FabGuys.com forum: Deal breakers

By *udi222 OP Man
4 weeks ago

Harrogate

When you're looking to meet someone for fun what is/are the deal breakers which stop you, irrespective of how attractive the other person(s) is or how horny you are? For me its:-

Poor hygiene - no excuses or exceptions.

Requsts for money, gifts, favours.

Requsts to use drugs in my house.

Pushy, arrogant , entitled and plain rude people.

Any one if these and we wont be meeting however hot you are.

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By *oveitrawMan
4 weeks ago

Birmingham

How do you know they have poor hygiene before meeting up?

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By *issyOliveMan
4 weeks ago

village, corby

Mega personal questions,

Demanding pics and assuming I'm always dressed

Not understanding there is a life off here that means your not always on the same schedule

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By *bear67Man
4 weeks ago

Aldershot

Smokers

Drug users

Pics wearing women's clothes. Once seen, they can't be unseen.

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By *ountainMan
4 weeks ago

ipswich

Out of site out of mind

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By *lder topMan
4 weeks ago

Irvine

Postcode not given early

Streetview looks unsafe

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By *0yguyMan
4 weeks ago

Cumberland

All the above… and bad manners.

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By *exualCumeleonMan
4 weeks ago

Birmingham

Smoking

Poor hygiene

Can't spell or child like grammar

Extreme political views in profile.

Trying any type of coercion in messages

Profile saying they are interested in fem then approaching me definitely not that type.

1 word answers

Wanting gifts

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By *ortheastFarmerMan
4 weeks ago

Newcastle

The inability to use the English language, in order to string a few sentences into a paragraph. I know not everyone is perfect, im not after the finest of spelling and grammer, but put some effort into a message, not just a few words responses or text speak.

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By *onmar01Couple (MM)
4 weeks ago

Bargoed

When the first contact is a message that just says 'Meet?'.

Like I'm going to agree to a meet when they have no pic, haven't confirmed what we are all looking for. I politely declined with a simple 'No', then blocked them.

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By *astDevonGuyMan
4 weeks ago

East Devon

"When you're looking to meet someone for fun what is/are the deal breakers which stop you, irrespective of how attractive the other person(s) is or how horny you are? For me its:-

Poor hygiene - no excuses or exceptions.

Requsts for money, gifts, favours.

Requsts to use drugs in my house.

Pushy, arrogant , entitled and plain rude people.

Any one if these and we wont be meeting however hot you are. "

All of the above and female attire

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By *ortheastFarmerMan
4 weeks ago

Newcastle

"When the first contact is a message that just says 'Meet?'.

Like I'm going to agree to a meet when they have no pic, haven't confirmed what we are all looking for. I politely declined with a simple 'No', then blocked them."

I had that earlier, 1 word, simply 'meet'.

Well being the sarcastic prick is am, I may have took that person down a rabbit hole of hope, just to get to a dead end and leave him hanging haha.

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By *onmar01Couple (MM)
4 weeks ago

Bargoed

"When the first contact is a message that just says 'Meet?'.

Like I'm going to agree to a meet when they have no pic, haven't confirmed what we are all looking for. I politely declined with a simple 'No', then blocked them.

I had that earlier, 1 word, simply 'meet'.

Well being the sarcastic prick is am, I may have took that person down a rabbit hole of hope, just to get to a dead end and leave him hanging haha."

Lol

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By *bear67Man
4 weeks ago

Aldershot

When a guy wants me to suck him off while he's watching straight porn.

Erm, no! If I'm doing you the favour of sucking your cock, have the courtesy to concentrate on that rather than kidding yourself your not having gay sex by imagining it's the woman in the porn who's sucking you.

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By *ldmanMan
4 weeks ago

Rawcliffe Bridge.

Or first message is "Looking For?"

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By *wm17Man
4 weeks ago

Carlisle

Short messages, simple questions not answered.

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By *ice WankerMan
4 weeks ago

Lancs

"Or first message is "Looking For?""

This and similar.

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By *3versMan
4 weeks ago

glasgow

No headless horsemen

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

"can you pick me up and drop me back"

Although it's something I did when I first started meeting guys at 16/17 it's something I soon grew out of.and it's a turn off for me

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By *ustOneBearMan
4 weeks ago

Neath

“What are you going to do to me?”

