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"Presumably because it’s for guys who want to meet guys. Is there just a small hardcore portion of gay guys on here that want the ‘straights’ the curious and the married bi’s to sod off or stop mentioning any liking for the ladies? " I have no problem with guys exploring their sexuality that's to be encouraged! I do have a bit of an issue with the guys whose profiles are insistent on letting us know they are straight despite having loads of veris and being here for years. I don't mind if bisexuals want to talk about women on here, I'm bi myself. I do find the forum threads about sniffing knickers and wife chat pretty gross though, there are people on here who are so proud of that invasion of privacy. | |||
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"Yes, FabGuys is for men, which is for men whatever thier sexual desires are, as long as it is legal. " Specifically it's for men who want sex with men, rather than having a virtual circle jerk about sniffing their wives' knickers without consent. I'd say men wearing lingerie, fine (I'm one) although I know it's not for everyone, as long as their primary focus is cock and gay sex. If I want to chat about my wife's pussy (hint, I don't) there are plenty of other outlets for that. | |||
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"Well I was going to watch England 🏴 tonight but something tells me this thread is gonna be more entertaining. " Bring your beautiful cock and I'll get the popcorn  | |||
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"Read the blue words at the top of the page!" Try reading the blue text at the top of the login screen “FabGuys.com …fun, free & fabulous for GAY GUYS” - capitals for emphasis. I don’t have a problem with Bi’s using the site looking for sex with men, I do have a problem with all their wife/girlfriend chat, that is not what the site is for. If you want to discuss that go to fabswingers.com or a site designed to cater for that there are plenty of them out there. | |||
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"Read the blue words at the top of the page! Try reading the blue text at the top of the login screen “FabGuys.com …fun, free & fabulous for GAY GUYS” - capitals for emphasis. I don’t have a problem with Bi’s using the site looking for sex with men, I do have a problem with all their wife/girlfriend chat, that is not what the site is for. If you want to discuss that go to fabswingers.com or a site designed to cater for that there are plenty of them out there." Why are gay men, who have been so persecuted in the past, so unforgiving and narrow minded about others who have similar sexual needs. It is very sad to have those who fought for equality continue to try and subjugate minorities on this site. Shame on you. | |||
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"There you go , you’ve all been told. Go and join fabswingers 😂" What, and hang out with fat birds who think their droopy tits and flaccid twats are the unicorn shite everybody wants, and their controlling "Dom" fat husbands with their droopy moobs and flaccid cocks? Fuck that. | |||
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"I might be a bit of fat bastard but I'm not Fabswingers fat "When they just show their eyes lol because if you pan back they fill three seats on Ryan Air lol | |||
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"Read the blue words at the top of the page! Try reading the blue text at the top of the login screen “FabGuys.com …fun, free & fabulous for GAY GUYS” - capitals for emphasis. I don’t have a problem with Bi’s using the site looking for sex with men, I do have a problem with all their wife/girlfriend chat, that is not what the site is for. If you want to discuss that go to fabswingers.com or a site designed to cater for that there are plenty of them out there. Why are gay men, who have been so persecuted in the past, so unforgiving and narrow minded about others who have similar sexual needs. It is very sad to have those who fought for equality continue to try and subjugate minorities on this site. Shame on you." Try reading the-reading the second paragraph of my post. I don’t have a problem with Bi’s using the site looking for men for sex. I do have a problem with all their wife Wife/GF chat - that is I think part of the reason that the number of gay men on here seems to be dwindling. Personally I think that either the Terms or FAQ’s need to be made clear on what (if any) the acceptable level of female discussion is. Quit frankly a lot of them have the posts on here at the moment seem designed to exclude gay men and assert a bi dominance, so it is the gay men who are becoming the (to use your phrase) “subjugated minority”. So shame on YOU. | |||
