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"Wonderin what best way to let sum1 know in sauna u wana go to private room with them" You could ask them, although if you do, don't use text speak. | |||
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"I was in a sauna last week, this guy came in, said he wanted to relax for a long time, started chatting about swinging, getting on pretty well. I mentioned I was bi. He went silent then got up and walked out. I waited till he’d walked off then said ‘fuck you, bitch’. " That's just bizarre. Maybe it was something else. I doubt he cared you were bi. It's a gay sauna, not a speed dating event. | |||
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"I was in a sauna last week, this guy came in, said he wanted to relax for a long time, started chatting about swinging, getting on pretty well. I mentioned I was bi. He went silent then got up and walked out. I waited till he’d walked off then said ‘fuck you, bitch’. That's just bizarre. Maybe it was something else. I doubt he cared you were bi. It's a gay sauna, not a speed dating event. " Some women won’t go with bi guys and some men the same . Some guys find it repulsive. Each to their own I guess | |||
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"I was in a sauna last week, this guy came in, said he wanted to relax for a long time, started chatting about swinging, getting on pretty well. I mentioned I was bi. He went silent then got up and walked out. I waited till he’d walked off then said ‘fuck you, bitch’. That's just bizarre. Maybe it was something else. I doubt he cared you were bi. It's a gay sauna, not a speed dating event. Some women won’t go with bi guys and some men the same . Some guys find it repulsive. Each to their own I guess" It was a ‘straight’ sauna (if there is such a thing) mixed or whatever - yeah, I guess he was disgusted. | |||
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"I was in a sauna last week, this guy came in, said he wanted to relax for a long time, started chatting about swinging, getting on pretty well. I mentioned I was bi. He went silent then got up and walked out. I waited till he’d walked off then said ‘fuck you, bitch’. That's just bizarre. Maybe it was something else. I doubt he cared you were bi. It's a gay sauna, not a speed dating event. Some women won’t go with bi guys and some men the same . Some guys find it repulsive. Each to their own I guess" At the sauna I never ask if a guy is bi or gay though I sort of instinctively know, it doesn't bother me particularly, I do prefer gay guys but not a deal breaker. | |||
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"I was in a sauna last week, this guy came in, said he wanted to relax for a long time, started chatting about swinging, getting on pretty well. I mentioned I was bi. He went silent then got up and walked out. I waited till he’d walked off then said ‘fuck you, bitch’. " Very mature | |||
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"I was in a sauna last week, this guy came in, said he wanted to relax for a long time, started chatting about swinging, getting on pretty well. I mentioned I was bi. He went silent then got up and walked out. I waited till he’d walked off then said ‘fuck you, bitch’. Very mature " Yes, he was. Was it you, Tom? | |||
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"Open your mouth and let a few words slip out? " Not sure why people are so afraid of speaking in a sauna | |||
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"Lowering your towel and showing your cock indictas that you want to play then look around and see who makes eye contact . . If you then start jacking that’s an even stronger signal" One of the best feelings in a sauna is seeing a bloke opposite you slowly open their towel to reveal a hard throbbing cock | |||
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"I've never understood why men cover themselves with a towel in a sex sauna just cos they are hard. It's not like the towels cover much anyway. A smile, eye contact and talking are the best ice-breakers." Because it's more erotic to leave something to the imagination, as part of the foreplay. I don't like to start anything with all guns blazing, a nice slow build up is better. | |||
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"Open your mouth and let a few words slip out? Not sure why people are so afraid of speaking in a sauna" No fear involved: constant (often banal) chat spoils a sauna(cabin) as a place, principally, to relax? | |||
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"Open your mouth and let a few words slip out? Not sure why people are so afraid of speaking in a sauna No fear involved: constant (often banal) chat spoils a sauna(cabin) as a place, principally, to relax?" There are a few degrees between silence and constant chat though. People who remain silent really don't do it for me, they have a lack of awareness and zero personality. | |||
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"I was in a sauna last week, this guy came in, said he wanted to relax for a long time, started chatting about swinging, getting on pretty well. I mentioned I was bi. He went silent then got up and walked out. I waited till he’d walked off then said ‘fuck you, bitch’. That's just bizarre. Maybe it was something else. I doubt he cared you were bi. It's a gay sauna, not a speed dating event. Some women won’t go with bi guys and some men the same . Some guys find it repulsive. Each to their own I guess It was a ‘straight’ sauna (if there is such a thing) mixed or whatever - yeah, I guess he was disgusted. " Lol, was this the sauna in your local gym? Totally different type of sauna, probably not the best place to try to 'pull' a guy. | |||
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"There's a think called 'talking' that has proven to be quite successful for this sort of thing. " sounds awful, will never catch on  X | |||
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"Wonderin what best way to let sum1 know in sauna u wana go to private room with them" i tend to chat to them for 5 mins and mention i am a bottom guy looking for cock to suck to get stiff to fuck me,,, i also have been bent over and sucking a guy in a steam room and a guy has just slipped his cock into me and fucked me then all 3 of us went to a room | |||
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"I was in a sauna last week, this guy came in, said he wanted to relax for a long time, started chatting about swinging, getting on pretty well. I mentioned I was bi. He went silent then got up and walked out. I waited till he’d walked off then said ‘fuck you, bitch’. Very mature Yes, he was. Was it you, Tom? " You waited until he walked off then slagged him off ? Cowardice | |||
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"There's a think called 'talking' that has proven to be quite successful for this sort of thing. sounds awful, will never catch on X"I've never been to a gay sauna but would be polite if I did and have a chat where I could.. | |||
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"I was in a sauna last week, this guy came in, said he wanted to relax for a long time, started chatting about swinging, getting on pretty well. I mentioned I was bi. He went silent then got up and walked out. I waited till he’d walked off then said ‘fuck you, bitch’. Very mature Yes, he was. Was it you, Tom? You waited until he walked off then slagged him off ? Cowardice " I’d rather be a coward than a cretin. | |||
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"I was in a sauna last week, this guy came in, said he wanted to relax for a long time, started chatting about swinging, getting on pretty well. I mentioned I was bi. He went silent then got up and walked out. I waited till he’d walked off then said ‘fuck you, bitch’. Very mature Yes, he was. Was it you, Tom? You waited until he walked off then slagged him off ? Cowardice I’d rather be a coward than a cretin. " A word up there with spastics.. Show some class... | |||
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