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By *reeandcurious2000 OP   Man
5 weeks ago

Near Bournemouth

Genuinely feeling sad and lonely tonight anyone else?

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By *elloBottomHereeeMan
5 weeks ago

London

Yes I know the feeling! I hope you are ok

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By *mma 88TV/TS
5 weeks ago

Kings Lynn

Yeah always feel abit lonely

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By *ldmanMan
5 weeks ago

Rawcliffe Bridge.

After my partner (male) died I was incredibly lonely, but I was always a musician, keyboards, and I used to play when at a low point, and at my lowest I couldn't play, so I listened to music.

This is still true to this day.

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By *shleigh1964TV/TS
5 weeks ago

penzance

Chronically lonely and depressed for a very long time now..just never realised it. Always said I'm content alone, but turns out content is not happy. It snuck up on me and now I m in quite a mess. Hope you feel better soon and you catch it early and rise above it xx

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By *ai989Man
5 weeks ago

Sydney

Sadness and loneliness are a scourge. Sadly men are more likely to suffer in silence.

My advice would be to find someone to talk to, or even talk at. Tell them beforehand that you need a sympathetic ear, and tell them you don’t need them to solve your problems, just to listen and empathise.

You could pay a psychologist, you could call your bff. There are phone lines you can call to get support.

I’m not saying you are, but sometimes loneliness can lead to some very dark places. It’s really good you have realised you’re having a bad time, that’s the first step in moving ahead.

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By *shleigh1964TV/TS
5 weeks ago

penzance


"Sadness and loneliness are a scourge. Sadly men are more likely to suffer in silence.

My advice would be to find someone to talk to, or even talk at. Tell them beforehand that you need a sympathetic ear, and tell them you don’t need them to solve your problems, just to listen and empathise.

You could pay a psychologist, you could call your bff. There are phone lines you can call to get support.

I’m not saying you are, but sometimes loneliness can lead to some very dark places. It’s really good you have realised you’re having a bad time, that’s the first step in moving ahead."

Totally agree with the above, it's solid advice and should be heeded. If you let silence and loneliness in for too long, they will eat you up.

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By *hs12Man
5 weeks ago

huntingdon nr

I'm a good listener

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By *b20Man
5 weeks ago

Glasgow

I do feel lonely at times

I love going on holiday as a soo traveller, I usually go to Gran Canaria, a gay resort, I do feel envious when I see all the guys with their partners

I just try to keep my mind active

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By *ustOneBearMan
5 weeks ago

Neath

Yes this is a tough time. Husband’s birthday this week I find it harder than the day he died

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By *roy8Man
5 weeks ago

Perthshire

Lost my partner earlier this year and I do find it lonely, still suffering from bouts of grief which creeps up on me. I find it hard to cope at times but manage to get through it. I have a good circle of friends which helps tremendously but it's closing the door at night and the loneliness seeps in.

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By *issy SiMan
5 weeks ago

Horsham

This time of year can be incredibly hard, bringing back memories etc, and adverts full of family festivities promoting a perfect Christmas which never happens in reality. I get involved in local volunteer groups and get to understand there's always someone worse off than myself

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By *4n-stourMan
5 weeks ago

Hagley

Feel everyones pain. This time of year is always worse. This year have lost partner and both parents, its a real struggle. Take care of each other

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By *-skinMan
5 weeks ago

Weymouth

Been lonely sometimes used this site in the past just to be with someone even for 15 mins to be loved wanted.

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By *hiny jacket loverMan
5 weeks ago

Carlisle

Im.always lonely. No close friends. Cant get sex or fimd anyone who wants a relationship.

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By *arnieMan
5 weeks ago

Lincoln

Thinking of you. I know myself what it's like to be lonely.

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By *hubbyguy50Man
5 weeks ago

Dumfries

I left fabswingers last night as never got anywhere, just full of folk up there own arses and ones who never reply of when ask too meet, they delete messages

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By *elaxed meetsMan
5 weeks ago

near you

I'm very lonely

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By *iscreetly100Man
5 weeks ago

lancashire

Loneliness comes on many forms. You can have a living family and friends but still feel lonely.

It does look creep up on you and it does lead to dark places.

Do they to rise above it Nd you will find a brighter place but it takes time.

Wishing everyone all the very best xxx

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By *-skinMan
5 weeks ago

Weymouth


"I'm very lonely"
pity your not closer.

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By *rancd2TV/TS
5 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I feel very sad for anyone that is genuinely lonely.

I’m very fortunate that I am happy with my own company these days, and actually wish I could get more time on my own.

However that hasn’t always been the case, so I know how heavily loneliness can weigh on you.

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