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"Obviously a majority of us are unfortunately married on this site, however I have a question to ask. How many men on here are not appreciated by the wife. My wife is constantly shouting and screaming at me, making out I don't help out etc, yet I'm the one who pays for everything in the house, does all the housework as I work from home etc yet that doesnt seems good enough for her. Anyone else in this situation. " If it make you feel any better, your wife really appreciated me | |||
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"Nothing like that here. Totally appreciated and frequently told how good I am doing stuff. If I wasn’t, I wouldn’t be here still" I’m not much good at doing stuff, but I can organise stuff, and for that I m told I’m appreciated. | |||
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"I recognise the pain here. It took me years to recognise what I was experiencing was not right. I was in counselling for many years. One day, three years in, my counsellor used the word “abuse” for the first time. It was like being hit with a hammer, but that is exactly what was happening. I was screamed at whenever I was around; nothing I did was good enough. I was expected to account for every fifteen minute period of every day when I was working. What I had been doing, who I had seen, how I knew them, did I have sex with them. The accusations, wailing and screaming started the moment I walked through the door. It was the sound I eventually fell asleep to every night and the sound I woke up to every morning. I was completely exhausted after putting up with it every day for the final five years we were living in the same house. I shrivelled up from this treatment and completely withdrew. How she had the energy to keep it up for such extended periods every day I’ll never know. It went on for some time even after I finally packed some stuff and walked out. I had to learn not to answer her phone calls. I should left her years before. Actually, I should never have married her. Thankfully after ten years apart we were able to work out how to be civil. " Reminds me of the psycho girlfriend in The Inbetweeners. | |||
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"I wonder if part of this is due to early/young marriages? And people growing apart as they continue to grow up. I married my first wife at 30. Four kids to whom we gave a pretty settled and loving upbringing. Married my second only a couple of years ago but we'd been together ten years before that and knew we were solid. If I'd got married in my early twenties I can easily imagine it being a disaster. I wasn't mature enough or had enough life experience to take on sharing a life with someone else at that age." :- I wonder if it is partly to do with people spending every free minute scouring the tinterweb for cock, all the while being under the illusion their wife has no idea the can whistle a merry tune on the old pink oboe. | |||
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"Obviously a majority of us are unfortunately married on this site, however I have a question to ask. How many men on here are not appreciated by the wife. My wife is constantly shouting and screaming at me, making out I don't help out etc, yet I'm the one who pays for everything in the house, does all the housework as I work from home etc yet that doesnt seems good enough for her. Anyone else in this situation. " She’s lost respect for you | |||
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"Obviously a majority of us are unfortunately married on this site, however I have a question to ask. How many men on here are not appreciated by the wife. My wife is constantly shouting and screaming at me, making out I don't help out etc, yet I'm the one who pays for everything in the house, does all the housework as I work from home etc yet that doesnt seems good enough for her. Anyone else in this situation. If it make you feel any better, your wife really appreciated me " Wicked reply | |||
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"Obviously a majority of us are unfortunately married on this site, however I have a question to ask. How many men on here are not appreciated by the wife. My wife is constantly shouting and screaming at me, making out I don't help out etc, yet I'm the one who pays for everything in the house, does all the housework as I work from home etc yet that doesnt seems good enough for her. Anyone else in this situation. " I think this is why men go elsewhere | |||
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"Obviously a majority of us are unfortunately married on this site, however I have a question to ask. How many men on here are not appreciated by the wife. My wife is constantly shouting and screaming at me, making out I don't help out etc, yet I'm the one who pays for everything in the house, does all the housework as I work from home etc yet that doesnt seems good enough for her. Anyone else in this situation. " get rid because nothing you do for her will not be good enough | |||
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" She is constantly spending three or more delivery’s a day when I ask where is it going she says WE will find somewhere , she loves being viewed as ill and does nothing in the house Love left long time ago along with respect sorry about the rant have great cock fun" That's abuse! Why not seek some help/therapy - it should help you. Sending you some love xxx | |||
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"Obviously a majority of us are unfortunately married on this site, however I have a question to ask. How many men on here are not appreciated by the wife. My wife is constantly shouting and screaming at me, making out I don't help out etc, yet I'm the one who pays for everything in the house, does all the housework as I work from home etc yet that doesnt seems good enough for her. Anyone else in this situation. If it make you feel any better, your wife really appreciated me Wicked reply it's a w*nker reply | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 11/11/25 14:06:08]" Well fuck you too | |||
