FabGuys.com forum: Dating

By *eg4you OP Man
3 days ago

withywood

Quick question for all the gay guys on this site: would you actually date somebody on here that could lead to more? Or are you only here for hookups?

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By *ickSeekerMan
3 days ago

Canterbury

Hard enough to get a hookup🤦🏽‍♂️, let alone anything beyond that. VERY unlikely🤷🏽‍♂️

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By *dambi00Man
3 days ago

Leicestershire

Open to it, but I do mostly see this site as just for a hookup

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By *awihMan
3 days ago

Aldershot

Simple answer for me is Yes, if there was a connection. Trouble is there is no way to filter searches to just Gay Guys and there seems to be less gay guys and far more Bi guys on here now which makes it far less likely.

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By *b20Man
3 days ago

Glasgow

Yes, id love a connection with someone, I could go to cinema, meals, pub, etc sex as well of course, hopefully it would lead to a nice relationship

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By *eedsbearmanMan
3 days ago

Leeds

Probably not.

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By *azadarMan
3 days ago

North Birmingham

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By *azadarMan
3 days ago

North Birmingham

Have in the past with someone I connected with beyond just sex and would do again.

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By *aohiaochiaokengMan
3 days ago

England

Mainly for hookups and sex fun.

But 2 guys my sex buddies emget very attached to me and we meet regularly for threesomes/foursomes sometimes with my Scottish partner.

We eventually agreed to an open polyamory relationship. We still have sex with other guys outside our polyammory relationship.

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By *ibeariusMan
3 days ago

Greenock

I would love to date someone which for me makes sex better.

I’d even consider travelling a distance if it develops

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By *acingfanMan
3 days ago

Huddersfield

The look of love. That certain smile. Laughter in the rain. I could write songs about it.

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By *im le2Man
2 days ago

aylestone leic

I'm 70 yo have lived alone for 53 years. What would I know about relationships. Yeah I've got mates I regularly have sex with. But nothing is call a relationship it's just sex and that's what I like about this site.

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By *airyandbelliedbottomMan
2 days ago

Barrow-in-Furness

I have fallen in love 3 times in my life. Unrequited. For once it would be nice if they felt the same too but seeing as most guys don't care for me beyond a feeling in their dick and I'm sh*te at convo f2f it will never happen.

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By *airyandbelliedbottomMan
2 days ago

Barrow-in-Furness

"Quick question for all the gay guys on this site: would you actually date somebody on here that could lead to more? Or are you only here for hookups? "

What about yourself, OP?

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By *os001Man
2 days ago

Oxford

I'd be open to it if there was that chemistry and connection.

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By *omethingdifferent123Man
2 days ago

Cheshire

I would definitely be up for more

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By *ustOneBearMan
2 days ago

Neath

Yes I would. I met my husband on a hook up site. So it is possible.

Chances are very slim as I don’t want to be someone’s “secret boyfriend”. Which seems to be the best on offer here, I’m worth much more than that.

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By *unguy2429Man
2 days ago

worthing

This site gets harder n harder for this. Even meets too. It just seems to be guys horny swapping pics. Wanking cummin but no actual meeting

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By *bonybucksMan
2 days ago

High Wycombe

No I wouldn’t want to date someone from here because of it being a sex site. But saying that, I’ve met a few guys where I think feelings became involved and it was difficult for us to part ways. I’d just love to go grocery shopping and meet the love of my life there lol. We never know

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By *loverfieldMan
2 days ago

Dalton-in-Furness, Cumbria

The fact this is a hook-up site full of closeted cheaters doesn't limit other people's aspirations and needs.

I am sure finding love here is not impossible. I met my last partner on gxindr, and we had a great few years together. I would give anyone a chance if there was a connection...

Live is better when shared with someone special, and sex is better in a monogamous relationship.

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By *ildwestheroMan
2 days ago

Llandrindod Wells

Would love to meet a FWB on here. Probably just as much change on this site as there is on so-called dating sites where you still get 'quick fixers' rather than real dater. If you enjoy each others company as well as the sex then why not make it more regular.

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By *upertedMan
2 days ago

Nelson

Depends on the vibe doesn't it?

I met an ex on another site like this many years ago. He just wanted a blowie and I duly obliged, but something just clicked in looks and personality and we were together for 7.5yrs.

I know it's not the norm, but it can and does happen.

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By *ustOneBearMan
2 days ago

Neath

At least of you meet someone on here you already know that monogamy is probably not going to happen. So you can have a mature conversation about how you’re going to manage the relationship without the lies. At least that’s what I did.

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By *rgeoMan
2 days ago

WOLVERHAMPTON

"Quick question for all the gay guys on this site: would you actually date somebody on here that could lead to more? Or are you only here for hookups? "

It depends what you mean by 'more' - 'more' is complicated, messy, unknown. I am definitely more interested in the 'more' than in the sex.

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By *illmanimp1972Man
2 days ago

pitsea

Well I would certainly go on a date with someone off fab.romance is not dead yet here lol

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By *ip71Man
2 days ago

Darlington

Maybe..once I've waded through the messers ha

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
2 days ago

Didcot

Head says no, heart says maybe, that said I'd guess the percentage of guys on here that are single and open to an actual loving relationship with a man is quite low.

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