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By *ere2pleaseu OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Tamworth

I’ve been told today that I can’t go on doxy-prep because I’ve not had any sti,s so I’m not a higher risk even though I’ve told them that I give oral unprotected and let the guys cum in my mouth!

They have put me on prep but can’t get the other, how stupid are they, so I’ve got to catch a sti to be given doxy so I can’t get a sti? Anyone else heard of this?

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By *an.maleMan
2 weeks ago

glossop

What’s doxy?

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By *H IpswichMan
2 weeks ago

Ipswich


"I’ve been told today that I can’t go on doxy-prep because I’ve not had any sti,s so I’m not a higher risk even though I’ve told them that I give oral unprotected and let the guys cum in my mouth!

They have put me on prep but can’t get the other, how stupid are they, so I’ve got to catch a sti to be given doxy so I can’t get a sti? Anyone else heard of this? "

Really interesting post. I'd never heard of Doxy-prep. I was told I don't need Prep when I questioned it because I only give oral? I do also wonder though about any long term potential negative effects on the body of taking these medications? I know they stop diseases and obviously is a positive.

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By *ere2pleaseu OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Tamworth


"What’s doxy?"

It’s a tablet you take after having unprotected oral/anal sex and it’s supposed to protect you from gonorrhoea& chlamydia.

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By *0yguyMan
2 weeks ago

Cumberland


"What’s doxy?

It’s a tablet you take after having unprotected oral/anal sex and it’s supposed to protect you from gonorrhoea& chlamydia. "

An antibiotic. Doxycycline. Doxy -PEP is most effective when taken after condomless sex by individuals at high risk for these bacterial STIs, such as gay and bisexual men and transgender women who have a history of bacterial STIs.

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By *awihMan
2 weeks ago

Aldershot

As it is an antibiotic, I’m wondering if it is to do with some STI’s becoming resistant to antibiotics because of over prescription. Many strains of gonorrhea are already resistant to doxiprep and cases of it are on the rise.

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By *treyu500Man
2 weeks ago

Australia


"I’ve been told today that I can’t go on doxy-prep because I’ve not had any sti,s so I’m not a higher risk even though I’ve told them that I give oral unprotected and let the guys cum in my mouth!

They have put me on prep but can’t get the other, how stupid are they, so I’ve got to catch a sti to be given doxy so I can’t get a sti? Anyone else heard of this? "

I understand why you're annoyed but it's not stupid.

It's a supply and priority patient approach. You are low risk buddy. You've never had an sti. It makes more sense to give it to someone who engages in riskier sex, more frequently and has a history of sti's.

If he/she is on doxy pep then they are less likely to give someone like you the sti.

Also, doctors really don't like giving out meds without knowing it's necessary - evidence based practice. It's part of their code of ethics. You are currently , low priority. Regular prep worked the same way when it first came out. It made far more sense to give it to the people who were at the most risk of contracting/spreading hiv.

Then it became widely available to guys like me that don't engage in unprotected anal sex that often (for example).

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By *ookingaroundMan
2 weeks ago

Bristol


"I’ve been told today that I can’t go on doxy-prep because I’ve not had any sti,s so I’m not a higher risk even though I’ve told them that I give oral unprotected and let the guys cum in my mouth!

They have put me on prep but can’t get the other, how stupid are they, so I’ve got to catch a sti to be given doxy so I can’t get a sti? Anyone else heard of this? "

Why should we all pay for you to do what you want when the rest of us all need to use protection?

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By *3versMan
2 weeks ago

glasgow


"What’s doxy?

It’s a tablet you take after having unprotected oral/anal sex and it’s supposed to protect you from gonorrhoea& chlamydia. "

It doesn't protect from gonorrhea as it is already doxycycline resistant, it provides protection against chlamydia and syphilis

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By *3versMan
2 weeks ago

glasgow


"I’ve been told today that I can’t go on doxy-prep because I’ve not had any sti,s so I’m not a higher risk even though I’ve told them that I give oral unprotected and let the guys cum in my mouth!

They have put me on prep but can’t get the other, how stupid are they, so I’ve got to catch a sti to be given doxy so I can’t get a sti? Anyone else heard of this?

