This is probably going to be a very silly question (expecting more than few sarcastic replies?)
Extra long toy (photo)- can't get full penetration, feels like it's just curling up and slides straight out as soon as I release hand grip? Am I doing something wrong, is it maybe too flexible? Girth (black one) not an issue, the long pink one (photo) is slightly easier but can still be difficult.
I use lots of lube and empty/clean myself before trying.
This is a genuine question so please, if you reply, don't be nasty. I have enough abuse IRL as a crossdresser as it is.