I've discovered that if I completely relax every single muscle in my body, in particular around the cock and asshole and use just one finger to make circular movements on my ferenium only, not touching anything else and keep the relaxation going all the time, after about 10 mins of continuous circular motions right on the sweet spot of my cock the orgasm I have is collosal. You have to totally resist the massive urge to tense your cock up, or tighten your asshole at all times. The orgasm starts with a tingling in both feet and races up your legs and as the first ejaculation fires off the orgasm washes over your entire body. The cum spasms are so intense most of my cum fires way past my face. The entire process is completely ruined if you allow yourself to tense up even once. I can imagine that if i did this with someone else sliding a lubed finger into each others asses during the build up would feel incredible. If you tense up during the build up, just start again. Anyone else tried this? Or have any other ideas about how to make this method even better? Message me please. If you are Isle of Wight based, and fancy trying this with me, let me know. This method has given me some of the strongest orgasms I've ever had. The only downside for me is that I'm married so have to wait until I'm home alone to do it as I make so much noise as the super intense pulses of orgasm wash over me, my wife would hear me if she was at home. I'd love to message anyone interested in intensifying this amazing technique. Cheers.
I forgot to add, this method can take more than 10 mins, just bear with it though, it can take longer. Worth the effort though. Just remember, if you tense even once during it, you kind of reset back to square one and it's very hard not to tense the cock/asshole area. Keep it relaxed, you can aid that by gently pushing through that asshole/balls muscle as u use that circular frenulum movement with ONE finger only.