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By *enarde OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Barnsley

Gay guys in here are always moaning

Men talking about wives

Men talking about women

This is a gay site

Too many Dressers

Too many Bi guys

Well guess what times change and no matter how many holier than thou comments are thrown , it’s every guys right to post on here

If I see threads that aren’t for me then I move on

I don’t put confrontational comments to others

I’m glad there’s more and more inclusive posts on here

I bet having the audacity to put,”Well guess what,” fires up the confrontational in some

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By *ildwestheroMan
6 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

Bet you're glad you got that off your chest

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By *lue555Man
6 weeks ago

harrow

Some just want to argue.

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By *rancd2TV/TS
6 weeks ago

Wolverhampton


"Some just want to argue. "

No they dont

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By *enarde OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Barnsley


"Bet you're glad you got that off your chest "

It’s just that guys esp married guys all have a story some history

So what if they like cock , so what if they’re married

It is what it is , it’s their life their decisions

I was reading posts today and there they are again critical accusing comments for no good reason

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By *PH1956Man
6 weeks ago

Colchester


"Gay guys in here are always moaning

Men talking about wives

Men talking about women

This is a gay site

Too many Dressers

Too many Bi guys

Well guess what times change and no matter how many holier than thou comments are thrown , it’s every guys right to post on here

If I see threads that aren’t for me then I move on

I don’t put confrontational comments to others

I’m glad there’s more and more inclusive posts on here

I bet having the audacity to put,”Well guess what,” fires up the confrontational in some "

Ride on brother.

Totally Agree.

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By *ildwestheroMan
6 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells


"Bet you're glad you got that off your chest

It’s just that guys esp married guys all have a story some history

So what if they like cock , so what if they’re married

It is what it is , it’s their life their decisions

I was reading posts today and there they are again critical accusing comments for no good reason "

I try hard, Monsieur Renarde, to avoid threads about wimmin and blokes dressed in wimmin's clothing as they are not my thing. Yes I confess to being one of that dreaded minority THE GAYS. You know. We ordinary blokes who for some unknown reason [scientists still can't explain it] who like, fancy and have sex with other men who look like men, dress like men, smell like men and, of course, have a cock and balls rather that tits and a fanny. I don't care that much about what members on here post about. Headlines of threads can be misleading so you start to read and think 'Yuk! I really wish I hadn't'. A bit concerned that crossdressers and wimmin admirers are taking over the site. Rarely look at the Stories and Fantasies section as it seems to be all about wimmin and pseudo wimmin. I tend to believe in the old adage of 'live and let live' but this is, after all, a site dedicated to men seeking sex with other men.

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By *owzerMan
6 weeks ago

Chester.....


"Gay guys in here are always moaning

Men talking about wives

Men talking about women

This is a gay site

Too many Dressers

Too many Bi guys

Well guess what times change and no matter how many holier than thou comments are thrown , it’s every guys right to post on here

If I see threads that aren’t for me then I move on

I don’t put confrontational comments to others

I’m glad there’s more and more inclusive posts on here

I bet having the audacity to put,”Well guess what,” fires up the confrontational in some "

What do we want?

More cock.

When do we want it?

When the wife's at her sister's.

Sorry. I don't kiss. Bottom only. 🪧

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By *enarde OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Barnsley


"Bet you're glad you got that off your chest

It’s just that guys esp married guys all have a story some history

So what if they like cock , so what if they’re married

It is what it is , it’s their life their decisions

I was reading posts today and there they are again critical accusing comments for no good reason

I try hard, Monsieur Renarde, to avoid threads about wimmin and blokes dressed in wimmin's clothing as they are not my thing. Yes I confess to being one of that dreaded minority THE GAYS. You know. We ordinary blokes who for some unknown reason [scientists still can't explain it] who like, fancy and have sex with other men who look like men, dress like men, smell like men and, of course, have a cock and balls rather that tits and a fanny. I don't care that much about what members on here post about. Headlines of threads can be misleading so you start to read and think 'Yuk! I really wish I hadn't'. A bit concerned that crossdressers and wimmin admirers are taking over the site. Rarely look at the Stories and Fantasies section as it seems to be all about wimmin and pseudo wimmin. I tend to believe in the old adage of 'live and let live' but this is, after all, a site dedicated to men seeking sex with other men."