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"Read the blue words at the top of the page! Try reading the blue text at the top of the login screen “FabGuys.com …fun, free & fabulous for GAY GUYS” - capitals for emphasis. I don’t have a problem with Bi’s using the site looking for sex with men, I do have a problem with all their wife/girlfriend chat, that is not what the site is for. If you want to discuss that go to fabswingers.com or a site designed to cater for that there are plenty of them out there. Why are gay men, who have been so persecuted in the past, so unforgiving and narrow minded about others who have similar sexual needs. It is very sad to have those who fought for equality continue to try and subjugate minorities on this site. Shame on you. Try reading the-reading the second paragraph of my post. I don’t have a problem with Bi’s using the site looking for men for sex. I do have a problem with all their wife Wife/GF chat - that is I think part of the reason that the number of gay men on here seems to be dwindling. Personally I think that either the Terms or FAQ’s need to be made clear on what (if any) the acceptable level of female discussion is. Quit frankly a lot of them have the posts on here at the moment seem designed to exclude gay men and assert a bi dominance, so it is the gay men who are becoming the (to use your phrase) “subjugated minority”. So shame on YOU." What does it matter if a man talks about his wife? There have been many gay men who have been married, are they to be banned? I have been on this site since 2011, there was non of this prejudice against anyone on this site then. It is childish to say the least, the way grown up men act on this issue. | |||
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"There you go , you’ve all been told. Go and join fabswingers 😂 What, and hang out with fat birds who think their droopy tits and flaccid twats are the unicorn shite everybody wants, and their controlling "Dom" fat husbands with their droopy moobs and flaccid cocks? Fuck that. " I’ve nailed a tonne of trannies on there and get quite a few offers from couples and the odd single ladies ! I’m in guy mode though 😉 | |||
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"There you go , you’ve all been told. Go and join fabswingers 😂 What, and hang out with fat birds who think their droopy tits and flaccid twats are the unicorn shite everybody wants, and their controlling "Dom" fat husbands with their droopy moobs and flaccid cocks? Fuck that. " I didn't know that Emmon Holmes and Ruth Langsford were even back together | |||
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"I "engaged" with so many entitled fuckers on swingers who thought because there was some pussy on offer they were the keepers of the keys to the kingdom. Er, no "Is your wife..a go-er, eh? eh? Nudge nudge wink wink know what I mean? | |||
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"If the site had more Filters. Everyone would be happy. " I’d filter out people with dreadful decorative taste. YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE! | |||
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"I "engaged" with so many entitled fuckers on swingers who thought because there was some pussy on offer they were the keepers of the keys to the kingdom. Er, no
Is your wife..a go-er, eh? eh? Nudge nudge wink wink know what I mean? "She's the love of my life and not in play on here, the place where I actually do hang out in the vague hope of cock | |||
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"I "engaged" with so many entitled fuckers on swingers who thought because there was some pussy on offer they were the keepers of the keys to the kingdom. Er, no
Is your wife..a go-er, eh? eh? Nudge nudge wink wink know what I mean?
She's the love of my life and not in play on here, the place where I actually do hang out in the vague hope of cock "Ah, my pythonesque wit fell with its usual resounding clang  | |||
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"Well I was going to watch England 🏴 tonight but something tells me this thread is gonna be more entertaining. " Watching grass grow is more entertaining than watching the England football team. | |||
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"There you go , you’ve all been told. Go and join fabswingers 😂 What, and hang out with fat birds who think their droopy tits and flaccid twats are the unicorn shite everybody wants, and their controlling "Dom" fat husbands with their droopy moobs and flaccid cocks? Fuck that. " You mean like most of the guys here? | |||
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"Well I was going to watch England 🏴 tonight but something tells me this thread is gonna be more entertaining. Watching grass grow is more entertaining than watching the England football team. " I dunno 1-0 up. Playing well. | |||
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"Well I was going to watch England 🏴 tonight but something tells me this thread is gonna be more entertaining. Watching grass grow is more entertaining than watching the England football team. I dunno 1-0 up. Playing well. " So are you ... and by all accounts can play well at the front or back | |||
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"Well I was going to watch England 🏴 tonight but something tells me this thread is gonna be more entertaining. Watching grass grow is more entertaining than watching the England football team. I dunno 1-0 up. Playing well. So are you ... and by all accounts can play well at the front or back " take a wild guess … | |||
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"There you go , you’ve all been told. Go and join fabswingers 😂 What, and hang out with fat birds who think their droopy tits and flaccid twats are the unicorn shite everybody wants, and their controlling "Dom" fat husbands with their droopy moobs and flaccid cocks? Fuck that. I didn't know that Emmon Holmes and Ruth Langsford were even back together " ... Arf 'Pleasantly Plump' is on the Shopping Channel today. Matching Terry Towelling garb.... | |||