They’re wanking and will disappear

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By *ichardbyronMan
4 weeks ago

Ludham

"“What are you going to do to me?”

They’re wanking and will disappear "

As a Dom I get that all the time from dreamers, instant block.

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By *ature_1965Man
4 weeks ago

South Oxfordshire

Demanding a face pic yet not sharing their own, their home looking like a war zone and dirty, having agreed safe only now full of excuses why they only bareback and they were checked a year a go and plan to be on prep.

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By *ruckedMan
4 weeks ago

Stafford services (n/b)

I often get contacted from profiles on here and FS that make a big thing about size or BBC. For some reason, a truckfuck seems to also feature on their fantasy list.

I’m told that I’m bigger than average, but I just find the whole obsession with a size a little queasy.

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By *oodoorisingMan
4 weeks ago

Wirral

"When you're looking to meet someone for fun what is/are the deal breakers which stop you, irrespective of how attractive the other person(s) is or how horny you are? For me its:-

Poor hygiene - no excuses or exceptions.

Requsts for money, gifts, favours.

Requsts to use drugs in my house.

Pushy, arrogant , entitled and plain rude people.

Any one if these and we wont be meeting however hot you are. "

All of the above

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Bedford

Drugs and shit x

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By *way 888Man
4 weeks ago

oldham

"When you're looking to meet someone for fun what is/are the deal breakers which stop you, irrespective of how attractive the other person(s) is or how horny you are? For me its:-

Poor hygiene - no excuses or exceptions.

Requsts for money, gifts, favours.

Requsts to use drugs in my house.

Pushy, arrogant , entitled and plain rude people.

Any one if these and we wont be meeting however hot you are. "

All of them.

I mean, personal hygiene? WTF?!!

If you’re planning on meeting somebody and you don’t have a bath or a shower …. Really.

As for asking for money. “I’m Joe Buck” if you’re old and you know, you know. Haha.

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By *stronomiqueMan
4 weeks ago

Preston ish

Short sharp messages, pushy guys

Not keen on face tatts

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By *omo2026Man
4 weeks ago

Liverpool

Poor hygiene no excuses love the fellas who have just finished work and want a blow job with a sweaty cock and balls no way urgh

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By *iscofansMan
4 weeks ago

Lower Penn

I am not keen on going into the marital home or marital bed of interested man. I just don't feel comfortable. Fine he says she is at work but she could come home sick etc. I just wouldn't relax.

That is just one.

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By *iscofansMan
4 weeks ago

Lower Penn

Shaven bits downstairs and their photo and description states they are hairy.

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By *urrey_hjTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Kingston Upon Thames

All of these plus people who ask questions that have quite clearly been answered in your profile :-/

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By *onmar01Couple (MM)
4 weeks ago

Bargoed

"“What are you going to do to me?”

They’re wanking and will disappear "

'Tell me exactly what we will do when we meet"

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By *edsBlokeMan
4 weeks ago

Stotfold

Poor hygiene.

Medicated.

Bad attitude.

This is supposed to be enjoyable.

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By *IPMANMan
4 weeks ago

FULHAM

Lingerie..especially unwashed or preform

Any mention of female partners or vaginas

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By *excessMan
4 weeks ago

Sleaford

The love cock don't fancy guys crowd.

I'll suck your cock but I don't find you in the least attractive, and don't kiss me!!

Ooh that's hot.

Get away with that noise, I'd rather have go without🙄

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By *seableMan
4 weeks ago

Halesowen

I agree with all the OP points, though if by pushy you mean a Dom type, I actually find that a turn on.

Others for me are:

Really hairy guys, unless they only want to fuck me from behind.

Smokers who smell of fags.

Same with booze. Being a little merry is OK.

Tops who cant get hard but have promised to fuck you.

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By *seableMan
4 weeks ago

Halesowen

"All of these plus people who ask questions that have quite clearly been answered in your profile :-/"

Yes! This exactly!!!

Especially when it says no 3 word messages, put in some effort,

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By *anDadBodMan
4 weeks ago

Speke

smokers and pushiness mainly

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By *ensualblokeMan
4 weeks ago

Colchester/Waltham Abbey

"When the first contact is a message that just says 'Meet?'.

