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"Probably to get people interested enough to contact them. An icebreaker. " a deal breaker for me. I’m not toilet trade. | |||
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"They only accommodate if you're the right sort" Why talk to me and be up for a meet if I'm not their type? | |||
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"They only accommodate if you're the right sort Why talk to me and be up for a meet if I'm not their type?" Did you chat THEN show a face or cock pic? | |||
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"They only accommodate if you're the right sort Why talk to me and be up for a meet if I'm not their type? Did you chat THEN show a face or cock pic? " This has been when they have asked for face pics | |||
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"They only accommodate if you're the right sort Why talk to me and be up for a meet if I'm not their type? Did you chat THEN show a face or cock pic? This has been when they have asked for face pics" Oh dear | |||
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"Maybe they can accommodate SOMETIMES ?" ⏫️ 👍 | |||
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"Its a bit risky inviting a total stranger to your home. I prefer to meet a guy somewhere safe first time. So I say I can accom but usually after a first meet elsewhere like a sauna." This | |||
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"I tend to do it the other way; I say I can’t accom, but (as I live alone) I’ve got the option to go to mine if I feel safe enough. Only done it once though. " Exactly this! I had stuff taken after a meet several years ago and have always said 'can't accom' since. Seldom ends up in me bringing someone home but the option is there. Often meeting in the sauna becomes the norm for repeats | |||
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"They only accommodate if you're the right sort Why talk to me and be up for a meet if I'm not their type? Did you chat THEN show a face or cock pic? This has been when they have asked for face pics" I’m not trying to hit a man when he’s down, but… Sadly, people often don’t have the balls to be up-front and honest. Instead of saying something honest like: thanks for showing me yourself but you really wouldn’t be my type, so I won’t be looking to invite you over… they will suddenly cop out and tell you that they aren’t able to accommodate after all. They hope you will infer why. | |||
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"Yes...but in that case put cannot accommodate. If they lie about one thing...what other crap is there on the profile? I don't want to end up with mercy fucks. My profile is accurate and im not going to deceive anyone jyst to limbo dance my way into a shag." I’d quite like to see you shimmying under my limbo… 😏 | |||
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"I am continually amazed by people on here who cannot understand that other users on here are actual people, and have no contractual obligation to enact any of the possibilities mentioned on their profiles with random strangers. IMO 'Can Accom' is short hand for can accom if I feel comfortable doing so, with the right person, when the timing is convenient. I don't send anyone a message assuming that they HAVE TO accom. There can be a vulnerability to inviting a complete stranger into your home and then almost immediately making yourself even more vulnerable though nakedness etc. Life experience surely must show us all that there are a lot of arse holes out there that you don't necessarily want to invite into your home and hope for the best " your better off meeting the guy 1st in a coffee shop then you can sus them out | |||
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"Yes...but in that case put cannot accommodate. If they lie about one thing...what other crap is there on the profile? I don't want to end up with mercy fucks. My profile is accurate and im not going to deceive anyone jyst to limbo dance my way into a shag." Agreed. Well said. Sexy too  | |||
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"The obvious point here is that “can accomodate” does not mean at any time 24 hours a day on demand for anyone. More realistically it means - as and when and if, it suits me. " This is exactly it. Our profiles are binary but reality is much more variable. My issue is being contacted by someone who is really interested in a meet but all options are not possible for them. Not sure why people do that. | |||
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