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By *eefandfurMan
5 weeks ago

Edinburgh

If you were in a gay bar maybe. In daily life, no. People massively over-estimate the number of people that are gay or bi. Even in a gay friendly areas of most of the big cities your probably looking at less than 5%. Maybe Brighton and the gay villages in Manchester and London it would be possible. But elsewhere, sadly, there are still a lot of guys that wouldn't take kindly to overt flirting from another guy.

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By *hristy89 OP Man
5 weeks ago

city

"Just be careful. Most straight men would not like being flirted with. Do you remember when straight guys used to get angry at seeing a dick pic..? The world has changed some since then but straight men have their boundaries."

Oh I hear you, but I assume businessmen staying in hotels who are horny and maybe be bi or vi curious would be more open and inclined to flirt and chat with a gay man that's he's met as opposed to another straight acting man who may be putting out videos about playing but neither will act first

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By *dstefiMan
5 weeks ago

Solihull

J don't see it as any different from flirting with women. Flirting if done right is all about suggestion without stating anything outright; it's about subtlety and symbols.

I could definitely flirt with a guy I fancied without ever making it obvious. It's all eye contact, suggestiveness, but knowing when not to push it if you're not getting an immediate greenlight back.

I mean if you do get a greenlight then nobody's complaining are they?

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By *fourjMan
5 weeks ago

Here, there or somewhere nearish March

"…

If you are an openly gay man, do you get spontaneous fun with straight acting older married men (over 50) when out and about. …

Like would you get propositioned or flirted with in public by older married straight acting men."

No and no … sadly 😂 If that sort of thing happened I probably wouldn’t be on here!

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By *lackbootzMan
5 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"So I have this picture in my head that is probably so wrong but throwing it out there to see.

If you are an openly gay man, do you get spontaneous fun with straight acting older married men (over 50) when out and about.

Like would you get propositioned or flirted with in public by older married straight acting men."

Time and place, time and place.

And the confidence and experience to gauge the appropriate level of open behaviour with the context.

There have been times when I have flirted outrageously with straight men, even in groups of their peers, and they have loved it. And there have been times where my being sexually very open with married and bi men in a public social context has certainly led later to sex.

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By *hristy89 OP Man
5 weeks ago

city

Any older married men out there, who were 100% straight up until their 50s, never once thought about men or cock fun, want to share that maybe their first experience came out of the blue and shocked them, perhaps on a night out or social environment you met a gentleman who flirted, seduced and chatted you into your first bi experience and you haven't looked back since

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By *atthew500Man
5 weeks ago

east yorks/hull

No, i dont think it was a ‘thunderbolt’ look or smile ftom a gay guy that set me on my bicurious journey, more an increased awareness that there were access opportunities- this type of site being a good example- when i started thinking and urging i rang a local gay friend help line, lots of chatting on there and a social meet to check both parties out for commitment- then i was taken home and introduced to ALL aspects of gay sex. I do love living in a modern (ish) society!!

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By *im le2Man
5 weeks ago

aylestone leic

I've always been open about my sex life. Yes I know there are loads and loads of men who got married to hide there speciality .

Guys will approach me in private. I know I can't talk to them in the pub or shops etc.

If they give me there phone number they know I will never use it until the text me first.

And yes they know I'm very discreet and will never say anything.

Do the wives suspect? One or two yeah I think they do but say nothing. If there husband's are getting oral n anal somewhere else they don't have to do it.

I'm happy meeting older married men. I can have sex and not bothering about getting them a pint next time in the pub.

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