Why should we all pay for you to do what you want when the rest of us all need to use protection?"

Because it's cheaper to prevent than cure, the same reason Prep is given on the NHS

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By *ookingaroundMan
2 weeks ago

Bristol


"I’ve been told today that I can’t go on doxy-prep because I’ve not had any sti,s so I’m not a higher risk even though I’ve told them that I give oral unprotected and let the guys cum in my mouth!

They have put me on prep but can’t get the other, how stupid are they, so I’ve got to catch a sti to be given doxy so I can’t get a sti? Anyone else heard of this?

Why should we all pay for you to do what you want when the rest of us all need to use protection?

Because it's cheaper to prevent than cure, the same reason Prep is given on the NHS"

Maybe taking personal responsibility for not catching STIs is a cheaper way still?

If I declared I would stab myself in the leg unless the NHS gave me £2000, it would be cheaper to give me the money than operate on the wound I would inflict on myself through selfish behaviour.

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By *3versMan
2 weeks ago

glasgow


"I’ve been told today that I can’t go on doxy-prep because I’ve not had any sti,s so I’m not a higher risk even though I’ve told them that I give oral unprotected and let the guys cum in my mouth!

They have put me on prep but can’t get the other, how stupid are they, so I’ve got to catch a sti to be given doxy so I can’t get a sti? Anyone else heard of this?

Why should we all pay for you to do what you want when the rest of us all need to use protection?

Because it's cheaper to prevent than cure, the same reason Prep is given on the NHS

Maybe taking personal responsibility for not catching STIs is a cheaper way still?

If I declared I would stab myself in the leg unless the NHS gave me £2000, it would be cheaper to give me the money than operate on the wound I would inflict on myself through selfish behaviour. "

Luckily there is no judgement when it comes to medical treatment

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By *arridMan
2 weeks ago

Brighton

Put Thyme with Pork - sage advice

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By *lackbootzMan
2 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx


"I’ve been told today that I can’t go on doxy-prep because I’ve not had any sti,s so I’m not a higher risk even though I’ve told them that I give oral unprotected and let the guys cum in my mouth!

They have put me on prep but can’t get the other, how stupid are they, so I’ve got to catch a sti to be given doxy so I can’t get a sti? Anyone else heard of this?

Why should we all pay for you to do what you want when the rest of us all need to use protection?

Because it's cheaper to prevent than cure, the same reason Prep is given on the NHS

Maybe taking personal responsibility for not catching STIs is a cheaper way still?

If I declared I would stab myself in the leg unless the NHS gave me £2000, it would be cheaper to give me the money than operate on the wound I would inflict on myself through selfish behaviour. "

Are you looking to block all former smokers from accessing cancer treatments and alcoholics from liver and organ treatments at the same time? Because you’d obviously need to be consistent with your lofty principles. Or is your moral high horse very selective..?

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By *ookingaroundMan
2 weeks ago

Bristol


"I’ve been told today that I can’t go on doxy-prep because I’ve not had any sti,s so I’m not a higher risk even though I’ve told them that I give oral unprotected and let the guys cum in my mouth!

They have put me on prep but can’t get the other, how stupid are they, so I’ve got to catch a sti to be given doxy so I can’t get a sti? Anyone else heard of this?

Why should we all pay for you to do what you want when the rest of us all need to use protection?

Because it's cheaper to prevent than cure, the same reason Prep is given on the NHS

Maybe taking personal responsibility for not catching STIs is a cheaper way still?

If I declared I would stab myself in the leg unless the NHS gave me £2000, it would be cheaper to give me the money than operate on the wound I would inflict on myself through selfish behaviour.

Luckily there is no judgement when it comes to medical treatment "

No, and with that we are very lucky indeed. I absolutely agree with you. I am sure we can also agree that we do have a health care system which is badly short of resources.

This maybe as a society we need to start calling out irresponsible and selfish abuse of what resources are available?

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By *3versMan
2 weeks ago

glasgow


"I’ve been told today that I can’t go on doxy-prep because I’ve not had any sti,s so I’m not a higher risk even though I’ve told them that I give oral unprotected and let the guys cum in my mouth!