Like I'm going to agree to a meet when they have no pic, haven't confirmed what we are all looking for. I politely declined with a simple 'No', then blocked them."

This. I require a little more, simply barked one word messages don't engage me at all, and often a good indication of how that person is.

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By *othJoTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Peterborough

Hairy panty wearers requesting a meet to fuck them

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By *q oralistMan
4 weeks ago

Torquay

One word (or very few) messages, kills any interest for me.

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By *eatherloverukMan
4 weeks ago

near Skegness

people who don't read profiles.

people who think you can meet them 50 miles away in half an hour.

hairy pantie wearer's.

the list goes on

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By *antylover4funMan
4 weeks ago

fuerteventura Not

People who dont take a min to read your profile and guys who are picture hunters

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By *ucksitupMan
4 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

"The inability to use the English language, in order to string a few sentences into a paragraph. I know not everyone is perfect, im not after the finest of spelling and grammer, but put some effort into a message, not just a few words responses or text speak.

Clearly, as it is “grammar” 🤣🤣🤣

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By *erewegoagain99Couple (MM)
4 weeks ago

Heysham or Blackpool

Women's clothes

Being asked "what will we do in the meet?". Keyboard wanker who is going to disappear

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By *ashington_ladMan
4 weeks ago

gateshead

2 word answers to messages absolutely boils my piss.

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By *astDevonGuyMan
4 weeks ago

East Devon

"2 word answers to messages absolutely boils my piss."

Me too

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By *ip71Man
4 weeks ago

Darlington

People who have won't meet smokers yet constantly message you sites full of them (off you fuck) , people that assume all smokers smell like a shit smugglers duffle bag (wake up) , people pushing their dim views here on the forums (put boxing gloves on next time you want to comment) , long arsed profiles listing demands (fcuk off pal) scruffy arsed houses (Sort yourselves out) list could go on.

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By *astle9Man
4 weeks ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

Guys who demand photos, especially face pics, when they have none to share of their own.

Guys who ask "so what you into?" when it's there on the profile.

Guys with cock pics that look like they've got some sort of pox - sore looking red patches on bell-end etc. Seriously, why would you post a picture like that!

Guys who don't kiss.

And finally, bad attitude.

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By *ortheastFarmerMan
4 weeks ago

Newcastle

Clearly, as it is “grammar” 🤣🤣🤣"

I was hoping no body would notice that and I got away with it, i only noticed once i posted it 😂😂 (not to self, keep off fab forums while driving a tractor in a field)

But atleast it enforces my point, doesnt have to be perfect, just make an effort.

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By *ickwayverMan
4 weeks ago

sw London

"Note"?

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By *ardforall56Man
4 weeks ago

belfast

Your 100% correct with all those points

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By *ortheastFarmerMan
4 weeks ago

Newcastle

""Note"?"

I missed that one, ironically becuase i was driving around the farm again 😂

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By *admium-redMan
4 weeks ago

Newcsstle/London

One word requests.

One word replies.

Guys who don’t kiss (why are you even talking to me? My profile is quite clear).

Pushy.

Demanding.

Asking for face pick before offering one.

Sydney University nonsense…

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By *ortheastlad23Man
4 weeks ago

town

People who insist on fucking bb!

Poor hygiene

Totally smooth cocks.

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By *ortheastlad23Man
4 weeks ago

town

Also smokers. It’s a filthy smelly habit.

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By *ortheastFarmerMan
4 weeks ago

Newcastle

That Sydney university lark makes me laugh, like how are you going to know, if a bunch of people have pinched your data and photos. Their current hanging upside down on the opposite side of the planet.

If your a flat earther... the Sydney people are currently at the far side of the planet up right, close to the ice wall

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By *eg4youMan
4 weeks ago

withywood

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By *eg4youMan
4 weeks ago

withywood

this sounds like a carry on from my post many people will dislike many things if you don't like it, move on and you know there is a block button

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By *andoverMan
4 weeks ago

Worksop1

It’s ‘grammar’.

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By *ortheastFarmerMan
4 weeks ago

Newcastle

It’s ‘grammar’. "

My spelling cock up has already been acknowledged and from that, I learnt i cant use fab well while operating farming machinery. However it does back up my point, it doesnt have to be perfect, just make an effort

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