I don’t read stories section either so boring

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By *enarde OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Barnsley


"Gay guys in here are always moaning

Men talking about wives

Men talking about women

This is a gay site

Too many Dressers

Too many Bi guys

Well guess what times change and no matter how many holier than thou comments are thrown , it’s every guys right to post on here

If I see threads that aren’t for me then I move on

I don’t put confrontational comments to others

I’m glad there’s more and more inclusive posts on here

I bet having the audacity to put,”Well guess what,” fires up the confrontational in some

What do we want?

More cock.

When do we want it?

When the wife's at her sister's.

Sorry. I don't kiss. Bottom only. 🪧"

Gays are notorious cheats lol

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By *atth86Man
6 weeks ago

Close

I understand the push back against some of it, many users are gay and not interested in women or femininity in any way, but the site is for gay and bi men amd everyone likes different things.

Ive not seen as much discourse recently as there used to be, but it wont ever fully go away. Id love it if we could all be happy sharing the same spaces but thatll never truly happen. Thankfully most people here, even the ones not bi or into fem men, are happy to let everyone exist and be who they want to be and its only the minority raising their voices

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By *ohnnyangerMan
6 weeks ago

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The discourse and the way women are discussed on here by bi men is just revolting is the main issue for me. Like have some respect for these people you claim you love. Why are you going around in private discussing intimate details about your wives.

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By *ildwestheroMan
6 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells


"

What do we want?

More cock.

When do we want it?

When the wife's at her sister's.

Sorry. I don't kiss. Bottom only. 🪧

Gays are notorious cheats lol "

But a gay guy wouldn't have a wife to cheat on. You are talking about those bi guys who, as soon as the wife goes to stay with her sister, they dress up in her clothes, put on her make-up and invite other bi guys round.

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By *ohnbi1965Man
6 weeks ago

Aberfeldy

Well said my man if only everyone thought like that.

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By *ohnbi1965Man
6 weeks ago

Aberfeldy

Im bi i never talk about my wife on here im on here to talk to & meet men. I told my wife i was bi & ok a bit shocked but otherwise took it well.

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By *ammy57TV/TS
6 weeks ago

Stevenage

I agree with some of the comments above, the threads on "little boobs" and wives strike me as more than just odd. I've thought about leaving the site just because they are tolerated.

But then where? Grindr is not much better!

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By *astDevonGuyMan
6 weeks ago

East Devon


"Some just want to argue.

No they dont"

Yes they do !

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By *dstefiMan
6 weeks ago

Solihull


"The discourse and the way women are discussed on here by bi men is just revolting is the main issue for me. Like have some respect for these people you claim you love. Why are you going around in private discussing intimate details about your wives."

Agreed. I don't have any problem with CD/TV/TS or pure masc gay or bi guys.

I have a huge problem with the blatant misogyny and non-consensual candaulism here. I avoid the knicker-sniffer and pic swap threads because all they ever are is a knuckle-dragging festival.

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By *atth86Man
6 weeks ago

Close


"The discourse and the way women are discussed on here by bi men is just revolting is the main issue for me. Like have some respect for these people you claim you love. Why are you going around in private discussing intimate details about your wives."

That I can get too, being one of those guys, I keep the missus off limits during chats. I dont see it as fair or right, but thats just my feelings, others might disagree

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By *enarde OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Barnsley


"The discourse and the way women are discussed on here by bi men is just revolting is the main issue for me. Like have some respect for these people you claim you love. Why are you going around in private discussing intimate details about your wives."

Yes Johnny you do get angry

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By *enarde OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Barnsley


"

What do we want?

More cock.

When do we want it?

When the wife's at her sister's.