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"Read the blue words at the top of the page! Try reading the blue text at the top of the login screen “FabGuys.com …fun, free & fabulous for GAY GUYS” - capitals for emphasis. I don’t have a problem with Bi’s using the site looking for sex with men, I do have a problem with all their wife/girlfriend chat, that is not what the site is for. If you want to discuss that go to fabswingers.com or a site designed to cater for that there are plenty of them out there." ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ THIS !!! | |||
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"Yes, FabGuys is for men, which is for men whatever thier sexual desires are, as long as it is legal. Specifically it's for men who want sex with men, rather than having a virtual circle jerk about sniffing their wives' knickers without consent. I'd say men wearing lingerie, fine (I'm one) although I know it's not for everyone, as long as their primary focus is cock and gay sex. If I want to chat about my wife's pussy (hint, I don't) there are plenty of other outlets for that. " ^ This, If you want to talk about women's reproductive parts, sniffing their knickers etc try Fabswingers, mind you, they probably wouldn't get away with it on FS, they'd be called out for it by the women on that site. | |||
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"Do str8 and married guys tell there other str8 and married mates about there sex life with wives m GF. No I didn't think so. So what makes you think the guy who's sucking your cock or taking it up the ass wants to know. I've only ever had sex with woman twice over 50 years ago I'm not interested. I'd sooner you talk about football and I can't stand it. I know your wife doesn't like to swallow. I know she will not take it up the ass. That's why your with me no need to tell me. " Yes guys do talk about it… all the time🤣 | |||
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"TBH gay guys are a huge turn-off for me. They tend to be self-opinionated bigots. Give me bi guys every time" I think that’s a bit sweeping but there are some who are regularly on forums who are bigots Maybe I’m lucky I have gay family friends n colleagues Props the same percentage of bigots in gay community as so called straight community | |||
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"TBH gay guys are a huge turn-off for me. They tend to be self-opinionated bigots. Give me bi guys every time" Go on then, what makes us bigots? That's a very bold claim you make. As for self-opinionated, the same could be said for straight, bi and bi-curious men too | |||
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"TBH gay guys are a huge turn-off for me. They tend to be self-opinionated bigots. Give me bi guys every time Go on then, what makes us bigots? That's a very bold claim you make. As for self-opinionated, the same could be said for straight, bi and bi-curious men too" LOL we're bigots because we don't fancy women and sometimes complain about the countless threads about womens bits, wifes knickers and having sex with women. I don't really care if guys are bi sexual or bi curious, (if you're genuinely straight you don't belong here) however this is a site where men have sex with men, anything that involves women belongs on Fabswingers. | |||
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"I might be a bit of fat bastard but I'm not Fabswingers fat "You were on the sister site Flabswingers | |||
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"Yes, FabGuys is for men, which is for men whatever thier sexual desires are, as long as it is legal. Specifically it's for men who want sex with men, rather than having a virtual circle jerk about sniffing their wives' knickers without consent. I'd say men wearing lingerie, fine (I'm one) although I know it's not for everyone, as long as their primary focus is cock and gay sex. If I want to chat about my wife's pussy (hint, I don't) there are plenty of other outlets for that. " So your kink is ok but kinks you don’t like should go elsewhere? | |||
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"Read the blue words at the top of the page! Try reading the blue text at the top of the login screen “FabGuys.com …fun, free & fabulous for GAY GUYS” - capitals for emphasis. I don’t have a problem with Bi’s using the site looking for sex with men, I do have a problem with all their wife/girlfriend chat, that is not what the site is for. If you want to discuss that go to fabswingers.com or a site designed to cater for that there are plenty of them out there." You mean you don’t want to see that on the site. Presumably Admin would delete posts and issue bans if it was outside of the ethos of the site. | |||
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"TBH gay guys are a huge turn-off for me. They tend to be self-opinionated bigots. Give me bi guys every time Go on then, what makes us bigots? That's a very bold claim you make. As for self-opinionated, the same could be said for straight, bi and bi-curious men too LOL we're bigots because we don't fancy women and sometimes complain about the countless threads about womens bits, wifes knickers and having sex with women. I don't really care if guys are bi sexual or bi curious, (if you're genuinely straight you don't belong here) however this is a site where men have sex with men, anything that involves women belongs on Fabswingers." and Why complain? Why don't you just scroll past. Every time you complain you bring the subject back to the top thereby giving it air? If it doesn't fit the site it will die. If it does then who are you to decide? | |||