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"Obviously a majority of us are unfortunately married on this site, however I have a question to ask. How many men on here are not appreciated by the wife. My wife is constantly shouting and screaming at me, making out I don't help out etc, yet I'm the one who pays for everything in the house, does all the housework as I work from home etc yet that doesnt seems good enough for her. Anyone else in this situation. " Yep sounds very similar | |||
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"We are more like brother and sister" I had to check you weren't from Aberdare then. | |||
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"We are more like brother and sister I had to check you weren't from Aberdare then. I was once told by a gf from Blackwood: "when you go to Aberdare, don't make eye contact with anyone." | |||
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"Never been with a woman but certainly had sex with loads of married guys I think it's quite common now" Wonder how they would react if their wife was doing it, | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 11/11/25 14:06:08] Well fuck you too" no thanks | |||
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"Never been with a woman but certainly had sex with loads of married guys I think it's quite common now Wonder how they would react if their wife was doing it, " My wife's had lesbian relationships before and I'd be totally down with it if she wanted a female FWB (whether I was involved or not) but she seems quite content with just me. Women just don't think with their cocks like blokes do, can't imagine why | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 11/11/25 14:06:08] Well fuck you too no thanks" You are obviously on here cheating on your wife | |||
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"Never been with a woman but certainly had sex with loads of married guys I think it's quite common now Wonder how they would react if their wife was doing it, My wife's had lesbian relationships before and I'd be totally down with it if she wanted a female FWB (whether I was involved or not) but she seems quite content with just me. Women just don't think with their cocks like blokes do, can't imagine why If the missus knows it is totally different, its half the guys on here are clearly cheating and leaving some poor cow at home, while they get their weekly shot of jizz. | |||
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"Obviously a majority of us are unfortunately married on this site, however I have a question to ask. How many men on here are not appreciated by the wife. My wife is constantly shouting and screaming at me, making out I don't help out etc, yet I'm the one who pays for everything in the house, does all the housework as I work from home etc yet that doesnt seems good enough for her. Anyone else in this situation. " That is an extremely deep question. Firstly, none of us know you or your wife. And sometimes the marriage is just gone. And you’ll never please her, no matter how hard you try. I think in a general sense, if a marriage is reasonably healthy, both parties with/should appreciate what the other does. | |||
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"If she has been like that most of your marriage you know the answer. If she is a changed character there is a reason • Has there been a tragedy in the family? • Did something awful happen to her? • Did you do something that she seems to be unable to forgive you for or let go? • Is there a mental health issue, any family history? • Is she a heavy cannabis smoker or drink a lot of alcohol? • Is it the menopause? Writing this post, you know it is time to talk about it. If you have tried and failed, maybe write her a letter saying how you feel, word it as not attacking her as she could just become more defensive, maybe just asking what you can do she will realise there is nothing you are actually doing wrong or she may better vocalise what it is. If a letter would make her worse speak with a professional or go to a support group. Plan for the worst outcome, speak with a divorce lawyer and know your rights, ensure you are clued up on what to do and what not to do. " A very balanced reply | |||
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"“Unfortunately married” 😂 made me laugh " like a dreadful accident. | |||
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"Why on earth would anyone get hitched to a woman ????" Strangely enough there are these creatures called bisexuals, who are often hetero-romantic (get the warm and fuzzies for women and usually like shagging them too) but homosexual (get hard for cock and the male libido). | |||
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"Obviously a majority of us are unfortunately married on this site, however I have a question to ask. How many men on here are not appreciated by the wife. My wife is constantly shouting and screaming at me, making out I don't help out etc, yet I'm the one who pays for everything in the house, does all the housework as I work from home etc yet that doesnt seems good enough for her. Anyone else in this situation. " I was. Then she divorced me. Best thing that ever happened. We didn’t think we could afford divorce but I was able to take early retirement and cash in the lump sums to buy a flat. She was willing to do the deal I wanted which retained most of my pension. I’ve now got a gf who knows I dress and that I am on here and is fine with that. Major win/win. | |||
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"Why on earth would anyone get hitched to a woman ???? Strangely enough there are these creatures called bisexuals, who are often hetero-romantic (get the warm and fuzzies for women and usually like shagging them too) but homosexual (get hard for cock and the male libido)." Exactly my situation! | |||
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"From experience, marriage is an institutional con to be avoided at all costs." Yes easy to get into very difficult or impossible to get out of. | |||
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