Sorry. I don't kiss. Bottom only. 🪧

Gays are notorious cheats lol

But a gay guy wouldn't have a wife to cheat on. You are talking about those bi guys who, as soon as the wife goes to stay with her sister, they dress up in her clothes, put on her make-up and invite other bi guys round. "

They cheat on partners all sexes do

If they want to dress as a kink what’s so bad

Gay guys seem to love leather harnesses etc

It’s just kink it’s not offensive or weird

They do it alone as they know their wives wouldn’t approve

Again where’s the harm ?

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago


"I agree with some of the comments above, the threads on "little boobs" and wives strike me as more than just odd. I've thought about leaving the site just because they are tolerated.

But then where? Grindr is not much better! "

Presumably though, i guess you expect your own comments and views to be tolerated by everyone else.

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By *im le2Man
6 weeks ago

aylestone leic


"Some just want to argue.

No they dont"

Yes we do.

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By *im le2Man
6 weeks ago

aylestone leic

I'm not bothered if you have a wife or GF I just don't want to hear about them while your cock is in my mouth/ass.

Dress as you like in private but if your with me I want you naked.

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By *ickthrobbingMan
6 weeks ago

Taplow, East Berkshire


"Gay guys in here are always moaning

Men talking about wives

Men talking about women

This is a gay site

Too many Dressers

Too many Bi guys

Well guess what times change and no matter how many holier than thou comments are thrown , it’s every guys right to post on here

If I see threads that aren’t for me then I move on

I don’t put confrontational comments to others

I’m glad there’s more and more inclusive posts on here

I bet having the audacity to put,”Well guess what,” fires up the confrontational in some "

All the gay guys I have meet and had sex with have never had any issue with me being bi, they have never tried to "convert" me.

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By *tar33Man
6 weeks ago

North London (outer)

I'm straight, so I'll stay out of this.

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By *LASGOW 60s GUYMan
6 weeks ago

Glasgow


"Gay guys in here are always moaning

Men talking about wives

Men talking about women

This is a gay site

Too many Dressers

Too many Bi guys

Well guess what times change and no matter how many holier than thou comments are thrown , it’s every guys right to post on here

If I see threads that aren’t for me then I move on

I don’t put confrontational comments to others

I’m glad there’s more and more inclusive posts on here

I bet having the audacity to put,”Well guess what,” fires up the confrontational in some

What do we want?

More cock.

When do we want it?

When the wife's at her sister's.

Sorry. I don't kiss. Bottom only. 🪧

Gays are notorious cheats lol "

Thats rich for someone who admits to being interested in both men and women. Your definition of cheating needs reassessed

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By *enarde OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Barnsley


"Gay guys in here are always moaning

Men talking about wives

Men talking about women

This is a gay site

Too many Dressers

Too many Bi guys

Well guess what times change and no matter how many holier than thou comments are thrown , it’s every guys right to post on here

If I see threads that aren’t for me then I move on

I don’t put confrontational comments to others

I’m glad there’s more and more inclusive posts on here

I bet having the audacity to put,”Well guess what,” fires up the confrontational in some

What do we want?

More cock.

When do we want it?

When the wife's at her sister's.

Sorry. I don't kiss. Bottom only. 🪧

Gays are notorious cheats lol

Thats rich for someone who admits to being interested in both men and women. Your definition of cheating needs reassessed"

Think there’s only one definition

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By *ustOneBearMan
6 weeks ago

Neath


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Gays are notorious cheats lol "

No. We are usually more honest with our partners. And we don’t start “ husband out, cock out” threads. Or offer our partners used underwear to strangers.

Plus any pic swapping is, I would expect from my experience done with consent.

But carry on. Saying how terrible we are while you come to our homes for sex as you can’t accommodate.

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By *rm_navMan
6 weeks ago

WATFORD


"Some just want to argue.

No they dont"

"I'm sorry, is this the five minute argument, or the full half hour?" 😉

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By *fcdTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Southend

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By *enarde OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Barnsley


"

Gays are notorious cheats lol

No. We are usually more honest with our partners. And we don’t start “ husband out, cock out” threads. Or offer our partners used underwear to strangers.