They have put me on prep but can’t get the other, how stupid are they, so I’ve got to catch a sti to be given doxy so I can’t get a sti? Anyone else heard of this?

Why should we all pay for you to do what you want when the rest of us all need to use protection?

Because it's cheaper to prevent than cure, the same reason Prep is given on the NHS

Maybe taking personal responsibility for not catching STIs is a cheaper way still?

If I declared I would stab myself in the leg unless the NHS gave me £2000, it would be cheaper to give me the money than operate on the wound I would inflict on myself through selfish behaviour.

Luckily there is no judgement when it comes to medical treatment

No, and with that we are very lucky indeed. I absolutely agree with you. I am sure we can also agree that we do have a health care system which is badly short of resources.

This maybe as a society we need to start calling out irresponsible and selfish abuse of what resources are available?"

How do you call out what is irresponsible? That's down to personal judgement- there are many reasons why people take risky or "irresponsible" actions

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By *ookingaroundMan
2 weeks ago

Bristol


"I’ve been told today that I can’t go on doxy-prep because I’ve not had any sti,s so I’m not a higher risk even though I’ve told them that I give oral unprotected and let the guys cum in my mouth!

They have put me on prep but can’t get the other, how stupid are they, so I’ve got to catch a sti to be given doxy so I can’t get a sti? Anyone else heard of this?

Why should we all pay for you to do what you want when the rest of us all need to use protection?

Because it's cheaper to prevent than cure, the same reason Prep is given on the NHS

Maybe taking personal responsibility for not catching STIs is a cheaper way still?

If I declared I would stab myself in the leg unless the NHS gave me £2000, it would be cheaper to give me the money than operate on the wound I would inflict on myself through selfish behaviour.

Luckily there is no judgement when it comes to medical treatment

No, and with that we are very lucky indeed. I absolutely agree with you. I am sure we can also agree that we do have a health care system which is badly short of resources.

This maybe as a society we need to start calling out irresponsible and selfish abuse of what resources are available?

How do you call out what is irresponsible? That's down to personal judgement- there are many reasons why people take risky or "irresponsible" actions "

It’s a good question and there is no empirical answer to it. We need to use our own judgement and stand by it.

Trying to create an absolute boundary is impossible and is no reason not to stand by your own relative boundary.

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By *treyu500Man
2 weeks ago

Australia

I do actually have a prescription for doxy pep but I rarely use it . I would only take it if I engaged in group sex or went to a sauna, which is rare for me.

I've also never had an sti, (Yet). And I say yet because it's pretty much inevitable it will happen eventually.

The last two months I have only really been with the one guy. But, he hasn't, he has fun several times mid week when I'm not there. Good for him lol.

So although I'm low risk and you could argue I'm being "careful", it's really irrelevant because sti's don't care how many people you sleep with. You can catch something from a once off interaction with one person from a bj.

Thankfully, judgement doesn't really come into the equation in healthcare. I got the prescription because I mentioned in passing to my sex health doc that I was going to Sydney for the week. She asked if I would be visiting any sex on premises venues, I said probably yes and she gave it to me.

No judgement, no hassle.

It's really not a big deal.

Maybe instead of slut shaming, get angry at politicians for misusing your taxes. Or educate yourself a bit more on sti's so you're not so deathly afraid .

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By *tmguylookingMan
2 weeks ago

Chesterfield


"I’ve been told today that I can’t go on doxy-prep because I’ve not had any sti,s so I’m not a higher risk even though I’ve told them that I give oral unprotected and let the guys cum in my mouth!

They have put me on prep but can’t get the other, how stupid are they, so I’ve got to catch a sti to be given doxy so I can’t get a sti? Anyone else heard of this?

Why should we all pay for you to do what you want when the rest of us all need to use protection?"

The answer to this is glaringly obvious. Go get tested and get on prep, it won't cost you a penny.

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By *rshaverxMan
2 weeks ago

newcastle

If you take Prep you must get tested for STI’s regularly and also for kidney function. Doctors are reluctant to proscribe after the event antibiotics as there is evidence that certain strains of STI’s are not responding to treatment. Unless you are fucking your brains out every day with a different guy or vice versa much better to get treatment when you need it and any partner you have had if you know them or can track them down later.

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