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"Read the blue words at the top of the page! Try reading the blue text at the top of the login screen “FabGuys.com …fun, free & fabulous for GAY GUYS” - capitals for emphasis. I don’t have a problem with Bi’s using the site looking for sex with men, I do have a problem with all their wife/girlfriend chat, that is not what the site is for. If you want to discuss that go to fabswingers.com or a site designed to cater for that there are plenty of them out there." YOU have a problem with them. So scroll past. You don't make the rules If all the guys you have a problem with left the site it might close down or at least vastly increase the price. Get a life and scroll past the topics you don't like. | |||
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"Read the blue words at the top of the page! Try reading the blue text at the top of the login screen “FabGuys.com …fun, free & fabulous for GAY GUYS” - capitals for emphasis. I don’t have a problem with Bi’s using the site looking for sex with men, I do have a problem with all their wife/girlfriend chat, that is not what the site is for. If you want to discuss that go to fabswingers.com or a site designed to cater for that there are plenty of them out there. YOU have a problem with them. So scroll past. You don't make the rules If all the guys you have a problem with left the site it might close down or at least vastly increase the price. Get a life and scroll past the topics you don't like." You could take your own advice and not lecture others on what they can or cannot comment on and scroll on by those posts | |||
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"Wife chat anyone??" 😂😂 | |||
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"It's the usual misogyny that accompanies talk about women that's not particularly nice, same goes for the reduction of gay men as a hole/cock that satisfies that primal urge of the so-called straight men" Spot on  | |||
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"Read the blue words at the top of the page! Try reading the blue text at the top of the login screen “FabGuys.com …fun, free & fabulous for GAY GUYS” - capitals for emphasis. I don’t have a problem with Bi’s using the site looking for sex with men, I do have a problem with all their wife/girlfriend chat, that is not what the site is for. If you want to discuss that go to fabswingers.com or a site designed to cater for that there are plenty of them out there." You could of course just pass along to another chat that does involve women | |||
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"Presumably because it’s for guys who want to meet guys. Is there just a small hardcore portion of gay guys on here that want the ‘straights’ the curious and the married bi’s to sod off or stop mentioning any liking for the ladies? " Strange. Seems to me that there is a hardcore portion of bisexuals on here who seem very anti-gay despite being here looking for men to have sex with. The 'Oh I'm straight really. Don't fancy men one little bit. Let's discuss women and whilst doing so just shove your cock up my arse and give me a good pounding' brigade | |||
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"Presumably because it’s for guys who want to meet guys. Is there just a small hardcore portion of gay guys on here that want the ‘straights’ the curious and the married bi’s to sod off or stop mentioning any liking for the ladies? Strange. Seems to me that there is a hardcore portion of bisexuals on here who seem very anti-gay despite being here looking for men to have sex with. The 'Oh I'm straight really. Don't fancy men one little bit. Let's discuss women and whilst doing so just shove your cock up my arse and give me a good pounding' brigade " | |||
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"Read the blue words at the top of the page! Try reading the blue text at the top of the login screen “FabGuys.com …fun, free & fabulous for GAY GUYS” - capitals for emphasis. I don’t have a problem with Bi’s using the site looking for sex with men, I do have a problem with all their wife/girlfriend chat, that is not what the site is for. If you want to discuss that go to fabswingers.com or a site designed to cater for that there are plenty of them out there. You mean you don’t want to see that on the site. Presumably Admin would delete posts and issue bans if it was outside of the ethos of the site. " Actually it looks like they have removed some of the most offensive threads. Perhaps it is Time they made clear either in the FAQ’s or Terms what isn’t allowed as some people don’t seem to be able to exercise better judgment themselves. | |||
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"Do str8 and married guys tell there other str8 and married mates about there sex life with wives m GF. No I didn't think so. " Yes actually! | |||