Plus any pic swapping is, I would expect from my experience done with consent.

But carry on. Saying how terrible we are while you come to our homes for sex as you can’t accommodate.

"

Exactly same as gay guys entertaining bi guys

I’ve had a number of gay guys in relationships cheating behind their partners backs

Men are men

Programmed to shag when horny what ever pronoun or sexuality

Full balls empty brain

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By *appylondonMan
6 weeks ago

West London


"The discourse and the way women are discussed on here by bi men is just revolting is the main issue for me. Like have some respect for these people you claim you love. Why are you going around in private discussing intimate details about your wives."

I’m 100% bisexual and I have to agree with this. Sure, discuss your desires, even who you fancy, but the disrespect show to partners and women in general by many bi men on here is pretty disgusting.

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By *appylondonMan
6 weeks ago

West London


"Im bi i never talk about my wife on here im on here to talk to & meet men. I told my wife i was bi & ok a bit shocked but otherwise took it well."

Told mine when we originally got together.

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By *awihMan
6 weeks ago

Aldershot


"I'm straight, so I'll stay out of this."

If you are “straight” what are you doing on a man on man sex/hook-up site?

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By *arcusUK2Man
6 weeks ago

Winchester


"I'm straight, so I'll stay out of this.

If you are “straight” what are you doing on a man on man sex/hook-up site?"

I'm guessing reading the forums, and enjoying himself.

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By *ndrew SummerMan
6 weeks ago

Bath

It was tongue in cheek!

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By *ighway expressMan
6 weeks ago

Campbeltown

I've had many's a gay romp with bisexual men over the years...

None of them ever talked about their wife

None of them wanted to show me pics of her naked

None of them ever wanted me to wear her knickers, cum in her knickers, watch him get into her knickers, None of them ever moaned about what a frigid bitch she was ......

Isn't that weird.. ..

( well it would be if you take this place as the weathervane of bi male sexuality... )

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By *3versMan
6 weeks ago

glasgow

I think the amount of talk is inverse to the amount of fud they're getting

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By *uriohornMan
6 weeks ago

Kettering


"Some just want to argue.

No they dont

Yes they do !"

Says who?

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By *tar33Man
6 weeks ago

North London (outer)


"I'm straight, so I'll stay out of this.

If you are “straight” what are you doing on a man on man sex/hook-up site?"

To satisfy the gay men who enjoy having sex with us straight men. It isn't rocket science.

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By *ichey6Man
6 weeks ago

aberdeen


"Bet you're glad you got that off your chest

It’s just that guys esp married guys all have a story some history

So what if they like cock , so what if they’re married

It is what it is , it’s their life their decisions

I was reading posts today and there they are again critical accusing comments for no good reason "

..

...

You offer your opinion as do others. That's the whole idea of a forum.

If you offer misogynistic opinions it's not surprising that other men are gonna challenge you.

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By *ichey6Man
6 weeks ago

aberdeen


"I'm straight, so I'll stay out of this.

If you are “straight” what are you doing on a man on man sex/hook-up site?"

....

...

This is it. Some just don't have the bottle to admit they are bisexual. I used to feel a bit sorry for 'em but their instrangience rcomes across as acute arrogance and stupidity.

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By *ichey6Man
6 weeks ago

aberdeen

*comes

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By *ighway expressMan
6 weeks ago

Campbeltown


"I'm straight, so I'll stay out of this.

If you are “straight” what are you doing on a man on man sex/hook-up site?

....

...

This is it. Some just don't have the bottle to admit they are bisexual. I used to feel a bit sorry for 'em but their instrangience rcomes across as acute arrogance and stupidity. "

With some more so than others ...

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By *ichey6Man
6 weeks ago

aberdeen

Ahem 😭

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By *ighway expressMan
6 weeks ago

Campbeltown


"

To satisfy the gay men who enjoy having sex with us straight men. It isn't rocket science."

Well dang me, where do you find these straight men who want to satisfy gay men, because all the ones I know just want tae shag burdz ....

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Isn’t this about men who

Like men. I’m bi. Love men.

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