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"Recently in large city with two big saunas. Tried both. Underwhelmed by the experience! Both poorly attended & the men that there were there were clicky….not ideal for shy, reserved bumkin from the sticks. Can’t beat time in bed with a partner with whom you’ve set out the ground rules beforehand. Hours of slow intense pleasures lying ahead. In the sauna he up’s & off’s after a few minutes in the expectation of a better conquest! Not to be repeated easily. The money saved! Horses for courses perhaps. What’s your experience, preference?" I'm surprised that given your pics and verifications, I'd have thought you'd be a bit hit at a sauna - some people just don't know what's good for them ![]() | |||
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"Recently in large city with two big saunas. Tried both. Underwhelmed by the experience! Both poorly attended & the men that there were there were clicky….not ideal for shy, reserved bumkin from the sticks. Can’t beat time in bed with a partner with whom you’ve set out the ground rules beforehand. Hours of slow intense pleasures lying ahead. In the sauna he up’s & off’s after a few minutes in the expectation of a better conquest! Not to be repeated easily. The money saved! Horses for courses perhaps. What’s your experience, preference? I'm surprised that given your pics and verifications, I'd have thought you'd be a bit hit at a sauna - some people just don't know what's good for them ![]() I echo that...you look hot 🔥 | |||
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"Sorry to hear about your bad experiences but great to know you've found what you like. It all depends on your style I guess. I am a big fan of Touch Naked Tuesday and have never come away with full balls. I've been part of quite a few group sessions and once fucked a guy in front of a crowd and when I was done pulled out and saw another guy slip straight in. That type of stuff appeals to the base animal in me and I love it! " I am also a regular at Touch, especially Naked Tuesdays which is usually busy however, yesterday was unusually quiet for a Tuesday, I did get to play with some guys but not to the same level as normal. I am like the OP in that I prefer nice long bed sessions, however at the Sauna I become a different animal, I aim for some sort of sexual contact from as many men as possible which means a bit of a play then move on to the next guy, the lasty thing you want to do is blow your load with the first guy you meet, this is normal sauna behaviour, yet the OP seems to have taken this personally. | |||
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"Saunas for me ,no time wasters no travelling for nothing plenty choice (usually)safe fun ,and you can just have a sauna if you want and a coffee and lunch in the lounge area what's not to like good day out for about £20 x" Not to mention all the eye candy, especially on naked days. | |||
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"Never been to one, have thought about it but never been brave enough." Nothing bad is going to happen trust me so just go. | |||
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"Never been to one, have thought about it but never been brave enough. Nothing bad is going to happen trust me so just go." I know it's stupid but just so far not done so | |||
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"Never been to one, have thought about it but never been brave enough. Nothing bad is going to happen trust me so just go. I know it's stupid but just so far not done so" It's not stupid at all, I tend to forget that being gay and single the first time I decided to go to a gay sauna was easy for me and didn't really take much thinking about and that my situation is not the same as a not out bisexual men, especially if they have a partner or wife. | |||
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"Sorry to hear about your bad experiences but great to know you've found what you like. It all depends on your style I guess. I am a big fan of Touch Naked Tuesday and have never come away with full balls. I've been part of quite a few group sessions and once fucked a guy in front of a crowd and when I was done pulled out and saw another guy slip straight in. That type of stuff appeals to the base animal in me and I love it! " Glad theres another tuesday Touch guy. Had more hits than misses there | |||
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" Glad theres another tuesday Touch guy. Had more hits than misses there" Were you there yesterday by any chance? | |||
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"Very recently sarted going on my own for the first time A bit nerve-wracking for me, especially when a lot of it is done through eye-contact and I find that really difficult ![]() I've got a mate i go with sometimes and he describes similar issues. Shyness and lack of confidence. Says he wishes he could wink, smile and strike up conversations like I do. | |||
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" In order to avoid disappointment, I'd suggest going with the intention of using the facilities and coffee/chat with other guys. Then if you get any fun, then that's a bonus. " This is the way I think about them. Relax in the sauna/hot tub/steam room. Any fun is a bonus ![]() | |||
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" In order to avoid disappointment, I'd suggest going with the intention of using the facilities and coffee/chat with other guys. Then if you get any fun, then that's a bonus. This is the way I think about them. Relax in the sauna/hot tub/steam room. Any fun is a bonus ![]() Does your PA get really hot in a sauna? The first time I ever used a sauna, I thought ‘ooh, this is hot’ so said ‘I’ll cool it down a bit’ and chucked the whole pail of water on to the rocks - causing the temperature to skyrocket. ![]() | |||
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"At least in a sauna there's always some guy who looks worse naked than I do. The secret is to find him, stand next to him...then bingo ...you instantly look better Sorry...but life is cruel" Until one day your that guy lol | |||
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"Recently in large city with two big saunas. Tried both. Underwhelmed by the experience! Both poorly attended & the men that there were there were clicky….not ideal for shy, reserved bumkin from the sticks. Can’t beat time in bed with a partner with whom you’ve set out the ground rules beforehand. Hours of slow intense pleasures lying ahead. In the sauna he up’s & off’s after a few minutes in the expectation of a better conquest! Not to be repeated easily. The money saved! Horses for courses perhaps. What’s your experience, preference?" It is horses for courses. Going to a sauna, club, fetish event or even an anonymous hook up site the chances are, massively, that loads of guys will be after a quick play and go. If, time in bed with your partner is what you want , then pretty obviously such options are not for you. | |||
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"I’m a bit of a voyeur so do enjoy an occasional sauna visit. I confess I choose not to engage but do enjoy the naked company and it’s a pleasant way to while away a couple of hours while the car is in for service on a cold February day. " I go to get as much sexual contact with as many guys as I can, however I also go to admire the eye candy. | |||
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" In order to avoid disappointment, I'd suggest going with the intention of using the facilities and coffee/chat with other guys. Then if you get any fun, then that's a bonus. This is the way I think about them. Relax in the sauna/hot tub/steam room. Any fun is a bonus ![]() ![]() Never had a problem with it. Usually it's my necklace that gets uncomfortably hot ![]() | |||
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"Must admit I like saunas especially my local one Number 52 in Newcastle. Getting to know the stag and the regulates been great and going just to relax and have a naked laugh sometimes is a pleasure " This 👌 | |||
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"I'd love to try one but the thought is quite terrifying. I know it shouldn't be but to a relativly inexperienced married man it is !" Saunas are ideal if you're married; they're very convenient if you can't accomm or inflexible when you can meet. No need to find them 'terrifying'; once you're in you'll quickly settle down. I used to 'hide' in the jacuzzi, then I'd get hard and be to embarrassed to get out of it with a hard-on in front of all the other guys. ![]() | |||
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"Really wanna be taken to one" I know it's easy for me to say as a sauna regular but why do you need someone to take you, just bite the bullet and go, trust me nothing bad will happen, once in you will either like it or decide it's just not for you. | |||
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"Married here but love meeting guys in gay sauna love chat on telegram about experiences" single gay here, I like a bit of a chat and to view the eye candy, anything else is a bonus, today there were some bonus's according to the satisfying tingle in my bottom. | |||
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"Had my first experience a few months back. Eventually got over the nerves and just said F##K It!! Walked in alone and just blended in and had a great time. Highly advise that approach to the nervous and unsure guys out there. Take the plunge. Worst case - you don't enjoy it and just leave. " That's exactly what I did first time, I'm quite shy when it comes to making moves and starting conversations but I felt right at ease and very quickly found my feet. I perhaps go far too often now. | |||
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