FabGuys.com forum: Do they read the profile??

By *eg4you OP Man
6 days ago

withywood

Every time I update my profile, nobody reads it, and I always seem to attract the bottom guys.

Read the profile, it saves time and reduces anger and the feeling of rejection.

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By *upertedMan
6 days ago

Nelson

Aw...kind Sir! There are way more bottoms than anything else so kind of a hazard when using these apps.

I use the analogy of 100 men:

90 are bottom

6 are Versa but will say more bottom

2 are Side

2 are Tops with so much choice.

I think it's why as Gay men we court the straights so much as we assume they're fucking their wives; but more often than not they now wanna bend over.

Tis the way of the world...

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By *ildwestheroMan
6 days ago

Llandrindod Wells

Some clearly don't. Got into a conversation with one guy and we has even arranged a meet. He must have looked at my profile a dozen times. Then suddenly asks what will happen during our meet. I told him and said it was all in my profile. He messaged me back saying I'd misled him and the meet was off and he blocked me!

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By *i_guy_WBayMan
6 days ago

Whitley Bay

No, it seems profiles are rarely read. I get lots of guys asking if I can accom, if I can meet now, if I’ll fuck them. I make my profile as clear as possible without being an epic saga but so many just can’t be bothered to read.

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By *irtybbMan
6 days ago

leigh

No they don't. Mine states i cannot accommodate. But I get asked so often if I do.

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By *dstefiMan
6 days ago

Solihull

"Every time I update my profile, nobody reads it, and I always seem to attract the bottom guys.

Read the profile, it saves time and reduces anger and the feeling of rejection. "

Fortunately for me I can't read your profile as blocked, but I probably wouldn't if I could because you live up to your username in spades.

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By *eedsbearmanMan
6 days ago

Leeds

Nobody reads the profile, it's a certainty

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By *eanDevizesMan
5 days ago

Dursley

Sometimes guys may miss a detail . It is no biggy, just politely reply back .

Or perhaps some guys really want to meet you .

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By *ustOneBearMan
5 days ago

Neath

Yeah it’s a pain but you can’t expect people to behave the way you want them to. If they are not what you’re looking for you can always block.

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By *ttmblkMan
5 days ago

West Midlands

To the OP, I get what you mean and yes it can be frustrating at times but really all you have to do is say "our profiles aren't compatible, hope you find what you're after and have a nice day". Keep it friendly and polite.

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By *norguyMan
5 days ago

W Norfolk

of course they read the profiles, every word, even the ones that go on forever and need a serious edit

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By *heo6SGMan
5 days ago

Lincs

some need TLTR or TLDR

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By *ucksitupMan
5 days ago

Shrewsbury

I get fed up with people who just say “Shame you can’t accom” as if that will magically change things.

Add those to the morons who say “where are you from?” and “what are you into?” because they haven’t read my profile and I can discount 90% of the guys who contact me.

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By *ulldozer47Man
5 days ago

London/Westminster

Yes definately hazzard on this and many other sites. Ive hidden my profile for a while as have a lot of stuff going off at present especially with my mums dementia, and get fed up of trying to explaining that i cannot meet at the drop of a hat and the fact that i had it all written on my profile so was pretty up front about it.

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By *rookeTVTV/TS
5 days ago

Linwood

guys never read the profile x

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By *arcusUK2Man
3 days ago

Winchester

Many people are lazy. Many people can't read anyway. That's life, sadly.

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By *lasgow verse 60s guyMan
3 days ago

Glasgow

You expect a lot! Most guys on here are guided by their hormones and not their brains!

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By *ighthole69Man
3 days ago

SPALDING

Hardly anyone reads profiles, I ask guys who contact me to put a certain word in their message, then I know they have read it. Works for me, that way I don't have to explain everything.

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