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By *arried cock bolton OP   Man
15 hours ago

bolton

How do u feel about meeting

I get guilty but the urge keeps happening as in a sexless marriage bit dont want upset her or kid

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By *ertsguy77Man
15 hours ago

Welwyn garden city

Feel same when had meet... its normal

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By *upertedMan
14 hours ago

Nelson

I'm on the other side. Single fella here.

Not on this app to out anyone.

If I can provide a service and help scratch an itch I'm happy...

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By *uriouscum33Man
14 hours ago

Hull

I get the guilt feeling after but mans got needs sometimes and its my secret side

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By *easdown_dadbodMan
13 hours ago

Peasdown

Had a number of meets since becoming a dad, always feel the guilt afterwards but learning to just push past it, I have sexual needs that I'm just not getting at home at the end of the day, I know it's somewhat selfish but no one's perfect.

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By *i naughty builMan
13 hours ago

Plymouth

Married dad

I have needs and the guilt I felt in the beginning is long past

Healthy swingers sex life at home

And super careful with my gay life

Never meet at home

Always safe sex

Regularly wipe clean phone messages

Massaging apps kept in separate folder and regularly deleted and reloaded....Inc fab guys

Keep the rules and no one needs to be hurt

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By *edServiceMan
13 hours ago

Hull

I'm obviously saying this as a single guy, so maybe the context is unavailable for me.

But ultimately conversations have to be had to open relationships up when needed.

Often sex can and should be considered a key part of relationships and sometimes that means open relationships or even hall passes need to be spoken about.

Modern society and religion just forces everyone into hetro normative relationships and that works for a lot of people but it's just not the case for a lot of people too.

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By *arridMan
12 hours ago

Brighton

I don’t feel the slightest bit guilty. Maybe I’m good at compartmentalising. Also my marriage vows never said anything about loyalty or fidelity or anything christian actually.

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By *an24Man
12 hours ago

dundee

No guilt now adays, to start with yes x

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By *hetlad30Man
12 hours ago

Cheltenham

Married real dads are my biggest turn on. DMs are always open guys.

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By *etechattingMan
12 hours ago

Beeston, Nottingham

No issues meeting married guys.

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By *excessMan
12 hours ago

Sleaford

Afyer 40 years of serial adulterery, I've long come to terms with it.

Not proud of it, and guys can rightly be critical, but I'm not stopping any time soon.

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By *loverfieldMan
12 hours ago

Dalton-in-Furness, Cumbria

If you can live with the fact you are supporting the actions of a cheat, good for you.

To me, people who have no respect for their lifelong partner are unlikely to show respect to anyone else, so no I won't attempt to meet them.

And, as they are less likely to be regularly tested than guys who are not cheating, they are more likely to have nasties too (without knowing).

The misogyny of their situation is also something I find hard to digest.

The whole "pic swapping, knickers sharing, without the wife knowing" scene is the most off putting too.

Cheaters are, to me, men without guts.

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By *arridMan
11 hours ago

Brighton


"If you can live with the fact you are supporting the actions of a cheat, good for you.

To me, people who have no respect for their lifelong partner are unlikely to show respect to anyone else, so no I won't attempt to meet them.

And, as they are less likely to be regularly tested than guys who are not cheating, they are more likely to have nasties too (without knowing).

The misogyny of their situation is also something I find hard to digest.

The whole "pic swapping, knickers sharing, without the wife knowing" scene is the most off putting too.

Cheaters are, to me, men without guts. "

Thank you for your contribution. I’m almost certain no-one cares what you think about men who cheat on their partners, but at least you used some time and energy getting that negativity out of your head.

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By *ickSeekerMan
11 hours ago

Canterbury

Married (to another man) but NOT a father. Yes, there's still an intense pang of guilt. Does this make me a bad person? It probably does and I'll probably have to atone for it. I think I'd need a year-long Yom Kippur or maybe even that boat has also sailed...sigh

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By *oresterMan
11 hours ago

stroat

But. If you met and he was not wearing a wedding ring, would you know!

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By *etechattingMan
11 hours ago

Beeston, Nottingham

The assumption is that the guy has told you they are married. Most do not

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By *arridMan
10 hours ago

Brighton


"The assumption is that the guy has told you they are married. Most do not"
sometimes the name gives it away

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By *etechattingMan
10 hours ago

Beeston, Nottingham

True

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By *ra57Man
10 hours ago

Manchester

I have fun

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By *ocksucker501Man
10 hours ago

Southend

I just have to ask myself why are you on this site as you have high moral view ?

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By *loverfieldMan
8 hours ago

Dalton-in-Furness, Cumbria


"If you can live with the fact you are supporting the actions of a cheat, good for you.

To me, people who have no respect for their lifelong partner are unlikely to show respect to anyone else, so no I won't attempt to meet them.

And, as they are less likely to be regularly tested than guys who are not cheating, they are more likely to have nasties too (without knowing).

The misogyny of their situation is also something I find hard to digest.

The whole "pic swapping, knickers sharing, without the wife knowing" scene is the most off putting too.

Cheaters are, to me, men without guts.

Thank you for your contribution. I’m almost certain no-one cares what you think about men who cheat on their partners, but at least you used some time and energy getting that negativity out of your head. "

Are you sure?

The op asked a question. I simply answered it.

He had asked the whole site, not just your little self.

If you cannot deal with other views, stay offline, or stick to private messages.

My opinion is as valid as yours, even if they differ.

And you talk about my negativity...

Sad sod. Get real.

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