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"Read the blue words at the top of the page! Try reading the blue text at the top of the login screen “FabGuys.com …fun, free & fabulous for GAY GUYS” - capitals for emphasis. I don’t have a problem with Bi’s using the site looking for sex with men, I do have a problem with all their wife/girlfriend chat, that is not what the site is for. If you want to discuss that go to fabswingers.com or a site designed to cater for that there are plenty of them out there. You could of course just pass along to another chat that does involve women" On a man on man hookup site where real women aren’t allowed, there shouldn’t be women chat, it’s not what the site is for. | |||
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"Read the blue words at the top of the page! Try reading the blue text at the top of the login screen “FabGuys.com …fun, free & fabulous for GAY GUYS” - capitals for emphasis. I don’t have a problem with Bi’s using the site looking for sex with men, I do have a problem with all their wife/girlfriend chat, that is not what the site is for. If you want to discuss that go to fabswingers.com or a site designed to cater for that there are plenty of them out there. You could of course just pass along to another chat that does involve women" Indeed they could, but that's not the point is it. If something is not allowed on here, it shouldn't be on here. It's as simple as that. | |||
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"Read the blue words at the top of the page! Try reading the blue text at the top of the login screen “FabGuys.com …fun, free & fabulous for GAY GUYS” - capitals for emphasis. I don’t have a problem with Bi’s using the site looking for sex with men, I do have a problem with all their wife/girlfriend chat, that is not what the site is for. If you want to discuss that go to fabswingers.com or a site designed to cater for that there are plenty of them out there. YOU have a problem with them. So scroll past. You don't make the rules If all the guys you have a problem with left the site it might close down or at least vastly increase the price. Get a life and scroll past the topics you don't like. You could take your own advice and not lecture others on what they can or cannot comment on and scroll on by those posts" It’s my opinion and a comment not a lecture. Check with the mods, their advice is to scroll on or pass by any comment or thread you don’t like. I’m just pointing this out before things get even more toxic. | |||
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"Lewd sex talk about women is not what the site is for. And no - I don't read them, the titles are off-putting enough as it is" Let guys like that get their own website instead of loading it all on here. | |||
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"Maybe there should be a section for stories/forums which involve women. I find it so frustrating reading something which ends up mentioning women." This ⏫️ could be a good compromise. Whilst I accept the site's 'broad church' approach sometimes it is a bit irksome to have to scroll through large chunks of the Lounge or Introductions fora because they're all about wives, gf, so-called 'step' every fem*le rel*tive, grandm*s and their knickers. When I end up in the Technical feedback forum I know it's a bad day!  | |||
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"Maybe there should be a section for stories/forums which involve women. I find it so frustrating reading something which ends up mentioning women." Agree. Last time I was following a story in the S+F section it was going great until the author suddenly introduced a women into the story and I was immediately put off reading anymore. | |||
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"Maybe there should be a section for stories/forums which involve women. I find it so frustrating reading something which ends up mentioning women. Agree. Last time I was following a story in the S+F section it was going great until the author suddenly introduced a women into the story and I was immediately put off reading anymore." I'm not personally put off by mention of women in the stories section as long as it's not the primary focus, but do find the wife threads tedious even if it's just scrolling past all the ones that infest the general forum. I'm not remotely attracted to the sort of guys who want to perv on other guys' wives or talk about their knickers, and especially not guys who want to talk about mine. I'm here for cock and gay chat, not the other. | |||
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"If you don’t like the mention of woman scroll past. Frankly I can’t stand loads of topics like the political threads for instance but I’d never complain about them I just wouldn’t open the thread " Trouble is the headline for a thread can be misleading. You open it and start reading then realise it is about women. Okay you then stop reading but the damage is done. The time has been wasted. If the headline mentions wives/women/knickers/whatever that isn't to your taste then obviously scroll on by. Perhaps there should be a warning like 'May mention women' like some foodstuffs have a 'May contain nuts' warning on them. | |||
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"If you don’t like the mention of woman scroll past. Frankly I can’t stand loads of topics like the political threads for instance but I’d never complain about them I just wouldn’t open the thread " There's a strong case for politics to have its own section, Fabswingers does and it keeps the lounge section somewhat harmonious. Likewise maybe there's a case for female related threads to have a separate section. | |||
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